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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Toks2008(m): 4:26pm On Jun 29, 2019
peepydelano:
As good looking as you are,why do dirty.Stop it,its a disgusting act,stop giving head abi tongue

If I no give my wife head abeg nah wettin I gain?... Better wake up man and stop your Achaic reasoning...

The woman's vag is cleaner than your mouth except the one that has an infection.

The acidic taste of the place is because it has a microflora called lactobacillus acidophilus and this is responsible for making the place free of germs so don't think it is one dirty place...e clean pass your mouth.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by bengasyl(m): 4:28pm On Jun 29, 2019
[quote author=Hyacenth22 post=79765713]I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos[/you believe this story, you can believe any cheat]
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


If I no give my wife head abeg nah wettin I gain?... Better wake up man and stop your Achaic reasoning...

The woman's vag is cleaner than your mouth except the one that has an infection.

The acidic taste of the place is because it has a microflora called lactobacillus acidophilus and this is responsible for making the place free of germs so don't think it is one dirty place...e clean pass your mouth.
please stop already,i don't want to throw up again.acidic taste my foot.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Toks2008(m): 4:37pm On Jun 29, 2019
peepydelano:
please stop already,i don't want to throw up again.acidic taste my foot.

I know people like you...laslas you go give your wife head.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Ebendo123(m): 4:40pm On Jun 29, 2019
Zhirinovsky:
Bro I feel your pain.

Lesbianism and homosexuality is a spirit that can be transferred to one from a possessed person. That is why when a Lesbian touches a straight woman, the straight woman feels utterly disgusted at first but if she is not strong, the disgust wil start turning into cravings of that same act she hates ( the spirit has been transferred to her).

Your wife may have been possessed by this spirit of lesbianism either through her Lesbian friend or through watching Lesbian pornography. The good news is that she can be delivered, through fervent prayers. I won't advice you to take her to church because their are many false churches now but if you know a strong deliverance pastor you can go to him for prayers. My advice is this:

Repent from all ways you may be annoying God and then go to him in prayers.

Download warfare prayers against sexual perversion and sexual demons and pray it fervently every night with your wife with dry fasting. ( try to convince her to pray with you) or pray alone if she refuses.

Do the above for a month and come back to testify.

God bless your home.
Church again? Mek pastor go rape person wife join in the name of deliverance. #tufiakwa#
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


I know people like you...laslas you go give your wife head.
never never never.same place urine flows from.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 29, 2019
djon78:



Its not about going beyond limit to please a woman.
You dey talk divorce like you think say it is easy.
You divorce first one, come divorce the second one?

Most times many men are very selfish when it comes to making love to there wife.
They only care about themselves.
They don't care about there partner.


Majority of educated women you see today are very exposed. Even the ones that claim good clean girls. Women are very secretive, they can hide away things.
Don't you think most of this new sexual expressions are motivated by X rated videos

Do you think her Wifd should be watching porns or making sexual explorations without carrying him along??

Do you think it is proper for her friend to suggest MouthAction as a kinky sexual methods for the couple??

I think the woman is deviating from the essence of marriage. She still behave like a single lady.. .

I hope the guy impregnate her fast in order to take her to another dimension of being a woman...
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Anijay1212(m): 4:52pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
if you act like NEPA in your relationship dont complain when your partner brings in generator but where did she get the STD from and how did she know you are not giving her head correctly?
Sence full ya head.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by djon78(m): 5:07pm On Jun 29, 2019
eni4real:
Don't you think most of this new sexual expressions are motivated by X rated videos

Do you think her Wifd should be watching porns or making sexual explorations without carrying him along??

Do you think it is proper for her friend to suggest MouthAction as a kinky sexual methods for the couple??

I think the woman is deviating from the essence of marriage. She still behave like a single lady.. .

I hope the guy impregnate her fast in order to take her to another dimension of being a woman...

Oga all this your talk is not for these modern day women. They know and are exposed to too much.
And if you as a man don't up your game, they start looking somewhere else.
Look at this ops case, that woman has been exposed to something she never experienced before. That is the way women behave. That's how Eve was deceived and led Adam to sin. They are weaker and liable for there head to be turned or seduced easier.
It behoves everyman to keep watch and protect his family, to chase away trespassers and whatever it takes for a man to be watchful, he should do it.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jun 29, 2019
djon78:


Oga all this your talk is not for these modern day women. They know and are exposed to too much.
And if you as a man don't up your game, they start looking somewhere else.
Look at this ops case, that woman has been exposed to something she never experienced before. That is the way women behave. That's how Eve was deceived and led Adam to sin. They are weaker and liable for there head to be turned or seduced easier.
It behoves everyman to keep watch and protect his family, to chase away trespassers and whatever it takes for a man to be watchful, he should do it.
She must get busy then. An idle hand is a Devil workshop!!!

I get all your points tho...
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Iseddy: 5:36pm On Jun 29, 2019
did she uses public toilet? if yes, she can get infected from dere. as for sexual inactive, maybe a lesbian got to her because if she is seeing another man dat sudden change wouldn't occur.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by sunkieisland(m): 5:46pm On Jun 29, 2019
J111333:
Hmmm, something is not right. Actually she may not be cheating with a man but a fellow woman or porn videos.
Oga I would've said ignore her but since she's your wife, better turn FBI on her asap.

FBI as in Female Body Inspector?
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Sandony(f): 5:47pm On Jun 29, 2019
You should do more check on her... I think she's cheating but with a female. Sorry bro, you have to up your game with her
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Djbeezy23(m): 5:49pm On Jun 29, 2019
My people am a professional DJ I must say the high rate of lesbianism in Nigeria is alarming I DJ for most of there group they have cartel's an 80% of them are married women to very rich guys u can imaging ur self as a man being in the mist of over 50 women an I have them deferent type of group I play for there event so there is a possibility that woman is a lesbian period tend osheey

Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Toks2008(m): 6:30pm On Jun 29, 2019
peepydelano:
never never never.same place urine flows from.

Now I can see how naive you are......its not the same place o..there are two distinct holes there..

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by arrestdarrester: 7:52pm On Jun 29, 2019
Discreetly investigate her. Plant cameras around the sitting room and your bedroom. Go through her text messages. Don't just conclude it was the unsolved family issue. It may be more...
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


Now I can see how naive you are......its not the same place o..there are two distinct holes there..
whatever it is still disgusting.ewww
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Ayasayas(m): 8:15pm On Jun 29, 2019
Let her understand that u will have a date outside to satisfy yourself and see her reaction.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Modphase: 11:44pm On Jun 29, 2019
What a foolish comment. Na so e easy to give head for your village ?!


rOsy247:
So what do you want people to tell you? A confirmation that your wife is cheating? No one here knows her but you do. So u should know better. Stop looking for external confirmation. Go to her and discuss with her like husband and wife should do.

If its head she wants go down there and make her feel like a woman, then the rest is history.

Stop looking for trouble where there's none. Other marriages are facing worse things than this yet still trying hard to make it work. Ur own is giving head and u there complaining. What many men enjoy.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by rOsy247(f): 11:47pm On Jun 29, 2019
Modphase:
What a foolish comment. Na so e easy to give head for your village ?!



Stfu no one cares if it's easy for u or not. U are only a decimal compared to men in the world. Dolt!!

Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Modphase: 1:53am On Jun 30, 2019
and from your deluded mind the number of foolish women who don’t care if their partner is okay giving head before compulsorily demanding such is numeral ba ? kiss
rOsy247:


Stfu no one cares if it's easy for u or not. U are only a decimal compared to men in the world. Dolt!!
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Amanda4life: 3:44am On Jun 30, 2019
All women loves head
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Amanda4life: 3:47am On Jun 30, 2019
Ova she lost interest because you no sabi give head


And head turns her on. Simple.


Head sweet wella
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by MChaze25(m): 10:09am On Jun 30, 2019
Hyacenth22:
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.

I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.
Oga file for divorce with anger but don't truly mean it in your inner soul.
The fear will make her crawl out of her shell.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by bengasyl(m): 11:50am On Jun 30, 2019
Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

Ok
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by sisisioge: 12:31pm On Jun 30, 2019
Why are we even debating head up and down? Does he not expect his own head too? Haven't we heard that you guys like it better if she allows you comee in her mouth? Isn't that salty abi na alkaline abi na acidic too?


Anyways, I think OP's wife have experienced things she hadn't before her hots for the OP went south. Biko find out and redress. Good luck.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by sisisioge: 12:33pm On Jun 30, 2019
bengasyl:


Ok

Hello, this is wrong somewhat. You shouldn't quote the whole long post to say ok. It unnecessarily elongate the thread especially seeing that you had nothing to say grin. Good morning fa, hope your Sunday is coming along greatly grin

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by luminous12(m): 5:20pm On Jun 30, 2019
Pls, what is the meaning of "give head" I"m still a learner as far as sex is concern.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by RichardRexs(m): 9:47am On Jul 01, 2019
Sir, jo soapy.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by booksrite001: 12:11am On Jul 02, 2019
peepydelano:
never never never.same place urine flows from.

cheesy

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by laydoh(m): 2:29am On Jul 04, 2019
Tboysalau:

Viruses doesn't even survive out of the human body
lol. That doesn't mean they die. They are only inactive outside a living host.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Tboysalau(m): 3:15am On Jul 04, 2019
laydoh:
lol. That doesn't mean they die. They are only inactive outside a living host.
Lol
First of all, I know you know viruses technically are not alive, they're just tiny particles that cause infections.
Secondly, Inactivation means they can't cause infections again. There's a time frame in which they become inactivated after been exposed to unfavorable condition which is different for various viruses. Some in mins,hours,days, weeks etc(Obligate intracellular organism)

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