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This one is a girl, definitely not a boy and far from being a man. The Yoruba Demons Association (YODA) and the Sweet Boys Association (SBA) reject him. The Gays, Lesbians and Bisexual Association can have him

The comments i have read so far just makes me sad. Many people have an opinion on what they know nothing about. Most of the time on this site, we keep reading about husband killing wife, wife killing husband, girlfriend killing boyfriend and vice versa, and our minds cannot still draw a pattern that there is something wrong with the chemical composition of the brain of such persons.
I keep hearing comments like pray to God, i will use my p***k to reset her brain, the woman that will do this to me has not been born, weak men etc, and i have come to the conclusion that many are not intelligent in this country and many people will still fall victim to such calamities.
The solution is for you as a human being who values his/her life to scrutinize the character and thought process of the people you relate with i.e colleagues at work, friends, family members, customers or girlfriend/ boyfriend. Ask questions that reveal the thought process of the person.
Watch out for personality disorders, because neurotic people are living amongst us only that we dont know how to identify them. Also watch out for perfectionist tendencies. They come in different shades and they are the ones that habour the thought of murder. Some of them here might disagree with me but it is the truth.This one in particular is what i look out for.

zoedew:
These things happen largely because we keep God out of the equation.

well, u may be right, But some consulted their pastors and still av problem. May God help us sha

DaddyNimo:
the woman dat will make me go tru any kind of abuse hasn't been born....infact the woman's dad haven't even met her mom talk less of forking her to pour cum inside her to conceive. I hate weak men, I hate men dat go soft on a girl when she forks up, such a man deserves to be used for rituals.

easier said than done, it is possible during dating or when there is no children between u, but what if there is, and she starts misbehaving, especially d one u really love.

Adeyinka123:
Many of us are ashame to share our stories. Too painful to share though. Some women are Jezebels! They play on your religious beliefs and our fear of GOD. Many husbands are actually dying in silence. I actually pray every day of my life for Divine Intervention! Going back home everyday after work is always a source of fear. GOD help me o!

Haba...wetin happen na.

[quote author= post=79276642]Hmmmmmm, some men can relate to this.

While some kids on here will come here to type how can a woman abuse a man!

He who feels it, knows it.

Love is sweet when you are with the right person.[/quote]wow you made sense... you actually made sense

If a woman made this post people will first see reason with the man ie if she eats and leaves the plate on the sofa they will say haba! You sef how can you eat and leave plate in the chair you sat on?
If she says he cheated multiple times, they will say when you eat and leave plates in the sofa (you are dirty) why won't he cheat on you?

I see no one asking what he did to her in the first place to warrant her attitude towards him. But if this post was from a woman Nigerian guys would have asked her that question. They would have recommended prayers, cleanliness, heart to heart chat, dress to secually arouse him, don't check his phone, go to his pastor so he can help you beg him etc. All the shit men won't endure but are maki g women pass through daily cos she made the mistake of marrying a chewing gum boy.

The woman words maybe harsh but why leave a plate on the sofa after eating. Who does that?

This man must be very dirty and dirt irritates some people and could also trigger anger that will generate to bloody fight.

Adeyinka123:
Many of us are ashame to share our stories. Too painful to share though. Some women are Jezebels! They play on your religious beliefs and our fear of GOD. Many husbands are actually dying in silence. I actually pray every day of my life for Divine Intervention! Going back home everyday after work is always a source of fear. GOD help me o!

Please walk out of that marriage. Leave it for the sake of your sanity and your life. Only those who are alive and in good frame of mind, can be religious and worship God. Anything that threatens your peace of mind, is not worth it.

If your wife abuses you, then you are not a great guy in the bedroom. I do not care if a woman is possessed by a Demon, but when you pin that woman down for 2hrs straight, she will have no willingness to be aggressive. Aggressiveness can be fuccked out of abusive partners almost always.

It is the lack of sex hormones in the system, the molecules of love chemicals attracts the hate molecules that are the opposite charges to love, are neutralized in a chemically charged eroticism and so, to manipulate your spouse into submission, learn how not cum until they cum 20 times.

Sounds weird, but even a demon become heavenly during orgasms.

My survey on recalcitrant slay queens and flirty married women have proven this to be true. Not even Deliverance, Prayers and Exorcism works as perfect as fuccking them hard enough to diffuse the aggressiveness. Trick them into sensual moments of massages and fucck the aggression out of them with supernatural powers.

Those who try it, will not find it funny, but a fact.

A man should be a man, and not a pusssy with a conscience.

Skepticus:


This is what you get, when fools fall in love.

Bunch of PUSSIFIED men everywhere.

Its not a crime for fool to fall in love, if that is the best thing he ever imagined to achieve.

He used to have a diary on NL talking about what he experienced in his marriage. Glad he's doing fine.

Normally I
Laugh hehehe�!!!, but I won't waste much laugh on this so ...He�! Unless that lady's juju is strong gidi gaan (& the leaves used don't have an impotent day)...hmm, it's normal to have "BITS" not "TOO MUCH" rifts & nagging.abuse me physiologically & emmotionallt in my own house Or wit a straight,curved, perpendicular,round,square face threaten me wit stab, break or fracture? ...He�! Once again...I say no more....�

Tsolutionifede:
well, u may be right, But some consulted their pastors and still av problem. May God help us sha

Is the reason I used the word “largely”. A personal relationship with God is key.

U may begin to feel that all ladies are like that, but contrary is the case. My wife is one of may sweetest experiences .... U were simply unlucky.

oxygenlove:
he said it... you will not know how it feels like until it happen to you...... you know why it pained so much when you are been abused? ? everybody has a hard heart.. but when you really love someone, and they abuse you (any form of abuses)... YOUR HEART ACHES FOR IT

you are both describing the same situation just from different views.
Hes saying the reason shii like this happens
You are describing how hard and painful it is.

delishpot:
If a woman made this post people will first see reason with the man ie if she eats and leaves the plate on the sofa they will say haba! You sef how can you eat and leave plate in the chair you sat on?
If she says he cheated multiple times, they will say when you eat and leave plates in the sofa (you are dirty) why won't he cheat on you?

I see no one asking what he did to her in the first place to warrant her attitude towards him. But if this post was from a woman Nigerian guys would have asked her that question. They would have recommended prayers, cleanliness, heart to heart chat, dress to secually arouse him, don't check his phone, go to his pastor so he can help you beg him etc. All the shit men won't endure but are maki g women pass through daily cos she made the mistake of marrying a chewing gum boy.

Thats y i dont sympathise with these kind of men

Hardrive:
The comments i have read so far just makes me sad. Many people have an opinion on what they know nothing about. Most of the time on this site, we keep reading about husband killing wife, wife killing husband, girlfriend killing boyfriend and vice versa, and our minds cannot still draw a pattern that there is something wrong with the chemical composition of the brain of such persons.
I keep hearing comments like pray to God, i will use my p***k to reset her brain, the woman that will do this to me has not been born, weak men etc, and i have come to the conclusion that many are not intelligent in this country and many people will still fall victim to such calamities.
The solution is for you as a human being who values his/her life to scrutinize the character and thought process of the people you relate with i.e colleagues at work, friends, family members, customers or girlfriend/ boyfriend. Ask questions that reveal the thought process of the person.
Watch out for personality disorders, because neurotic people are living amongst us only that we dont know how to identify them. Also watch out for perfectionist tendencies. They come in different shades and they are the ones that habour the thought of murder. Some of them here might disagree with me but it is the truth.This one in particular is what i look out for.

we are also saying the same thing naw, its a weak man that will jst start dating a woman and even go ahead to give her his trust and reveal his vulnerabilities without properly vetting her character in the name of love or whatever nonsense. Weak and naive men

Constant and daily sex calms a marriage and reassures both parties of their love.

The first sign of a broken home is excuses relative to sex. Whether you are tired, fatigued etc just allow the initiator have his / her sex. Yes, You can explain to him / her that You are tired but submit yourself to your partner for his / her satisfaction.


Using sex as a bargaining tool is a No No. It shows that your partner is cheating or about to cheat.

Abusive marriages could be physical or verbal. Both are poisonous and a quick solution is divorce.

Bet9jaVirtual:
That man must be a weakling.
By the time I finish flogging her with my Long koboko in the other room, she will beg me to be leaving the plates where I ate.


Imagine this woman talking to you anyhow in front of your Friends

Lol u that can't woo a woman u think it those girls with low self esteem can't as having girl it not about beating a lady that show u been a man and yes real men have emotion and can be hurt so grow up

Tsolutionifede:
well, u may be right, But some consulted their pastors and still av problem. May God help us sha

Consulting pastors doesn't necessarily mean consulting GOD. Pastors are humans with preference n weakness, but GOD only gives what's best for us. cheers!!!!

That's why people should use there head in marriage matters. Forget love.
You notice that most men that fall into this kind of issues always talked about love.

That's why I always question this thing called love. It makes one rid his sense of reasoning.

Men are meant to be Strong not wimps.
I believe the weakness of being in love on the men's side has led to many marriages hitting the rocks.

I don't mean being mean. But I mean setting your standard as a man, and only the woman that agrees and totally complies to your standards will you make your wife.

In addition being in a haste to get married also leads to this kind of story.
Don't be in a haste, take your time, be cool, calm and have a clear mind.

AntiBrutus:
She felt like stabbing him for leaving his plates unwashed? There are different levels to this!!

Heya. His father was a victim too.
Lil wonder he thought he could fix it.

This abuse thing is a vicious cycle for every party involved. The abused, abuser and observer.

Don't believe everything you read from that guy, he is estranged even from his blood family, he loves to rope his father into everything. He's not an entirely serious individual from all I've read about him.

Adeyinka123:
Many of us are ashame to share our stories. Too painful to share though. Some women are Jezebels! They play on your religious beliefs and our fear of GOD. Many husbands are actually dying in silence. I actually pray every day of my life for Divine Intervention! Going back home everyday after work is always a source of fear. GOD help me o!

Heeya..take heart

Hmmmm