The Nigerian Film maker, Kemi Adetiba in a tweet educates Nigerians on the different behaviours of rape victims.

she wrote...

"This is a reminder to those that do not know or aren't sure - a victim of RAPE can go for decades without confronting her truth. Another reminder - not all rape victims SCREAM and FIGHT. This is not the movies, and there's is no one way react to shock or survive trauma."

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/06/kemi-adetiba-educates-nigerians-on-how.html

Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.


Modified: To all of you quoting me, I have said the truth if you're not okay with it, you can keep raising children that can't fight for themselves when confronted with someone trying to rape them, a woman who holds her body in high esteem would fight to the end to uphold her dignity.

Lol

IamD18:
I wonder how many times she has been raped to be knowledgeable enough to know all kind of behaviours rape victims posses.

Very soon you will hear “COZA gateman speaks on rape”

Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..

What she said is actually true especially in Africa where the victim (female) have to live with the shame if the rape comes to light. This is the major reason why victims don't talk out or go to court because no one would believe you and you'd be left to bear the shame alone.
I know a rape victim that even her family didn't believe her story not until after some years. Now she has trust issue even with her family members

wow!

Humm coza don take over nairaland

I’m yet to see any robust reply from Fat Oyinbo but I have my own robust reply here.
Fat Oyinbo is indisputably a fuc boy perhaps one with such skills and tools that can melt the brain.
I guess he has been aware of his strength as a talented fuc boy way back and also knows the weakness of his victims. He is always guilty as charged so I believe things said about him are true, not just slanders or blackmail.
However one thing that always confuses me is that those who always claim to be the victims of his randiness are always the accomplices too, who always ensure he successfully carried out his misbehaviours on them. Victims and accomplices I say.
The case of Ese Walter for instance, if I remember what she said then correctly, their sexcapade happened outside Nigeria. She can’t call that a rape or say he coerced her but let’s just say he took advantage of her psychologically. It’s easy for him to take advantage of you the first time, perhaps the second time too but how can you claim someone took advantage of you for over a week. That’s over 7 fvcking days! 7 days make a week. Perhaps they did it for 10 or 14 days.
I’m not acquitting Fat Oyinbo as being innocent but still, some of these ladies shouldn’t make him look like a devil while they try to make themselves look like saints. You can’t put all the blame on him. How will a mature lady who knows her left hand from right pretend to be so vulnerable after enjoying the whole thing. I hate that shiiit.
He took advantage of you the first day, the second day, the third day too you already knew his intentions but instead of kicking against it this time, you allowed him, enjoyed every bit of what he was doing to you until it happened for over a week. People are quick to get sentimental and support the so called victims in situations like this since they are women but I can’t be fooled. There are genuine cases but there are also cases of women who take advantage of situations. They try to eat the cake and also have it. They perfectly enjoy any opportunity of such sexcapades, at the same time will want to look like saints and put all the blame on men. I only think some of these girls open up eventually when they no longer have any other opportunity for the sexcapades anymore. They miss the whole thing and so are pained only to change their pain into blackmailing the man involved.
If you are not held at gun point, coerced, overpowered by a gang or one powerful body builder or someone much powerful than you, if it’s just an ordinary guy; then bite his nose off, hit him on the head, defend yourself, no mature adult lady should come later to be claiming rape victim when you were the accomplice of the whole thing.
I know that there will be other ladies already admiring the man looking for opportunities with him or some who are already in sexual adventure with him but would not say anything now until when they no longer have such opportunities again.
Smart women always taking advantages of situation, especially when the guy is rich or famous or if such ladies want public sympathy or attention. The likes of Kim Kardashian, Sola Fapson or whatever she calls herself. Not every rape or abuse allegation is genuine.
Monica Lewinsky almost wrecked the life of Bill Clinton with her scandal only for the bitch to confess recently after spoiling his reputation that she was the one who intentionally seduced the poor man.
I wouldn’t support a genuine abuse or rape case but I’m not part of the general public who are unnecessarily sentimental and biased with everything a woman says just because she’s a woman.

Nigerians and hypocrisy!

If this is how we all gathered and fought for things in Nigeria this country would have been great.

Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Is that how you test your rape victims?
If a screamer, run if not rape?
SMH

Lubbish!

It will not see the light of the day !!......

, IN ASA VOICE, " let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone" Everybody is now a rape specialist and counselor

Thanks for sharing

Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

You sound so pained. Are you a rapist?

They are coming for other Men of God

IamD18:
I wonder how many times she has been raped to be knowledgeable enough to know all kind of behaviours rape victims posses.

You are too stupid.

See

Na wa o Pastor Ni

timis wife is lying

what happened to the avengers happened to her

she could not live with her failure of being used and dumped and it led her right back to COZA

who drinks and chills after rape sessions


next was on the bonnet

guess pastor was also a mechanic

Hmm

He may have had sex with her but the thing is, it maybe with her concent

Absolutely correct.....its a psychological torment to be raped..

Some people react immediately, cry, fight and spill out the anger..
Some keep it deep down and it torments them for life..

No rapist should go unpunished, all rapists must perish!!!! Biodun Fatoyinbo is a serial womanizer, those who know him knows hes nothing but shiiit, a monster.....he will not go unpunished inshallah