Nbote:
Wen Ese Walters first came out with her own allegations some years ago, ppl insulted her and abused her simply becos she was a nobody and some other hypocrites did simply becos it involves a Pastor or rather a big boy Pastor... D most irritating of dem all are d ones who will come out to talk about not judging d Man of God and allowing God to judge



D church jus kips sweeping such scandals under d carpet in their misguided approach to protect their image and integrity? The whole teachings on admittance of sin and and guilt and seeking forgiveness from d victims, d church and God and even restitution have all have been completely bastardized all in a bid to remain relevant and socially acceptable...

God bless you. That first part is on point. How many women get jidtice. She no talk ....anyway she said she hopes it will make others bold... lets see

ornicus:


And that is it.the number of people I can leave my kids with may be less than five. Unfortunately my daughter is not taking to Tae Kwondo like her brother. The girl is too cerebral and not instinctive

Where her brother will act immediately, she hesitates to think

It’s a real shame. I read somewhere that 1/4 Nigerian girls will be sexually assaulted in their childhood

The term strong black woman is an American cliche.
It's strong woman in Africa as we are not a multiracial society.We are all black

Momedia:


Toke Makinwa wrote;

This is our sister, let us lift her up in light. All I see is a strong, black woman who beat the odds to survive the horror and nightmare of abuse. Thank you for speaking out, thank you for unlocking the door for others to do the same. Your Pain is not in vain, your pain will break the chains for other people ego are in the dark. Well done. You are beautiful, I applaud your courage, I salute you for doing this. Guys pls let us come together and love on her, let us lift her up in love and stand by her. Let us stand in her shoes and speak out against injustice. Let the perpetrator face the law. Lawyers in the building let’s do this right. To watch your abuser daily go on unrepentant is the worst thing that anyone can imagine and @busoladakolo needs justice. Let the system work this time.
God will mend your broken heart,
God will heal your soul and protect you.



Source;

http://mercyobidakemedia.com/busola-dakolo-needs-justice-toke-makinwa-reacts-to-rape-allegation/

what does this lady do for a living?

MY opinion....
well if this story is true then it's a sin before God and man. however, revealing a truth/secret with the "singular aim to bring another person down" which may not even add any value to you or increase your capacity is not the right path to follow. because exposing secrets doesn't guarantee a change of life style.
If armed robbers visit a home and gang rape the wife even in the presence of her husband, would the wife tell the world of what transpired? if no, why?
the effect and pain of this public news maybe more hard and long lasting than the act itself.
death is not forgiveness.
my opinion......

Busola I admire your boldness, you are a great and beautiful woman, who will remain loved by all of us. We all share in your pain and let me tell you that we are grateful for your openness. Your heart was innocent when this happened to you, one of the reason why God blessed you with a wonderful husband and marriage. Remain blessed.

phransix2:
How do men rape a woman? How do they maintain erection at the same time fighting to pin a woman down, how do you maintain erection even when you see how terrified a lady is you trying to gain access to her body? How do you maintain erection when u look at her face and you see tears? How do you move on after forcefully sleeping with a woman.

All these I want to know cos I can't phantom it.

Sex is enjoyed when its consensual.

Justice she deserves.

And you believed her story? She wasn't RAPED.. She should just tell us she wanted it and also enjoyed it.. Naaa now she remember say she was RAPED?RAPE my foot.. When her body dey scratch her for sex she no know?

She should just keep all those sentimental bullshit to herself.. Obviously she was a loose girl at that time..

NOISE MAKERS

MiddleDimension:
what does this lady do for a living?

Is that the question you will ask her if she is your sister? many victims of this kind of abuse are not bold enough to speak out. You should see her as a hero.

Evercurious:



And you believed her story? She wasn't RAPED.. She should just tell us she wanted it and also enjoyed it.. Naaa now she remember say she was RAPED?RAPE my foot.. When her body dey scratch her for sex she no know?

She should just keep all those sentimental bullshit to herself.. Obviously she was a loose girl at that time..

NOISE MAKERS

When it happens to your loved ones, you will feel the pain

If there is a gofund me to support this legal cause. I do not mind contributiing some money.

This topic or news is baseless and rubbish. Wen he raped u. I believe by then, u are an adult. So y don't you complain? Y now. U self enjoy the rape stop black mailing the man of God biko

partnerbizz5:
I think she is saying the truth

She was raped and she couldn't scream for help.. Women and emotional blackmail. Let's tell ourselves the truth, she wanted the sex and she got it. She should stop claiming RAPE VICTIM here..

partnerbizz5:


God forbid that I argue issues of law with a layman.

Argue? What argument?

Agugbadin:


When it happens to your loved ones, you will feel the pain

DID HE CLOSE HER MOUTH DURING THE WHOLE PROCESS? WHY DIDNT SHE SCREAM?RAPE MY FOOT..

SHE WANTED SEX GOT IT AND HAD A RETHINK LATER. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO MOST GIRLS OF THAT AGE BRACKET..

I M FEMALE AND I KNOW IT..

nkemjacob2:
This topic or news is baseless and rubbish. Wen he raped u. I believe by then, u are an adult. So y don't you complain? Y now. U self enjoy the rape stop black mailing the man of God biko

THANK YOU. IMAGINE TALK. GIRL WEY ENJOY HERSELF FINISH COME NOW DEY TALK RUBBISH AS IF PERSON NO PASS THROUGH THAT STAGE IN LIFE.

Nbote:


D church jus kips sweeping such scandals under d carpet in their misguided approach to protect their image and integrity? The whole teachings on admittance of sin and and guilt and seeking forgiveness from d victims, d church and God and even restitution have all have been completely bastardized all in a bid to remain relevant and socially acceptable...

Playing women advocate can be as sweet as orgasm, afterall they're the weak ones buh we forget these beings are smarter than men ..just the truth.
i will make exceptions for female infants or babies who are victims. 70% of rape cases don't just happen suddenly .. there are alway signs but these gurls most times won't raise an alarm or tell anyone they play along till it happens.
How we a suppose guy just wake up one morning drive down to your family house, not knowing who is around or might later show up cumma rape you just like, what if she omitted something

tstx:
Ha. Bloggers won't let us rest today... They will definitely milk this story into oblivion

In another news

This COZA pastor won’t get persecuted. Come this Sunday, He’s going to tell his congregation that the devil is after him and his church and that they should pray. And Nigerians WILL pray.... NIGERIANS are foolish like that.

I'm not an old man but from the little experience i hv I've found out that most "Very religious" people are not alright in the head...

OGA LETS US JOIN HAND AND PRAY... THE DEVIL IS TRYING BY ALL MEANS TO BRING DOWN THE CHURCH

Agugbadin:


When it happens to your loved ones, you will feel the pain

At 18 years? My dear let's tell ourselves the truth , she wanted sex and she got it. Forget that stuff some girls call rape..


When you see rape you ll know. Not stories like these

Ninethmare:
Every week different trending news

No wonder we don't care much about our government

Na to dey comment and follow celebrity online

oga o u get am chai

ericsmith:


Playing women advocate can be as sweet as orgasm, afterall they're the weak ones buh we forget these beings are smarter than men ..just the truth.
i will make exceptions for female infants or babies who are victims. 70% of rape cases don't just happen suddenly .. there are alway signs but these gurls most times won't raise an alarm or tell anyone they play along till it happens.
How we a suppose guy just wake up one morning drive down to your family house, not knowing who is around or might later show up cumma rape you just like, what if she omitted something

God bless you..

emelda86:
One man no fit rape me

No be mouth no be joke

But that pastor na something else

Tufiakwa...

Ncan reporting live

A woman one man cannt rape wonnt look tempting in the 1st place, you go just look like aunty mercy masculine

Agugbadin:


When it happens to your loved ones, you will feel the pain

MY DEAR YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO GO TOO FAR. I WAS ALMOST RAPED BY A FRIEND AND I KNOW HOW I SCREAMED FOUGHT, AND DID ALL WITHIN MY STRENGHT TILL I GOT HELP.. SO I KNOW WHAT I MEAN

AND DON'T BE DECEIVED, CHECK FURTHER YOU LL FIND OUT THAT THEY HAD SEX REGULARLY

Momedia:


Toke Makinwa wrote;

This is our sister, let us lift her up in light. All I see is a strong, black woman who beat the odds to survive the horror and nightmare of abuse. Thank you for speaking out, thank you for unlocking the door for others to do the same. Your Pain is not in vain, your pain will break the chains for other people ego are in the dark. Well done. You are beautiful, I applaud your courage, I salute you for doing this. Guys pls let us come together and love on her, let us lift her up in love and stand by her. Let us stand in her shoes and speak out against injustice. Let the perpetrator face the law. Lawyers in the building let’s do this right. To watch your abuser daily go on unrepentant is the worst thing that anyone can imagine and @busoladakolo needs justice. Let the system work this time.
God will mend your broken heart,
God will heal your soul and protect you.



Source;

http://mercyobidakemedia.com/busola-dakolo-needs-justice-toke-makinwa-reacts-to-rape-allegation/

see person wey dey motivate people if na Genev I will gladly pay attention but toke nah nah

Evercurious:



She was raped and she couldn't scream for help.. Women and emotional blackmail. Let's tell ourselves the truth, she wanted the sex and she got it. She should stop claiming RAPE VICTIM here..

Do you know why couples aren't allowed to work in the same organisation like banks?

Do you know about 'undue influence', which can even vitiate a contract "freely" entered into?


If your mum is critically ill and you are the only one working and supporting her and taking care of your little siblings and the CEO asks you to sleep with him or lose your job. You reluctantly agreed.

You went to his hotel room yourself. Yes, you went yourself but would you say you wanted the sex?

Do you know about what they call fiduciary relationship?


Now, are all these women lying against this same pastor?

Is he the only pastor? Or the richest or most handsome?
.
Do you know about corroboration? And how has he addressed these allegations? Said he would give a robust reply since Ese's case till date.

It's because it's a shithole. In saner climes, the randy pastor would have resigned his asss with so much damages paid coupled with prison sentences.

Cc ericsmith

Evercurious:



God bless you..

N you tew

lilmax:
one thing I hate is when people let emotions ride them

when this video came out

people agreed with her because

1. she's a woman
2.she's Timi's wife

look at that nonsense that happened with etinosa, you guys actually believed her before it was proved she fcked up

like I said, every rape case above 16 needs to be checked thoroughly, not because you heard the word rape then its entirely true

one thing is sure, this is not the fault of that crappy pastor 100%, we need more revelations

So if u were a pastor now, you will sleeping with secondary school girls of 16yrs because they are matured enough to know what they are getting into according to ur mind.

Smh!

Ninethmare:
Every week different trending news

No wonder we don't care much about our government

Na to dey comment and follow celebrity online

. If Nigerian youths can follow up on political office holders the way they follows those half naked celebrities, check their activities, question their spendings, monitor their projects and protests whenever there is need to, maybe the country would have been a little different from what we have now but no it's either somebody married an old man or spending all their youthful days watching big brother.

partnerbizz5:

Do you know why couples aren't allowed to work in the same organisation like banks?

Do you know about 'undue influence', which can even vitiate a contract "freely" entered into?


If your mum is critically ill and you are the only one working and supporting her and taking care of your little siblings and the CEO asks you to sleep with him or lose your job. You reluctantly agreed.

You went to his hotel room yourself. Yes, you went yourself but would you say you wanted the sex?

Do you know about what they call fiduciary relationship?


Now, are all these women lying against this same pastor?

Is he the only pastor? Or the richest or most handsome?
.
Do you know about corroboration? And how has he addressed these allegations? Said he would give a robust reply since Ese's case till date.

It's because it's a shithole. In saner climes, the randy pastor would have resigned his asss with so much damages paid coupled with prison sentences.

Then she should state her own scenario let's all see.. Undue influence and others you say at 18 years?

Hmmmmm... She should tell us the FULL STORY and not this SUMMARIZED THING

At what point will Nigerians realize the man of goat is a defective human being?

Evercurious:



Then she should state her own scenario let's all see.. Undue influence and others you say at 18 years?

Hmmmmm... She should tell us the FULL STORY and not this SUMMARIZED THING

Yes even at 50 years.

You seem to have a soft spot for this dude.

All these people can't be lying.
He should own up.

We are not fools.

Look at the surrounding circumstances.

That guy is not innocent.

partnerbizz5:


Yes even at 50 years.

You seem to have a soft spot for this dude.

All these people can't be lying.
He should own up.

We are not fools.

Look at the surrounding circumstances.

That guy is not innocent.

My dear I have nt even listened to him preach. Neither am I his fan.. Women can tell a lot of lies when it comes to ISSUES LIKE THIS..Women always want to be pitied and seen as the weaker one. When sense full their head.. The guy tie her mouth from screaming for help? Abeg

Yes he had sex with them but not any case of RAPE.. Thats my point