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Former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora, has said that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have sex, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.

Recall that while in BBN, Vandora had stated that her ex-boyfriend raped her repeatedly by having sex with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a recent interview, she stated, “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.

It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.



“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/my-boyfriend-must-get-my-permission-before-we-have-sex-vandora/amp/

Very good of you vandi

That's why marriage don't work, End time Girl's.

You never had a boyfriend,only customers

Isok no prob



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You're dating a kid.....no wonder he was making reference to Vaseline crew on ordinary birthday wish

Still doing Boy friend at your age , mumu .

Before na our Permission you want
And who is the mod that move dis to front page?

Na this kind girl dey like preeq die, but come dey pretend on top am.

Do boyfriends have sex with their girlfriends without their permission before? I never hear am before, say man go just comot preeq and plug am for Toto just like that.

IN OTHER WORDS HE BEGS FOR PVSSY SMH AS IF YOU ARE DOING HIM A FAVOUR ..I BLAME THE SIMP "BOYFRIEND" OF YOURS



BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY HE WOULD FVCK IN WHILE YOU SLEPT AND YOU WOULDN'T KNOW?? LOL HOW WIDE IS THAT BOREHOLE?!

What if he's a 45 seconds man? After taking permission and getting it in, 45 seconds later, he's done and ready to fall asleep.

What will you do? Call him to take another permission for round 2? No, he's done and ready to sleep. You'll end up saying he raped you. Allow a man get it whenever he wants and stop acting like a feminist.


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Like baby please, can we please have sex please?
This is what happens when we have abundance of weak men that will go to any length to please a woman.
So pathetic

Dis rape of a thing is something that most people don’t understand, to her, her boyfriend can’t wake up in the middle of night n just slide in without waking her n asking for it... if he does dat it’s called rape , most girls don’t mind their man waking up in the middle of night to slide it in without their consent, I can’t imagine waking up in the middle of night wanting to slide it in then I will ask her can we do it?!? Where is the element of surprise in that?!? Some girls like to b taken unawares, they enjoy it infact.... this thing is actually debatable, to me it’s not rape if I wake up to have sex with her, it’s only rape if wen she wakes up she ask me to stop but I refused or she pushed me off of her n I forced my way back in..

Kia.. You get bad mouth oh

CANlBUS:
You never had a boyfriend,only customers

Is touching, kissing, romancing, smooching and head... not enough permission seeking process?
Abi she has a form to be filled just around the corner of the bed!
These internet children will not end this world

All talk

Toto seller.

Modern law, she's right

And why is this making front page?

Kia... You get bad mouth oh

CANlBUS:
You never had a boyfriend,only customers

She just dey open mouth anyhow so that den go notice am mtcheeeeeeew

Watch, some boys will start abusing her.
Go girl, you are 100% right. You have right over your body, boyfriend or not, you need to take permission before you have sex with your babe. Be sure that you both are on the same page.

Penetration against one's wish is RAPE!!!

TOSIN116:
And why is this making front page?

I tire for nairaland mods.

U people should ignore her e Don tey way she Don trend na format she day use

Meaning your man will have to write several application letters about
These BBM girls will say or do anything to trend sha

freethinker01:
Like baby please, can we please have sex please?
This is what happens when we have abundance of weak men that will go to any length to please a woman.
So pathetic

So you will force yourself on a woman all in the need to appear strong?

Na who need am pass go ask for permission

Congrats on your new rules

GoldChest:
Still doing Boy friend at your age , mumu .

Is it by force to marry?