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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Iyajelili(f): 11:24am On Jun 29, 2019
Neddstark:


Itfdem don use force knack you. you better talk now. it automatically turns u into a celebrity grin
Not surprised
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 29, 2019
DaddySpyce:


They don't think we are all fools, but they actually know fools like you exist that is why they are standing firm for the truth to come out. It's only a fool that will reason exactly the way you just did and it shows very clear in everything you just wrote here.

And you think you are wise because you jump into conclusions before you think just because others are on the same bandwagon? So many bitch niggaz parading themselves as men. Smh
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Giddyperson: 11:27am On Jun 29, 2019
Xda59:


And not one of the over 30 victims could scream, fight or go to the police. This is more than just coincidence. This morally bankrupt celebrities without integrity think we all are fools. If you were not overpowered, held at gun point or drugged then forcefully penetrated, then that is no rape period!
Did it occur to you that he could also be profiling his victims. Choosing his victims by studying their personalities and predicting their reactions, worse still grooming them before he attacks. He is a person in a position of authority, so to an extent they trusted him.

How come most people who were raped by their parents for years never screamed or fought. Daddy probably said 'Just relax, everything would be fine'. It usually takes them a couple of hours, weeks, months and even years to realise everything isn't fine.

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by arimahoseloka(m): 11:29am On Jun 29, 2019
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..
Not all women have the courage to even fight back or scream there are many instances out of serious shock and fear they give in. It happens alot
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by DaddySpyce(m): 11:36am On Jun 29, 2019
Xda59:


And you think you are wise because you jump into conclusions before you think just because others are on the same bandwagon? So many bitch niggaz parading themselves as men. Smh

Exactly so many bitch niggaz and isnt it obvious you are one. I am not jumping into any conclusion yet but your low level of thinking called for some correction. You don't write stupidly and expect someone not to see it and say something to correct your stupidity.

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 29, 2019
Daeylar:
You guys are too bold.
You rapists are too bold.
What's happening for fuçks sakes.





Too many lying evil whores like you out there for us to accept everything hook, line and sinker without evidence. As we speak, you type are still booking space to fùck pastors and other married men and when things turn sour, you harlots will start screaming rape. That is what is fùcking happening bitch!
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by 3verblazing(m): 11:40am On Jun 29, 2019
PlanetOfApes:
I’m yet to see any robust reply from Fat Oyinbo but I have my own robust reply here.
Fat Oyinbo is indisputably a fuc boy perhaps one with such skills and tools that can melt the brain.
I guess he has been aware of his strength as a talented fuc boy way back and also knows the weakness of his victims. He is always guilty as charged so I believe things said about him are true, not just slanders or blackmail.
However one thing that always confuses me is that those who always claim to be the victims of his randiness are always the accomplices too, who always ensure he successfully carried out his misbehaviours on them. Victims and accomplices I say.
The case of Ese Walter for instance, if I remember what she said then correctly, their sexcapade happened outside Nigeria. She can’t call that a rape or say he coerced her but let’s just say he took advantage of her psychologically. It’s easy for him to take advantage of you the first time, perhaps the second time too but how can you claim someone took advantage of you for over a week. That’s over 7 fvcking days! 7 days make a week. Perhaps they did it for 10 or 14 days.
I’m not acquitting Fat Oyinbo as being innocent but still, some of these ladies shouldn’t make him look like a devil while they try to make themselves look like saints. You can’t put all the blame on him. How will a mature lady who knows her left hand from right pretend to be so vulnerable after enjoying the whole thing. I hate that shiiit.
He took advantage of you the first day, the second day, the third day too you already knew his intentions but instead of kicking against it this time, you allowed him, enjoyed every bit of what he was doing to you until it happened for over a week. People are quick to get sentimental and support the so called victims in situations like this since they are women but I can’t be fooled. There are genuine cases but there are also cases of women who take advantage of situations. They try to eat the cake and also have it. They perfectly enjoy any opportunity of such sexcapades, at the same time will want to look like saints and put all the blame on men. I only think some of these girls open up eventually when they no longer have any other opportunity for the sexcapades anymore. They miss the whole thing and so are pained only to change their pain into blackmailing the man involved.
If you are not held at gun point, coerced, overpowered by a gang or one powerful body builder or someone much powerful than you, if it’s just an ordinary guy; then bite his nose off, hit him on the head, defend yourself, no mature adult lady should come later to be claiming rape victim when you were the accomplice of the whole thing.
I know that there will be other ladies already admiring the man looking for opportunities with him or some who are already in sexual adventure with him but would not say anything now until when they no longer have such opportunities again.
Smart women always taking advantages of situation, especially when the guy is rich or famous or if such ladies want public sympathy or attention. The likes of Kim Kardashian, Sola Fapson or whatever she calls herself. Not every rape or abuse allegation is genuine.
Monica Lewinsky almost wrecked the life of Bill Clinton with her scandal only for the bitch to confess recently after spoiling his reputation that she was the one who intentionally seduced the poor man.
I wouldn’t support a genuine abuse or rape case but I’m not part of the general public who are unnecessarily sentimental and biased with everything a woman says just because she’s a woman.
i didnt hear ese's story bu from ur comment u obviiusly didnt see n listen to all busola said ...

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by blessedaunty: 11:51am On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Once you sleep with someone less than 18 years of age it is called statutory rape. So whether she shouts or not.

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by hope4life: 11:52am On Jun 29, 2019
Rape is evil with psychological trauma that can last one's lifetime.But this is my take on rape.Except a man carries gun of dangerous weapon that is sure he can kill you except you cooperate, a man cannot rape you successfully without your consent.
In my own view two types of rape
1.Rape by unfamiliar person e.g armed robbers,touts,thugs ,fulani herdsmen,biko harametc.They usually hold dangerous weapons
You may have no option
2.Rape by familiar person e.g family members,colleagues at work or school, religious leaders,friends,neighbours etc Usually without weapon.This one you can fight it out by hitting,punshing,creaming etc even if he will eventually overpower you being a man,do something that shows you don't want it.Even Bible says so.
Note: If you know what has been transpiring between a lady and a man before rape takes place,you will slap the lady for claiming rape.Yes not in all cases but life experience proves it right.A.man studies a lady before making any attempt. Every lady should prepare for any eventuality
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by ccollins(m): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2019
PlanetOfApes:
I’m yet to see any robust reply from Fat Oyinbo but I have my own robust reply here.
Fat Oyinbo is indisputably a fuc boy perhaps one with such skills and tools that can melt the brain.
I guess he has been aware of his strength as a talented fuc boy way back and also knows the weakness of his victims. He is always guilty as charged so I believe things said about him are true, not just slanders or blackmail.
However one thing that always confuses me is that those who always claim to be the victims of his randiness are always the accomplices too, who always ensure he successfully carried out his misbehaviours on them. Victims and accomplices I say.
The case of Ese Walter for instance, if I remember what she said then correctly, their sexcapade happened outside Nigeria. She can’t call that a rape or say he coerced her but let’s just say he took advantage of her psychologically. It’s easy for him to take advantage of you the first time, perhaps the second time too but how can you claim someone took advantage of you for over a week. That’s over 7 fvcking days! 7 days make a week. Perhaps they did it for 10 or 14 days.
I’m not acquitting Fat Oyinbo as being innocent but still, some of these ladies shouldn’t make him look like a devil while they try to make themselves look like saints. You can’t put all the blame on him. How will a mature lady who knows her left hand from right pretend to be so vulnerable after enjoying the whole thing. I hate that shiiit.
He took advantage of you the first day, the second day, the third day too you already knew his intentions but instead of kicking against it this time, you allowed him, enjoyed every bit of what he was doing to you until it happened for over a week. People are quick to get sentimental and support the so called victims in situations like this since they are women but I can’t be fooled. There are genuine cases but there are also cases of women who take advantage of situations. They try to eat the cake and also have it. They perfectly enjoy any opportunity of such sexcapades, at the same time will want to look like saints and put all the blame on men. I only think some of these girls open up eventually when they no longer have any other opportunity for the sexcapades anymore. They miss the whole thing and so are pained only to change their pain into blackmailing the man involved.
If you are not held at gun point, coerced, overpowered by a gang or one powerful body builder or someone much powerful than you, if it’s just an ordinary guy; then bite his nose off, hit him on the head, defend yourself, no mature adult lady should come later to be claiming rape victim when you were the accomplice of the whole thing.
I know that there will be other ladies already admiring the man looking for opportunities with him or some who are already in sexual adventure with him but would not say anything now until when they no longer have such opportunities again.
Smart women always taking advantages of situation, especially when the guy is rich or famous or if such ladies want public sympathy or attention. The likes of Kim Kardashian, Sola Fapson or whatever she calls herself. Not every rape or abuse allegation is genuine.
Monica Lewinsky almost wrecked the life of Bill Clinton with her scandal only for the bitch to confess recently after spoiling his reputation that she was the one who intentionally seduced the poor man.
I wouldn’t support a genuine abuse or rape case but I’m not part of the general public who are unnecessarily sentimental and biased with everything a woman says just because she’s a woman.
not Monica Lewinsky as she had a amorous affair with bill Clinton hitherto ,it was actually the CIA who leaked out damning information of their illicit affair that made them separate and bill Clinton was impeached from being the President. the CIA technically messed up bill Clinton
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Evercurious(f): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2019
Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.


Thank you for this
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Jamersirwin1971: 12:01pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.


Would you expect a young lady of 13 years old who doesn’t know a thing to shout and fight when she feels over powered and threathened with an object . People come here and write things I sometimes wonder if we don’t think or we expect everyone to be the same . A lady of 30 years who is matured would be raped at gun point and won’t scream and fight . Just pray it doesn’t happen to someone close to you and you will undertand
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Emanodimo(m): 12:01pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Yes Bro...

If rape is a crime... And u allow it peacefully..

Later to react.. It means u are partner in crime.

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by henribj(m): 12:11pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

I wonder if you have ever been in "shock".
If you have, then you won't write what you wrote up there

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Insectkiller: 12:12pm On Jun 29, 2019
Kemi adetiba must surely be a victim of rape.. can you see how she narrated their characteristics...

Hmmm... What is it abt d ckza man.. Is it bad for a Man to be handsome...and all this naija fake celeebrity wants to bring d man down..

Meshaanu! Apiaa
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by nimabusta(f): 12:15pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

People have different ways of reacting to things.. People can be dull or are unsure of what to do in cases like that .Speak only for yourself!
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by GraGra247(m): 12:35pm On Jun 29, 2019
Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Please share this your false rape story everywhere online. It has opened my eyes more.

Hopefully it will open the eyes of blinded Nigerians everywhere and liberate countless innocent men that have been brutalized and locked up over rape that never happened

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by zomoears(m): 12:38pm On Jun 29, 2019
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..

I think this case is more about sexual manipulation and sexual predation than it is about rape. At 15 she was naive and was manipulated by a pastor who was supposed to be her spiritual chaperone.

It is a gross abuse of previlege!
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

U are speaking out of gross ignorance
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mysteryman2014: 12:42pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Sure that's what the bible says
, there must be resistance expect in an isolated place where no one is around
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mvem(m): 12:44pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.
you are very wrong....do you know what it means to be shocked and not able to scream. Do you think intimidation can only come with a weapon but not by words.
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by mvem(m): 12:46pm On Jun 29, 2019
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..
so someone can't be intimidated by words it must be with weapon.. Guy in the right situation you can intimidate someone without any weapon like a young person without the person screaming
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by therajah: 1:36pm On Jun 29, 2019
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..

Have you ever heard of 'statutory rape' ?
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Ekaka1(m): 1:41pm On Jun 29, 2019
Iyajelili:
What she said is actually true especially in Africa where the victim (female) have to live with the shame if the rape comes to light. This is the major reason why victims don't talk out or go to court because no one would believe you and you'd be left to bear the shame alone.
I know a rape victim that even her family didn't believe her story not until after some years. Now she has trust issue even with her family members
That's the second part actually. The first part is the utter shock the victim might receive because they don't know how to react.. In the specific case making rounds...busola said, she and her siblings simply looked up to biodynamic as a "father" figure and of course "pastor" .

The Op is right..people react differently to rape, a friend of mine told me how an "uncle" living in their "yard" many years ago raped her when she was 9 and she tried telling her mom when she got back even with the evidence, but the woman told her to shut up as she did not know what the implication of accusing such a man will mean in the compound...that incident affected her and strained her relationship with her mom to an extent till date....these things are neither here nor there...I mean a 16 or 17 year old would probably not fight too hard or even scream too loud if the predator starts out telling her 'it's not what you think it's gonna happen..." blablabla ..

What do I even know...scream or , no screams and fight some people will still pick a hole in your experience but nobody can take your experience away with their bogus and ammature investigative analysis. An adult can pin you down with his/her dead weight and simply signal that you don't even open your mouth...they don't need a weapon to do that

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by HomeOfMe(f): 2:06pm On Jun 29, 2019
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..
How do you expect a minor prolly between 10/13 to resist a full fleged nan? The minor might not even understand what is being din to her.
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by laudate: 2:08pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.
nwaguy01:
Hmmm...rape without the victim resisting it,how is that one rape?
I agree to this when the victim is either sleeping or the rapist wields a weapon ...if not ..its not rape..
Wubbish! There are cases where people can be paralysed with fear, in the face of aggression or in a crisis, that they become too powerless to respond, or even fight! angry

Jaynom:

Smh. In psychology there's something called LEARNED HELPLESSNESS. people respond to threats differently! Some Faint. Some shit in their pants. Some run. Some scream. some fight. Some kill themselves instead. Some just stand there!
Thank you, o! Tell them ....please. undecided
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by LordAdam16: 2:39pm On Jun 29, 2019
Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Thankfully you had evidence to acquit yourself. I sincerely hope you've healed tho'.

-Lord

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Femeto: 2:41pm On Jun 29, 2019
Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.
Terrible. A full man climbed a 17 year old and covered her mouth is not rape abi.
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Zombiekiller010: 2:47pm On Jun 29, 2019
LordAdam16:


Thankfully you had evidence to acquit yourself. I sincerely hope you've healed tho'.

-Lord
i haven't, i was harassed and embarrassed in public, imagine moving around my street with thought of been wrongly accused of rape
Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by LordAdam16: 2:54pm On Jun 29, 2019
Zombiekiller010:
i haven't, i was harassed and embarrassed in public, imagine moving around my street with thought of been wrongly accused of rape

Sorry to hear that. That said, our experiences mold us. Everyone goes through terrible sh*t at some point and very few have access to professional help. I do hope you don't let it keep you down. Life is a MF, but we've got to thrive in adversity. That's what makes the success, the laughs, and the good times worth it.

Hope that helps.

-Lord

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Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Olibboy: 2:59pm On Jun 29, 2019
maybachmusic:
timis wife is lying

what happened to the avengers happened to her

she could not live with her failure of being used and dumped and it led her right back to COZA

who drinks and chills after rape sessions


next was on the bonnet

guess pastor was also a mechanic


undecided undecided
Busola is just an attention seeker. the bonnet part says it all

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