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I notice everytime i argue with some persons or i go to public places where there is an occasion and i happened to dance around or carry out a task like doing some compulsory like "traditional" greeting or giving of speech, i feel drained and unsatisfactory or some kind of guilt feeling?


I just had an argument in the afternoon and each time i remember it, i feel unsatisfactory. Why is it so? It happens to me often.

The answer you seek is within you

CreepyBlackpool:
The answer you seek is within you

kindly tell me. What is it?

Don't wanna sound rude but your answer lies in your signature. So you're either that or you have low self esteem. Work on the latter

You talk too much
Too soon
and Too fast.

Think tactically
Listen before talking
Talk slow and concisely.

Learn to smile.

Craziestgirl:
You talk too much
Too soon
and Too fast.

Think tactically
Listen before talking
Talk slow and concisely.

Learn to smile.

doing all these without confidence still amounts to nothing. At the end of the day he still goes home sad knowing that he just put up a show. Confidence is what he needs to work on. My opinion

Craziestgirl:
You talk too much Too soon and Too fast.
Think tactically Listen before talking Talk slow and concisely.
Learn to smile.

i don't talk too much. I'm known to be a very quiet person tho.

lilianofentse:
Don't wanna sound rude but your answer lies in your signature. So you're either that or you have low self esteem. Work on the latter

okay

lilianofentse:
doing all these without confidence still amounts to nothing. At the end of the day he still goes home sad knowing that he just put up a show. Confidence is what he needs to work on. My opinion

Those are the building blocks of confidence.
You have another suggestion you want him to consider?

Craziestgirl:
Those are the building blocks of confidence.
You have another suggestion you want him to consider?

suicide ...
Just joking.
Well he could start by associating with people even if he doesn't chip in. Getting rid of introvert circles he belongs to. Get a supportive girlfriend / friend. Etc
Although your opinion makes a lot of sense, I wouldn't advise him to consider practicing in large crowds. He should start small, from group of friends to family members and so on
Cc Craziestgirl

lilianofentse:
doing all these without confidence still amounts to nothing. At the end of the day he still goes home sad knowing that he just put up a show. Confidence is what he needs to work on. My opinion

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Someone without confidence won't even argue with anyone

It simply means you are an introvert or simply close to it. Things like dat drain introverts energy while d reverse for extroverts.Just stop over analysing d things you do nd just forget about it.