₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
This comment of yours is truly silly.
Try not to be insensitive it takes a brave and supportive man to do this.
If she is a victim of rape then you have no idea the trauma this woman must have pass through no need justifying nonsense.
Only an idiot would try to trivalise rape and it's victims.

HBB1:
If you are so concerned about what people think of you, you would not go far in life!

With your attitude, you can't go far in life!

People came out and accused Weinstein, Cosby, M. Jackson, Trump, Spacey... A rapist is a mad dog that should be put down, but you, in your infinite stupidity, are only concerned about your inconsequential name!

What's that your name again? Anybody knows it? Anybody will remember it?

Guess not, 'cos you are a nobody!

Any 'damaged' person you see today has a factor that tilted them over the edge-- violence, rape, emotional abuse, neglect, death...

Depression, suicide, homosexuality, violent crimes,drugs... all, have a connection to some factor in the life of the sufferer/perpetrator.

The girl was probably a normal girl before all this happened and pushed her down the spiral of wrong decisions.

If you want to discredit her because she had kids out of wedlock... you are an idiot!

When a guy rapes you through your dumb 'ass,' then you have earned the Stripes to deliver your puerile judgement!

freg2000:
You are " mumustically" stupid for comparing African unique cultures with others. I don't know the kind of family you come from,well those who are from a good family with a good name will connect. You dare not drop my family name in messy situations. Now we will soon know all the frogs that slept with the lady apart from the husband. No be today.
The family name has become a negative brand. I don't even know what some people called marriage that you ask your wife to be making noise on matters that happen in her parent house. Now they have murdered sleep, phone call here and there, restating dirty stories. I know some responsible friends of the family will drawback. Awon omo irankiran. Iya ide, oke mumu. Iwo gan suegbe.
You can also encourage your wife to come out and make such dirty noise. Eyin omo irankiran yi

SEGLIZ:
Mr WE.
I hail o.
you always do captivate me with your submission. even in the heat of argument you do your presentation without burning emotional energy.
such a gift. a blend of wisdom ballistics, òkò òrò to máa fó glass.
you just chose to conceal your ID but some days I would unravel the mystery behind that username.
over flowing wisdom be added to your days and years.

trueking:
Jobless people, they should protest Buhari's tyrannical leadership.
Protest based on one person's word. aren't they foolish?

internationalman:
This lady just opened the door for all the potential rape accusations..

Timi Dakolo if i were you I wouldn't allow my wife come out with this issue..

Now the whole of Nigeria now knows who has followed you to shag your wife. He even passed through the road before you...

You will soon realize that you are a loser in this case when Nigerians start to taunt you with it years from now

thepatroit:
Her case may sound silly but it MIGHT be true. My sister was sexually molested even at a younger age. It was very many years later she told me. The weird thing was that my brother's and I were at home that day. We were in the living room watching television while they were in the guest room. He told her to keep saying a particular thing so we wouldn't suspect what was going on while he abused her. We were all very young then and were NTA 2 channel 5 addicts, so we didn't see it out of the ordinary that our senior cousin was with our sister alone in the room.

I asked her why she didn't speak up then so the guy would be lynched. She said she was afraid no one would believe her, the fear of being called a spoilt child for saying such things and the fear of my cousin too who began treating her like dirt but we were too young to notice then. She was traumatized too.

So don't ask why rape victims don't come out early to talk. No one in our family knows this except me. It would hurt my parents terribly if they did, so it's our little secret

I don't know if Busola is saying the truth or not, just saying there are many rape victims out there who can't talk out of fear or one reason or the other.

Bizmagnet:
What if the man is innocent? A rapist (pastor) came to your house by 6.30A.M and you couldn't shout till he did it. He still had the gut to go downstairs to pick something and came back to the same you, yet you couldn't shout all through the period despite the fact that your sister was around in the same building. All through the years you couldn't call him out or sue him despite the fact that your family hasn't been poor. It's now you just woke up from your slumber and remembered someone raped you...you can now just shout! This is not a claim that the pastor is innocent but this "shout" is very suspicious. Now you're gathering vulnerabe people who were not there or living witnesses when the pastor performed the alleged act, and these hungry people will boldly protest and deride the MOG who may be innocent. The way people use wifi dey collect generational curses no be small.

Bizmagnet:
What if the man is innocent? A rapist (pastor) came to your house by 6.30A.M and you couldn't shout till he did it. He still had the gut to go downstairs to pick something and came back to the same you, yet you couldn't shout all through the period despite the fact that your sister was around in the same building. All through the years you couldn't call him out or sue him despite the fact that your family hasn't been poor. It's now you just woke up from your slumber and remembered someone raped you...you can now just shout! This is not a claim that the pastor is innocent but this "shout" is very suspicious. Now you're gathering vulnerabe people who were not there or living witnesses when the pastor performed the alleged act, and these hungry people will boldly protest and deride the MOG who may be innocent. The way people use wifi dey collect generational curses no be small.

thepatroit:
Her case may sound silly but it MIGHT be true. My sister was sexually molested even at a younger age. It was very many years later she told me. The weird thing was that my brother's and I were at home that day. We were in the living room watching television while they were in the guest room. He told her to keep saying a particular thing so we wouldn't suspect what was going on while he abused her. We were all very young then and were NTA 2 channel 5 addicts, so we didn't see it out of the ordinary that our senior cousin was with our sister alone in the room.

I asked her why she didn't speak up then so the guy would be lynched. She said she was afraid no one would believe her, the fear of being called a spoilt child for saying such things and the fear of my cousin too who began treating her like dirt but we were too young to notice then. She was traumatized too.

So don't ask why rape victims don't come out early to talk. No one in our family knows this except me. It would hurt my parents terribly if they did, so it's our little secret

I don't know if Busola is saying the truth or not, just saying there are many rape victims out there who can't talk out of fear or one reason or the other.

Ladyhippolyta88:
School yourself before commenting.
Under 18 is a minor sex with an underage is non consensual and it is statutory rape whether or not she agree to the act. Whether teenage girls have sexual partners is not the issue if the sexual partner is sleeping with her under 18 he is raping her.
You have no idea you have not heard the stories of rape victims children are abused by family they see them and greet them everyday and still have no courage to speak out because of fear or lack of support from loved ones.
Anything is possible when rape is involved we react differently to trauma.

internationalman:
This lady just opened the door for all the potential rape accusations..

Timi Dakolo if i were you I wouldn't allow my wife come out with this issue..

Now the whole of Nigeria now knows who has followed you to shag your wife. He even passed through the road before you...

You will soon realize that you are a loser in this case when Nigerians start to taunt you with it years from now

Angelfrost:
Statutory rape is a law in Nigeria... Then, pray enlighten us why most Northern men are not in jail?

Does marriage make it justifiable?

Bizmagnet:
What if the man is innocent? A rapist (pastor) came to your house by 6.30A.M and you couldn't shout till he did it. He still had the gut to go downstairs to pick something and came back to the same you, yet you couldn't shout all through the period despite the fact that your sister was around in the same building. All through the years you couldn't call him out or sue him despite the fact that your family hasn't been poor. It's now you just woke up from your slumber and remembered someone raped you...you can now just shout! This is not a claim that the pastor is innocent but this "shout" is very suspicious. Now you're gathering vulnerabe people who were not there or living witnesses when the pastor performed the alleged act, and these hungry people will boldly protest and deride the MOG who may be innocent. The way people use wifi dey collect generational curses no be small.

Sanchez01:
EVEN IF SHE DID, SHE WAS 17! SHE WAS A MINOR. UNDER THE LAW, IT IS RAPE; STATUTORY RAPE!

Ladyhippolyta88:
School yourself before commenting.
Under 18 is a minor sex with an underage is non consensual and it is statutory rape whether or not she agree to the act. Whether teenage girls have sexual partners is not the issue if the sexual partner is sleeping with her under 18 he is raping her.
You have no idea you have not heard the stories of rape victims children are abused by family they see them and greet them everyday and still have no courage to speak out because of fear or lack of support from loved ones.
Anything is possible when rape is involved we react differently to trauma.

thepatroit:
Her case may sound silly but it MIGHT be true. My sister was sexually molested even at a younger age. It was very many years later she told me. The weird thing was that my brother's and I were at home that day. We were in the living room watching television while they were in the guest room. He told her to keep saying a particular thing so we wouldn't suspect what was going on while he abused her. We were all very young then and were NTA 2 channel 5 addicts, so we didn't see it out of the ordinary that our senior cousin was with our sister alone in the room.

I asked her why she didn't speak up then so the guy would be lynched. She said she was afraid no one would believe her, the fear of being called a spoilt child for saying such things and the fear of my cousin too who began treating her like dirt but we were too young to notice then. She was traumatized too.

So don't ask why rape victims don't come out early to talk. No one in our family knows this except me. It would hurt my parents terribly if they did, so it's our little secret

I don't know if Busola is saying the truth or not, just saying there are many rape victims out there who can't talk out of fear or one reason or the other.

bendike:
Even if all you say is true. She was bellow 18 and therefore a minor and not responsible for what ever happened. Under the law it is a criminal offense.

thepatroit:
Her case may sound silly but it MIGHT be true. My sister was sexually molested even at a younger age. It was very many years later she told me. The weird thing was that my brother's and I were at home that day. We were in the living room watching television while they were in the guest room. He told her to keep saying a particular thing so we wouldn't suspect what was going on while he abused her. We were all very young then and were NTA 2 channel 5 addicts, so we didn't see it out of the ordinary that our senior cousin was with our sister alone in the room.

I asked her why she didn't speak up then so the guy would be lynched. She said she was afraid no one would believe her, the fear of being called a spoilt child for saying such things and the fear of my cousin too who began treating her like dirt but we were too young to notice then. She was traumatized too.

So don't ask why rape victims don't come out early to talk. No one in our family knows this except me. It would hurt my parents terribly if they did, so it's our little secret

I don't know if Busola is saying the truth or not, just saying there are many rape victims out there who can't talk out of fear or one reason or the other.

Officialgarri:
Nonsense. Na bullet and grenade dem go use pursue all of una, insha Allah.

If they had use this energy to stage a protest in the National assembly or disrupted a gathering of politicians, Nigeria would have been better.

Now you want to go and protest over something you don't even have a tangible evidence.

Profkenny1:
Under what law in Nigeria Y'all dumb youths neither read nor do research

The age of consent in Nigeria is 11 not 18 !!!