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Useku:
Shebi useku say you should disregard that part nah.

Somebody cannot joke again on nairaland ni.

That you profile pix is dope.

LilMissFavvy:
She didn't marry the least guy, she married the best. She was in a relationship when her current husband approached her. She refused to take him serious because she felt he may be a player, and also the tribe issue. He continued to pressure her, till she became just friends. From simple friendship, they landed where they are today. Need I mention how long they dated, I rather not. Because you won't even believe it.

Fairytale

carter009:
Nice one, but I hope, Safitu, marialavina, Victorian,
ebonygurl will listen to your advice.

it's too late for these ones. Why do you think they're angry

Well,if its really true that ladies above 30 years easily get married like u have lightlighted.."MY QUESTION IS WHY DO WE HAVE LARGE PERCENTAGE OF LADIES ABOVE 30YEARS DOMINATING MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMMES TRYING DESPERATELY TO GET HOOKED TO A MAN??

WHY DO CHURCHES ORGANISE HOOK UP PROGRAMMES AND BEEN DOMINATED BY 90% OF LADIES IN THEIR 30S OR ABOVE??

IF MARRIAGE ISNT AN ACHIEVEMENT LIKE JUST A CHOICE,WHY DO EVERY GIRL LONG FOR MARRIAGE??

PLS..NOT EVERYGUY WANNA GET MARRIED TO A OLDER LADIES..THAT WILL END UP LOOKIN LIKE THE GUY'S ELDER SISTER IN FEW YEARS..ALL COS SHE PLAYED AWAY HER YOUTH..

TRUST ME MY SISTER,HAVE RELATED SO MUCH WITH SINGLE LADIES IN THEIR 30S,THEY AINT PLEASED WITH THEM..

ImaIma1:
Stop this ignorance. You think all the ladies that you see getting married to young single guys are all below 30? When next you attend a wedding, go and ask for the lady's birth certificate. I married above 30 and I am so glad I waited. My close friend got married at 34(a virgin) to a single guy. Infact many of my friends married at over 30 to single guys in their age range.

I don't know why you are making myopic baseless assertions. If you can't marry a lady above 30, no problem but don't speak for everyone.

This kind of restricted and shallow mentality is peculiar to Nigerian men... mostly the unexposed ones who still think traditionally and inside a box. I would rather marry at 40 than marry a man with such mentality.

Marriage is not a prize, an achievement or a race to be run; first to get there gets a prize. You can rush in and rush out or stay and suffer because of how people like you think.

This prejudice against single ladies needs to stop. At least I know for sure that there are many men out there with a liberal and healthy mindset. It's only in the Nairaland world that these nonsense talk happens because it is filled with myopic, unexposed and self absorbed men.

ImaIma1:
These are the men that ladies are supposed to be marrying. Just see the way you express yourself...

Cc LilMissFavvy

that's the only way possible to express oneself to hoes..

never treat a Cub as a pet.. A cub is always a lion.. and it shall one day harm you..

y'all bitches are wild spoilt hoes... you don't expect us to pet you and treat you as gentle ladies.


Money hungry Leeching hoes

Lol, but seriously what did u do to safitu, is like you hurt her so bad, please you both should take it easy.

ubunja:
it's too late for these ones. Why do you think they're angry

Fountainofyouth:
She married the least guy she loves because you are in her heart to know how much she loves her husband right? The confidence some people have on this faceless forum as if they are part of your life in reality is nauseating......

See ehn,tis what girls do alot okay??
Once a girl try to pin down the guy they love most and isnt working..
They all of suddent switched back to the least loved by them..once they realise their biological clock is fast tickling..
Making the mumu guy believing he won her heart over time lol..
My girlfriend in uni did it to the guy she married..but do tell me she would have waited to marry me instead had it being she had more time on her side..

carter009:
Lol, but seriously what did u do to safitu, is like you hurt her so bad, please you both should take it easy.

it's my writeups bro.

BigDick70inch:
Well,if its really true that ladies above 30 years easily get married like u have lightlighted.."MY QUESTION IS WHY DO WE HAVE LARGE PERCENTAGE OF LADIES ABOVE 30YEARS DOMINATING MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMMES TRYING DESPERATELY TO GET HOOKED TO A MAN??

WHY DO CHURCHES ORGANISE HOOK UP PROGRAMMES AND BEEN DOMINATED BY 90% OF LADIES IN THEIR 30S OR ABOVE??

IF MARRIAGE ISNT AN ACHIEVEMENT LIKE JUST A CHOICE,WHY DO EVERY GIRL LONG FOR MARRIAGE??

PLS..NOT EVERYGUY WANNA GET MARRIED TO A OLDER LADIES..THAT WILL END UP LOOKIN LIKE THE GUY'S ELDER SISTER IN FEW YEARS..ALL COS SHE PLAYED AWAY HER YOUTH..

TRUST ME MY SISTER,HAVE RELATED SO MUCH WITH SINGLE LADIES IN THEIR 30S,THEY AINT PLEASED WITH THEM..

Ladies married older guys that also played away their youths instead of settling down.

The single programmes usually have below 30s and over 30s. Why focus on the over 30s.

30 and above is not a bad time to get married. Not every lady is in a hurry. And not everyone is desperate.

There are even guys that are more desperate. Do you know how many guys I am trying to hook up? Meanwhile most of the ladies around me are married. I have more single guys around me looking to settle down more than I have ladies.

Let's not make marriage a woman's thing. Men also want to get married DESPERATELY.

Undertaker001:
that's the only way possible to express oneself to hoes..

never treat a Cub as a pet.. A cub is always a lion.. and it shall one day harm you..

y'all bitches are wild spoilt hoes... you don't expect us to pet you and treat you as gentle ladies.


Money hungry Leeching hoes

@ LilMissFavvy

See the gibberish he just typed

I wish you well with your relationship with this your mouth that is doing cho cho cho !

victorian:
Correct !

Im not worried about rushing to marry , i just want to marry right, so i dont look a shadow of myself later in marriage and people will be like ,ha! Is that Princess Victorian? Damn! What happened to her

Come how she look old and worn out !

God forbid o!i wont marry a man who kill me before my time.

They almost did but my God pass them. Im still alive,kicking well and bouncing good.

Infact im in a great relationship as i type. So my dear dont mind the op , let him wail forever .

We no send am work!



Oh ! The op is even a lady sef!

Bia! Lilyval no need crying more than the bereaved ,focus more on your life and make it work, biko

LilMissFavvy:
Exactly, I laugh at her perceptions about ladies, relationships and marriage. She even refers to a guy of 40 as still young, and a lady of 35 as old. Take a look at the current pictures of Ini Edo at 39, or Omotala
in her 40(s), etc, would any sane person call any of these ladies old? I have colleagues who are 30-35, even after having kids, they still look good and can't be seen as old. Ladies who age anyhow probably do not know how to take care of themselves.

It's even unfortunate that Nigerian women are the ones encouraging men to believe that marrying ladies within their age range is wrong, through write-ups such as this. Go abroad it's not so. Men abroad don't discriminate the age range to marry from. It's all about the Nigerian or African mentality anyway. Even at that, we still have men who see nothing wrong marrying within their age bracket.

Funny enough, you'd never see a guy create a thread like this to talk down on his fellow men, but you will always see ladies write threads to intimidate ladies about aging fast, menopause, etc. We will get there!

you're not helping yourself shey ogbo.
Pls marry at 50

damtan:
I know they'll come for the op's head. NA DEM!!!

cc: poco ishilove funministique et al

BigDick70inch:
Well,if its really true that ladies above 30 years easily get married like u have lightlighted.."MY QUESTION IS WHY DO WE HAVE LARGE PERCENTAGE OF LADIES ABOVE 30YEARS DOMINATING MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMMES TRYING DESPERATELY TO GET HOOKED TO A MAN??

WHY DO CHURCHES ORGANISE HOOK UP PROGRAMMES AND BEEN DOMINATED BY 90% OF LADIES IN THEIR 30S OR ABOVE??

IF MARRIAGE ISNT AN ACHIEVEMENT LIKE JUST A CHOICE,WHY DO EVERY GIRL LONG FOR MARRIAGE??

PLS..NOT EVERYGUY WANNA GET MARRIED TO A OLDER LADIES..THAT WILL END UP LOOKIN LIKE THE GUY'S ELDER SISTER IN FEW YEARS..ALL COS SHE PLAYED AWAY HER YOUTH..

TRUST ME MY SISTER,HAVE RELATED SO MUCH WITH SINGLE LADIES IN THEIR 30S,THEY AINT PLEASED WITH THEM..

dude, don't waste ur time trying to explain something that is so apparent, to an obviously exposed lady, cos I deduced that from the way she writes, she knows the truth but just in self denial ... For women, the older she gets the higher the tendencies that she will give birth to an abnormal child, it's a medical fact...

well for me i will marry the woman i love

love makes you forget what is age,even the worst monsters amongst us have experienced it

You seem so used to the name 'hoe'' ...... bastard. Even if your parents failed in training you properly, I can't understand why you can't learn good manners from the society. Who needs petting from from your kinds? Failed losers like you who have no achievements, take delight in abusing women, that's why ladies will keep on humiliating you cuz it's better for a woman to be alone, than mingle with a man who is just like an animal.

Undertaker001:
that's the only way possible to express oneself to hoes..

never treat a Cub as a pet.. A cub is always a lion.. and it shall one day harm you..

y'all bitches are wild spoilt hoes... you don't expect us to pet you and treat you as gentle ladies.


Money hungry Leeching hoes

Get lost......don't let that be your business.

bamidelee:
you're not helping yourself shey ogbo.
Pls marry at 50

Am used to them. Losers and sadists who don't believe women can get lucky to find good men, they wish all men are like them, one even said what I said is a fairy tale. Such a fool.

ImaIma1:
@ LilMissFavvy

See the gibberish he just typed

Nice advice

LilMissFavvy:
Get lost......don't let that be your business.

e paiiiiiin ammmmm
feminist

LilMissFavvy:
You seem so used to the name 'hoe'' ...... bastard. Even if your parents failed in training you properly, I can't understand why you can't learn good manners from the society. Who needs petting from from your kinds? Failed losers like you who have no achievements, take delight in abusing women, that's why ladies will keep on humiliating you cuz it's better for a woman to be alone, than mingle with a man who is just like an animal.

did I qoute this hoe?

please take all your bullshit to your daddy.. I'm sure you just described him

but you don't have to hate men for the sins of your father.. ain't our fault he shifted your intestines at a tender age with his fingers..

olosho feminist misandrist

I'd rather be gay than want to be someone like you.. lazy ugly broke ass money hungry bitch.. ticking time bomb

That was a description of you, and you know it. I would rather be single for life, than mingle with a skunk of a man, scallywag! I don't hate men, mind you I got the best dad, that's why when I see bastards like you from failed backgrounds talking shiii I get irritated. Go and get a life, loser.

Undertaker001:
did I qoute this hoe?

please take all your bullshit to your daddy.. I'm sure you just described him

but you don't have to hate men for the sins of your father.. ain't our fault he shifted your intestines at a tender age with his fingers..

olosho feminist misandrist

I'd rather be gay than want to be someone like you.. lazy ugly broke ass money hungry bitch.. ticking time bomb

LilMissFavvy:
That was a description of you, and you know it. I would rather be single for life, than mingle with a skunk of a man, scallywag! I don't hate men, mind you I got the best dad, that's why when I see bastards like you from failed backgrounds talking shiii I get irritated. Go and get a life, loser.

Lol

LINTUNE:
dude, don't waste ur time trying to explain something that is so apparent, to an obviously exposed lady, cos I deduced that from the way she writes, she knows the truth but just in self denial ... For women, the older she gets the higher the tendencies that she will give birth to an abnormal child, it's a medical fact...

U almost took the word out of my mouth bro..
Only pity young girl listening to them..

LilMissFavvy:
That was a description of you, and you know it. I would rather be single for life, than mingle with a skunk of a man, scallywag! I don't hate men, mind you I got the best dad, that's why when I see bastards like you from failed backgrounds talking shiii I get irritated. Go and get a life, loser.

Now lilmissfavvy..
I read one of your text in one thread like dat and i must say u portray a good christian on there..
Why not pass yo message without abuse or insult nah..
Thanks ma

victorian:
Correct !

Im not worried about rushing to marry , i just want to marry right, so i dont look a shadow of myself later in marriage and people will be like ,ha! Is that Princess Victorian? Damn! What happened to her

Come how she look old and worn out !

God forbid o!i wont marry a man who kill me before my time.

They almost did but my God pass them. Im still alive,kicking well and bouncing good.

Infact im in a great relationship as i type. So my dear dont mind the op , let him wail forever .

We no send am work!



Oh ! The op is even a lady sef!

Bia! Lilyval no need crying more than the bereaved ,focus more on your life and make it work, biko

You can hype yourself for Africa

Please tell her, she like bashing guys, always angry over Nothing, she can't say anything without harsh words, or did anyone guy hurt her, I really don't know what is eating her up, her hatred on nairaland guys is something else.hope she will listen and change her ways,

BigDick70inch:
Now lilmissfavvy..
I read one of your text in one thread like dat and i must say u portray a good christian on there..
Why not pass yo message without abuse or insult nah..
Thanks ma

If only my ex go dey nairaland read ds article of yours, I wish her a wonderful love life with her new found boifrnd

carter009:
Please tell her, she like bashing guys, always angry over Nothing, she can't say anything without harsh words, or did anyone guy hurt her, I really don't know what is eating her up, her hatred on nairaland guys is something else.hope she will listen and change her ways,

Lol..
I told her already..
She will change

Even if a lady is older but still maintains her figure and her beauty then men will still chase her and she will array off men she will be able to choose from. The key is for any lady who is single out there is to try and maintain ur figure. Eat right,exercise and drink lots of water to look good and wen u look good men will always look ur way. Hollywood actress jennifer Anniston is closer to 50 or if not 50 but then she still looks very choppable.

Isha327:
True
Make hay before the sun set

You look really young in this photo, but on Twitter, you look a bit elderly, despite uploading in 2016. Do you have Benjamin Button's disease?

dirtydiva:
If only my ex go dey nairaland read ds article of yours, I wish her a wonderful love life with her new found boifrnd