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Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Babaheekmat: 7:16am On Jul 18, 2019 |
salt1: Smh |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 7:18am On Jul 18, 2019 |
alphaNomega: There are no answers to such vague questions unfortunately. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by alphaNomega: 7:19am On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills: Calm down, I'm on your side. Just anwser |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 18, 2019 |
alphaNomega: Smart guy, we see this all the time. This country is full of stories of families of the father seizing the children. It is a part of our culture. Even people one thinks are educated do it. When a woman and her husband are falling out and divorce is looming, he will start getting advice on how to snatch the kids. Keep speaking English and trying to analyze. The longer you waste time doing that, the worse it will get |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 7:29am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: Technically if the family does not have a right to the child then the child does not have a right bearing the family name either technically losing any rights to any properties in the man's name. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 7:31am On Jul 18, 2019 |
The child doesn't owe it to them, it is his father's name. The name that his father gave to him. If they have a problem with it, they should confront their son. I expect them to have dial number for the dead. neyobills: 3 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 7:35am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: Oh I now get it you want to enforce the child's right over his father's property at the same time deny the family members of the deceased the right of identity over their own grandchild,isnt God just wonderful? With cold hearted conniving ladies with no dignity like you in the picture,i guess we are in for some real trouble. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Boombaby: 7:36am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Speaking from experience she is in for a long thing. Benin people can be very terrible when it comes to things like this and the Ekhator family I know are very wicked. I was in school with one Ekhator, short devil. Maybe it is not them Sha. But speaking from experience, she won't get that child till the child grows up to look for her say about age 16 and the child will not be cared for o. In fact, the child will suffer the sins of the mother. I just hope human rights people can help. Benin people are not called wicked for nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Nobody: 7:44am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Her sister murdered him na |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by sherozy(m): 7:47am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Go lay your complaints at the NHRC office in Benin. That should be a good starting point. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 7:47am On Jul 18, 2019 |
HIS father's property. He is his father's dependant. He is his issue, his father's son. His right over his father's property superscedes his father's family. Unfortunately for you, they cannot enforce those silly rights in court. Is it so difficult for you to grasp? Why on earth would you assume that those rights are even remotely equal? Let me break it down for you. See ehn, my dad can ask me not to visit my grandparents. There is nothing my grandparents can do but lament. They cannot enforce such right or bar me from inheriting my mum's. However, it changes with me being an adult, my dad can say what he likes but he can't bar me from visiting them. Relationship between the child and his father's family is to be encouraged however they cannot force it or claim that is a right they are entitled to especially where the mum is disinterested maintaining that link. No one can blame her in the circumstance, they have proven themselves to be distrustful and wicked. neyobills: 3 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by seanwilliam(m): 7:48am On Jul 18, 2019 |
I cant help but to cry, feel enraged. before judging, how did u relate with ur husband's family when he was alive? friendly or enemity? what is the tradition like? because im sure every member of his family can not be thinking in same direction |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Kakamorufu(m): 7:50am On Jul 18, 2019 |
i pray you get your kid back |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by seanwilliam(m): 7:54am On Jul 18, 2019 |
the best thing u can do is to have heart to heart talk with them. we dnt go to court and remain friendly. pray, if u believe in that. i bet u didnt have a good relationship with them before. i feel for u. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by teemotee: 7:56am On Jul 18, 2019 |
[quote author=neyobills post=80375813] I don't get this your logic sorry the surname of the child is of the fathers so the kid definitely belong to the fathers family in my opinion [/quote. which name, are children properties? are they the ones that conceived the child and carried her for 9months or what rubbish are you saying? the child rightly belongs to the mother and is just a relative to family. They have no justification to cut her off from the mother. 2yrs old baby who just lost her father. Even animals wont think like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 7:57am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: Oh the mom is disinterested in maintaining the link,then she should go ahead to change the name of the child to whatever name she is interested in the link. You can't be disinterested in the link and at the same time use the link to own properties,you have to be be as disinterested in the properties as with the link. Does your logic even make any sense to you,why am I not surprised with your comments I can see a cold hearted cunny double faced hypocrite. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 8:04am On Jul 18, 2019 |
You can go and meet her husband on behalf of the family. Tell him to come and give his child another name. If anyone of you kidnappers cannot force the father to change his son's name, you have no point. I can't see that stupid link you keep hammering on. He remains his father's child and therefore a right to inherit his father's property. The right to his property isn't only by name. His father recognised him as his son and that is all that matters. If the family like, they should even consider him a bastard, it is your headache. They want a fight, let them take it up with him. Does your own logic make sense to you? Are you one of those douchebags in-laws? We hope to see you Roy in hell. Wicked people! neyobills: 4 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by newmoney133: 8:05am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Some of our so called culture are inhumane. The woman should involve a lawyer after exhausting all avenue to a peaceful resolution.Tell them you won't stop them from having access to their grandchild. As regards the entittlement.please give your husband parent something too. The genesis of this problems lies in the fact that they see the wife and her children as their property.when your parents write bridal list telling your in-laws you are for sale .At times the whole family contribute to finance such list..Pray very well because African black juju is real.So that you will notnot be be killed before your time. 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 8:07am On Jul 18, 2019 |
[quote author=teemotee post=80380274][/quote] Of course children are properties of the family name they bear,that is why there is something called disown, a father disown a child because he owns the child,are u the one that impregnated her or did pregnancy just fall on her like manna from heaven, a man spends a fortune to marry a land and equally spends a fortune maintaining his family,after his demise you now want to alienate his own family members from their own grandchild,its all shades of wrong. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by teemotee: 8:15am On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills:did you even read the story at all? Is it the family that are have been refused access to the child in this case? The complaint here is that they took the daughter forcefully and alienated her from the mother. The said mother has not set eyes on the baby since all this has been happening. Wrong wrong wrong! The baby is a human first before being family property and she needs her mother. The mother who also just lost her husband needs access to her child. We are human beings please not animals, remember this when trying to form logical. jeez! 3 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by safarigirl(f): 8:16am On Jul 18, 2019 |
onyeopobo: This one is another discussion in general. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by adanny01(m): 8:17am On Jul 18, 2019 |
seborrhic: The part of the child is where i know you are obviously biased. The family can do all they want but not forcefully taking the child from the mother. Since the mother is alive, it is her right to decided who becomes guardian over her child and not the late husband's family. There is no reason to justify kidnapping a child unless she gave them permission to keep the child. It sounds like the family paid you to defend them. No matter the holes in her story, no one has the right to take her child without her consent. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by alphaNomega: 8:18am On Jul 18, 2019 |
ornicus: I already know your problem. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by teemotee: 8:21am On Jul 18, 2019 |
adanny01:exactly. where do these people who think it is okay for a child to be forcefully separated from her mother without consent even come from? Not justifiable at all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by newmoney133: 8:22am On Jul 18, 2019 |
seborrhic:I don't understand you.I don't know if the supporting stories are true or not.Are you saying it is right for them to separate the baby from the mum?haba 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 8:23am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: With she devils like u roaming God's green earth I guess we have a whole lot to worry about. His fathers name is his property according to your logic His father's family nko,not his property,afterall what financial benefits will you guys derive from a bunch of old aunts and uncles, You want the sweet, his father's property,yet you are disgusted by the sweat,his fathers family. Do u have a surname, if yes I can only help but pity the man be it father or husband u are using his surname, he is totally hopeless. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by adanny01(m): 8:27am On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills: The child bears a name that the late father gave. No one can take it away. Does the family have patent rights over the name? WTF are you talking about? 5 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sarah20A(f): 8:29am On Jul 18, 2019 |
deltateam:oga please if you were chased by Edo people in your dream today please go to your pastor and do the needful and stop polluting my mentions with your senseless coments Fish brain |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by alphaNomega: 8:43am On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills: Calm down, I'm on your side. Just anwser UPDATE (after several posts from you and no response to the question): This means you do not know what to do when your in-laws try to take away the properties of your deceased married children. You would fold your hands and watch. The in-laws now own everything. The End. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by deltateam: 8:56am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sarah20A: Ozhou. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by chigo5(m): 9:01am On Jul 18, 2019 |
meobizy:igbo this igbos that, dem swear with una with igbos, Wetin consign this matter with igbos, the lady no mention tribe n am sure her people no b igbos but u jst wan add am for ethnic bashing abeg go remove Tha igbo part cus she no mention any tribe. 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 9:13am On Jul 18, 2019 |
ednut1:Is that your next plan? |
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