AntiWailer:


If your sister come out to say somebody raped her.

I am sure you won't ask all the crazy questions u people ask. Neither will u say she enjoyed it.

I understand the guilty conscience where u rapists try to tell urself a rape is not actually a rape.

They shout go and report to Police. A lady ran to the police station after a rape and the policeman on duty ask to see the pussssy raped.

So if the only way to heal is speaking about their experience. If u dnt know what these victims go through, Just shut the fck up.

Tokunbo Ajayi died due to this kind of shame sluting rape victims.

As for the rubbish Buhari analogy, Get well soon.

On point! Only a criminal will fight justice!

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

The reason why they decided to tell Nigerians is what I don't understand, as if they've forgotten how we behave in this country, small thing now,they will start mocking her, calling her names. They really bleeped up, they should have moved on, they have their kids future to protect, yet they did not apply their common sense, now Nigerians have moved on to bbnaija

Even though rape is bad, but who will bell d cat...

As a woman u need wisdom in sex & rape cases when u re in Nigeria.

Truth b told, the OP made some sense...

See unless Timi's daughters dont marry in Nigeria, especially from southern Nigeria

.. because by default they will be termed daughters of a prostitute mother... and the grooms family may raise some eyebrows..

Sex stigmas hardly leave women life especially in Nigeria.

Let him go and do DNA for all his children,am not sure is the father of all ds children,later ds woman will still bring him their fathers

I am not surprised about this statement as it from rivers man. Useless things

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

They are celebrities, I guess social media won't be an issue for them...

AntiWailer:


A lady once reported and the Police Man asked to see the pussy that was raped.

Until it happens to some one really close, we will not stop all this victimisation or rape victims.

Yeah,she is a popular person and get audience with the elite police .you know in Nigeria the low ranking officers are the ones doing does things.it was just an hype to bring the pastor and his church down.its a mind game .

SenorFax:
Nobody knew anything about the rape before ooo,

Now the whole Nigerians home and abroad knew how she was disvirgined. Be careful how you seek justice, you might end up humiliating yourself. Especially when you are know by celebrities.

If you see her in 10years time, the first thing that will come to ones mind is "that's the lady that was raped". She just completely stigmatized herself, with the help of Nigerians.

It's comments like this that make rape victims suffer in silence. What most Nigerians don't understand is that even if these victims become grand mothers that violation still affects them not until the rapist gets justice. We have got to get rid of this kind of mentality, so many underage girls are being raped by people in high positions and so many of us just turn a blind eye. Enough is enough.

This Timi Dakolo issue showed most most of the members on nairaland are either complete iiidiots or rapist themselves. They keep bringing up different stupid illogical posts just to downplay a crime committed by their mentor.

Some iiidiots even claim Timi and Busola met in Coza where Timi was the choirmaster. This has been proved to be a blatant falsehood being peddle by the pedophilia pastor and his sheepish followers. Below is a link to a thread on this very forum created in 2014 where the couple explained how they met at House on The Rock as far back as 2010. Yet some iiidiots were busy asking why she still attended Coza and married Timi in coza and even accepted a car from the pedophile as wedding present.

https://www.nairaland.com/2056464/timi-dakolo-share-how-he

I think we need to verify most of those gibberish we swallow.

thorpido:
This one knows nothing about rape,it's effects on the victims and how letting it out is the greatest path to healing.

Perhaps,he is a rapist himself.

Silence enables rapists.

Letting it out how?
She got married.
Had kids.
She's enjoying the good life




Suddenly she remembered she got raped?

How have they created awareness? Or everybody doesnt already know rape, lets call a spade a spade, he has disgraced himself.

SillyeRabbit:
This is not an intelligent comment. Why base all your point on social media this...social media that? They have successfully created more awareness against rape, cautioning a lot of guys now.

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nrexzy:
He disgraced not just his family buh his generation....

Don't you know this is an adulterous and perverse generation.
Timi dakolo successful proved to the whole world that they are part such Generation.

Nothing do them .... Rubbish combinations.

Shit!

Duru009:
Timi doesn't know what he has done to his family. In 4 or 5 years time he will certainly know.

The stigma alone in time to come will be unbearable !!

Which stigma? Is Busola a single girl that is still hoping to get married? More than a third to half of Nigerian ladies have been raped before, so is being a rape victim unheard of?

In 4 or 5 years time, most people won't care about this anymore. It's heartless people like you that will want to keep using it against her. The important thing is that the pastor has been exposed, and many other girls who would have been his victims in the future and be damaged for life have been saved by this singular move. The pastor on the other hand may also genuinely repent and turn a new leaf following this exposure, and his soul will be saved from eternal damnation.

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

Get the point. Many of you are too one directional in thinking after you will say Buhari is hard head wereas he got it from you.

Many public are divided on weather she was rape. Not everyone believe her story. As long as a court did not pronounce vedict he is still innocent. No educated rational person will take that woman serious. Only emotional sympathizers. She never took the case to court so what justice did she attain with her coming out

No one had the privilege of even question her account.

Even on this forum you can tell opinion are divided. So what victory did she reach?

Thought Timi Dakolo said he married his wife a virgin? So how come she was rape at the age of 18?
Nigerians think before u criticize anyone

ndindiatu:
I am not surprised about this statement as it from rivers man. Useless things

.... And I'm not surprised at your clueless response.

Nairalander dumbfoolery .

It goes both ways but timi should have been wiser. Even my wife thinks what they did is foolish.

MrMou:


And so

So in the next ten years when I see your beloved rapist of a pastor, his wife or children, what will be the first thing that'll come to ones mind about them?

favinvest:
Even though rape is bad, but who will bell d cat...

As a woman u need wisdom in sex & rape cases when u re in Nigeria.

Truth b told, the OP made some sense...

See unless Timi's daughters dont marry in Nigeria, especially from southern Nigeria

.. because by default they will be termed daughters of a prostitute mother... and the grooms family may raise some eyebrows..

Sex stigmas hardly leave women life especially in Nigeria.

Smh.

Helen Paul was birthed through a rape incident. Today she is happily married while some people from the purest family lineage are yet to get any man look their side.

You people think all men are docile and think like some barbaric 19th century iiidiots?

The world is moving abeg

Brightest23:
Thought Timi Dakolo said he married his wife a virgin? So how come she was rape at the age of 18?
Nigerians think before u criticize anyone

Provide a link to a post where he made this statement please.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

As a celebrity even without going to social media the news will surely be there.

You failed to give opinion on how to fight for Justice, simply because you are yet to mature I am sure in few years you will regrets most of this comments for like. Most of your comments shows an adolescent with juvenile deliquescence.

No wonder men will continue to rape women and very soon men will also start raping men. .. because you will be disgraced when you speak up.. .I said it that most men speaking against Busola are either past rapists, active rapists or potential rapists. . Wacomzy. .. has been raped or must have raped.. .That's why to him it's a disgrace to speak out.. ... Celebrity Nansense

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

Maybe unlike you, he isn't sensitive to what Nigerians comment on social media.
Grow some balls Okay.
Its people like you who tell their children to shut up when a 'Man of God' touches their private parts. Because thats how you were trained. Others speak Up!
Many years from now, Nigerians will know who stood up against rape. She will be honoured. And you will live your life pleasing others.

They forget this

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

well said bro

timi market no sell again the only solution is to exposed her wife in supporting public disgrace

Housing:


As a celebrity even without going to social media the news will surely be there.

You failed to give opinion on how to fight for Justice, simply because you are yet to mature I am sure in few years you will regrets most of this comments for like. Most of your comments shows an adolescent with juvenile deliquescence.

God bless your kind mind and wisdom. “Anyone that can not afford data or have time to watch the whole interview which is an hour 55 mins. Is not fit to comment on Busola matter” .. Simple!!! Rape is bad..

There is no disgrace here

People of respectable status in society will look at him with respect, then nonentities and mongrels like Waconzy and some other nobodies on this thread, whose respect is inconsequential to Timi, will keep feeling important.

We have seen the caliber of people that have stood with the Dakolo family, a street urchin like Waconzy cannot even be in the same room with such people, so, I reckon Timi is in good company

Rape is a heinous crime. And please for all intent and purposes i am not saying the man is innocent neither is bisola guilty but all am saying is that before we all fold our sleeves and stone this man to death lets have a fair trial. Whoever gave the dakolos the impression that going on socia media to air this, made a bad judgement call it was simply a bad move. Now its not just about her story of "he raped me". The whole world now digs into her past and bring up all her dirty laundry that has completely discredited her story, a past that i dont think her own husband is aware of. So who then becomes the looser in all of this, ofcourse timi dakolo. What bisola should have fought for right from the outset is JUSTICE, not SYMPATHY! The more reason why she should have gone to court, bring this man to justice and if found guilty nigerians would be so PROUD that for once JUSTICE has been served in the matter of RAPE!

Exactly bro. same applies to reporting your marital matters with others. it simply ends up in them looking down on you. If you hurt take it calmly and move on. Don't be tempted to report your partner or anyone on any issue henceforth. Time heals. God heals. Silence heals.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

As in...What exactly was Timi Dakolo smoking when he allowed this to happen?

SageMK:


When a woman in your life gets raped and want to pursue justice, refer back to this comment and read it.

In court a rape victim's identity is hidden

AntiWailer:
F00lish idiot.

This is why the environment kept enabling rapists

The disgrace, the shame

The victim's life end up being messed up

How do you know he is a rapist. We're you there?