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Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

Solution is simple... don't have sex.

You're even lucky to have the restriction. You won't go to hell because of fornication!

Its all down to your faith. Whatever you strongly believe should inform your actions. If you strongly think the dream is for real, then embrace your fate and wait until you get married. Given that you're already 27, it won't be so long till you get married anyway. However, if you think your dream is just your mind being very imaginative, then get yourself a decent partner for your desires. Just stop moaning and take a firm stand.

LegitGirl:
Solution is simple... don't have sex.

You're even lucky to have the restriction. You won't go to hell because of fornication!

he can still go to hell even without fornicating

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

27 yr old virgin in this generation, praise the Lord, guy you already came this far be a little bit patient till you marry, I lost my virginity at 16, guy u try

Deepfeel:
27 yr old virgin in this generation, praise the Lord, guy you already came this far be a little bit patient till you marry, I lost my virginity at 16, guy u try

lost mine at 7 to a house maid... Forced sex.

My cousin first before the house maid tho

Oma307:
he can still go to hell even without fornicating

if you are in Nigeria then u dont need to fornicate to go to hell because u re already in hell... Nigeria fvcked us all.



...so let the fvcking begin.

chenzen:
if you are in Nigeria then u dont need to fornicate to go to hell because u re already in hell... Nigeria fvcked us all.



...so let the fvcking begin.

lol
but there are different kinds of hell. the Nigeria hell is the physical hell

Just say u haven't really had a clear opportunity to have sex,and not just the dream

Oma307:
lol
but there are different kinds of hell. the Nigeria hell is the physical hell

when I say "Nigerian hell" I mean, both physical, spiritual, mental, emotional and romantic hell.

Sanemind:
Just say u haven't really had a clear opportunity to have sex,and not just the dream

I've had several upportuinities.. I can't begin to start counting..
If you living in Abuja you'll know a young man who can afford his bills does not look for sex, sex looks for him.

Some months ago, a girl left my house at about 2am because I refused to have sex with her... She was pissed off and said she can't sleep in same house with me without having sex.

Yesterday I turned off my phone because a girl was suppose to come pass the night at my place. We've been talking for about 3 weeks and she desperately wants the "dick" but I'm scared everytime I remember the dream.

Glory147:
I've had several upportuinities.. I can't begin to start counting.

Some months ago, a girl left my house at about 2am because I refused to have sex with her... She was pissed off and said she can't sleep in same house with me without having sex.

Yesterday I turned off my phone because a girl was suppose to come pass the night at my place. We've been talking for about 3 weeks and she desperately wants the "dick" but I'm scared everytime I remember the dream.

so in a nutshell,u are following the dream?

Sanemind:
so in a nutshell,u are following the dream?

I'm following the dream but it's affecting my social and emotional life.

Then just go and marry.

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

Yah dun know wha izz goinun

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

There may be a supernatural force trying to protect you from an impeding danger that might emanate as a result of your negligence to holy instructions..

Premarital sex is the sweetest poison anyone can think of, don't lose your guard..

Joystark:
Yah dun know wha izz goinun

What do you mean?

bro you and i are living in the same nutshell.
I am over twenty eight without sex.
To be honest my life have been miserable and boring.
No friend, no social life.
Painfully my behaviour is very childish..
My friends said is as result of too much accumulation of sperm that is making me not to think straight.

Deepfeel:
27 yr old virgin in this generation, praise the Lord, guy you already came this far be a little bit patient till you marry, I lost my virginity at 16, guy u try

I'm 32 never had sex

Owiii:
I'm 32 never had sex

Chisos how did you manage to keep yourself this long? Masturbation right?

Oma307:
he can still go to hell even without fornicating

Are you saying “all die na die”

Deepfeel:
Chisos how did you manage to keep yourself this long? Masturbation right?

I have never masturbated in my life as it is a sin before God. I used to kiss and have intimate romance but no penetration. When I got born again on the 20th of May, 2011 till this moment, I have never kissed nor had a romance with any lady. Its not by my making but by the grace of God.

Please, heed to that dream for your own sake.

Glory147:
I've had several upportuinities.. I can't begin to start counting..
If you living in Abuja you'll know a young man who can afford his bills does not look for sex, sex looks for him.

Some months ago, a girl left my house at about 2am because I refused to have sex with her... She was pissed off and said she can't sleep in same house with me without having sex.

Yesterday I turned off my phone because a girl was suppose to come pass the night at my place. We've been talking for about 3 weeks and she desperately wants the "dick" but I'm scared everytime I remember the dream.

Simple Solution: Don't have sex no matter the pressure you are being faced with, and if you must do it, simply get married. TBH, sex is really not worth it, don't be deceived bro!

Dont believe your friends. Chastity is rare these days. Don't let them deceive you.

MrHandsome2013:
bro you and i are living in the same nutshell.
I am over twenty eight without sex.
To be honest my life have been miserable and boring.
No friend, no social life.
Painfully my behaviour is very childish..
My friends said is as result of too much accumulation of sperm that is making me not to think straight.

Owiii:
I have never masturbated in my life as it is a sin before God. I used to kiss and have intimate romance but no penetration. When I got born again on the 20th of May, 2011 till this moment, I have never kissed nor had a romance with any lady. Its not by my making but by the grace of God.

Keep it up... He will keep sustaining you till the right time to settle down

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

na your type they make mistake dey carry aids with their first Bleep open your eyes make sure the babe do test first i warn you o

Owiii:
I have never masturbated in my life as it is a sin before God. I used to kiss and have intimate romance but no penetration. When I got born again on the 20th of May, 2011 till this moment, I have never kissed nor had a romance with any lady. Its not by my making but by the grace of God.

Hurry and marry now that your erection is still strong o cause the strength of it weakens as men grow older, you haven't had sex before so u won't know, but take it from me, the erection of a 20 yr old is stronger than that of a 30 yr old

Owiii:
I'm 32 never had sex

i'm 88 never had sex

Owiii:
I'm 32 never had sex

i'm 88 never had sex

Keep deciving yourself with that your profile pic, time will tell who is fooling who.

Michelle55:
Simple Solution: Don't have sex no matter the pressure you are being faced with, and if you must do it, simply get married. TBH, sex is really not worth it, don't be deceived bro!

SPerm count decreases with age
Strength of erection decreases with age

Just thought I would let you know.

A 40 year old can never satisfy a woman like a 20 year old.

Deepfeel:
Hurry and marry now that your erection is still strong o cause the strength of it weakens as men grow older, you haven't had sex before so u won't know, but take it from me, the erection of a 20 yr old is stronger than that of a 30 yr old

On what basis is your hypothesis