Mynd44:


If someone falsely accuses you of rape or any crime, there are laws for it. It is called defamation/libel. Yes, you can exercise your constitutional rights and sue

Very easy for you to say. Men lose their jobs, marriages, friends and reputation while fighting to clear their names of allegations like sexual assault and even when they finally succeed in doing so, the damage already done to the man and his family is irreversible

Abi na..
Later now some ashana will come and be saying she was raped repeatedly meanwhile she did on her on freewill and they both enjoyed it..

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

Mynd44, the problem is when a man is accused of rape, the public descends on him, no one cares about constitutional rights, he goes through so much pain that even if his innocence is later established, no amount of remedy can make up for the harm inflicted. Many men are already trying to avoid situations where they will even have to prove their innocence, as prevention is better than cure.

Yeah with rape accusation, its perceived that the man is guilty until proven innocent.

Daeylar:
Discrimination. I hope he doesn't win.
And she's right.. It's his responsibility to provide a chaperone to chaperone him and not her providing one.

Rubbish!! She's the one that is requesting for the interview and not him so she should simply abide by his terms or go and interview someone else.

e b like say baba dey follow cozagate hence his decision

It's funny when you read stuffs like "fear women", "daughters of Jezebel", etc. It's even more unfortunate seeing how guys try hard to envelop rape cases as "mere accusations".

The truth is, a good deal of the rape cases we've had in the past eventually came out as the man being guilty. If that statistics is anything to go by, I guess it's safe to say that men have higher tendencies of carrying out rape crimes than women accusing men falsely. So who should be feared more here?

I understand and respect the man's position but that's his personal decision and shouldn't be a norm cause it'll have a serious damaging effect if allowed to fester. Women are raped everyday; you do not even get to hear about a good deal of the cases cause they happen in societies where women as seen as "helpers". Iimagine if they all say "fear men, sons of whoever" and refuse to work with men...

Let me guess, they'll lose cause it's a man's world, right?

That is chauvinism for you.

etrange:
It's funny when you read stuffs like "fear women", "daughters of Jezebel", etc. It's even more unfortunate seeing how guys try hard to envelop rape cases as "mere accusations".

The truth is, a good deal of the rape cases we've had in the past eventually came out as the man being guilty. If that statistics is anything to go by, I guess it's safe to say that men have higher tendencies of carrying out rape crimes than women accusing men falsely. So who should be feared more here?

I understand and respect the man's position but that's his personal decision and shouldn't be a norm cause it'll have a serious damaging effect if allowed to fester. Women are raped everyday; you do not even get to hear about a good deal of the cases cause they happen in societies where women as seen as "helpers". Iimagine if they all say "fear men, sons of whoever" and refuse to work with men...

Let me guess, they'll lose cause it's a man's world, right?

That is chauvinism for you.

i pray it becomes a norm..no female p.a for.male and vice versa..no personal interviews with female by male..even reeves keane doeant hug female fans again...

tsinzu:

Rubbish!! She's the one that is requesting for the interview and not him so she should simply abide by his terms or go and interview someone else.

The man is wiser in that the lady should bring g a chaperone of her own and not that later she would accuse the Chaperone of colluding with him to rape her.

Daeylar:
Discrimination. I hope he doesn't win.
And she's right.. It's his responsibility to provide a chaperone to chaperone him and not her providing one.

I don't blame u, I blame ur thinking. Who want to interview u? Who is the reporter here that works for a company that needs the interview badly, for her professional rating? So the interviewee should bring a chaperone? Ladies, try to be logical when necessary!!

etrange:
It's funny when you read stuffs like "fear women", "daughters of Jezebel", etc. It's even more unfortunate seeing how guys try hard to envelop rape cases as "mere accusations".

The truth is, a good deal of the rape cases we've had in the past eventually came out as the man being guilty. If that statistics is anything to go by, I guess it's safe to say that men have higher tendencies of carrying out rape crimes than women accusing men falsely. So who should be feared more here?

I understand and respect the man's position but that's his personal decision and shouldn't be a norm cause it'll have a serious damaging effect if allowed to fester. Women are raped everyday; you do not even get to hear about a good deal of the cases cause they happen in societies where women as seen as "helpers". Iimagine if they all say "fear men, sons of whoever" and refuse to work with men...

Let me guess, they'll lose cause it's a man's world, right?

That is chauvinism for you.

if it becomes a normal, it will save women from being raped and if it's eventually happened there will be a witness who will either say yes it happened or no it didn't.

Ibile77:
if it becomes a normal, it will save women from being raped and if it's eventually happened there will be a witness who will either say yes it happened or no it didn't.

Such division along gender lines will have a far reaching damaging effect, believe it.

princeade86:
women will bring their own downfall if care is not taking.

They have already started. All aficans are waiting is for them to start it in Africa and see men's reactions. Here that 99.9% females depend on men both the employed, unemployed and unemployable. Dem go hear am. They will first build their empire and employ women like them to work for them. When men show them pepper, Dem go submit.Man live comfortably before woman.but women can't try it. For women came meeting men on ground already. Man is the sun, woman is the moon.women can't do without men, just like moon can't do without sun. However, if they disagree, they can give it a try.

etrange:


Such division along gender lines will have a far reaching damaging effect, believe it.

It's better to have damaging effect than innocent man suffering in jail or get his reputation ruined.

etrange:
It's funny when you read stuffs like "fear women", "daughters of Jezebel", etc. It's even more unfortunate seeing how guys try hard to envelop rape cases as "mere accusations".

The truth is, a good deal of the rape cases we've had in the past eventually came out as the man being guilty. If that statistics is anything to go by, I guess it's safe to say that men have higher tendencies of carrying out rape crimes than women accusing men falsely. So who should be feared more here?

Exactly.

I understand and respect the man's position but that's his personal decision and shouldn't be a norm cause it'll have a serious damaging effect if allowed to fester.

Same way I feel. That's how discrimination starts. It starts with chaperons now because it's an enclosed space, Next thing, he won't bother to allow female reporters because " why manage the problem when you can avoid it completely" then you can see how it spirals out of control from then on.

Women are raped everyday; you do not even get to hear about a good deal of the cases cause they happen in societies where women as seen as "helpers". Iimagine if they all say "fear men, sons of whoever" and refuse to work with men...

They'll call women misandrists, bash feminism, Blame feminism for it saying it's turning women into man haters who want to subdue men. Tell women that why they are bitter and can't have a man. Tell women that they end up in Shiloh.
You know the drill

Let me guess, they'll lose cause it's a man's world, right?

That is chauvinism for you.

etrange:


Such division along gender lines will have a far reaching damaging effect, believe it.

personally, I don't think its a division rather a preventive measure to prevent reputation damage. Don't interview a lady alone, don't attend to a lady patient/client alone or keep your door opened to avoid temptation and it's consequences.

babyfaceafrica:
i pray it becomes a norm..no female p.a for.male and vice versa..no personal interviews with female by male..even reeves keane doeant hug female fans again...

Lol... You and I know the gender that will violate the rules. Let's not pretend, it's in men to seek women (not necessarily for copulation). Simply put, the masculine gender can't withstand such division especially in countries where that was never the norm.

But that's aside the point. If such divisions are encouraged, it'll extend into many other aspects life - employment, leadership, etc and would eventually undermine the struggles of gender equality.

Korllami007:


It's better to have damaging effect than innocent man suffering in jail or get his reputation ruined.

or ruin his career for life.

NoRetreat:
personally, I don't think its a division rather a preventive measure to prevent reputation damage. Don't interview a lady alone, don't attend to a lady patient/client alone or keep your door opened to avoid temptation and it's consequences.

Regardless of how we see it, it's a division. Employment would be based on that, leadership would be based on that, etc... and going back to the old days

etrange:


Lol... You and I know the gender that will violate the rules. Let's not pretend, it's in men to seek women (not necessarily for copulation). Simply put, the masculine gender can't withstand such division especially in countries where that was never the norm.

But that's aside the point. If such divisions are encouraged, it'll extend into many other aspects life - employment, leadership, etc and would eventually undermine the struggles of gender equality.

If it happens, I think you should blame women that falsely accused men of rape.

Mynd44:


If someone falsely accuses you of rape or any crime, there are laws for it. It is called defamation/libel. Yes, you can exercise your constitutional rights and sue

In this age of social media, any action to prevent the accusation is more than welcome.

Court of public opinion is rife, with detrimental consequences.

Daeylar:
Discrimination. I hope he doesn't win.
And she's right.. It's his responsibility to provide a chaperone to chaperone him and not her providing one.

Even if the man provides a chaperone for himself and tomorrow there is a rape allegation, the chaperone words won't stand becos there is higher possibility he might be loyal to his boss ..daeylar provide ur chaperone
Even Botch program on E , the patient come in with there relative & the doctor has a witness as well, a partner. women target men with post & reputation.

Korllami007:


It's better to have damaging effect than innocent man suffering in jail or get his reputation ruined.

Woman suffer from rape all over the world every minute. That doesn't call for such sharp lines but the reputation of a few innocent men does ?

Lol... It's fine

Korllami007:


If it happens, I think you should blame women that falsely accused men of rape.

And not the men that have been raping women since stone ages?

Ok

etrange:


And not the men that have been raping women since stone ages?

Ok

There is punishment for rapists so what's your point, ma'am?

etrange:


Lol... You and I know the gender that will violate the rules. Let's not pretend, it's in men to seek women (not necessarily for copulation). Simply put, the masculine gender can't withstand such division especially in countries where that was never the norm.

But that's aside the point. If such divisions are encouraged, it'll extend into many other aspects life - employment, leadership, etc and would eventually undermine the struggles of gender equality.

it should b encouraged..let us scatter everything,when both genders get sense..we will put it back...rapists and false accusers need to get the same purnishment

Very very smart
Sexist ko, sexist ni

etrange:


Regardless of how we see it, it's a division. Employment would be based on that, leadership would be based on that, etc... and going back to the old days

it is far better,than brrn accused of rape.

babyfaceafrica:
it is far better,than brrn accused of rape.

Nothing is worse than being raped though

babyfaceafrica:
it should b encouraged..let us scatter everything,when both genders get sense..we will put it back...rapists and false accusers need to get the same purnishment

Easier said

etrange:


Easier said

for you..people are already doing it...if we cant do it,let us support them

Later now... They will be complaining about gender discrimination and gender inequality... Women don't know what they want...

Korllami007:


There is punishment for rapists so what's your point, ma'am?

The fact that you called me "ma'am" only shows the crux of your argument. You believe I'm lady since I don't agree with your stance on rape and rape accusations; you expect every man to fall in line with your opinion. You're already making it a "man-should-stand-by-men" thing instead of a logical response to the issue at hand.

Anyway, let's not get carried away, men who are found guilty of rape are punished. Women who are found guilty of false accusations should also be punished severely. That's all about it. Drawing sharp between the two genders will lead to discrimination in many ways. That's all I'm saying.

I'm a man, brother.