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| What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by rafabenitez: 12:05am On Jun 17, 2019 |
A friend of mine needs advice,he is married but his inlaws wont let him rest in his home,all cos he is married to there sister,he really needs advice,currently they are upto 4 of her siblings in his home. |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by jbblues24(m): 12:13am On Jun 17, 2019 |
You keep welcoming them 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 17, 2019 |
This in-law matter is very tricky. You don't want to be seen as bad or a devil. At the same time, you need your space and privacy. Tell their sister that you are not comfortable with them staying at your place. Get her reaction first. That will determine he next approach. Just know that you must have to step on toes in this life, in-laws or no in-laws. 7 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by ImaIma1(f): 6:38pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Your wife is the one you should speak to. Please let her know that you both need your space especially if you are newly weds. What you don't need now is people making both of you have divided attention. 3 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by TANID(m): 6:39pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by ifyalways(f): 7:01pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Talk to your wife about it. If nothing changes invite your mom and on of your sister too. The house go catch fire and all man will find him levels  17 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by lilmax(m): 7:12pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
easy invite every blood related in your life to your house, that's all |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by elmagnifico411(m): 8:02pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Adopt this method; when u get back from work, Greer them, shower, eat, change your clothes, and hit out . If you got a relaxing spot or guys u can chill out with while Ike flies, just spend your time outside the house. He little time you spend in the house, after greetings don’t gist or bring up any conversation with them. Just leave them with their sister in the house. Trust me your wife would do everything to have you back in the house. 4 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by ibkayee(f): 8:05pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
lilmax:Lol |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by ebonyggurl(f): 11:36am On Jun 18, 2019 |
elmagnifico411: I don't really think that will work. When some women are surrounded by their family members, they might not really notice their husband's absence or attribute the cause of his absence to the ever present inlaws 14 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by Richy4(m): 3:36pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
4 is way too much..where they living in a mansion that she has to invite 4 relatives......? |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by rafabenitez: 6:42am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Good advice so far.keep it coming. |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by lilyheaven: 10:26am On Jun 24, 2019 |
Tell your wife, let her understand you. If she doesn't understand your view, she will think you are selfish and that may bring fight. But if she understand you very well, she will find a way to send all of them away. |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by ceeceeuwa: 5:25pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
They simply don't have shame...I'm sure the house would have been on fire if it were your relatives. Some women don't use their head at all! 2 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by chii8(f): 8:24pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
One of the reasons I hate living in a big apartment,they think you have all the space. 4 Likes |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by rafabenitez: 6:34am On Jul 21, 2019 |
Very sad how women feel its normal. 1 Like |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by sisisioge: 6:54am On Jul 21, 2019 |
rafabenitez: How far? Were you able to get them to stay in their own house? Did you talk to madam? If it doesn't work, then talk to your father in-law. |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by Nobody: 7:00am On Jul 21, 2019 |
Invite 4 from ur side. Take off 4 like one week and tell wifey it's work related. Go and cool off in one hotel. Make sure ur phone is mostly off. She will get the message by force. Yeye woman. That's how they destroy their marriage and drive their husbandinto the hands of other women. If u are not mentally matured, don't marry. It's not by number 1 Like |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by rafabenitez: 7:46am On Jul 21, 2019 |
sisisioge:tanks fr asking dear,its actually my friend who keeps complaining to me,he is jst fed up,d gals family dont even care about the where about of their children,the guy is fed up. |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by sisisioge: 8:48am On Jul 21, 2019 |
rafabenitez: Chai...it is well. He needs to talk in a nice way to both his wife and probably father in-law. May God help him. 1 Like |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by frozen70(f): 9:58pm On Jul 22, 2019 |
rafabenitez: Having inlaws in your house is an old long practice He must never tell them or tell his wife to ask them to go, it will be used against him for life Simple, ask eifebto start contributing to the family upkeep If she is not working, let her know what you can afford every month and don't add a penny to it, even if it finishes in one week Just keep quiet and be watching her and her siblings and got you, relate as if their presence means nothing to you One day she will use her tongue to count her teeth and tell you how many they are and when that day comes, tell her that whatever she decides is OK for you She will be the one to ask them to leave |
| Re: What Do You Do To Your Inlaws Who Keep Flocking Your House. by babyfaceafrica: 10:28pm On Jul 22, 2019 |
tricky |
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