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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by InvertedHammer: 11:30pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
/ About 90% of the people do regret whom they married but they learned to deal with it over time. Your friend (or you) should suck it up. The grass always seem to be greener on the other side...until you get there. / 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by PrettyEneawan(f): 11:31pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Tell Your Friend To Sing This Song "Amazing Grace" Playboy Marriage Too Dey Get K Leg |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by enemyofprogress: 11:32pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Lastly she doesn't flow in bed (dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed (we love it like da) no wonder them plenty for hotel dey do prostitution 1 Like |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 11:34pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Kobicove:divorce ?sorry but your advice doesn't suite |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by liberalchick(f): 11:35pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Hahaha me too, I was expecting to read “now that he sees, he thinks his wife is ugly” lol bukatyne: |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 11:36pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
bukatyne:nahhh...i meant figuratively |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ngwababe(f): 11:37pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
When they tell you sex and food don't keep a man, that it's only beauty and intelligence keeps them.... Ihe onye cho, o fu! 4 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ngwababe(f): 11:40pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
PrettyEneawan: Very much true, because dem dey use oversabi marry. 1 Like |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Petdagr8t(m): 11:42pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Until we hears Zainab's and Ibrahim's side of story OP "we won't take it" in elder Orubabe's words |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 11:42pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
emkz:tanx buh you had me in cycles |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Petdagr8t(m): 11:44pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Until we hears Zainab's and Ibrahim's side of story OP "we won't take it" in elder Orubabe's words. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by igbosarejews(m): 11:44pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 11:46pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
uniquehealth:tanx fam |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by liberalchick(f): 11:47pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Are they newly weds? The first 1-2 years is always the hardest in a marriage, the couple are adjusting to their new living situation. It’s very hard to live with someone with a different background and personality from yours that’s why marriage is not easy. Sometimes time is needed to adjust the kinks. Cooking is a skill not everyone will be good at it, with time he will get used to her cooking, that’s why everybody will swear their mother’s food is the best. I have a friend that her cooking is anytime she invites me for dinner I always eat before I go, I eat very little at dinner and claim I am watching my weight. However, you need to see how the husband will be eating with gusto like he is eating party jollof rice. OP I know you mean well and you are looking out for your best friend but maybe you should give them a little space since they are newly wed so they get to figure it out. Also, when he comes complaining always urge him to be open with his wife as he is with you. I wish your friend luck. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ruggedtimi(m): 11:53pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
you won show us say u sabi grammar 1 Like |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by dominique(f): 11:57pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
All these are trivial issues that can be worked upon. First couple of years in marriage is a huge learning period for both husband and wife. After all, we live to learn. All I see here is an evil friend who is trying to destroy a young marriage probably for his own selfish gains. Friends like this will be subtly poisoning your mind against your spouse till you start questioning your decision to marry him/her. A friend that encourages you to get drunk and womanize, is that one a friend? 12 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 11:59pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Bless you!one of the best advice if not d best.wil definitely adhere. Merci liberalchick: 2 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Ojei2: 12:02am On Jun 08, 2019 |
spongeisback:You are right he should sit the lady down talk to her |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Crest05(m): 12:04am On Jun 08, 2019 |
It's a serious Taboo to marry a non virgin? But it isn't a sin to defile a virgin and dump them? Who's deceiving who? 6 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Mydazz(m): 12:09am On Jun 08, 2019 |
So Igbo girls are beast in the ozza room,...... thanks OP 1 Like |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Stillthebest: 12:28am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Marriage is a serious school. It tests alot of things about the personalities of the both parties. Most at times, many people have a lot of reasons not to be happy in a marriage but for reasons they chose to be happy by embracing the signed agreement. There's no perfecr marriage anywhere. Some womens bedroom ministries are poor like your friends wife while some will even want to cheat because the husband can't satisfy them. I don't think your friend wants the latter. He might need to adjust to her because no matter what he tries to change in hrr she might not change. Changes are only from the minds. Additionally,. Backgrounds of both of them are different. Your friend has had sex with more than one girl and may be her wife is reserved with a solid background so he shouldn't expect a miracle. If ahe does what he wants sexually today to please him your friend shouldn't expect her to do same next time because she would have forgotten it as it is not a part of her. Women are colonies they are hard to understand at early timea in marriages .... Firat few years(more than two years) are terrible. As for food cooking , it is a skill and can be learned and be perfect at. Let your friend make her understand that. They can both engage in it sometimes for her to enjoy doing it better(self will on the part of the lady)... Not being lively at home?Every human has many characters in them we act the only ones we developed . Tell your friend to advise her her to cheer up. If they have family friends let him take her outing with them sometimes to learn how wives relate with their hubbies. Last, he is free to take any decision that he consides the best for himself. He shouldn't allow marriage to frustrate him. No one owns your happiness. You own it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by israelmao(m): 12:36am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Everything was wrong with their marriage from the beginning your friend's obsession with beauty made him to forget other good qualities that a man should watch out in a lady.If your friend truly loves her and not her beauty she could still become good in bed by talking to her and teaching her what she is expected to do in response to what he does in bed and she could become the best cook if she is willing to learn.Your friend has tasted Igbo girl now I doubt if he will have such time and patience because everything is wrong with his wife and all is right with his sex partner from what I read. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by BabbanBura(m): 12:37am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Rita30: To also help in bed? |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by gr8minds: 12:48am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Your friend never told you anything good about this lady or you just streamlined it to her negative sides to achieve your aim? God is watching. You can’t break another person’s home and pray to have a good home. 1 Like |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by gr8minds: 12:56am On Jun 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:The best comment ever,. Please leave the couple alone,let them get to know each other better and stop being a third party in their marriage,let the couple work out their marriage themselves and mind your own business. You have no idea what brought them together,now you have started separating them by supporting the guy In extramarital affairs. Remember,in every couple’s story,there is always an untold part. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Toks2008(m): 1:28am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Dreamz77: That cooking aspect is not an issue...not every lady can cook...it depends on her upbringing. He can hire a cook cos it may be too late for her to start learning. As for the bed matter he should have a heart to heart talk with her and make her realize that good sex is Important to him... In short there is no issue here except the one he is imagining. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Hamzaay(m): 1:34am On Jun 08, 2019 |
This is the comment I have been longing for. I feel the friend is happy about the situation judging from the way he is narrating the story.. He missed the way they use to be back in the days, drinking, womanizing etc... Bro there is a time for a man to grow up. Like he just said this Lady is a virgin and school outside the country. You don't expect her to be f**king like the amaka or Amanda that has been hoeing from birth. You should advice him to tell those to his wife and not you. All I see is you making a mockery out of them. So bro chill dominique: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Darevofpeace(m): 1:34am On Jun 08, 2019 |
sherylbakky:Your analysis is well spelt out and a primary school pupil can read and digest. You would make a great career as an event Moderator. Seun Osewa,an Iconic Mod.is here already. 1 Like |
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