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Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by bdchange(m): 6:07pm On Jul 05, 2019
prizequest:
a beautiful woman never stays with one man
lolz.what kind of assumptions or permutation do we call this?
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 05, 2019
Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]When it comes to marriage,
Dudes, stay away from pretty ladies.

Most especially if they are non virgins.

They have a very stùpid entitlement mentality.
Bearing a miracle, they'll destroy what ever you build. [/color]
as if d ugly ones no get their own issues.its like u never meet a stubborn,rude ugly girl before.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jul 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Ehen...The man saw those traits and married her. Why? he wants to be the husband to fine girl. He wants trophy wife.

He is even lucky she changed, that is because she decided to change. What if she didn't?


Stay where you find peace, irrespective of looks or whatever.
This usually happens when a Man has so much money & can afford to marry anyone. Rule of thumb says If you're a 3, Never get married to a 7 or 8. You're only digging your grave, she won't kill you directly but her nagging will give you heart attacks. Her God complex will begin to show.

It's really not a Gender thing, but Women take 75% of the share, don't ask me where I got my stats LOL.

Some people who are celebs can still afford to go away with it simply because of the external attention they get, so It seems like there is competition. Same reason why some really sexy Women don't need to be hooked, they can't be kept obviously.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by bdchange(m): 6:12pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
as if d ugly ones no get their own issues.its like u never meet a stubborn,rude ugly girl before.
people need to understand that when it comes to attitude, it has nothing to do with beauty.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by victorian(f): 6:13pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
as if d ugly ones no get their own issues.its like u never meet a stubborn,rude ugly girl before.
Don't mind them, they feel all beautiful girls have bad character and ugly ones are angels from above.


Lol
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 6:18pm On Jul 05, 2019
victorian:
Don't mind them, they feel all beautiful girls have bad character and ugly ones are angels from above.


Lol
Mostly the case
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jul 05, 2019
victorian:
Don't mind them, they feel all beautiful girls have bad character and ugly ones are angels from above.


Lol
some ppl use dat agelong idelogy about less attractive women making better partners jus to sooth their inferiority complex.i don see very ugly women wey dey cheat on their partners.my former caretaker im wife if u see her she look like okija shrine diety but anytime her man no dey around na so hausa okada riders dey sneak come smash her.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 05, 2019
bdchange:
people need to understand that when it comes to attitude, it has nothing to do with beauty.
true a woman's character has nothing to do with her physical appearance.some ppl say that cos a lady is beautiful and she gets attention from various men it will get into her head and make her proud.ok so wat of ugly girls dat get attention from various men nko?
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by AmericanSons: 6:25pm On Jul 05, 2019
dumo1:
Bros this experince of yours must have been a real eye opener for you to write a book about.
embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed no b small thing bros... cry cry cry
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by jimcaddy(m): 6:27pm On Jul 05, 2019
Very true. There are many women out there who think that just having a pretty face or a hot body is what makes any man go gaga. Men are wise.. Once you present yourself as a hot, pretty woman, then he will take advantage of you by sleeping with you. And I tell ladies, if you meet a good man, don't say because he doesn't have this and that, then you get enticed by other men who just want to smash and go..
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jul 05, 2019
AmericanSons:
That shiiit almost reset my brain not too long ago. I can relate with the lady's experience. I left a Nairalander with similar attitude cos I burst her ego. I can be very loving and act emotional that you will think I will be licking ya azz everytime... until your cup fulls and you see me switch so fast as if i never had any feeling for you...

One thing I have learned from experience is... stay away from really pretty and flashy girls... especially those ones that you snapchat app every time... dem no dey get sense and you can hardly have a SERIOUS relationship with them...

when my friend used to tell me he can't date very pretty girls... i didnt see the wisdom... i used to feel he is not brave enough until this last experience i had.

thank God i had another girl who like me. i just jeje switch to that one quickly...
princess is flashy but can u call her beautiful? wat of sophie momodu who is flashy as well can u
jimcaddy:
Very true. There are many women out there who think that just having a pretty face or a hot body is what makes any man go gaga. Men are wise.. Once you present yourself as a hot, pretty woman, then he will take advantage of you by sleeping with you. And I tell ladies, if you meet a good man, don't say because he doesn't have this and that, then you get enticed by other men who just want to smash and go..
AmericanSons:
That shiiit almost reset my brain not too long ago. I can relate with the lady's experience. I left a Nairalander with similar attitude cos I burst her ego. I can be very loving and act emotional that you will think I will be licking ya azz everytime... until your cup fulls and you see me switch so fast as if i never had any feeling for you...

One thing I have learned from experience is... stay away from really pretty and flashy girls... especially those ones that you snapchat app every time... dem no dey get sense and you can hardly have a SERIOUS relationship with them...

when my friend used to tell me he can't date very pretty girls... i didnt see the wisdom... i used to feel he is not brave enough until this last experience i had.

thank God i had another girl who like me. i just jeje switch to that one quickly...
princess is flashy but can u call her beautiful? wat of sophie momodu who is flashy as well can u call dat one beautiful? both f them have attitude problem and men dey die for dem as well.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:35pm On Jul 05, 2019
A man who knows his worth doesn't give a damn about a ladies beauty.Only weak men misbehaves when they see a pretty lady.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by bdchange(m): 6:35pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
true a woman's character has nothing to do with her physical appearance.some ppl say that cos a lady is beautiful and she gets attention from various men it will get into her head and make her proud.ok so wat of ugly girls dat get attention from various men nko?
to be fair..no girl is actually ugly except those ones who fail to take care of themselves. Or if she probably decides she is ugly herself. what you find ugly might be beautiful in my own eyes. That is to say beauty lies with the beholder.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by anthonyuncle(m): 6:43pm On Jul 05, 2019
right from time I've realised that most fair ladies have character issues.

they are very proud, get annoyed easily, shout too much,don't take responsibility for their failures, always lay blames, do lots of comparisons and are very hard to please.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by victorian(f): 6:43pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
some ppl use dat agelong idelogy about less attractive women making better partners jus to sooth their inferiority complex.i don see very ugly women wey dey cheat on their partners.my former caretaker im wife if u see her she look like okija shrine diety but anytime her man no dey around na so hausa okada riders dey sneak come smash her.
Hahahahahahaah@ okija shrine deity.

My belle ooo

Lol

I know of a man who had this idea that ugly women makes the best wife, so he married a short tiny ugly lady. And if you see this man, fine and tall, hes very OK financially. He was our neighbor back in the days. He always travel all to make his wife and his life comfortable. Then one day, he came home unannounced due to rumours hes been hearing from his friends abiut his wife. So he decided to find out himself. He got home. , opened the door quietly with his spare key, heard sounds in his matrimonial bed , and saw one man banging his wife like mad. Lol
He shouted her name, what we saw was him beating up a half naked man in the room, the man ran away. He pursued the guy but the guy was faster.

We all came outside lol. The husband came back was so angry, my mum asked what's the problem, my son? he ran into his house, his wife has ran away. He came out sat on the ground and was crying. Lol
Real tears o! My mum asked what's going on.

Na there I see matured man cry . He said shebi my mum knows how he used to bring home very pretty girls when he was single but as he was about settling down, he said he prefers an ugly girl who wil give him peace of mind. My mum said yes she knows he has taste in women but she was shocked when he brought that tiny lady home as a wife, no boob's , no yansh.
He said u see? Mama I curb my desire in marrying a beautiful woman thinking this one will be faithful and men won't look at her but I was so wrong. Mehn this guy she'd tears of frustration.
Las Las, the wife didnt come back. The later he remarried a very pretty woman, fine face, good height with lovely shape.
Lol.

I was in secondary school then when it happened.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jul 05, 2019
bdchange:
to be fair..no girl is actually ugly except those ones who fail to take care of themselves. Or if she probably decides she is ugly herself. what you find ugly might be beautiful in my own eyes. That is to say beauty lies with the beholder.
really? grin grin grin u think no lady is ugly? grin grin grin grin grin wat can u say about this then? grin

Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by bdchange(m): 6:47pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
really? grin grin grin u think no lady is ugly? grin grin grin grin grin wat can u say about this then? grin
grin grin grin grin in fact you are so funny. i like the joke sha.. though seriously she made herself like that. If she decides to look very good, believe me you won't recognize her again. Moreover someone is somewhere dying to have her...
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by bdchange(m): 6:50pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
really? grin grin grin u think no lady is ugly? grin grin grin grin grin wat can u say about this then? grin
grin grin grin i can't stop laffing..abeg let me start going home before i fall from this chair grin grin
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jul 05, 2019
victorian:
Hahahahahahaah@ okija shrine deity.

My belle ooo

Lol

I know of a man who had this idea that ugly women makes the best wife, so he married a short tiny ugly lady. And if you see this man, fine and tall, hes very OK financially. He was our neighbor back in the days. He always travel all to make his wife and his life comfortable. Then one day, he came home unannounced due to rumours hes been hearing from his friends abiut his wife. So he decided to find out himself. He got home. , opened the door quietly with his spare key, heard sounds in his matrimonial bed , and saw one man banging his wife like mad. Lol
He shouted her name, what we saw was him beating up a half naked man in the room, the man ran away. He pursued the guy but the guy was faster.

We all came outside lol. The husband came back was so angry, my mum asked what's the problem, my son? he ran into his house, his wife has ran away. He came out sat on the ground and was crying. Lol
Real tears o! My mum asked what's going on.

Na there I see matured man cry . He said shebi my mum knows how he used to bring home very pretty girls when he was single but as he was about settling down, he said he prefers an ugly girl who wil give him peace of mind. My mum said yes she knows he has taste in women but she was shocked when he brought that tiny lady home as a wife.
He said u see? Mama I curb my desire in marrying a beautiful woman thinking this one will be faithful and men won't look at her but I was so wrong. Mehn this guy she'd tears of frustration.
Las Las, the wife didnt come back. The later he remarried a very pretty woman, fine face, good height with lovely shape.
Lol.

I was in secondary school then when it happened.
hahahaha grin grin grin see ehn man who the interest for his unborn kids would take the physical attraction of woman as one his requirements.iyam not saying d lady must be super acctractive oo but make she fine small at least.just imagine say ned nwoko na ugly women im dey marry jus tell me how im children for look especially im dauthers.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by victorian(f): 6:55pm On Jul 05, 2019
lefulefu:
hahahaha grin grin grin see ehn man who the interest for his unborn kids would take the physical attraction of woman as one his requirements.iyam not saying d lady must be super acctractive oo but make she fine small at least.just imagine say ned nwoko na ugly women im dey marry jus tell me how im children for look especially im dauthers.
I trust you Lefulefu, woman wey set die! Naim u go marry.

I have foreseen it already...grins.

But seriously Ned daughters ugliness no go get part two.

They will blame their parents why they married each other.

Fear of the unknown is the worst thing that can ever happen to a human being.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jul 05, 2019
bdchange:
grin grin grin grin in fact you are so funny. i like the joke sha.. though seriously she made herself like that. If she decides to look very good, believe me you won't recognize her again. Moreover someone is somewhere dying to have her...
the person dying to have her dey try oooo grin grin grin but then u not far from the truth.see ehn guy most times its better going for a girl u find attractive than going for a lady u find less attractive cos of the believe that she will be faithful to u cos of her unattractiveness cheesy.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by zcee: 7:03pm On Jul 05, 2019
I dont why most beautiful ladies i see lack many things inside dem,its either dey are damn pretty but ill mannered or they are a bit ugly but well mannerd. Am so happy to ve one beautiful and charming lady as my bestie,she is independent, Hard working, intelligent,well mannerd,jovial and many things a man want in a woman...Many men are after her and am afraid of losing her bcus its will b difficult to see such lady in the nearest future..
What will i do kwanu my journey still dey far oo...
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2019
victorian:
I trust you Lefulefu, woman wey set die! Naim u go marry.

I have foreseen it already...grins.

But seriously Ned daughters ugliness no go get part two.

They will blame their parents why they married each other.

Fear of the unknown is the worst thing that can ever happen to a human being.
ned dauthers ugly? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked u don see the girls wey im morrocan wife born for am? haba they are exact replica of their morocan mama nau.abi ned has other dauthers wey dem no post their pics?
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 05, 2019
victorian:
I trust you Lefulefu, woman wey set die! Naim u go marry.

I have foreseen it already...grins.

.
grin grin grin
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by mrsfavour(f): 7:26pm On Jul 05, 2019
francescainnoce:
She has made nothing but complete sense. I have my little sister pretty and all. She is only 12 now. I still clearly remember when it all started. I noticed it and I began to curb her excesses. She would err and never say sorry. She had many a time answered me saying "because I am too pretty"...."I am the prettiest of my friends"...... "big sis I am prettier than you". funny thing, her mum didn't see things the way I did. She would be showered in praise, idolised wish gifts, and so many times, her mum would say things like "she is prettier than her friends". But I knew that was heading to anarchy and doom.
What did I do if you ask?
when she says things like "big sis I am prettier than you"... I tell her "how pretty is your brain"
when she says "....because I am pretty"... I tell her, "....say Thank God I am pretty.."
I made her understand, it takes an incident to change a physical appearance and pretty is God's gift and shouldn't be used to idolised yourself.
Honestly the lady spoke the truth and i fear but unfortunately a lot of mum's actually started this.
Plus did I mention that my little sis, is a big kid but I made sure she did not wear my cloth before she got to her teens? They felt I was mean but in the future, they will see clearly.
oh yes o, am with u. Same here ,
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Starz825(m): 7:28pm On Jul 05, 2019
AkupeMBANO:
I don't give a crap about the physical beauty of any lady.
As in he no concern me grin...my peace is very important I don't want wahala
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by lastempero: 7:31pm On Jul 05, 2019
My guy go don suffer for this relationship.
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by kingxsamz(m):
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Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Skmoda360(m): 7:45pm On Jul 05, 2019
Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]When it comes to marriage,
Dudes, stay away from pretty ladies.

Most especially if they are non virgins.

They have a very stùpid entitlement mentality.
Bearing a miracle, they'll destroy what ever you build. [/color]
God will bless the mama wey born you....bitter truth ....say no more bro...
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Skmoda360(m): 7:49pm On Jul 05, 2019
zcee:
I dont why most beautiful ladies i see lack many things inside dem,its either dey are damn pretty but ill mannered or they are a bit ugly but well mannerd. Am so happy to ve one beautiful and charming lady as my bestie,she is independent, Hard working, intelligent,well mannerd,jovial and many things a man want in a woman...Many men are after her and am afraid of losing her bcus its will b difficult to see such lady in the nearest future..
What will i do kwanu my journey still dey far oo...
just calm down coast will be clear bro....
Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jul 05, 2019
Her beauty is beginning to fade.

That is when they start having senses and generating inspirations for the young and naive. Any man who tolerates his wife's excessive vanity needs to ask himself in whose favor is the wife 'slaying'?

Obviously, brainless married women such as this one with zero-confident husbands are great at giving other men excessive bj.
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