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Kingpunter:
Former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora, has said that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have sex, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.

Recall that while in BBN, Vandora had stated that her ex-boyfriend raped her repeatedly by having sex with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a recent interview, she stated, “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.

It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.



“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/my-boyfriend-must-get-my-permission-before-we-have-sex-vandora/amp/

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Christeety:
Watch, some boys will start abusing her.
Go girl, you are 100% right. You have right over your body, boyfriend or not, you need to take permission before you have sex with your babe. Be sure that you both are on the same page.

Penetration against one's wish is RAPE!!!

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Nothing special about the body!

Mumu no wonder your ex boyfriend can take you whike you are sleeping it showyou have sleeping sick for him to enjoy you countless time without you knowing what happened no wonder you need a new law before boyfriend can have sex sorry for your life

Yea book appointment too wit a formal letter headed paper of his "dicks-company-name" , applying to.most ladies are so pea brained just imagine the dung she is spilling , tmao if he goes for "the ones" that let it anyhow u start screaming men a trash/dogs.have all the qualities of this world, if ur hubby is sexually active & adventurous & y can't meet up because of ur stupid reasons, I won't be suprised if he cheats.

Before nko! did he usually rape u

kingjrofficial:
wetin u dey do 4 this threat na We Neva finish Ronaldo matter, u come jump enter Vandora matter

hunger dey make me vex today

Kingpunter:
Former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora, has said that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have sex, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.

Recall that while in BBN, Vandora had stated that her ex-boyfriend raped her repeatedly by having sex with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a recent interview, she stated, “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.

It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.



“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/my-boyfriend-must-get-my-permission-before-we-have-sex-vandora/amp/

can't believe this idiot...well there are many fishes in the ocean...who no know no know b that....vandora ko Pandora box ni

Dinho20:
HOW TO KNOW A RUNS GIRL;

There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women isn’t really the type you’d be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship. Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.
So here are some signs you must observe:

She despises poverty, and more so of men who have low paying jobs:
She easily get annoyed and abusive while dealing with poor men ( taxi driver, barrow pusher, e.t.c ). Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous by nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something. Runs girl however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men.

She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex:
This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). Sex now becomes a reward in the relationship.

She frequently uses the word Ashawo, slut and LovePeddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like:
If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is "Ashawo" . This is because what they do in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.

She openly tells you she doesn't trust her friends around you , but still doesn't want to leave them:
Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like "go get your own maga bitch".

She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women:
She knew that the only thing she is good at is sex, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.

She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is. ‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn't work or go to school during the weekend.

She is known by multiple names among people. Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.If your "Chizzy" is called as "Rossy" by some other guy and called as jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.

you happen to find stuff like wigs of several colours, length and styles in her wardrobe:
Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals.

1,000,000 likes!!!

The old lady wants to be noticed

Dinho20:
HOW TO IDENTIFY RUNS GIRLS;

Wigs are to camouflage her identity when in club house or other places she normally hangout to catch potential clients.

You observe she has some tiny (razor-like) markings close to her vagina:
Professional runs girl ( just like professional armed robbers) often seek spiritual protections and prosperity in their work. This diabolical protection is mostly done by cutting a slight flesh close to the vagina, through which concoctions are insert. Some of this works like a charm in a man once you get in, you can't leave until you are milked dry, while some maybe for protection from ritualist , occultist e.t.c

She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you:
Especially of the sex she provided for you. What else can she do for you except provide her ‘special’ orifices for you
on demand? For her you should be grateful for the skilled services she provided for you, since she has done a better job than what her competitors would her given you.

She berates and criticizes girls who date men below them in social and economic status:
You hear them say things like 'why on earth will a fine girl like that be dating that small ratchet boy'. Ask her what's her business, her business is that it's a waste of resources to see a poor guy digging that money making pot for free, when their are big men out there ready to pay for it.

She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character):
If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them.

In public even when she is with you, she still keep staring at other men:
Just as some guys (even when with their babes) still stares at other women butt (especially when it's bigger than their babes), that's same way a covert prostitute even when with her so called boyfriend stares at other guy she think is richer. The only different is that she stares the potential maga straight into his eyes, and hoping the dude catches the gaze (signal)

She’s obsessed about money and excessively materialistic:
The classic prostitute mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be
seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her gina tingles faster than any other thing.

Another 1,000,000 likes!

enemyofprogress:
hunger dey make me vex today

abeg take amm easy... This Buhari sef
It is well

Kingpunter:
Former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora, has said that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have sex, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.

Recall that while in BBN, Vandora had stated that her ex-boyfriend raped her repeatedly by having sex with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a recent interview, she stated, “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.

It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.



“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/my-boyfriend-must-get-my-permission-before-we-have-sex-vandora/amp/

. Your boyfriends, your sex, your permission, your problems.

Monaco2:
Dis rape of a thing is something that most people don’t understand, to her, her boyfriend can’t wake up in the middle of night n just slide in without waking her n asking for it... if he does dat it’s called rape , most girls don’t mind their man waking up in the middle of night to slide it in without their consent, I can’t imagine waking up in the middle of night wanting to slide it in then I will ask her can we do it?!? Where is the element of surprise in that?!? Some girls like to b taken unawares, they enjoy it infact.... this thing is actually debatable, to me it’s not rape if I wake up to have sex with her, it’s only rape if wen she wakes up she ask me to stop but I refused or she pushed me off of her n I forced my way back in..

Too much sense my broda,,, u r one hell of a rational being I'm proud of,,,, keep educating dem bro,, keep making sense

stupid shegoat.Ashawo sighted.she is indirectly saying he must pay before the guy Bleep her wide pussy.no money.no pussy.pussy na market now for slay Queens. those that will quote me wrong should take back door.

Humility017:
you make so much sense... please are you a lady will like to talk to u

Yes I am

So you slept in ur bf's bed, naked or with only pant and expect him to still ask for permission. Yoruba says atelewo lo n saju ijo meaning a clap of the hand usually precedes a dance.

Conji never visit u b4

GoldChest:
Still doing Boy friend at your age , mumu .

He who calls his brother a fool shall be in danger of hell. Matthew 5:22

Christeety:
Yes I am

okay...

if we really wanna look at the meaning of rape...you will find out that most Nigeria men are rapists including the married men...
even some ladies encourage rapes...
how do ladies encourage rape?
if as a man you believe that when romancing a woman and trying to put her in the mood for sex even to the extent of fingering her...
you interpret her STOP IT PLS as STOP I LIKE IT...then you're a rapists....
most Nigeria ladies and men have a very bad sexual orientation...reason why a lady can't open up to her man especially for the first time they will be having sex that she is really in the mood for it...as a result during romance instead of her to allow the man to do his thing..... she don't often wanna appear cheap...she try say STOP IT..even deep inside her she wants him to continue...
should a man stop by heading to her words or facial look...she will see him as a green leaf....this has happened to me severally.
to be honest I don't understand Nigeria ladies at all....
they always think that expressing their sexual needs to their man for the first time means or will make the man to tame them cheap and spoilt...of which is not true.
I have had such issues... even then many guys I know had to start tell me...you really have to force a woman for the first time...then every other time will become normal
It hurts me because I can't do that...
and when you apologize to this ladies afterwards for touching them inappropriately they laugh and see you as naive.....
if we must go by that standard...any man who continues to Romance and forcing in on a woman in such circumstances is a RAPIST..and any lady that foolishly say STOP IT while in the senses she wants it...is a PARTNER TO RAPE.
RAPE IS A COMPOUND WORD that we should look into holistically

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