Op, your story is very funny. I am sorry but don't take my comment as being judgmental. You see, the reason why it's becoming difficult for you to hold on is that you are thinking too much about sex!
In as much it lingers in your head, take for instance, always looking lustfully at ladies and trying to take a glimpse of their backside and body structure, you can't afford not to fall very soon at the cheapest sale with that kind of attitude. I think you may soon do it if you don't get busy and think about your fulfilment and purpose in life!
Please get busy and forget about sex until when you are ready to be a good father and husband!!!

Deepfeel:

27 yr old virgin in this generation, praise the Lord, guy you already came this far be a little bit patient till you marry, I lost my virginity at 16, guy u try

I'm your boss. 16 is kinda reasonable.

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

Save yourself at least you won't have any STDs or STIs or worse yet, HIV.

SaucyBenks:
lost mine at 7 to a house maid... Forced sex.

My cousin first before the house maid tho

Confusion here

Lost to your cousin at what age?
Abi the two occurred same day ni

Safitu:
SPerm count decreases with age
Strength of erection decreases with age

Just thought I would let you know.

A 40 year old can never satisfy a woman like a 20 year old.

How ignorant can you ever get?

Hmmm this thread na wa....as for me I'm not a virgin ooo, can't even find it...

Oma307:

he can still go to hell even without fornicating

Help me tell am.... If anybody will make heaven in Nigeria ,infact the world sef,na by grace.. No b only that one be sin nah. Who no dey sin Being a Nigeria citizen sef na sin..

J4JUVENTUS:
Help me tell am.... If anybody will make heaven in Nigeria ,infact the world sef,na by grace.. No b only that one be sin nah. Who no dey sin Being a Nigeria citizen sef na sin..

And who told you people make heaven by the sins they commit or their act of righteousness... The bible says we are saved by grace and not by our works lest any man should boast.

Ephesians 2 vs 8..''[8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. ''

This is why many people end up in hell. They think GOD judges them by the errors they make by falling into sin even after they gave ther life to Jesus but this is not so. The bible says as long as you accept Jesus as lord and saviour,he will never drive you away

John 6 vs 37..''All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.''


To cap it up, God knows we are not perfect and that we can still sin sometimes even after we have accepted JESUS so he has made provision for that by insru ting us to ask for forgiveness in the name of Jesus and we will reecieve forgiveness.

1John chp2 vs 1..''"My little children, I am writing this to you so that you may not sin; but if any one does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous" (2:1).1 "No one who abides in him sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him. . . . ... All wrongdoing is sin, but there a sin which is not mortal."


But Paul now said well,we should not because there is abundant grace and we can always recieve forgiveness for our sins we should then enjoy sins o....

Romans 6 vs 1 ''What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase?

So wettin be my point?

Give your life to Jesus and he will acept you as you be,if you sin after you give your life to Jesus dont be discouraged or disqualify yourself but pray for forgiveness and bounce back. Don't enjoy sins and submit to the holy spirit who is the one that helps every believer to get better and better until the day we die and go to heaven where we become very perfect.

hope you get my message

mobilemykel:
What does it mean to be a Nazare from birth?

It means he is a prophet from Birth.

Some school of thought call it Eunuch from Birth

otherway:


And who told you people make heaven by the sins they commit or their act of righteousness... The bible says we are saved by grace and not by our works lest any man should boast.

Ephesians 2 vs 8..''[8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. ''

This is why many people end up in hell. They think GOD judges them by the errors they make by falling into sin even after they gave ther life to Jesus but this is not so. The bible says as long as you accept Jesus as lord and saviour,he will never drive you away

John 6 vs 37..''All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.''


To cap it up, God knows we are not perfect and that we can still sin sometimes even after we have accepted JESUS so he has made provision for that by insru ting us to ask for forgiveness in the name of Jesus and we will reecieve forgiveness.

1John chp2 vs 1..''"My little children, I am writing this to you so that you may not sin; but if any one does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous" (2:1).1 "No one who abides in him sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him. . . . ... All wrongdoing is sin, but there a sin which is not mortal."


But Paul now said well,we should not because there is abundant grace and we can always recieve forgiveness for our sins we should then enjoy sins o....

Romans 6 vs 1 ''What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase?

So wettin be my point?

Give your life to Jesus and he will acept you as you be,if you sin after you give your life to Jesus dont be discouraged or disqualify yourself but pray for forgiveness and bounce back. Don't enjoy sins and submit to the holy spirit who is the one that helps every believer to get better and better until the day we die and go to heaven where we become very perfect.

hope you get my message

Na me you dey preach for? Anyways I know all what you said up there already,but I still know what I'm saying. No vex!

damtan:

I'm your boss. 16 is kinda reasonable.

At what age did you loose yours?

SIR0:
Confusion here

Lost to your cousin at what age?
Abi the two occurred same day ni

cousin was first to start it the same year n later the house help took over the same year till I was 13...

Then marry

madprophet:


It means he is a prophet from Birth.

Some school of thought call it Eunuch from Birth

Can I speak to you over on the phone.... Please!!!!.. This is my number

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

leave the sex issue but concentrate on the purpose which I believe you have one. So its up to you to get in touch with your God and ask him for directions in this. The energy reserved till now is for something important .

MrHandsome2013:
bro you and i are living in the same nutshell.
I am over twenty eight without sex.
To be honest my life have been miserable and boring.
No friend, no social life.
Painfully my behaviour is very childish..
My friends said is as result of too much accumulation of sperm that is making me not to think straight.

Lol, i beg i no wan laugh.

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

You have the call of God on your life. I'd follow God to the latter if I were you.

As for the sex part, there are hidden mysteries behind sex and hence it might obstruct your destiny.

Listen - the same way God knows your destiny, that's the same way the devil knows people's destinies. Reference - the three wise men... Those ladies pursuing your dick are not ordinary ladies trust me.

Anyway.. Lemme not go deep... Just abstain from sex and not just that, make sure you pursue that destiny for the sake of those people attached to you.

May God grant you the strength and open your eyes more.

Glory147:
Can I speak to you over on the phone.... Please!!!!..

Op nothing is wrong with you. In fact kudos for being able to hold on till now in the midst of sexual and moral decadence nowadays.
Pls, pls and pls dont go contrary to your vision and destiny.
The problem you have is that you're walking at the edge of the trouble and romancing 'abomination'.
I mean, you are not to have sex but you're constantly thinking of it, finding yourself in the midst of girls, toasting them and allowing them sleep over at your house. That's very very wrong!
I understand you may be bowing to pressure from peers and friends BUT remember you have a divine assignment that wouldn't just allow you be like them.
Bros, if you make this mistake, take it from me, you'll spend the rest of your life regretting and they'll still be the set of people to mock you.
If possible cut off from them.
Engage yourself in other productive things that can take your mind away from sex.
Stop watching sex movies or reading sex novels.
Above all, GO AND MARRY as soon as possible so you dont fall into temptation.

SaucyBenks:
lost mine at 7 to a house maid... Forced sex.

My cousin first before the house maid tho

How did she force you

Owiii:

I have never masturbated in my life as it is a sin before God. I used to kiss and have intimate romance but no penetration. When I got born again on the 20th of May, 2011 till this moment, I have never kissed nor had a romance with any lady. Its not by my making but by the grace of God.

You are exposing yourself to danger. Don't say this to anyone. I'm talking from experience. I once exposed and she never rested until she brought me down. They moment you enter into the her, all your glory is vanished

kelvinrhs:

How did she force you

cousin is way way older than I am then, like 22years... She'd wake me up in the morning and start kitting me up for school and while everywhere is dark, she'd stick my whole hand inside her vagina and move it back and forth I touched many things in there, just thought it was play... And when she's done, my hand would be so wet and sticky and she'd help me wash it off... All these happened while mom was busy preparing for work

Then it advanced to her touching my small dick and sucking it, she's part of the reason I'm an addict to masturbation today from there she'd take me to my parent's room and lay on me but I don't think I was inside, rather she'd rub her clit on my bald public area then till she cums and I remember complaining severally saying Aunty your hair is shooking me and when I try to leave, she'd pull me back and lock the door

SaucyBenks:
cousin is way way older than I am then, like 22years... She'd wake me up in the morning and start kitting me up for school and while everywhere is dark, she'd stick my whole hand inside her vagina and move it back and forth I touched many things in there, just thought it was play... And when she's done, my hand would be so wet and sticky and she'd help me wash it off... All these happened while mom was busy preparing for work

Then it advanced to her touching my small dick and sucking it, she's part of the reason I'm an addict to masturbation today from there she'd take me to my parent's room and lay on me but I don't think I was inside, rather she'd rub her clit on my bald public area then till she cums and I remember complaining severally saying Aunty your hair is shooking me and when I try to leave, she'd pull me back and lock the door

Do you guys still see each other

kelvinrhs:

Do you guys still see each other

... No, but I heard her husband died recently...

It was actually shortly when she was doing these things to me that my mom had an issue with her and sent her back to the village and employed the house help that bleeps me everytime she wants to till I was 13 and she was caught stealing and sent away... She even use to beat me sef if I fight back...

SaucyBenks:
... No, but I heard her husband died recently...

It was actually shortly when she was doing these things to me that my mom had an issue with her and sent her back to the village and employed the house help that bleeps me everytime she wants to till I was 13 and she was caught stealing and sent away... She even use to beat me sef if I fight back...

Sorry about your experience with your cousin.
How did it start with your housemaid

kelvinrhs:

Sorry about your experience with your cousin.
How did it start with your housemaid

I had a sister then, and elder sister tho... She stays a lot at her friend's place back then... So I'm left always with the maid, she'd make me do something wrong in the house and then say she'll tell my mom unless I do what she asks.. That's how the whole thing started... She was first person to ever make me cum... Many more happened with my sister's friends, Ana, loveth, Jane, Sandra, Ehis and the rest... Even in school I was raped in the toilet by a group of girls and that was the first time I was forced to lick pussy

SaucyBenks:
I had a sister then, and elder sister tho... She stays a lot at her friend's place back then... So I'm left always with the maid, she'd make me do something wrong in the house and then say she'll tell my mom unless I do what she asks.. That's how the whole thing started... She was first person to ever make me cum... Many more happened with my sister's friends, Ana, loveth, Jane, Sandra, Ehis and the rest... Even in school I was raped in the toilet by a group of girls and that was the first time I was forced to lick pussy

Oh my gosh
That's really saddening
Can you add me up on WhatsApp.
I will love to counsel you if you don't mind
07032293621

SaucyBenks:
I had a sister then, and elder sister tho... She stays a lot at her friend's place back then... So I'm left always with the maid, she'd make me do something wrong in the house and then say she'll tell my mom unless I do what she asks.. That's how the whole thing started... She was first person to ever make me cum... Many more happened with my sister's friends, Ana, loveth, Jane, Sandra, Ehis and the rest... Even in school I was raped in the toilet by a group of girls and that was the first time I was forced to lick pussy

This figment was sounding real until it reached the bolded part.
Are you well? You can lie for Africa. The above guy is so gullible.

may320:

This figment was sounding real until it reached the bolded part.
Are you well?

you think its a joke, just like a lot I've told thought... So have a nice day.

SaucyBenks:
you think its a joke, just like a lot I've told thought... So have a nice day.

My friend go and eat.
All these happened to only you? Were you the only male sweet-pie in the entire town as at then?

may320:

My friend go and eat.
All these happened to only you? Were you the only male sweet-pie in the entire town as at then?

ok

SaucyBenks:
ok

Good! Lying is not good for your health. Good day.