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| I Am Too Ashamed by yazga(op): 9:29am On Jun 19, 2019 |
I had a crazy fling with a man from work at a work team-building weekend. How could I be so stupid? Now I’m pregnant I don’t know whether the dad is him or my boyfriend. I am 27 and my partner is 29. We’ve been together four years. Lately he’s been stressed because he has a new job and is travelling a lot. Our sex life has taken a nose-dive.My work organized a bonding weekend which I tried to get out of but was persuaded to go. We stayed in chalets at a conference center and I shared with another girl. I enjoyed it more than I expected. We all went for a meal in the evening and there was a great atmosphere. I’ve always got on well with one particular male colleague who was flirting with me all evening, saying I looked amazing dressed up – I usually wear trousers at work. He is 25.After the meal I knew I’d had enough to drink but still let him buy me another vodka. I couldn’t stand up straight when it was time to leave so he offered to walk me to my chalet. Instead he took me to his to “make me a coffee”. While the kettle boiled he kissed my neck and I went weak at the knees. Suddenly we were kissing and touching, and I didn’t want it to stop. He didn’t force me – I agreed to sex very willingly. I was so ashamed the next day but comforted myself that at least no-one but me and this guy knew what had happened.I’d told the girl I was sharing with that I’d dozed off over a coffee but that nothing had happened. When I got home my partner had missed me so much we had sex the minute I got through the door. Now I have missed a period. I am always regular so I did a pregnancy test. I was horrified when it came up positive. Not knowing who is the dad I think I will have to have a termination, but there is no way I can go to my doctor – I am too ashamed. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Nobody: 9:35am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Are you feeling bad because you are pregnant or because you cheated? What made you think what happened is between you and the guy? You goofed! You were a project that was discussed among his goons, he would have done an updated report of the project. Office romance? You don cast 7 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Davash222(m): 9:42am On Jun 19, 2019 |
I've seen this movie before. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by KristaPretty(f): 9:46am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Want to keep it  Please do!Want to terminate it?? Please do! Want to be ashamed forever?? Please do! See, Life is too short to worry over anything. Do whatever you think is best for you. 14 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by dingbang(m): 9:48am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Anything wey anybody wan do, make e do. Las las when trumpet blow, bad people will enter hell while good people will enter heaven. There is too much sin in this land 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Jayslicky: 9:54am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Your second name should be called stupid. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by SageMK: 9:59am On Jun 19, 2019 |
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| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Pojomojo: 10:01am On Jun 19, 2019 |
She is not sure if she was pregnated by the first guy. It might not be the first guys sperms that did it. Its very confusing since its between hours with her own bf. But if its me... Am so getting rid of it for my own peace of mind and continue with my bf afresh KristaPretty: 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by donbachi(m): 10:02am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Hint magazine story 6 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Gorillacrew: 10:06am On Jun 19, 2019 |
I don't know why but this doesn't come across to me as Nigerian. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Sanchez01: 10:14am On Jun 19, 2019 |
SageMK:I knew the OP was trolling the moment 'she' mentioned the team bonding part. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by UjuJoan2: 10:51am On Jun 19, 2019 |
yazga:Again we are back to this conversation about birth control. You neglected to take measures to ensure you do not bring a child into your messed up life. And neither did your partners .. Why are people no longer bothered about protection? If not for birth control, at least to guard against STDs. You need to get your acts together. Go see your Doctor ASAP and if you decide to keep the baby, you need to tell your partner. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by partnerbizz5(f): 12:45pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Check if the hiv is his or your boyfriend's too. |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by KanwuliaExtra: 1:01pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
What exactly are you ashamed of?  Typical of a BLACK, RELIGIOUS HYPOCRITE! You are an adult with no control of your life or impulses. Did you commit any crime? Are you in a committed relationship? If you were sure of your “boyfriend-of-four-years”, you would have at least protected yourself from any diseases or unwanted pregnancies. You have only 2 options. 1. Keep the child. 2. Kill the child. Either way, you will have to deal with the emotional consequences. Next time, use your head. . . . above your waistline. You do not have any problem. The men are not thinking about YOU! You think about YOURSELF FIRST! 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by ebonyggurl(f): 1:50pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
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| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by sisisioge: 6:11pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Wow! Try to find your period back...this may not end well fa! It is well. |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
What's the difference between the colleague you slept with and the 'partner' you've been having sex with? I can't seem to understand why you're ashamed and crying. You've been having sex with your 'partner' and, I believe, many other BOYFRIENDS before him. What difference does it make adding one extra guy to the list. Like you said, you did it WILLINGLY like every others. Suck it up and just continue enjoying your sin |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Mizwisdom(f): 10:35pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fake story, written by a man 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Pojomojo: 12:06pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
donbachi: |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by genq(m): 12:11pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
This is sounding like an abroad ( UK ) scenario. |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by Richy4(m): 2:04pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
yazga:Hmm!!!! Is that what they call it nowadays?  1 Like |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by oweniwe(m): 5:54pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
Davash222:Bridget Jones Baby (2016)  |
| Re: I Am Too Ashamed by yazga(op): 6:12pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
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