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14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by destindd(op): 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2019
Blowing on your food to cool it down

It’s unacceptable to blow on your food, which is why a true lady waits for it to cool down naturally.
To make your food cool down more quickly, try stirring it with a spoon.

Refusing food and drinks offered by a host

A true lady would never refuse food and drinks offered to her. If a host asks what drink she prefers, a lady would thank the host and go with a glass of white without lengthy explanations as to why she can’t have a drink.
It’s okay not to eat at all and just to take a sip of wine.

Not wearing pantyhose

According to modern business etiquette rules, a woman must wear pantyhose to work and formal receptions. Even on the hottest summer day.
If it’s too hot, you can wear thigh-highs or pants instead of a dress or a skirt.

Responding to another person’s sneeze by saying "Bless you."

Many people respond to someone else’s sneeze by saying "Bless you," but this is only acceptable if the sneezer is a close friend or family member.
In all other cases, just ignore it as if you didn’t notice anything unusual.

Leaving an umbrella open to dry

It’s a very common mistake. Don’t leave your umbrella open to dry.
Close your umbrella before entering a building. Shake the water off, and hang it to dry. You can also use a special drying machine if it’s available.

Being too honest

Opening up to a stranger has nothing to do with the image of a lady.
A true lady is never too much when it comes to communicating with new people. She doesn’t share details of her personal life, her job, or her innermost thoughts.

Eating on the go


Etiquette rules say you need to use cutlery when you’re at the table. So even if pizza is your favorite food, don’t order it in a restaurant.
If you’re in a hurry, try not to eat on the go. It doesn’t suit a true lady. The best idea is to rearrange your tight schedule to find a couple of minutes for at least a decent cup of coffee.

Arguing

A true lady always has her own opinion, and she’s 100% sure of it.
She’d never force her ideas on anybody, nor would she argue her choice. When all is said and done, why bother to prove her position?

Talking and laughing loudly

It’s very important to watch the tone of your voice. Laughing loudly, yelling, and offensive language are unacceptable.
No matter if it’s your grandmother, your 3-year-old, or a president, take the same tone of voice with everyone.


Being rude and spreading rumors

Being rude, gossiping, and whining are taboos for a true lady. It’s beneath her.
Neither would she listen to someone else’s whining and gossiping. Why spend her precious time on that?

Not taking good care of yourself

A true lady takes good care of herself. She loves sports, maintains a healthy diet, pays attention to skincare, and consults specialists if necessary.
This means she is fit and has glowing skin and healthy hair and nails.

Slouching

Another important rule for a lady is holding a royal posture. When you’re slouching, it seems like you’re really burdened with something.
Improving your posture is not as difficult as it may seem at first. Including regular exercises in your schedule will strengthen the muscles in your upper back and shoulders and improve your posture.

Making fashion mistakes

A true lady would never wear an oversized sweater or a pair of overly tight shorts. She knows how to choose the right types of clothes that say a lot about her style.
She would never wear baggy clothes just because they’re comfortable. Her clothing is very tasteful, and every item in her wardrobe is chosen according to her body type.

Wearing poor-quality fake designer items


You don’t have to spend all your money on some ridiculously expensive designer bag. But if you can’t afford it, buying a much cheaper copy is not an option. A replica, even of a good quality, can be easily spotted. So if you plan to ruin a good first impression, go with the fake.
Choose stylish and high-quality clothing items that you can afford. They don’t have to have some famous designer’s name on them. The same applies to accessories and jewelry.

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Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 3:03pm On Jun 17, 2019
Op ooo...hmm!
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by MJBOLT: 3:45pm On Jun 17, 2019
15.avoid becoming a feminists
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by pansophist(m): 3:47pm On Jun 17, 2019
16. Don't be a leech. No one owes you anything because you are a woman. Be responsible for yourself, and accountable for your actions.
17. Have a sense of self-honor. For example, you don't leech on a man you are not interested in, as a means of refusing his proposal.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by QueenSekxy(f): 3:54pm On Jun 17, 2019
I scored 0/14. tongue

Nice thread.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jun 17, 2019
pansophist:
16. Don't be a leech. No one owes you anything because you are a woman. Be responsible for yourself, and accountable for your actions.
17. Have a sense of self-honor. For example, you don't leech on a man you are not interested in, as a means of refusing his proposal.
Yessss ooo. Tell them.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 4:53pm On Jun 17, 2019
18 Good character

A true lady must possess a good character, many ladies have charisma but lack character. The lack of character in ladies is not easily noticed until an intimate relationship and time reveals who they really and truly are.

The depth of your good character will greatly determine the height of your achievements.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:02pm On Jun 17, 2019
This advice goes both ways na undecided
Waiting for the 14 things nairaland boys must avoid to become true men(boys) then I would comment cool
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by ibkayee(f): 5:03pm On Jun 17, 2019
So just stop existing essentially
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Wizbab: 5:08pm On Jun 17, 2019
Humility
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Divay22(f): 5:10pm On Jun 17, 2019
It's always the ladies angry
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Wizbab: 5:20pm On Jun 17, 2019
Lol
Divay22:
It's always the ladies angry
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Divay22(f): 5:38pm On Jun 17, 2019
Wizbab:
Lol
What funny angry
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by pansophist(m): 5:39pm On Jun 17, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Yessss ooo. Tell them.
Lol, you again ? tongue
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by destindd(op): 5:43pm On Jun 17, 2019
Front page oo...we need more reactions
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 5:45pm On Jun 17, 2019
Naso oh...front page things....Nice thread
No more unclad
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jun 17, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
This advice goes both ways na undecided
Waiting for the 14 things nairaland boys must avoid to become true men(boys) then I would comment cool
Chai... Everything isn't gender war na sad
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:02pm On Jun 17, 2019
dairykidd:
Chai... Everything isn't gender war na sad
Who said it was undecided
Na so so thread about ladies this and that na una dey open una nor dey advice una fellow men na so so women una see.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jun 17, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
Who said it was undecided
Na so so thread about ladies this and that na una dey open una nor dey advice una fellow men na so so women una see.
Heheheee abeg no just vex at all ooh... i didn't notice ur signature and Moniker before. Wehdone ma
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:18pm On Jun 17, 2019
dairykidd:
Heheheee abeg no just vex at all ooh... i didn't notice ur signature and Moniker before. Wehdone ma
cheesy wehdone sir cool
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by babyfaceafrica: 6:41pm On Jun 17, 2019
as if they will hear
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 7:22pm On Jun 17, 2019
Abi
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by MJBOLT: 7:44pm On Jun 17, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
This advice goes both ways na undecided
Waiting for the 14 things nairaland boys must avoid to become true men(boys) then I would comment cool

Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by MJBOLT: 7:46pm On Jun 17, 2019
i know you are guilty of at least 11 of the things op listed

ibkayee:
So just stop existing essentially
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by ibkayee(f): 7:49pm On Jun 17, 2019
MJBOLT:
i know you are guilty of at least 11 of the things op listed
10 sha, close though
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 8:18pm On Jun 17, 2019
So you do gossip alot?
Your bf will hear this
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Wizbab: 8:36pm On Jun 17, 2019
kevinhat:
So you do gossip alot?
Your bf will hear this
Haba!
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:17pm On Jun 17, 2019
Divay22:
It's always the ladies angry
It's an obsession.
Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jun 17, 2019
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Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by QueenSekxy(f): 9:47pm On Jun 17, 2019
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Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by kevinhat: 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2019
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Re: 14 Things Narialand Ladies Must Avoid To Become A True Lady by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 17, 2019
QueenSekxy:
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