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LOCAL MAN IS A PEST...

Why the critics

You are a lucky Man. Your wife is one in a Million woman. Just take care of her and don't make her cry.

That's the kinda wife all men wanna marry, even if u don't us, don't always want to take from us, see poor mentality this ladies bashing her are displaying.........

Those criticizing are the type of ladies that will tell a man who has done so much for them later in life what he has done for them. Fish brains of 1kb retentive memory.

Na wa for people sef.

Woman selfish dem go complain, now woman don selfless dem dey blast her.

Ladies just support to the best of your abilities, don't be a leech, build, build and keep building.... Build yourself first and foremost so you can build others. Be supportive, it goes a looooong way.

karma is real, even if your man doesn't value your support. His own go wait am for front.

HeWrites:
A Malawian man identified as Bob Phondo has been put on blast on Twitter for sharing ten things about the beautiful woman he's about to get married to this weekend.


Phondo, who took to Twitter, a micro-blogging platform disclosed that his fiancée contributed a lot to his life from when he had nothing “had no money or place to stay” till he gets very stable financially.


However, Phondo received more of backlash than praise from ladies on the micro-blogging for only talking about "her love for him but nothing about his love for her."

Read the 10 things he shared below;

"I wanna share 10 things about this woman before we wed this weekend;

1. When I met her I had no place to stay. I was sleeping on a couch at a friend’s house. And she knew.
2. I found a place later on, and she helped paying my rent for months
3. She got me my first car ever.
4. My laptop got damaged and I needed it so much at the time so I could work on my things in order to earn something. She gave me hers.
5. She covered most costs for our dates for a year.
6. She invested in our first two businesses together. And opted for me to run them full time
7. I never met her mom until when I brought my family to meet hers
8. She celebrated and congratulated me for any penny I made at the time, even when it was as little as $10
9. She supported everything I was trying to do to make ends meet. Whether it earned us money or not.
10. Though I’m very stable and all that now, I know she doesn’t really care about those things. She cares about me solely. I know she’d give me anything in the world if she had to,coz she has proved it over and over again

Ladies and gentlemen, that’s the kinda woman I’m marrying"


Source; https://www.foxmeek.com/viral/man-set-to-wed-under-fire-for-sharing-10-things-about-his-wife-to-be-only

Those ladies bashing the nigga are one crazy set of people. Now, I see the reason why 9ja guys opt for white ladies instead of these god forsaken leaches who think they are entitled to receive, receive and receive in a relationship. Shiloh awaits those mofos.
For the guy to say all these should at least mean something.

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When a woman is in love, she can do anything and everything to keep the man, even if he doesn't have anything, love still provides

But only few men will understand her undying love, some might think she is desperate for marriage

placeofallure:
Why are they all calling the man out? What those bit*ches don't know is that it is humbling for a man to admit all of these, men are naturally egoistic but for him, he's willing to shed that cloak all for her. It could only mean one thing: he's profoundly appreciative and willing to go all the way for her. From his tweet, even though he didn't say it, he's in love and unashamedly so. In discourse analysis, there's what is called: implied meaning. You draw inference from the text, not everything could be said. Those girls are pained because they are the exact opposite of the kind hearted lady. There's really nothing wrong in helping your man out if you have the means. I did that and never regretted it.

I like the way you write. I wish I can too

placeofallure:
Why are they all calling the man out? What those bit*ches don't know is that it is humbling for a man to admit all of these, men are naturally egoistic but for him, he's willing to shed that cloak all for her. It could only mean one thing: he's profoundly appreciative and willing to go all the way for her. From his tweet, even though he didn't say it, he's in love and unashamedly so. In discourse analysis, there's what is called: implied meaning. You draw inference from the text, not everything could be said. Those girls are pained because they are the exact opposite of the kind hearted lady. There's really nothing wrong in helping your man out if you have the means. I did that and never regretted it.

Local man is impressed

iRepNaija1:
Most of you missed the point of these people's comments. They're questioning why all his reasons for why he's marrying this woman center around how much she's done for him, not about what he's done for her or how much he loves her. Let's be honest: a man who believes he's got a good woman, who is, most of the time financially stable, will go above and beyond to spoil her and make her feel loved and treasured. Even if he doesn't have money, he still puts in the effort to make her feel loved and treasured. That message was not conveyed in his post at all. He just sounds like a taker and her a giver. I don't care who you are: being assigned one role gets tiring and people grow resentful.

What is this one saying na.. The way I profess my love can't be same with yours. Of he's not grateful he wont come out to say such

Local Man z a full house husband.

QueenSekxy:
All I see is a gold digger.

While you are a Bronze Digger.

placeofallure:
Why are they all calling the man out? What those bit*ches don't know is that it is humbling for a man to admit all of these, men are naturally egoistic but for him, he's willing to shed that cloak all for her. It could only mean one thing: he's profoundly appreciative and willing to go all the way for her. From his tweet, even though he didn't say it, he's in love and unashamedly so. In discourse analysis, there's what is called: implied meaning. You draw inference from the text, not everything could be said. Those girls are pained because they are the exact opposite of the kind hearted lady. There's really nothing wrong in helping your man out if you have the means. I did that and never regretted it.

True, he came out to say all these about her proudly. It's possible most people who knew them knew about non of these .There are ladies out there doing more than this. The men won't say piiim about it and even go ahead to say the love was smothering them. But when they see a gold digger that takes them to the cleaners they start screaming like a banshee

Nigerian women be gifting handkerchief,boxers and singlets since 1700

IF I WERE HIM I WOULDN'T GIVE 2 FVCKS ABOUT WHAT THESE OTHER BITCHES THINK SUCH A GREAT LADY IS REALLY REALLY HARD TO COME BY PERSONALLY I'D GRAB ONTO HER N NOT LET GO FVCK EVERYONE ELSE IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT WHAT SHE HAS DONE IT'S THE FACT SHE'S WILLING TO MAKE SUCH SACRIFICES THAT MAKES HER PRESSIOUS

French110:
She deserve a Diamond Ring

Exactly,goi g morning and have yourself a stress free day

QueenSekxy:
All I see is a gold digger.

change your mindset, love doesn't come easily, it takes sacrifice

How can some people be dumb as Bleep!,he said he wants to share 10 things about the woman he want to marry..THE FUCKING THINGS! not the things he has done for her,is same with the someone saying 10 things they know about you,they are never going to talk about what they have done for you but what they know you for cos that’s what the phrase requests,wow!,english is really hard and most people are dumb on this thread,saying he is gold digger..like really??,gold digger??,a gold digger will never admit he or she was helped.For the people bashing her they should go back to school or go pray for wisdom.I see nothing wrong,he was just profiling the kind of woman he is going to get married to and which translates that the woman is priceless and he is going to spoil her.For those women being bitter at her are so mad cos she is the opposite of them,this shows most women are damn witches.Gosh!,see how the evilness came out from them.

I tire for all those bittered single single ladies/mamas

women and their hypocrisy. many of them criticizing maybe doing more than what the lady had done for the guy at a moment to their guys who might not even be bold to show them as this guy has done


I have given out my 300l tuition fee that gave me extra year to my ex who just got admission then and the relationship didn't end well and my fiance had squat with a friend before just for me to complete my project with her house rent


there is investment in love; physical, spiritual, monetary investment. you just need to be sure whom you're investing on. the guy coming out shows he value what the lady had done plus he's now independent

Those people commenting have some serious mentality problem.
When I met my wife years ago, I had accommodation problem and my landlord was about to evict me, she paid my rent even though we just met a few weeks earlier.
Since then, she's done her degree, masters and I've been the one responsible for all that.
That little supports she rendered still lives in my heart and will always do.
When we were getting serious and my mom was having doubts about her, I told her (my mom) the story of all the suffering we went through and how she once paid my rent, she immediately fell in love with her.
Contrary to what most women thing, men don't forget whatever their woman do for them and it motivates us to do anything to make them happy.

Useless black mentality.. who told you guys that is the solemn responsibility of a man to always pay the bills

Every woman is ready to do this even at 23 I was ready but the issue is background and what people were taught in the household. Those freely given always give freely those who had to suffer to get it will think twice

Silly women criticizing that lady.

The man was only out to praise his woman and not to compare how much two of them had bn of help to each other.

The man dropped his own love and help to the wife just to appreciate his wife. Do u want to tell me that the man never love the woman or never did anything for her.

Silly women all over the world.

iRepNaija1:
Most of you missed the point of these people's comments. They're questioning why all his reasons for why he's marrying this woman center around how much she's done for him, not about what he's done for her or how much he loves her. Let's be honest: a man who believes he's got a good woman, who is, most of the time financially stable, will go above and beyond to spoil her and make her feel loved and treasured. Even if he doesn't have money, he still puts in the effort to make her feel loved and treasured. That message was not conveyed in his post at all. He just sounds like a taker and her a giver. I don't care who you are: being assigned one role gets tiring and people grow resentful.

Thank you jaare..

iRepNaija1:
Most of you missed the point of these people's comments. They're questioning why all his reasons for why he's marrying this woman center around how much she's done for him, not about what he's done for her or how much he loves her. Let's be honest: a man who believes he's got a good woman, who is, most of the time financially stable, will go above and beyond to spoil her and make her feel loved and treasured. Even if he doesn't have money, he still puts in the effort to make her feel loved and treasured. That message was not conveyed in his post at all. He just sounds like a taker and her a giver. I don't care who you are: being assigned one role gets tiring and people grow resentful.

well this list is what she did for him

she can then lost what he did for her

iRepNaija1:
Most of you missed the point of these people's comments. They're questioning why all his reasons for why he's marrying this woman center around how much she's done for him, not about what he's done for her or how much he loves her. Let's be honest: a man who believes he's got a good woman, who is, most of the time financially stable, will go above and beyond to spoil her and make her feel loved and treasured. Even if he doesn't have money, he still puts in the effort to make her feel loved and treasured. That message was not conveyed in his post at all. He just sounds like a taker and her a giver. I don't care who you are: being assigned one role gets tiring and people grow resentful.

The write-up is about HER and not about HIM. Maybe he could have ended it with how much he loves her and all that... But that doesn't mean he is not worthy of her. He is just trying to celebrate her virtues.

She's a wonderful woman

solasoulmusic:
Every woman is ready to do this even at 23 I was ready but the issue is background and what people were taught in the household. Those freely given always give freely those who had to suffer to get it will think twice

I don't think so tho...