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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by YorubaWarrior: 10:40pm On Jun 07, 2019
grin
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by AmNuhRegular(m): 10:44pm On Jun 07, 2019
I wonder how some kyn news make it to the fp. Seriously what's the criterion

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by 9jayes: 10:45pm On Jun 07, 2019
It's allowed sha! dem scam am.


Scam free transaction see my sig
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by LZAA: 10:46pm On Jun 07, 2019
All these hans christen andersen tales should be moved to the fiction and romance sections of NL na grin

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Nyamiri: 10:46pm On Jun 07, 2019
Igbo girls are beasts in bed. grin
Them full King's Hotel, Dragonara, Rita Lori, etc
Nyamuri don suffer.

Sexual slaves of Nigeria.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by barrypro: 10:46pm On Jun 07, 2019
What's going on?
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by HORLADSTAR(m): 10:48pm On Jun 07, 2019
sherylbakky:
Sebi ur friend can cook? Ehhhn he sud b doing d cooking nah, so far u warned him to notice her b4 marriage n he refused.

Or better still, they sud get a maid or a cook that will be coming around sometimes. He sud forget anything like learning how to cook for her at this stage, it's late except she shows interest.

As for the bed things, he sud show her what he wants in bed, he's a man nah.
Best advice ever

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Timmyking01(m): 10:50pm On Jun 07, 2019
Ingrate
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by bukatyne(f): 10:50pm On Jun 07, 2019
OP, sorry, I thought the husband was blind when he married and now his eyes are opened.

Literally.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by 2blessed01(m): 10:51pm On Jun 07, 2019
Chai...NOLLYWOOD MOVIE Playing Out In REAL LIFE!

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by oochi123(f): 10:51pm On Jun 07, 2019
Chai.. It's not all about beauty.
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Naijatask: 10:52pm On Jun 07, 2019
Nyamiri:
Igbo girls are beasts in bed. grin
Them full King's Hotel, Dragonara, Rita Lori, etc
Nyamuri don suffer.

Sexual slaves of Nigeria.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:52pm On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma, he is a Successful young man, a Muslim but Unhappily Married! The gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot! His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.

Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls, once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man! Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.

Every damn thing was good, we always balled together, i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero, legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!
He always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger!

The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad, a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner. This lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy! First, wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy! Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her. Imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.

In a nutshell, he wanted her badly and as we all know, as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage! Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.

She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!

They never kissed; touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married. Yes! He got married Blindy and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.

First, this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit! Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!

Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed (dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed (we love it like da) he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).

My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself. He is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.

The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx



And your point is?

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by emkz: 10:53pm On Jun 07, 2019
Bros, the story sounds incredulous.

Notwithstanding the apparent incredulity, I think your friend overloves the girl and his love is not reciprocated.

This is a recipe for a calamity.

Deep in your friend's heart, he knows where that marriage is headed. I am sure the wife also knows. Just tell him to speak the truth to himself and stop living in denial. Relationships and marriage are meant to be enjoyed and not endured. I don't understand why people are forcing a relationship where none exists.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:54pm On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma, he is a Successful young man, a Muslim but Unhappily Married! The gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot! His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.

Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls, once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man! Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.

Every damn thing was good, we always balled together, i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero, legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!
He always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger!

The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad, a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner. This lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy! First, wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy! Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her. Imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.

In a nutshell, he wanted her badly and as we all know, as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage! Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.

She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!

They never kissed; touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married. Yes! He got married Blindy and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.

First, this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit! Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!

Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed (dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed (we love it like da) he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).

My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself. He is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.

The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx


Half bakes story.

Look at him sounding stupid all in the name of fabricating a story

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by frankcell(m): 10:56pm On Jun 07, 2019
TANID:
That Man Would Blind Again If He Fail God Test

You are lost oga
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by SoNature(m): 10:56pm On Jun 07, 2019
The OP behind this title is wonderful! grin

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by luminouz(m): 10:58pm On Jun 07, 2019
Mtchewwww story

*goes back to smoking weed* tongue
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by happney65: 10:59pm On Jun 07, 2019
So People still marry these days without fuccccking themselves?na wahooo o..See wetin una cause for una life..Me,apart from countless numbers of fucccking before marriage,You go even get belle sef..No belle,No Marriage.And that was exactly what I did

Period!

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by luminouz(m): 11:00pm On Jun 07, 2019
Amanda4life:
Im sure your friend must have disappointed some good girls.

Pls help me tell him that i said he should be doing the cooking for now. Because in abroad men cook.

For the sex thin let him buy babydoll.
How can u be amanda4life n dish out such deadened piece of advice....
Are u high

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by uniquehealth: 11:01pm On Jun 07, 2019
Well permit me to say that even if this story is not true (as some claimed), yet i like the manner of expression especially the op's grammatical structure.
Keep it up!

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by valentineuwakwe(m): 11:04pm On Jun 07, 2019
All this stuffs you are saying here are just bobo juice. ....tell your friend he must marry o....for better for worst....he thinks all that glitters is gold....you must marry oo

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Westsida: 11:05pm On Jun 07, 2019
ikechukz:
Who else came in here to read a completely different story undecided undecided


Nah me bro, but now, I don japa! The matter nah grade 1 chit! sad

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ednut1(m): 11:12pm On Jun 07, 2019
I came to read a blind man's story but wetin be this.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by tolsmile(m): 11:14pm On Jun 07, 2019
Let him have a good discussion with her on how to improve things

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Isoduwa(m): 11:14pm On Jun 07, 2019
Let the woman celebrate with him it's well
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Artzdanielsz(m): 11:15pm On Jun 07, 2019
this is not an issue
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by densiks: 11:15pm On Jun 07, 2019
No comments.

Your friend doesn’t have any problem.

Thank me later.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma, he is a Successful young man, a Muslim but Unhappily Married! The gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot! His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.

Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls, once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man! Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.

Every damn thing was good, we always balled together, i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero, legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!
He always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger!

The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad, a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner. This lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy! First, wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy! Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her. Imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.

In a nutshell, he wanted her badly and as we all know, as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage! Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.

She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!

They never kissed; touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married. Yes! He got married Blindy and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.

First, this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit! Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!

Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed (dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed (we love it like da) he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).

My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself. He is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.

The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx


Please don't laugh at my response cos thats how I'm feeling right now:

Your friend was infatuated and got married without my consent, so problem owun niyen.

You advised him against it now you telling us, so problem tie niyen.

Her wife can't cook except indomie and egg, problem iyawo e niyen

She can't satisfy him in bed, problem awon meji niyen

Me I'm in need of finance, and no one is helping me out, so problem temi niyen.

So let you, your friend, his wife, and me all mind our business.

Good night

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by poisn88(m): 11:28pm On Jun 07, 2019
[quote author=Benbisco post=79087481]

OP, I feel for your friend and wish him well but I have a bone to pick with you on this matter.

[b]Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.
Is he not a muslim has he forgtten the verse in the quran dat says
Your wives are like your farms enter themthe way you like ...
I cnt remember what verse but it speaks about marriege nd the way ur suppose to sleep with ur wives so why is he complaining if she does complain bring in another wife and see if she wnt change to become alive wood.

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