truth be told,

she maybe having sex with another woman(& maybe another man-cuz of da STD).

try to have a private discussion with her about her recent sexual behaviors to u,

hear from her

HitSong:

You are your own problem...


You married a girl that you probably didn't deflower and you're still giving her head (technically sucking all other guys sperm that has been deposited in her)
SHE EVEN GAVE YOU STD MEANING THAT SHE'S CHEATING
THE TRUTH IS THAT, YOU ARE OUT OF HER LEAGUE AND YOU NO LONGER SATISFY HER.
MOVE ON!

#DON'T MARRY A LEFTOVER

.Help me tell am o , how some women get to catch this kind of Men baffles me .. why would you be eating a pussy you never disflowered .... I get sucked from my woman all the time and I had never eaten her pussy I told her I can't because u didnt wait for me to be disflowered ..

I feel only married people who have first hand experience are only allowed to give an advise on this ...... since am not I will only tell the OP turn to God if you believe in him to put you through......

is just so funny Wen you see even 18yrs old boy/girls dropping advise on marital issues..... I think is foolish given advise on something I have no experience or know anything about.

Bro madam has some explaining to do,u need to know how she got the STD. U just may not be the only one eating her coochie

Am sorry to say this but I think your wife is a lesbian!!! You need to spy on her like seriously oo

domino4211:
Stupid wife.. Kukuma cut your head and give it to her to chop.. Headmistress..

chukwu ipob

enny234:

STDs or STIs are highly unlikely to be transmitted through the toilet. Be informed. Cheers

I disagree with you and I demand that you conduct a research on this. Stop being fixated in a box of outdated knowledge. The reality is that STIs and STDs can be transmitted as toilet disease or infection.

Take her to go see a counselor and make sure the two of you bare your mind there. There is different between a LovePeddler and a wife. She should be made to know the difference

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

Am as confused as your question asked.this man need to make research on this ur great question before we decide if she is cheating with a man or woman.that is where the bottom line lye.a man can give a crazy head to a woman and we are here thinking it a woman.watch lesbian porn does not give a hint dat she one,she might just b looking at reactions of the woman and how the man are doing it.we can't tell who she is cheating with.
Mr man need to do underground investigation on her and not ask her again.since is not telling you Notting

Wallade:


I disagree with you and I demand that you conduct a research on this. Stop being fixated in a box of outdated knowledge. The reality is that STIs and STDs can be transmitted as toilet disease or infection.

Lol.OK, cheers

Bro I feel your pain.

Lesbianism and homosexuality is a spirit that can be transferred to one from a possessed person. That is why when a Lesbian touches a straight woman, the straight woman feels utterly disgusted at first but if she is not strong, the disgust wil start turning into cravings of that same act she hates ( the spirit has been transferred to her).

Your wife may have been possessed by this spirit of lesbianism either through her Lesbian friend or through watching Lesbian pornography. The good news is that she can be delivered, through fervent prayers. I won't advice you to take her to church because their are many false churches now but if you know a strong deliverance pastor you can go to him for prayers. My advice is this:

Repent from all ways you may be annoying God and then go to him in prayers.

Download warfare prayers against sexual perversion and sexual demons and pray it fervently every night with your wife with dry fasting. ( try to convince her to pray with you) or pray alone if she refuses.

Do the above for a month and come back to testify.

God bless your home.

Hyacenth22:
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.

I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.

Hyacenth22:
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.

I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.

Somebody differentiated various types of female sexual orientation up there for you. Your wife is a Lesbian and she recently found out. Nothing you can do can change her, I dated a Lesbian for about two years, her reaction to sex was similar to that of your wife all the time I didn't know she is a Lesbian. Your marriage will only survive if you can find a way to forgo sex with your wife and still keeps your marriage. If you are banking on your wife's sexual appetite for you to keep your marriage, then you are working on an already failed project. Work on finding the women in her circle, you will find the truth.

Samakus:
Nawao. Person go hustle money finish, marry woman put for house, everyday no rest. Na so so think think im go dey do.

That is why it's not good to de marry because of love alone , .imagine spending a lot of money Tru courting and wedding proper now comes in to give me headache ..I. Would need to tell her it's high time she goes back to her parents house o

Women are very good at manipulating men emotionally.
You need sound emotional intelligence to understand that ur wife is manipulating u.
M9st times, wateva they tell u they dnt like is wat they like d most.
Always make ur woman comfy to tell u her sexual fetish. Dnt see that as a bad tin.
I had an ex who opened up to me that their male dog at home gives her head n bleeps her once in a while n she enjoys it cos dogs know how to suck ass n pussy very well. Some of ur gfs n wives hav such fetishes but will never ever open up to u due to fears of stigmatization.
Dnt be modest wit sex issues wit ur spouse

Hyacenth22:
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.

I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.

Oga you sef watch some lesbian porn n see how its done , flicky flicky

elmagnifico411:
Now we know the problem isn’t the ‘fatal issue’ in her family. She’s experienced something different and she wants u to live up to the nonsense. I sometimes give my wife head and I’ve never contacted any std. oga, your madam dey waka

Stop giving head to women.
It's a very foolish thing to do.
Medically, the vagina area is one of the most dirty part of a woman .
No matter how well they wash it, it will still be dirty.
Did you know that sperm can hide and stay alive in the vagina for 5 days?
So when you give head, you're literally sucking or licking out your sperm and other guys sperm that has been deposited in that vagina.
And for the fact that, no be only don even fûck that Toto before, it's a very foolish thing to do .

Bro can you be celibate for 3 months? Just ignore her sexwise for the 3 months and see her reaction.
With that, you should know if she is getting it from somewhere else.

dondave61:
Am sorry to say this but I think your wife is a lesbian!!! You need to spy on her like seriously oo

You right.he really need to spy on her and need not rush it because now dat has ask her she might just be more careful with her secret.he need to pretend all is well for like a month and start his spy duty careful.there is more to the matter at hand and I think she might be cheating with either a man because I doubt with a woman becuz of the std.i don't think Pussy grinding cause STD.
I think we nid doctors in the house on this matter too.

Safitu:
Her watching lesbian porn doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian. Most straight women watch lesbian porn because it’s more stimulating.

so how did she get STD then? It isn't a bathroom infection,you know?


STD's can even be contacted through towels.

Based on experience...SHE has a lesbian Partner, n she is transforming to a full blown LESBIAN...this truth is gonna hurt...if this is the case..ur wife is gone..u can never satisfy her like her partner...the best tin to do now is let her be or act as if you not interested again..pretend as if you have a sidechick...only jealousy can a woman com around to save her marriage..but after ol this and she still don't care..my dear..Goan Get A Sidechick for real....Just pray that she is not turning into lesbian...dat would b a nightmare

yankison:



Stop been a weakling nah which one is cheating is not your stuff .. do you want to continue to be a sex slave to your so called wife .na wao ... Find another lady that can always satisfy you sexually . They are all over she is going to understand you got a wife .. there are some problem you don't treat with a gentle man sense .. which one is all this .... When you don't have her time anymore then her eyes would clear also don't forget to get evidence of her been a lesbian or outrightly cheating on you . Men you have to keep your head up . Do you want to give yourself HBP because of a woman if you get stroke she won't be home all day to take care of you to.... Wake up ..that's bullshit to your marriage

Gbam!!!!
The woman is not matured at all... She is still behaving like a single lady who want to explore life alone. Any sexuality she explore outside marriage translate to cheating. Evidence or no evidence...
She is manipulating the op sexually in his home.. .

That's is serious..

Op needs a real life mentor...

How his wife's friend determine the kind of sex they have is very baffling

Please tell us how

Frankyboy1:



Please shut up in issues beyond your scope, his wife is seeing someone else and is sexually and emotionally committed to that person, that's why the emotional and sexual disconnections, if she wasn't,then she will be eager to work things out with him, now run back to ur jamb books

Why is she more sexually and emotionally committed to that person to a point of emotionally disconnecting from her husband? Cause whoever that person is gives her the type of sex she desires oral S*x which her husband doesn't like, she even made it known to her husband that that's what she wants the man reluctantly did it twice but did it the wrong way,
She's just not getting the type of sex, she thirst for simple
Save the jamb insult cause u don't know me

That is sexual dysfunction... which could be organic or psychogenic
from what u said it is likely psychogenic...
She would need to consult sexual therapist for psychosexual therapy
Sexual therapist are in major hospitals in Nigeria
It will resolve
Fear less

yankison:




.Help me tell am o , how some women get to catch this kind of Men baffles me .. why would you be eating a pussy you never disflowered .... I get sucked from my woman all the time and I had never eaten her pussy I told her I can't because u didnt wait for me to be disflowered ..

Of course.
The pussy is a very dirty part of a woman Medically. It houses thousands of pathogens.
It can hide sperm cells alive for 5 days.
How dare you suck or lick a pûssy you know fully well is being fûck by another guy?
SOME GUYS ARE JUST SO FOOLISH.
FOOLISH SPERM EATERS

If you want the truth here it is...

1. She is getting it better some other place or way.
2. The presence of STD clearly suggest that there is a third person involved.
3. This third person could either be from you or her, but if you are 100% it’s not you, then your wife cheated or is cheating on you.
4. Her search history clearly reflects that her sexual libido is there. So eliminate the family "issue" possibility for clarity.
5. I pray for you that she is not a lesbian, because if she is truly, you’re done like corn.
6. You can have deep discussions with her on WHY things changed, but bear in mind that the true response might not make you happy.

My advise, just continue lubricating n doing when necessary to avoid temptation, discuss with her to see if it’s resolvable and pray about for God’s guidance on what to do.

liberalchick:
Op, it doesn’t mean your wife is cheating don’t let NL ruin your marriage. Most porn are geared towards a male viewer, so most times the only female friendly porn available are lesbian flicks. So some women that watch porn, watch lesbian porn. Straight women are not as turned off as straight men are to anything gay. Now you guys need to have a talk on why she started watching porn, I suspect she doesn’t feel sexually satisfied.

Her saying “you are not doing it well” just means she is not getting any satisfaction from the way you ‘do’ it. You don’t need to be getting ‘it’ elsewhere to know when you are not sexually satisfied. Again, talk to her, ask her what she wants and why lately she is no longer as excited as she used to be. I will look for the article about female friendly porn, will post it when I see it.

Modified
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a61995/straight-women-lesbian-porn/

What of her contacting STD? You deliberately kept mute on it. Let me watch you explain it away.

It is not possible, I expect the OP to be smarter judging from his write up but I guess he’s lillylivered about confronting the wife on her adulterous ways. One reason a lady married or not will get tired of a sexual partner is trying another partner not necessarily a better one but different.

I think the OP should look harder to see the signs of a cheat, people are smarter at hiding cheating trails than the other. Imagining thinking it’s only SM signs of cheating can be discovered ?! What if she cheats with her married boss n they both have profound understanding of restricting any communication outside the office to avoid slip ups ?!

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

romenna:
Women are very good at manipulating men emotionally.
You need sound emotional intelligence to understand that ur wife is manipulating u.
M9st times, wateva they tell u they dnt like is wat they like d most.
Always make ur woman comfy to tell u her sexual fetish. Dnt see that as a bad tin.
I had an ex who opened up to me that their male dog at home gives her head n bleeps her once in a while n she enjoys it cos dogs know how to suck ass n pussy very well. Some of ur gfs n wives hav such fetishes but will never ever open up to u due to fears of stigmatization.
Dnt be modest wit sex issues wit ur spouse

I love the last sentence ... Gentleman too much for this man , and he is becoming a sex slave already through the wife manipulations .that man is weak

I can't even imagine sticking my mouth to a pvssy

Mrduck77:
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God will punish your generation with this lies