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Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
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Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Realist5: 6:21pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
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Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by StPete: 6:25pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Aren’t you the owner of your own land? What’s his controlling issues with you? You already have a written agreement with the buyer which you must honour. Unless your dad owns or partly owns a part of the land originally, I will advise you to proceed with the sales. Remember someone else may do same thing to you. 3 Likes |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by ahnie: 6:29pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Stick to the first agreed terms.. Your kind of papa seff |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Pavore9: 7:00pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
When fathers or mothers refuse to acknowledge their children have become adults, they feel they are entitled to control their lives Parents can always advice but not control their adult children who have their own lives to live. Fulfil the agreement you had regarding the land, get the balance and move on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Amuocha: 7:22pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
But where is lalasticlala sef |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by sisisioge: 8:09pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
The story is quite confusing? If the land is indeed yours then go ahead and do as you please with it. Your dad shouldn't have to be defining what to do with it. By the way, act quickly before the buyer gets weary of the whole thing and gets you arrested. |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by IamSoProlific: 8:24pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr: All this issue on you alone There's something you're not telling us, how did you get the money to do all those stuffs all by yourself, even paid unwarranted 20k for this cruel time. The truth shall set you free, but it will first piss you off. Be honest bro, are you a yahooboy
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Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:44pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr: i will go straight to the point the issue is about land but you gave us the story about marriage etc which has nothing to do with land back to the land issue you didnt tell us who owns the land you or your father or both off you we can not give advise when we dont know who really owns the land |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: I started with the issues of marriage cos it all started during and after my marriage, people may asked why I didn't tell him before putting it up for sales. I owe the land not my dad |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
IamSoProlific:No sir, can you now advice me on what to do |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by mankettle(m): 9:10pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
he be like say na ur papa get the land? if not what is his business on how u take care of your property. however I will understand if his reservation is that u are selling your assets, in that case ensure u let him know that you are getting another immediately. apart from that, he can only advise and not insist. |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
mankettle:I don't want him to know I'm getting another cos that will make him think things are ok for me. His level of demanding nor be here |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by IamSoProlific: 9:39pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr: I'm pretty sure you have uncles who are his brothers, go see them, explain stuffs to them in greater detail. Suggest they hold a meeting for the two of you(you're old enough to address and call your dad to order respectfully, even to summon him for a meeting if need be-and this is the need) but let his brothers (your uncles) do that, with you in attendance. Get his friend(s) whom he holds in high esteem to be in attendance too possibly your religious leader(if he's closer to one-only those he's in good relationship with. As simple as ABC. Even if he's iron man with no heart, his head go cool down. Thank me later!!! |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by mankettle(m): 9:40pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr:hmm. then scope him. just tell him you are getting one, and when he asks say something pressing came up. |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
IamSoProlific:My uncle who is my dad eldest brother knows about his attitude during my marriage ceremony, my dad even made a statement on the day of my marriage saying "because you don get small money you think say u go fit control me or tell me what to do". His brother my uncle was surprise but said nothing to my dad, he only calm me down not to react |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by IamSoProlific: 10:12pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr: Your pman na balotelli oooo. Still meet the brother and his friends, religious leaders inclusive. No man is an island, not even your dad. Your uncle is probably waiting for your approach. So approach and reason him for a meeting. |
Re: Land Issue Between Me And My Dad by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:40pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
YoungFr: by law your father has no right to tell you want to with your property aka your land in this case as a father he can advise you what to do but the decision can always be yours but also some people do what parents say just a sign of respect but sometimes respect dont pay bills or give you more money the decision is yours on your land, you either follow what your father says as a sign of respect or your stand by the right being the land owner and you can sell to anyone 1 Like |
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