Kalixx:




Thank u. Im 20-something and I met my girlfriend when she was 17. I had sex with her 3 months before her 18th birthday and we are still together till today. I met her a virgin and she kept protecting it from me. She loves romance a lot, and she would kiss, cuddle and do a lot of everything but suddenly switch off when I think she's ready for sex.

One night I told her, 'come this thing cant work like this o. U cant be putting me in d mood so seriously then now abandon me when I think the light is green'. There was some back and forth that night but eventually she later agreed to have sex. Now, she even initiates sex. After this Busola's case, my gf and I do make jovial comments that if I break up with her eventually, she'll accuse me of rape.

I deh tell am 'abeg na'. Ma ko ba mi o... Lol So Im stuck with her o.


Im just trying to resonate with ur point. Most ladies have sex before they turn 18, and they never give in so easily the first time maybe naturally because they are naive, scared of pregnancy, std, and are unexperienced. Most guys that deflower them are usually older and have more experience. There's usually a bit of contention before that first sex occurs. No girl would just open her p*ssy down for u like that, even if she wants it.

So the lines are really blurred. The western world's efforts to protect women and provide equal rights (which is a good thing), has gone overboard. In the West, there are many examples of women here that simply target rich and hugely successful men and use this 'rape' weapon to either run them down or take a chunk of their fortune. But I suspect in the nearest future, this latitude which is already being abused by women would be toned down.

A recent example is Neymar. Honestly, I never knew he was that smart. I was really impressed on his escape.

Another example is Ronaldo. They are obviously rich, affluent and famous.

One must also look a bit deeper beyond the accuser (the woman). U'll see the woman is never really alone in the fight. Whenever the case is about a rich or very successful person, there are usually some unknown figures behind the curtain, deeply enmeshed in law, using the woman has a pawn to fight a battle which is either usually a vendetta, or a financial battle.

That's why I keep saying there's more in this case than meets the eye. But Nigerians are unbelievably myopic, impulsive and dont always try to think a little deeper. Just a bit deeper.

Anyway, kudos to ur post.

Thanks, just tot I shud point out d excesses in dat dia metoo movement.

Last year,my cousin(female) told me 2 focus on making name 4 myself instead of going after gels,dat wen I have money, ladies will come naturally, since den,my affinity 4 gels dropped, but now I don't even have any because of fear.My life won't spoil bcoz of a gel.


Even if its not rape,it will b true divorce, look at Emmanuel Ebowe,d woman has taken every thing he has,even his children,dey even told him nt to move some distance close to dos kids.D power women are being given is too much.If I decide nt to b promiscuous,and just get a gel and marry,I still won't have rest of mind because if anything happen nw,she with file 4 divorce, next tin dey slice wat I worked 4 into 2 or like Ebowe's Case, she carries everything.God Forbid



Wen i c all dos young boys and gels parading themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend in my street, I just shake my head, nt dat I don't get attention,but d fact dat I'm d shy type has kept me away from dem.

NOL2dworld:
So we are still on this rape issue..

Not just female child.. Male child too are being raped and molested and no one is talking about it..

God save all our children..

exactly. if a male speaks up, his ridicule will be worse than a female's

Hmm,Apt point..I am victim of male child molestation. Brother Niyi was robbing his big phalus on my anus since age 6years.
God will judge him today wherever he is.
He lives in Abuja,forming good guy,I even heard he's childless till now,He was putting it in my hands,anus,rob all over me till he cum.Later he graduated to doing it to other relatives,lest I forget,he's my first cousin,if I rem,he slept with over 5 under 8years children then.

NOL2dworld:
So we are still on this rape issue..

Not just female child.. Male child too are being raped and molested and no one is talking about it..

God save all our children..

Forced himself on her?

If Bukola was a minor when they enjoyed each other then nothing changes the fact that our pastor fatoyinbo was (is) a pedophile. And still needs to be prosecuted for his past behaviours....just like everybody else

scoory:
What people don't understand is that justice is not black and white. When Fela was jailed for currency smuggling, there are probably some truth to the allegation but it is not true justice because it was politically motivated.
This Fatoyinbo guy most likely had a sexual relationship with the Bukola girl but he can't admit it because he is a pastor. That does not mean he actually forced himself on her.
He is being blackmailed because he has more to loose. If he was a regular guy like me, I will gladly come out and explain how we enjoyed each other's company.

You all keep watching until these NGO organizations turn nigeria into the rape capital of the world so that they can be swimming in money from funds and donations.
You think all the rape stories trending on Nairaland, blogs and social media recently is a conincidence?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm a genius or most people are just dumb.

But we are constantly been raped by Buharis tyrannical government

I just know that all the men that all supporting Biodun and shunning the rape saga are all rapist , they are scared theirs may surface .



Quote me are receive free thunder from the pit of Amadioha . NonSensE

tomdon:
So what of a boy below 18 having sex with a girl below 18? That one is OK by her abi.
What's the difference between 17 & 18 sef?

It should be either 25 when the girl is surely an adult, else 15 years is OK since all these secondary school kids of nowadays are already fvcking themselves

Nigerian law says anyone below 18yrs is a minor or child. It is not Mrs Fayemi who is saying it . So if you have been busy as an adult sleeping with under 18 girls because they are playing with each other, just know you are already guilty of statutory rape

Oga "genius", go an educate yourself a little bit more by reading Nigerian penal and criminal codes. Rape does not only occur when you forcefully have sex with a girl against her consent. Rape is also committed when you have sex with a minor (someone who is less than 18yrs old).

At the time Pastor Fatoyinbo had sex with Busola, consensual or not, he committed statutory rape, according to Nigerian law because she was 17yrs.

Now I'm wondering who is really dumb

scoory:
What people don't understand is that justice is not black and white. When Fela was jailed for currency smuggling, there are probably some truth to the allegation but it is not true justice because it was politically motivated.
This Fatoyinbo guy most likely had a sexual relationship with the Bukola girl but he can't admit it because he is a pastor. That does not mean he actually forced himself on her.
He is being blackmailed because he has more to loose. If he was a regular guy like me, I will gladly come out and explain how we enjoyed each other's company.

You all keep watching until these NGO organizations turn nigeria into the rape capital of the world so that they can be swimming in money from funds and donations.
You think all the rape stories trending on Nairaland, blogs and social media recently is a conincidence?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm a genius or most people are just dumb.

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tomdon:
So what of a boy below 18 having sex with a girl below 18? That one is OK by her abi.
What's the difference between 17 & 18 sef?

It should be either 25 when the girl is surely an adult, else 15 years is OK since all these secondary school kids of nowadays are already fvcking themselves

sex between two underage is not termed rape.
It is termed romeo nd Juliet affair; hence, they can't be arrested....

Except in cases were one is way younger....in cases like an 18yr old boy defiling a 5yrs old girl..... The boy will be severely punished.

scoory:
What people don't understand is that justice is not black and white. When Fela was jailed for currency smuggling, there are probably some truth to the allegation but it is not true justice because it was politically motivated.
This Fatoyinbo guy most likely had a sexual relationship with the Bukola girl but he can't admit it because he is a pastor. That does not mean he actually forced himself on her.
He is being blackmailed because he has more to loose. If he was a regular guy like me, I will gladly come out and explain how we enjoyed each other's company.

You all keep watching until these NGO organizations turn nigeria into the rape capital of the world so that they can be swimming in money from funds and donations.
You think all the rape stories trending on Nairaland, blogs and social media recently is a conincidence?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm a genius or most people are just dumb.

she willingly open her legs for him or not.
Sleeping with an underage girl, under the law is termed statutory rape.

Neddstark:
18 is a minor for sex? While 18 year old girls are allowed to carry guns and kill in the army. You are not well madam

mumu with crown.

U must be living in a remote forest.

Simple English u nor sabi.
just be disgracing yaself up ND down
She said "Girls below 18" not 18yrs.

AgentOfAllah:
While I am morally and ethically on the side of Busola in this saga, I don't really know that Mrs. Fayemi's claim that sexual relationship with anybody below 18 is statutory rape. At 11, Nigeria presently has the lowest age of consent in the world, and so it seems statutory rape doesn't apply before 11 in Nigeria. Even more absurd is that two kids, say, 9 and 10, engaging sexual relationship can technically be convicted of statutory rape because there are no legal protections for minors who find themselves in such a situation.

Clearly, Nigeria's laws need serious overhauling.

Where is this in our constitution or bye-laws, sir??

Ive often wondered why underage brides aren't as well-supported as alleged rape victims..

But this may well be the reason...

Modified*****

Its quite concerning that the age of consensual sex in Nigeria is 11yrs.

The Pastor has no case to answer in court if the accuser has no strong evidence..
Case closed before it began!!!

Social media jury can only go blue and black in the face, life goes on

Parents and guardians are best positioned to watch carefully over their wards...
Young ladies and men who are precocious should better be warned.. There's little or no opportunity to get legal redress in the event of being taken advantage of..



Ji masun chaps!!!!



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scoory:
What people don't understand is that justice is not black and white. When Fela was jailed for currency smuggling, there are probably some truth to the allegation but it is not true justice because it was politically motivated.
This Fatoyinbo guy most likely had a sexual relationship with the Bukola girl but he can't admit it because he is a pastor. That does not mean he actually forced himself on her.
He is being blackmailed because he has more to loose. If he was a regular guy like me, I will gladly come out and explain how we enjoyed each other's company.

You all keep watching until these NGO organizations turn nigeria into the rape capital of the world so that they can be swimming in money from funds and donations.
You think all the rape stories trending on Nairaland, blogs and social media recently is a conincidence?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm a genius or most people are just dumb.

In a sane clime, you should be in jail by now. How can you enjoy a minor? You are dumb AF!

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Mrs Fayemi made a lot of sense. Child sexual molestation has been rampant in Nigeria for a long time. We thank God for the internet were this evil is now being exposed and talked about and no longer swept under the rug.

I have always known that many Nigerian women are just as misogynist as the sons they birth and raise. So no surprise there.

So many victims of child sexual molestation continue to walk around psychologically scarred. Many want nothing to do with sex now that they are adults. Many people don't understand how sexual trauma affects it's victims in the long run.

willyjacs:
mumu with crown.

U must be living in a remote forest.

Simple English u nor sabi.
just be disgracing yaself up ND down
She said "Girls below 18" not 18yrs.

Below 18 is 18 and below. You must have had a f9 in English

Neddstark:


Below 18 is 18 and below. You must have had a f9 in English

"Below 18" is no more "18 and below" than "below your head" is "your head and below".

Tedpgrass:


Where is this in our constitution or bye-laws, sir??

Ive often wondered why underage brides aren't as well-supported as alleged rape victims..

But this may well be the reason...

Modified*****

Its quite concerning that the age of consensual sex in Nigeria is 11yrs.

The Pastor has no case to answer in court if the accuser has no strong evidence..
Case closed before it began!!!

Social media jury can only go blue and black in the face, life goes on

Parents and guardians are best positioned to watch carefully over their wards...
Young ladies and men who are precocious should better be warned.. There's little or no opportunity to get legal redress in the event of being taken advantage of..



Ji masun chaps!!!!

I may be wrong, because there was a sexual offences bill that was passed by the 7th senate which sought to raise the age of consent to 18, but still put the onus on the child the prove that they didn't seduce and deceive the adult. I don't know if the president assented to the bill because I couldn't find any news article to the effect.

You are the baby Lawyer;
Those of you leading Busola on to make false accusations in order to gain popularity, money or vendetta are the wicked ones.
Documentary evidence my foot;
You people are even confused as to what your case is: one moment you claim she never gave consent, the next you claim it was “statutory rape” and consent is immaterial.
What documentary evidence is relevant in a rape case?? Doctor’s report In respect of which of the several alleged rapes The doggy sex Busola admitted having on the bonnet of Biodun’s car?? Is it a Police Report at an Ilorin Police Station complete with Biodun’s Statement and Police Investigation Report of 20 years ago
My friend go and look for who to bamboozle with your ignorant allusions to “Documentary evidence”.
Documentary evidence koo, documentary evidence, ni.
I don’t know Biodun and I, like many others, have formed my opinion based entirely on watching the full video of the interview granted by Busola. If her account of the facts are correct, the most you can accuse Biodun of is fornication/adultery.
The last time I checked, these are not crimes under Nigerian law but may be unbecoming of a Pastor except that Biodun was not even a Pastor at the time the alleged incident took place.
If a man is guilty of adultery, accuse him of that, don’t accuse him of rape.
False accusations are equally as reprehensible as rape.
All of a sudden, Runs Girls have started opening their mouths to accuse people of rape supported by idiots who insist we should never question or interrogate their yeye stories.

buragidi:


Worry not about what u do not know son. The evolving developments on this case is mind-blowing. I only pity Biodun and his supporters. You would be amazed about documentary evidence about matter, not disclosed but kept since the past twenty years.

Go back to the ABC of law, baby lawyer.

ericsmith:



Yeah he is bright, we all can't be driven by emotion...brain must count.
mrs fayemi just made a mockery of busola ,@10yrs she was able detect rape & speak up, an attempt from a relative would av been shocking ..but why did she not go numb like busola.
@13yrs she could avoid broda lai mohammed even b4 attempt but aunty busola after been raped got closer & made herself available for more service.
mrs Fayemi sharing her story only gave rise to more logical questions for aunty busola. ..aunty wey mumu

It is wrong to generalize. People react differently to unusual or traumatic situations. Some are petrified with fear, some are confused, many are too ashamed to discuss it with anybody for years, some might not even realize what the abuser is doing to them at that time is wrong.

Remember the experience of Success Adegor. Many children were flogged in that class and sent home for owing school fees. This is a regular occurrence in many schools. Success's defiant reaction was rather unusual and unique for a child, that is why her story of courage made headlines.

So, many children do not react the way Bisi Fayemi did. Some who did, are usually told to shut up and not say bad things about Uncle Lai, and then the molestation continues.

BigND:
Don’t be afraid bro;
Ranting on Nairaland or social media counts for nothing.
I am happy, Busola made a tape which will be available to a Court of Law since she has made a complaint.
On social media we are told that any woman who alleges rape should not be questioned no matter how ridiculous her story is but in a Law Court, it’s a totally different ball game.
I am so sorry for Busola if and when she enters that witness box. Her cross-examination will not be by that biased compassionate friend of hers who interviewed her but by a hard-nosed Criminal Attorney who will tear her rubbish story to pieces and leave her a sorry mess

And your beloved Pastor Fatoyinbo will not be equally grilled by the opposing lawyer, abi? He will not enter the witness box I'm sure. He will be "celebrated" and told to take a bow and go home.

Believe me you are feeling sorry for the wrong party. You need to redirect your pity it to Fatoyinbo, cause he will need it more in open court. But, you and I know that Fatoyinbo, being the predatory coward that he is will NEVER step into a court room on this matter. Even, the "robust response" he promised after Ese Walters accused him of sleeping with her and many other members of his church under the influence of "higher grace", is still being awaited.

Lai Mohammed?!?!

so, as a 13 year old, u can discern when someone want to take advantage of u and acted accordingly, u now come up to defend a dumb 17 year old who cant think for herself. Madam, u should think the scenario through and not just fighting as a feminist.

lamidebaby:
biodun is a goner. quote me.

His church members will do everything to uphold the image of their superstar.
Rev King still has fans and a running church, right?
You watch and wait...

Oga lawyer, you seem to be very versed in law. I agree with you that the place to question the "yeye stories" of Fatoyinbo's many accusers is the court room. You claim, the multiple sexual allegations against Fatoyinbo are false. So Fatoyinbo has been defamed. Kindly file a defamation suit on his behalf, since he appears unwilling to do so himself. I'm sure he will thank you for your counsel and services.

Ny'mat Akashat Zibiri, one of the anchors on TVC (DSTV channel 418) daily breakfast show, the day after the story broke also counselled him to approach the court and lodge defamation suit immediately against Busola if he is innocent. Till date mumb is the word from Fatoyinbo.

When will he crawl out from his hole and take a stand for himself and clear his name, rather than send surrogates into Social Media space to lob insults at people? I wonder why Biodun's apologists and his members love calling everyone else "idiots", and asking if non-COZA members are better off than them as if that is the issue.

Ese Walters, a dedicated and hardworking member of COZA for many years was a "runs girl" according to you. A former COZA staff who recently gave an interview of her trauma in the hands of Fatoyinbo was also a "runs girl" abi?

Without, even realising, you have slipped into the cesspit of people who take delight in bashing and shaming victims of sexual abuse. Doesn't it say a lot about Fatoyinbo's pastoral effectiveness of all his female members and close personal staff are "runs girls"? I'm won't be surprised if Modele , Fatoyinbo's wife was a single lady in his church before they married. Can we also conclude that she was a typical COZA girl who was into runs? You see why it is wrong to give people derogatory labels?

BigND:
You are the baby Lawyer;
Those of you leading Busola on to make false accusations in order to gain popularity, money or vendetta are the wicked ones.
Documentary evidence my foot;
You people are even confused as to what your case is: one moment you claim she never gave consent, the next you claim it was “statutory rape” and consent is immaterial.
What documentary evidence is relevant in a rape case?? Doctor’s report In respect of which of the several alleged rapes The doggy sex Busola admitted having on the bonnet of Biodun’s car?? Is it a Police Report at an Ilorin Police Station complete with Biodun’s Statement and Police Investigation Report of 20 years ago
My friend go and look for who to bamboozle with your ignorant allusions to “Documentary evidence”.
Documentary evidence koo, documentary evidence, ni.
I don’t know Biodun and I, like many others, have formed my opinion based entirely on watching the full video of the interview granted by Busola. If her account of the facts are correct, the most you can accuse Biodun of is fornication/adultery.
The last time I checked, these are not crimes under Nigerian law but may be unbecoming of a Pastor except that Biodun was not even a Pastor at the time the alleged incident took place.
If a man is guilty of adultery, accuse him of that, don’t accuse him of rape.
False accusations are equally as reprehensible as rape.
All of a sudden, Runs Girls have started opening their mouths to accuse people of rape supported by idiots who insist we should never question or interrogate their yeye stories.

cuteboy2:


It is wrong to generalize. People react differently to unusual or traumatic situations. Some are petrified with fear, some are confused, many are too ashamed to discuss it with anybody for years, some might not even realize what the abuser is doing to them at that time is wrong.

Remember the experience of Success Adegor. Many children were flogged in that class and sent home for owing school fees. This is a regular occurrence in many schools. Success's defiant reaction was rather unusual and unique for a child, that is why her story of courage made headlines.

So, many children do not react the way Bisi Fayemi did. Some who did, are usually told to shut up and not say bad things about Uncle Lai, and then the molestation continues.

You just acted same as mrs fayemi, if are story were to be true you won't need to stress ... you guys are just trying to patch up the incoherences in her story.
success story as nothing to do with assault or danger , even tho i get your point that humans react to incidents differently but here is one fact that cannot be disputed ... humans are wired to flee when they sense or see danger bigger than what they can handle ..
humans reaction to danger is not voluntray action rather it's reflex, hormones boost.
Rape signifies terror,which means danger in cases were the victim stay numb or refuse to react it simply means the brain never sensed danger or feel what is happening is bad. if your dad enter ur bedroom with knife won't you react, aint you suppose to trust ur him

Neddstark:


Below 18 is 18 and below. You must have had a f9 in English

which village u Comot.

18yrs is the age of consent..both federally and by the the United Nations.

18yrs is an adult....anybody below 18 is a minor.

That is why u see adult movies ticking their movies "not suitable for viewers under the ages of 18....

Even on alcoholics and betting sites, na 18yrs them mark.

Once a person clocks 18,they are qualified as adults.
Go learn book.

willyjacs:
which village u Comot.

18yrs is the age of consent..both federally and by the the United Nations.

18yrs is an adult....anybody below 18 is a minor.

That is why u see adult movies ticking their movies "not suitable for viewers under the ages of 18....

Even on alcoholics and betting sites, na 18yrs them mark.

Once a person clocks 18,they are qualified as adults.
Go learn book.

Okay, okay. I don hear. Blessed day ahead

Neddstark:


Okay, okay. I don hear. Blessed day ahead

wishing u a super day too bro

BigND:
You are the baby Lawyer;
Those of you leading Busola on to make false accusations in order to gain popularity, money or vendetta are the wicked ones.
Documentary evidence my foot;
You people are even confused as to what your case is: one moment you claim she never gave consent, the next you claim it was “statutory rape” and consent is immaterial.
What documentary evidence is relevant in a rape case?? Doctor’s report In respect of which of the several alleged rapes The doggy sex Busola admitted having on the bonnet of Biodun’s car?? Is it a Police Report at an Ilorin Police Station complete with Biodun’s Statement and Police Investigation Report of 20 years ago
My friend go and look for who to bamboozle with your ignorant allusions to “Documentary evidence”.
Documentary evidence koo, documentary evidence, ni.
I don’t know Biodun and I, like many others, have formed my opinion based entirely on watching the full video of the interview granted by Busola. If her account of the facts are correct, the most you can accuse Biodun of is fornication/adultery.
The last time I checked, these are not crimes under Nigerian law but may be unbecoming of a Pastor except that Biodun was not even a Pastor at the time the alleged incident took place.
If a man is guilty of adultery, accuse him of that, don’t accuse him of rape.
False accusations are equally as reprehensible as rape.
All of a sudden, Runs Girls have started opening their mouths to accuse people of rape supported by idiots who insist we should never question or interrogate their yeye stories.

You never learn anything, yet u keep celebrating ignorance. Go back and watch the video and come back to state that Biodun never established COZA as at the time the incidence allegedly happened.

You are banking on probable flop of a plaintif as tool to twart rape allegation? Is either you are a rapist yourself, or a rapist apologist or those hired with 50k by COZA to defend this alleged shameful act.

Who told you Busola was 17plus at the time of allegation? Go back and watch the video. Now watch with an open mind, not with a corrupt mind to twist story. Then come back to make comment son.

As per the documentary evidence, bother not yourself about those. Some things are too technical for your likes to understand.

cuteboy2:


And your beloved Pastor Fatoyinbo will not be equally grilled by the opposing lawyer, abi? He will not enter the witness box I'm sure. He will be "celebrated" and told to take a bow and go home.

Believe me you are feeling sorry for the wrong party. You need to redirect your pity it to Fatoyinbo, cause he will need it more in open court. But, you and I know that Fatoyinbo, being the predatory coward that he is will NEVER step into a court room on this matter. Even, the "robust response" he promised after Ese Walters accused him of sleeping with her and many other members of his church under the influence of "higher grace", is still being awaited.

You are getting it wrong.
Fatoyinbo is not my beloved. He cannot be because I don’t even know him and hadn’t heard of him until a few weeks ago when the Busola story broke.
I have been consistent. IF (and it is still a big “IF”, since none of the allegations have been proven) the various allegations against Biodun are true, then he is not fit to be a Pastor preaching the Gospel.
But that is not the issue here.
We have an allegation of Rape, not fornication, adultery or philandering against Biodun.
If you want to accuse Biodun of being morally corrupt, an adulterer, unfit to be a Pastor, etc, etc, please feel free to do so but if you want to accuse him of rape, then you must comply with the law.
Ese Walters titled her story: “My affair with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo”; she never accused him of rape.
Apart from the lady who joined the bandwagon a few days ago to allege anonymously that she was raped in Dubai (which is another nonsense story), no one else has alleged rape or claimed to be a minor when they had an affair with Biodun.
Some of us will not sit by idly while all sorts of irresponsible women in the name of feminism (and cowardly men who want to lap up praise) demonize men and label us as beasts while refusing to accept responsibility for their own wanton and foolish conduct.
Others may want to tow the line of political correctness and join the popular opinion but we will call it for what it is.
My call is that rape is an atrocity, reprehensible and utterly condemnable. Indeed it is a serious crime under the Criminal Code and carries a sentence of Life imprisonment; no other crime outside armed robbery and murder is considered more serious.
But if you do not know what RAPE means, you are better served to keep your mouth shut.
Not all sexual misdemeanors and offenses amount to RAPE.
And to your point, if I was in the Legal Team of Biodun, he will not need to testify. Go and read up what is called a “NO CASE SUBMISSION”.
Based on the full vide interview granted by Busola herself, there is absolutely NO QUESTION of rape and she will make a fool of herself to allow this matter go to trial. She has the onus to prove her case before Biodun will be called upon to say anything.
Mind you, the standard of proof is beyond reasonable doubt not on balance of probability and any doubt will be resolved in favor of the accused, Biodun.
What annoys me greatly is that you people are prejudicing GENUINE VICTIMS whose ordeal may be tarnished with the same brush as Busola’s. By the time the story of girls like Busola Dakolo has been exposed in Court to be an absolute frivolity and lacking in merit, no one will listen when ladies who have been genuinely raped cry out.
Apostle Suleiman and Stephanie Otobo case is still fresh in the memory. Football stars Neymar and Ronaldo are also recent examples of false accusations by useless ladies whose new occupation is shouting “rape” at the drop of a hat.
When you keep crying wolf where there is none, nobody will pay attention when a wolf actually appears.

cuteboy2:
Oga lawyer, you seem to be very versed in law. I agree with you that the place to question the "yeye stories" of Fatoyinbo's many accusers is the court room. You claim, the multiple sexual allegations against Fatoyinbo are false. So Fatoyinbo has been defamed. Kindly file a defamation suit on his behalf, since he appears unwilling to do so himself. I'm sure he will thank you for your counsel and services.

Ny'mat Akashat Zibiri, one of the anchors on TVC (DSTV channel 418) daily breakfast show, the day after the story broke also counselled him to approach the court and lodge defamation suit immediately against Busola if he is innocent. Till date mumb is the word from Fatoyinbo.

When will he crawl out from his hole and take a stand for himself and clear his name, rather than send surrogates into Social Media space to lob insults at people? I wonder why Biodun's apologists and his members love calling everyone else "idiots", and asking if non-COZA members are better off than them as if that is the issue.

Ese Walters, a dedicated and hardworking member of COZA for many years was a "runs girl" according to you. A former COZA staff who recently gave an interview of her trauma in the hands of Fatoyinbo was also a "runs girl" abi?

Without, even realising, you have slipped into the cesspit of people who take delight in bashing and shaming victims of sexual abuse. Doesn't it say a lot about Fatoyinbo's pastoral effectiveness of all his female members and close personal staff are "runs girls"? I'm won't be surprised if Modele , Fatoyinbo's wife was a single lady in his church before they married. Can we also conclude that she was a typical COZA girl who was into runs? You see why it is wrong to give people derogatory labels?

The problem with people like you is that you choose to take a sentence or two out of context and run with it.
Anyone reading you will think I know Fatoyinbo or support his philandering when I have made the point consistently that if the allegations against him are true, he is not fit to be a Pastor.
I don’t even know why I am wasting my time arguing with morons who cannot distinguish issues.
If there is allegation against someone that he robbed and raped a victim, does establishing robbery automatically establish rape Are the ingredients of robbery and rape the same
Of course people like you will say it doesn’t matter and that there is no need to prove rape once you have proved robbery.
My sole focus in this discourse is not the morality or otherwise of Biodun’s actions.
I don’t care for all these charlatans who parade themselves as Pastors but if a charlatan did not rape someone, don’t accuse him of rape. SIMPLE.
You have mentioned Ese Walters, what is her story A working class lady of not less than 25 years who resigned from her job to pursue a masters degree in London. While there, Biodun visited London, invited her to his hotel and she went at 11pm. He made advances and she accepted and they ended up sleeping together. For the one week Biodun was in London, she went to sleep with him everyday and they continued the affair afterwards until Biodun dropped her and bitter, vindictive, vengeful, she now granted an interview to tell us tales by moonlight. Are these the people you are fronting An adult like Ese who willingly went to sleep with another woman’s husband in a hotel is your poster girl for rape victims
Nobody is praising Biodun for sleeping with his Church members and violating his marital vows but I wonder how relying on all these stories of consensual sex proves allegation of rape.
As for how old Busola was, whether COZA had been formed at the material time, etc, maybe you listened to a different tape. In any event what she stated there is to suit her purpose but get her into the witness box and see.
And by the way, the blackmail of labeling anyone who has an opposing view on this matter as a “rape apologist” or a rapist is so childish and laughable.
People resort to such infantile labels when they have no reasonable argument to offer.