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Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Auduambless(m): 10:27am On Jul 15, 2019 |
nicepoker101: For example: |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by meobizy(f): 10:29am On Jul 15, 2019 |
The only things it taught me were the basics of living in an all-male environment. Other than that, nothing else. I believe the point of boarding school is a form of punishment for ill-bred children. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 15, 2019 |
First, stubbornness is a virtue when directed properly; it is akin to persistence, the bible describes it as knocking till the door opens; a man must pursue a course of which he is convinced of its righteousness irrespective of what people say. The bad part is when as a result of ego masquerading as stubbornness a man becomes unyielding to counsel however wise, such is the one who perishes in his folly. If a boarding school fosters the positive kind of stubbornness/dodgedness/persistence then good for your child, if not, then what can I say? My experience at boarding school was a nightmare, but then I was a sensitive child, I regret every single second of that experience. Your experience however might differ...it all depends on the child. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Damfostopper(m): 10:48am On Jul 15, 2019 |
MacMkboy:Thats ur lame opinion..... TF is not my business...... |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 10:49am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Mrshape: In almost all ramification, the boarder is ahead of the day student. And yes, when I write about boarding schools, I mean boarding schools with day students. Although, I believe boarding school is not for everyone. Study your child and know which is best fit for him or her. They both have their advantages and disadvantages. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Damfostopper(m): 10:50am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:by visiting porn hub, opening different fb account at age 13.... well that's for you |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by wwwtortoise(m): 11:01am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Katier00: I admire your sincerity . 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by DonXavi(m): 11:17am On Jul 15, 2019 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by toprealman: 11:19am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Foxie:Just like some 'caring' mums will come for visiting day and be washing their wards clothes, some repeated same in the university. Who go blow go blow......who go spoil go spoil. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 11:25am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Iranoladun: Boarding Schools are academic orphanages. There is no point for us to sugar-coat realities any longer. 2 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Judolisco(m): 11:34am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Auduambless:just train ur kids from home to be an influence to others and not d otherwise |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by VULCAN(m): 11:36am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Don't blame them. Nostalgia controls most people. They refuse to accept the fact that the world has changed rapidly. Do phones of today look and operate like phones of 15yrs ago but they believe that boarding school that they attended 25yrs ago is still the same. ikhalyfah: 4 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Mogajunior(m): 11:43am On Jul 15, 2019 |
blackboy:You should have stated reasons and not just disapprove of it. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Katier00(f): 11:45am On Jul 15, 2019 |
wwwtortoise:thanks, those are in the past now |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 11:49am On Jul 15, 2019 |
SendAbroad:1.Independence and Self-reliance: Almost all boarding school children find that they are more independent and self-reliant than their other peers. They have to solve daily problems themselves, like organising for soap when they run out or making sure that their school uniforms are washed and ironed. 2.Confidence: As the children begin to do things, small and big, on their own, they will start building up more confidence in their own abilities. Boarding schools expose children to many activities like social service, art, drama, and carpentry amongst others. As they begin to find what they like and are good at, children will develop more confidence. 3.Discipline: Boarding students live a more regimented life than their peers. Meal times are set as is study time. If they are allowed to watch TV, it is also closely regulated. Learning discipline is important for children as it will help them achieve their goals. 4.Standard Living: All the students will live in the same quarters and some schools even stipulate that a child must receive only a certain amount as allowance. This puts all the students on an equal footing and strips away the unnecessary trials of status and ownership. 5.Social Confidence: As your children mingle, study, and live with hundreds of other children, they will soon learn how to transcend differences. Making and being a part of a group is at the core of living in a boarding school, and most pupils of these schools emerge as healthy social beings. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by kunleweb: 11:50am On Jul 15, 2019 |
VRDroid: Preach. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Katier00(f): 11:51am On Jul 15, 2019 |
psalmuelwater:every woman is. The question is, is the attraction strong enough for you to make a pass at your follow woman |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by blackboy(m): 11:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Let me give experience. Neat? I know some of the dirtiest students were boarders. 2. The junior ones are sometimes turned to slaves- wash this that do this etc. 3. Given names like mosquito, maggot etc. 4. Forced into homosexuality and beaten and maltreated if not willing 5. Poor food 6. Another name for boarders were elewon(prisoner) 7. Sickness a norm. 8.suffering 9. Not a normal life or living environment 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Elvismavis(m): 11:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
90% of gays and lesbians,went to boarding schools.I was a boarder talking from what I saw.my school master my mum gave to look after me wanted to sleep with me,I had to tell my mum.they suspended him and I left the hostel and became a day student. So many gays in the hostel back then. If I didn't get out from the hostel maybe by now I would have been a gay. 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Katier00(f): 11:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
engrelvis:yes because I have tried it and realized that I am not cut out for such |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by kayo80(m): 11:54am On Jul 15, 2019 |
budaatum: You have said it all. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Yankee101: 12:01pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Don't even try it Cultisim Homosexuality Mean seniors Abuse Depression Malnourished Erc Your kid will think you hate them 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by kayo80(m): 12:04pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
engrelvis: same question I was going to ask her. She probably still has that feeling for her to speak on the lady she met after school, but ofcos she is scared what people would say. I would say she is probably bi. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nwanna2588: 12:28pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
I recently left a burden school in Lekki. I was a teacher and at the same time house parent. What I saw in my odyssey there is not encouraging. I cannot advise anybody to put his children in boarding school the there 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by tchidi066(f): 12:36pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Freehuman: 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Rhaspody(m): 12:56pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Federal government college okigwe shaped me. Boarding school is bae. Federal boarding school o. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by engrelvis(m): 1:01pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Katier00:OK.u r a beautiful lady n strong lady.take care n Godbless 2 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by GoodGovernance: 1:13pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Aonkuuse: The children come home on holidays. Family and home training cannot be lost just like that. A good boarding school will reformat a stubborn child to be disciplined and independent. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by GoodGovernance: 1:15pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
Rhaspody: Yes.Federal boarding school is it! |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by jobhunter11: 1:19pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
-homosexuality isnt something you learn at boarding school....its something you are born with, you have nothung to be scared of here....pro -depending on the school, the child is at a risk of joining a cult group or worse.....con -His academics is likely going to nosedive if no one is there to monitor his performances....con -He learns to be independent and sociable.....pro i could go on and on, but if you must send your kids to a boarding, please avoid the FGC's and other public schools, a private school would be much better |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by kellswizy(m): 1:23pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
i also attended boarding school and it has its advantages as well as disadvantages but this is what you can try. from jss1 to jss3 let your child be a day student then from ss1 to ss3 put your child in boarding house that way he will have both experiences. |
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