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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by smasher1(m): 6:07am On May 30, 2019 |
ImaIma1: By the way, what if someone who earned well before wedding loses his high paying job after wedding. What matters most is money management skills. Secondly, if you have no choice than to ask for recharge card. He should not have informed her on the purpose of the purchase. It's not everything a man or woman should tell his or her spouse because the reaction would be terrible |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by smasher1(m): 6:08am On May 30, 2019 |
jeff1607: Fact |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by PapaAdanna: 6:08am On May 30, 2019 |
My brother shun long grammar and concentrate on making good money... Never mind any man telling u that his woman always takes care of the financial responsibilities and still respect him completely... Na scam So make money and more money, she would never be irritated by trivial things again! |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Nobody: 6:15am On May 30, 2019 |
You went to goan marry on 60k salary brother, u re not different from those that feed from hand to mouth. You better double ur hustle and make money. ops hope there is no child btw u too o. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Hotworta1: 6:18am On May 30, 2019 |
Mrjo: Hello Grandpa! Are u OK?? Don't quote me when you can't punctuate sentences properly. Shameless grandpa! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by imitateMe(m): 6:21am On May 30, 2019 |
Hotworta1:Your name must be Biko 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by imitateMe(m): 6:22am On May 30, 2019 |
xendra:Women are scum |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by imitateMe(m): 6:24am On May 30, 2019 |
tee59:You are a home breaker. The man remains the head no matter what! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by imitateMe(m): 6:24am On May 30, 2019 |
LordKO:Stop giving women reasons to be weak. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by imitateMe(m): 6:27am On May 30, 2019 |
jeff1607:Lolzz |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Lovelyn451(f): 6:30am On May 30, 2019 |
Lol...u people will soon settle,its normal, but u should find something doing o. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Hotworta1: 6:33am On May 30, 2019 |
Acidosis: Why's your mind tilting towards blood money bros. So if anybody advises him to double his hustle...he's been advised to do blood money?? Common Nigerians! So you didn't think that doubling one's hustle could mean opening an akara/potato/plantain chips frying business with a capital as low as 5k. You think OPs wife is just being stressed as a mere word...she's equally irritated that her hubby will ask her for 200 recharge card for father-in-law. Let me digress a little and call a spade a spade,,,,though it might not be true... but...something tells me OP might be d opposite of his wife...do not believe every story coming from one person until you've heard from the 2nd party. Op pls get a side business...you are relaxing too much as the head of house and pls hold done with child birth until you can provide fully for your family. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Deepfeel(m): 6:42am On May 30, 2019 |
Codes151:Almost everything no doubt about that 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Tellemall: 6:44am On May 30, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Sounds like a side chick. The sum is too paltry for a working guy to send to his parents. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Tellemall: 6:47am On May 30, 2019 |
Weathered: Why should men complain? Don't we want to be called the "heads of the home again"? Or has your Nigerian economic downturn made men begin to feel entitled to women carrying their cross? Be a man! Women don't complain as much as men do when they have to clean their houses, take care of their husbands and make money. But men complain about just making money. If we want to remain heads we don't act like feet. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by kullozone(m): 6:51am On May 30, 2019 |
jeff1607: Oga, as a married man you can't do shii with 40k/month. Foodstuffs and school fee don down the money, not to talk of saving and investing. 40k nor reach, if you try am suffer go involve oh |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by DWJOBScom(m): 6:53am On May 30, 2019 |
LordKO: Well done 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ImaIma1(f): 6:56am On May 30, 2019 |
smasher1: You cannot compare someone who lost his job along the line to someone who dives head in with a little amount. I am sure you know they are different scenarios. Money management matters but obviously his money is not even enough to manage. His wife is handling the bulk of the bills. What if her business wasn't doing well? Whether he told her it was for his father or not, in his mind he knows that he is also adding to her burden. Besides, a man should be the one handling most of the house needs especially for his ego. A man's ego cannot handle it |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Tellemall: 6:56am On May 30, 2019 |
stagger: It baffles me the number of women with male peraphernalia on this thread. Men want to remain men while wanting to switch roles. Men who can't provide for their families have failed in their primary responsibility Some of them here complaining will quote their Bibles on submission, but ignore the part that states that "...a man who cannot care for his family is worse than an infidel". Nigerian men are a disappointment to all men. Just look at them all over this thread talking like women. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Nitefury: 6:59am On May 30, 2019 |
Don't know if anyone else has noticed it, but going through the Op's post history, I found out Op is a "she" and probably the wife if this story is true that is. While I know some men really appreciate their spouse, Op was just praising herself and trying to deflect any blame for herself for the issue at hand by saying how hard she works, how she moved him from a single room to a 3 bedroom flat etc so the main issue is lost, i.e insulting her husband's family/dad and she succeeded because all the comments are saying "Op, your wife is stressed" etc. I think the issue goes deeper than what she put up here. Perhaps Op's husband doesn't really support her, but the fact is she insulted his family. In het last thread which coincidentally also made front page a day or two back, Op asked for the salary scale of a non academic staff of a university. She must have done this because she obviously doesn't know her husband's actual salary, so from the responses on that thread, she was able to arrive at N60k and then proceeded to create this thread stating "he" (i.e pretending to be her husband) earns N60,000, bla bla bla. Besides, something tells me this is her alternate account. Dear Op, I understand your frustrations towards the lack of or inadequate contributions from your husband, but you crossed the line and hit below the belt when you insulted his family/dad. Go and apologize to him. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Kenturkey048(m): 7:00am On May 30, 2019 |
deltateam:I also noticed it..that was too harsh..I mean very deep..if to say na me she tell such words.I for dey seriously depressed by now. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by jeff1607(m): 7:01am On May 30, 2019 |
kullozone: foodstuffs? as one already pointed out your locale plays a big role, I would have loved to explain in steps but can't type all here, but bro it's very possible, you can't have all you want but you can have all you need, also the type of wife you have is also taken into consideration. you can't live in posh areas, you plan in long term, you eat well so illness doesn't take a toll on you, sometimes it can be frustrating but you can pull through. got some colleagues that earn above 150k and yet they live in face me I face you yet no savings, some have already being paid for this month the money is almost finished,they are looking forward to i.o.u on the 15th, no plans nothing. they live life as it is, thinking it will always remain so. it's not easy earn such small amount but it's possible. 1 Like |
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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Kenturkey048(m): 7:08am On May 30, 2019 |
Nitefury:seriously ..you make sense.everybody saying bull-shit..must she say suchthat's a very big insult..if na me,even meals she cooks with her money won't get into my mouth.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Kelechiicharles: 7:10am On May 30, 2019 |
emerald16:bro I'm in the same situation, I'm married for at least 18yrs now, and there is d bad d good time. My wife has been supportive two but presently Im going through a very tough time of my life. Even though there is cooperation, we had a quarrel yesterday, and since then she has been behaving like d lord of the minor. My prayer is God bless you and my self beyond our heart desires ,is then u can command a full respect in ur home, she will still talk to u after some time, but is it d best? No but I tell people no matter how much u think ur wife is supporting you, there must be a little insult attached to it. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Acidosis(m): 7:12am On May 30, 2019 |
Hotworta1: You're still repeating the same trash I condemned in my previous post. I have no issues with doubling hustles or whatever we call it. We all hustle and strive to earn a living, but at the end of it all, some people won't earn 70k in their life time. Hustle or no hustle, there will always be a limit to what we all earn. Why don't you go and hustle and live larger than Dangote? Na so e easy ba?? That his wife earns more doesn't mean the man work less. It doesn't signify laziness either. We don't have an idea the nature of his job, his qualifications, etc. He could be an ND holder doing a teller job in a bank. How much do banks pay ND holders again? If doubling hustle leads to wealth, Nigeria shouldn't be the world's poverty capital; people shouldn't enrol in their millions for a 30k NPower job. All I see is a man living beyond his means. Life is about progression, 60k in a 3-bedroom apartment is f00lishness. It shows they spend wrecklessly on other household needs. His mates live in single rooms and room and parlour, and they're doing just fine. Single rooms are not meant for lepers or ghosts but humans with limited budget. For every expensive good or service in the market today, there is a cheaper alternative, and these alternatives are not meant for animals but humans with limited capital. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ImaIma1(f): 7:16am On May 30, 2019 |
dre11: So you would advise a man get married with that amount in this present economy? Who knows if you had another source of income to augment. Even in marriage counseling, money is a topic on its own. They advise couples because money is one of the major causes of divorce. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by adeniyisamuel59(m): 7:17am On May 30, 2019 |
Lovelyn451:Your beauty though |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ImaIma1(f): 7:18am On May 30, 2019 |
bamidelee: Already married You can go ahead and marry with 20k salary. But don't open a thread like the op to complain. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ahiboilandgas: 7:18am On May 30, 2019 |
emerald16:u Bleep up guy |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Acidosis(m): 7:19am On May 30, 2019 |
ImaIma1: They advise couples to live within their means. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ImaIma1(f): 7:20am On May 30, 2019 |
SmartyPants: Until this issue? There is always a build up. If you want to marry on a slim budget, be ready to be angry anytime you are asked for money |
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