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AmazonHippolyta:
Get an active brain woman
Such a nincompoop
Now I realise your brain is faulty get well soon.

Thoniameek:
You should quit mentioning that unwise woman

It's clear she's unreasonable

AmazonHippolyta:
I could not help but quote her I was shocked that a woman typed such. I am not taking sides but being insensitive and stupid at the same time is a disaster
Anyway na victorian a known Nl clown.
I won't reply her again. I am allergic to brainless people.

Miracle911:
Nigerian women and rape cases....
So you will go to a man's house, have cool bath, eat his food, lay on the same bed with him and you expect nothing to happen
Do these women reason from their Anus??

He's not your Elder brother neither is he your Father!
Man body no be fire wood .

Modify: to those quoting me upandan, m not talking about her own rape case alone,.... I didn't even read her story self

kaziblake:
I don't need to trade words with you but next time be mindful of what you say!Don't be insensitive!

Lovalovaphunmz:
Some things are better left unsaid...why do u av to bring this all up wen u av a husband at home?. How would u expect him to feel now knowing that a particular man slept with his wife?.
Anyways, what do i know?

Chiefochiefo:
When a man is born again, he is a new creature, old things are passed away. Likewise when a woman is married. She should let old bleeps passed away.
Can she be bold enough to tell us how many men she slpt with?

Miracle911:
Nigerian women and rape cases....
So you will go to a man's house, have cool bath, eat his food, lay on the same bed with him and you expect nothing to happen
Do these women reason from their Anus??

He's not your Elder brother neither is he your Father!
Man body no be fire wood .

Modify: to those quoting me upandan, m not talking about her own rape case alone,.... I didn't even read her story self

Lovalovaphunmz:
Some things are better left unsaid...why do u av to bring this all up wen u av a husband at home?. How would u expect him to feel now knowing that a particular man slept with his wife?.
Anyways, what do i know?

daddytime:
Hmmm

Let's see how Robust his response will be to this.

Lovalovaphunmz:
Some things are better left unsaid...why do u av to bring this all up wen u av a husband at home?. How would u expect him to feel now knowing that a particular man slept with his wife?.
Anyways, what do i know?

Lovalovaphunmz:
Some things are better left unsaid...why do u av to bring this all up wen u av a husband at home?. How would u expect him to feel now knowing that a particular man slept with his wife?.
Anyways, what do i know?

victorian:
God bless you!

You will make heaven

18years old so dumb !she couldn't press charges!

It's not like he's a hired killer stalking her after the rape.

Women keep deceiving yourselves .i have said my own!

negbike:
Hope you, your sister, mother or daughter gets raped so you will understand how it matters.

Lovalovaphunmz:
And u had to make everyone know that u were once raped??

Divay22:
Mama, she was 17 years old
What the hell you saying

victorian:
Grandma, even if she was 17years old, she can still scream to alert neighbors. She can still fight him off as long as he's not holding a gun to her head and she can definitely tell her family immediately, so they get him arrested. Instead of getting dressed to attend his church program on Sunday, just few days after the rape! Who does that as a rape victim? And carrying his new born baby for his wife!

Biko use your brain. You should have one sha, even though it's rusty, dusty and not in touch with reality anymore

If the family knew and it was settled amicably within them? Then why bring it up again nw!

At age 6! Just 6 years old I ran from a man who wanted to rape me. Yes I ran, I didn't seat there like a mute girl. I ran as my legs could take me , screamed and ran out of the house to go tell my mum.

So grandma, don't accept rubbish when u see it. Teach your daughters and grand daughters what it means to protect their privates. It's not that hard.

Divay22:
I gave you just two lines . Instead of you to use your big head, you came back spilling trash as usual.
Come o, is this your big head for fancy?
Can't you use it ?

See ehn, I didn't read it . Just stop giving people your useless epistle when you're suppose to go straight to the point.
My last reply to you. Court rise!

simple250:
COZA PASTOR IN THE NEWS FOR THE REST OF THE MONTH ...

Berankis:
Woman you no need am! You are married to someone now & have a lot at stake, pls let the past remain buried. You have nothing to gain from this chapter you about to start!!

SOFTDRINK:
That guy was a pastor when he was on the fvcking spree.

You mean he was not born again when he became a pastor?

victorian:
I don't have your time.

You can wail all night, the floor is yours.

Bye!

Babacele:
Vicky you need to know from the story in the public so far that Mrs Dakolo was surpressed by the environment that should have helped her voice out in the first place. And who knows if , with Timi's backing now- most probably, seeing the Fatoyinbo's history repeating itself through other women while not totally healed from the pains of yesterday, she feels this is the time to come out and damn the consequences. Truth be told, our society is biased against women when it comes to so many things including rape. Were it not for Christ won't a part of the world still be stoning women to death for a mutual crime while the man goes home happy to enjoy life? Think am well : something deep , a revolution sort of, is in action here.
Let us hear from COZA so that we can arbitrate well. Didn't She say family and church members know about the incident?

victorian:
Nope family and church members didn't know. She claimed she was scared of talking about it. But after the first rape in her house, she still went ahead to his church and sing in the choir and help his wife to carry her new born baby. For crying out loud! How can a victim of rape goes back to where the rapist is and pretend like nothing happened!!!
Few days again, he ushered her into his Mercedes Benz white machine car, he drove somewhere and had sex again with her on the bonnet, she still kept quiet, then several times as well sex!
This Pastor didn't hold a gun to her head o! There were no gang of men holding her down with force o! Just she and a cute looking Pastor, then later after many years down the lane, maybe as she and Timi is broke, they both came up with the story of rape. Because Timi was a choir master in his church while she was a choirister.
And with what members of the church were saying? Who were present back in those days, said She got pregnant at that age of 17 or so. And Timi was dating her during that period.

Now my question now is : if both Pastor and Timi were fucvking Busola back then.
Charge both of them with statutory rape or whatever people call it! Not just the Pastor! Timi too must be thrown in prison if found guilty too.

All the emirs Or rich men or any man out there who are married to girls in their teens or having sex with any teenage girls must be charged and thrown to jail! If people are really serious about this sex thing on teenage girls.

For Christ sakes! Control those emotions or Flee is the watchword!

Women should get this advice into their thick skull! A married Pastor will never marry you! No matter how much he fucvks you! Or give him crazy styles! You are just a play thing for him. He's not ready to become a polygamist or look like one in the eyes of his members or else he will lost his flocks! He has gotten to a height of success ,He loves his fame, wealth so much that he won't all the love of pussy or marrying another wife to pull down! You wil never unseat his wife and become Mummy G. O

That's the plain truth! And pure reality.
So any fantasies growing in that brain! Stop it now! Control your feelings Or flee from the church! If u can't control your emotions towards a Pastor who is showing undue attention towards you! To avoid stories like this!

And Yes I'm a complete woman who is not sentimental but Pragmatic and Practical about life.

I don't have time for Nonsense! Or the kind of manipulations women pull around men!

Wail from now til next year with insults? I don't fucvking care!

Babacele:
God bless you for these new perspectives to the story. I quite agree with you in many areas if that was how it really happened but I think i need to check the whole story again. Hmmmm could it have been consensual ? But shouldnt a ' man of God ' be a role model? I'm not judging but isn't what they make us believe?

Don't worry about the insults ; it is one of those things.

victorian:
OK but Wait I'm not saying the man of God is a saint . He's human and along the Line, he might have gotten carried away by women or girls throwing themselves at him, especially those women coming out that they experienced the same. And I wonder why no one arrested him, if he truly raped them?

Lemme use myself as an example. With all sense of humility I'm not trying to hype myself or my looks. But I look good, flashy and very attractive, even though I'm plump. My clients are both male and female. Some guys have turned down enrolling in my class, because of my looks and they tell me point blank, they won't be able to concentrste with me around. While there was a particular guy who joined my class, was infatuated about me, he sent a letter to tell Me his feelings, I ignore and turned him down. He showed up and I told him point blank, I'm your boss and tutor, I don't believe in romance in the office, it's against my ethics . He Looked crushed and dissapointed but hey, this is just me. He didn't complete his course, after some few days of coming he left and he didn't come back again to complete his course. I tried reaching out. He said he's inlove and can't cope being around me, if I'm not dating him. So I let him be.
So many cases even with ladies who are lesbians. Very beautiful ladies but I turn them down, I ignore their suggestive looks and text messages of infatuations. And some tend to leave maybe they feel crushed Im not playing along.
Sorry I won't.
Pastors as well, suggestive looks, gestures, always advising me, holding my hands . If I can't cope with a pastor attractive looks, I run as well and leave the church. I'm not immune to such as well.

I understand all these things. It's real out there.

So I turn down these side attractions cos of my principles, not because I'm a Christian or I reverence God. I just don't want it. It muddle up things for me. I like to be free at work and anywhere I am.


So that been said, being a man of God does not mean he's principled. That's one. He should av trained himself to ignore suggestive advances or temptations from women and girls. Not just been inspirational with word of God. That's if he's really into seducing women for sex or falling Into their charms and all. But rape! I don't believe he rapes them.

I hope Busola case will be an eye opener to him and he wil learn to cut off from women or girls throwing themselves at him in suggestive ways.

softdrink:
That guy was a pastor when he was on the fvcking spree.You mean he was not born again when he became a pastor?