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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by robinsoncrosoe: 11:45pm On Jun 11, 2019
Women and playing victim card are like 5 and 6

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by robinsoncrosoe: 11:48pm On Jun 11, 2019
Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.


Na their common lie

I was raped...

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by castro316: 12:01am On Jun 12, 2019
taiwolomo1:
I think is because the girls attain puberty @ that age range...and they tend to get curious and go closer to any available man around making them vulnerable to those pathetic perverts to take advantage of them!!!

See your way of thinking
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Emanodimo(m): 12:06am On Jun 12, 2019
Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.


The reason has been said above u by " SIMSIFY".
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by bossrillboss: 12:24am On Jun 12, 2019
Reelmii:
she is actually a cannabis



mumu
..choi,u just kill me with laff.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Bizibi(m): 12:24am On Jun 12, 2019
SimSify:
ND after all this you still show your unclothedness to the public..
Tell me madam what did you learn..
seems you've been dressing down since age 14.

Sometimes the cause of what happens to people and and the solutions is not far from them..
smh
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by ehmmy11(m): 12:25am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.
this is the saddest thing I heard this week... Had to check ur previous posts.. And damn it my heart goes out to you

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by LyfeJennings(m): 12:51am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.

I'm sorry if this is ur story
I can't even the mental torture
God be with U
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by grandstar(m): 1:06am On Jun 12, 2019
michaelcipher:


So you think not dressing properly is the cause for rape.

Smh

Say that to a girl of 14 yrs old raped by a 40year old man.

If someone has been raped, it is only natural for such a person to be a bit vigilance showing flesh. PTSD no be joke.
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by stanliwise(m): 1:26am On Jun 12, 2019
SimSify:
ND after all this you still show your unclothedness to the public..
Tell me madam what did you learn..
seems you've been dressing down since age 14.

Sometimes the cause of what happens to people and and the solutions is not far from them..
please what is your problem. or are you the rapist?

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by stanliwise(m): 1:29am On Jun 12, 2019
Emanodimo:

The reason has been said above u by " SIMSIFY".

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by JESUnifemi4eva: 1:43am On Jun 12, 2019
Rape is no joke and I am glad that you are getting stronger.

No one deserves to be raped.

May GOD grant you complete healing in JESUS NAME.AMEN

selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. ............ please protect your children with every thing.
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by blackslayer: 3:15am On Jun 12, 2019
A lot of children have been raped or molested growing up in Nigeria. I would be interested in someone carrying out a survey to somehow quantify it! A Male child can also fall victim to a female prey and not only the reverse is true. The mental and long term effect is the same....When you are robbed of your innocence at such an early age, the effects can be devastating.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by blackslayer: 3:22am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.

Talking about it does help....and you are correct, that picture can never be erased from your memory!!!
You will still remember it like day and night, almost as if it happened yesterday. I was molested by a female house maid when i was 5/6 years old.
I still remember it like day and night and i am still somewhat bitter about it that my parents failed to protect me!!!! No matter how you look at it, i believe they failed me big time! My innocence was robbed from me and i started experiencing sexual urges at a very young age due to my experience.....my young brain was supposed to be developing and learning stuff and growing, not to be exposed to sexual experiences that caused a lot of confusion and perhaps even some developmental issues at that age!!!
I am mad at my parents but i cannot tell them now because they are in their mid 70's and telling them will simply cause heart ache that i fear will follow them to their grave, so i must spare them!!!

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by jy2kbeyond(m): 4:05am On Jun 12, 2019
Just doing the normal thing of codedly telling suitors not to panic after breaking in into her ocean.

Ladies have lost their virginity through many ridiculous ways. A lady in my office lost her's when she drank a VERY HOT TEA during her university days. According to her, all her undies got blood stained after some few seconds of sipping the tea. I consoled her that Turkish tea are normally too strong. I am bad, I know.

grin grin grin grin
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by magicminister: 4:15am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.


Your story brought tears to my eyes. Most Nigerian women I know were rape and sometimes I fear my mum was also a victim. It saddens me and I want to take out my vengeance on any rapist I catch red handed

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by magicminister: 4:19am On Jun 12, 2019
For the men out there, imagine getting penetrated by a man 2 to 3 times your size.

Think about how that shit would scar you for life.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by mrjojo: 4:38am On Jun 12, 2019
Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.

Seriously, I thought I was the only one, almost all the ladies I ever asked were raped 9-16. It really an epidemic, the fact most was raped by Uncle, Cousin, relations, I even know someone, her Dad raped her at 10, till today this is still affecting her seriously. What can be done about this really? these things get me mad to my stomach. And to the guys saying, "it a common lie" y'all are animals, most young girls between 7-16 get raped in this country, research, ask. The fact nothing is being done to curb this or bring these rapists to book is sickening, really!!

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by MrMou: 4:38am On Jun 12, 2019
Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.

Because A LOT of men are plain idiots! The bast*ards who touch ladies anyhow in a lot of our markets all in the guise of convincing them to buy from them are rapists as well to me!
If no be say e go mean committing the same crime & go involve innocent person, I for say make rapists have their wives & daughters brutally raped in their presence so them go know how e feel!

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by femi4: 5:15am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.
So sorry about what you went through.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Chommieblaq(f): 5:31am On Jun 12, 2019
dingbang:
. Every girl I have dated came up with the rape story..what is the problem?

90% of girls between the age of 8-14 have been molested in one way or the other or even raped.
Funny enough these acts are been penetrated by neighbors and relatives. (people you won’t suspect). Many don’t speak out, some are covered up their families, we only get to hear the few that speaks out.
Same applies to the guys, however that of the girl child is more common.
Many African home don’t talk about sex with their children unlike now. The only way they talk about sex is to wait, when you are like 13-17, then you hear “if you carry belly, you leave my house”
Some of the victim don’t say it out, because they are scared they will be faulted.

PS: I might have exaggerated with the figure but believe me it’s high.
Is there no week we get stories of an underaged being raped? Just use an check na

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by dingbang(m): 5:37am On Jun 12, 2019
Chommieblaq:


90% of girls between the age of 8-14 have been molested in one way or the other or even raped.
Funny enough these acts are been penetrated by neighbors and relatives. (people you won’t suspect). Many don’t speak out, some are covered up their families, we only get to hear the few that speaks out.
Same applies to the guys, however that of the girl child is more common.
Many African home don’t talk about sex with their children unlike now. The only way they talk about sex is to wait, when you are like 13-17, then you hear “if you carry belly, you leave my house”
Some of the victim don’t say it out, because they are scared they will be faulted.

PS: I might have exaggerated with the figure but believe me it’s high.
Is there no week we get stories of an underaged being raped? Just use an check na
alright

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by SkinnyNigga: 5:59am On Jun 12, 2019
Joromi12:
I will quit SM soon
i Don quit.. the bullshiit and rubbish I see there is messing up my head..
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Amanda4life: 6:31am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.


Where was your mum at that time? I guess she wasn't around.

If you are a female and you are upto 10years without being raped should thank the parents and God

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by selfwife(f): 6:50am On Jun 12, 2019
ehmmy11:
this is the saddest thing I heard this week... Had to check ur previous posts.. And damn it my heart goes out to you
Thank you. You don't have to be sad. Just take care of children around you. make or female, they need protection.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by selfwife(f): 6:53am On Jun 12, 2019
Amanda4life:



Where was your mum at that time? I guess she wasn't around.

If you are a female and you are upto 10years without being raped should thank the parents and God
she was never home. always wakawaka. not available. no adult. just us. give us our 'eating money' every week that's whenever she remembers. the rest, you are on your own.
Rape is real. Protect your children irrespective of gender.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by selfwife(f): 6:55am On Jun 12, 2019
femi4:
So sorry about what you went through.
Thank you. protect little ones around you.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by femi4: 6:57am On Jun 12, 2019
selfwife:
Thank you. protect little ones around you.
sure..I will

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by selfwife(f): 7:13am On Jun 12, 2019
blackslayer:


Talking about it does help....and you are correct, that picture can never be erased from your memory!!!
You will still remember it like day and night, almost as if it happened yesterday. I was molested by a female house maid when i was 5/6 years old.
so sorry. sometimes, parents think the child is still too young to be protected from perverts. may God heal you. It's really annoying. I don't think you should tell them.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Damfostopper(m): 7:22am On Jun 12, 2019
mercilessly rape..... haba

Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by delishpot: 7:28am On Jun 12, 2019
Nigeria is a rapist haven. Watch rapists sympathisers come out in droves to say she deserved to be rapped in the first place. I keep saying it that 98% of Nigerian men are rapists those not bold enough to rape actually sympathise with rapists and feel a man can be pushed to rape a woman so it's not a big shock to rape a woman.

In Nigeria a man does not deserve any punishment from a woman no matter how evil he has been. But a WOMAN? ...... She deserves whatever happens to her so long as its a man dishing out the evil to her.

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