Successes (achievements) come from all ramifications MA, financial, academic, career, economic, ministerial, MARITAL (marriage) etc, for one to fail in one doesn't make it not important MA.

Marriage is a monumental achievement, maybe not for people like you because you can't be following men of different colours, sizes and nationalities and expect to marry a responsible man. Even the irresponsible men would be scared of you.

"Marriage is not an achievement "...... No problem.... wait until all THOSE THINGS FINISH... I know the story will change to "God time is the best"

Slaying and exposing your breast is an achievement.Can she deny that it is only one guy that is sucking that breast and bonking that honey pot.Don't go and marry till you enter menopause.

Uriel Oputa, what happens when you finally push through to meet with Anthony Joshua

Didn't you assume he miss his way in asking your hand in marriage immediately?

Story for the gods!!!

Marriage is not an achievement as quote by you but you need to settle down seriously because you are using the forum to advertise yourself indirectly!!!

Wonders they say shall never end

Onpoint

Depends on what angle you look at it.. for couples that it wasn’t easy in the beginning learning to deal with the different personalities especially without money but learning and promoting each other until both are at a level of comfort marraige will be the crown the achievement and fulfillment of Gods plan

But when you are the neighborhood bachelor or spinster and life is About getting laid marriage is not an achievement you have not put anything into it to gain

It’s not easy to look out for the qualities of a good one but it’s worth it and it will save you from shame

When I met someone they were squatting with friends I said send me your cv blasted it to our governor then

True love is about legacies and marriage is a part of it many look good together but how many can fight for their marriage without mummy and daddy

Prostitute. I'm married and it makes me feel happy which is an achievement, bitch keep hoeing around

The secret of submission in Marriage


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apY-RRaYCgY

Marriage is an achievement as staying married also is. Else, majority of people won't crave it. Even the white crave it, they only find it so easy to divorce because of their system.

If marriage isnt an achievement is having a number of degrees that won't follow you to the grave achievemt? Would the certs follow you to heaven?

Is having cars or houses that become vanity once you arw gone achievements?

Or remaining single also an achievement? And if you think to be rich is an achievemnt, are you now rich?

Are you certain you will be? Girls who don't find a man to marry them yet find solace in that word that marriage isn't achievement.

"What exactly is achievemnts to them"!

MrPresident1:


People like you?

People like your parents.

Continue deceiving yourself... Is it only divorced marriages you are seeing, what about the successful ones. If your papa didn't marry your mama, u'll obviously not be here dropping all these gibberish.
You better go and marry my friend.

ednut1:
In advanced countries they discuss about space exploration, benefits taxes global warming etf. Nigeria na sex relationship and marriage. Crap

You frequent politics & romance thread all the time n you're here complaining, why not lead be the thread you want. ...seun as given us all the platform. oga lead

ElsonMorali:


It is great to have a wonderful marriage, but how many people have wonderful marriages these days? How many people get to marry wonderful spouses?

Please I know you have neighbours, just do a survey count like 20 houses close to you and evaluate their marriages...

You will realise that over 16 are living happily

You will realise that there are some forces that are hell bent on destroying the institution called marriage through the internet.

Please I mean real marriage not baby mama things.

Pavore9:


It is thanks to our socialization because if it was a Caucasian lady that said this, you will never hear or read....see you in Shiloh etc

Here we Dont respect peoples decision or personal opinion, we try to put them down and make them feel bad about their opinions simply because we do not agree with them. Its terrible

Duggedised12:
Yes it is not an achievement, but there is great satisfaction in knowing you can share your moments with someone,it is such joy to see your sons have a sane *man* to look up to. It is great to have someone to share your bed with.

Most of these women who say this abroad ,have pets they treat like humans and some even work over time to avoid going to an empty house .well to each his own.

You are right, in fact I feel the white women are more crazy about marriage than us, I have been going through European and American dating sites and I was marveled by how women there were looking for husbands.

But in the midst of people the keep ranting that marriage isn't an achievement.

ericsmith:




You frequent politics & romance thread all the time n you're here complaining, why not lead be the thread you want. ...seun as given us all the platform. oga lead

that your face looks punchable . I feel like punching it

mmsen:


Some people have no business having children or getting married.

Any body that tells u that he/she does not want to have children or even get married, know it that the person is not normal or has a problem that he/she has not bn able to tell u.

Every normal person is wired to love to procreate.
Some may say they don't want children when they know they have problem with their fertility. They will use that as a cover up.
Some will say same when they have gotten involve with some dirty religion or cult or even when they don't even have money to get married at the first time.

So any person telling u he/she does not want to have children, go a bit deeper, u will find out what he/she is trying to hide.

babakb:


You are right, in fact I feel the white women are more crazy about marriage than us, I have been going through European and American dating sites and I was marveled by how women there were looking for husbands.

But in the midst of people the keep ranting that marriage isn't an achievement.

most of them have realized feminism was all a facade .There is nothing cute about being alone. The only thing we should be working at is accomodating each gender with respect as this world was made for both men and women.

Psoul:


Any body that tells u that he/she does not want to have children or even get married, know it that the person is not normal or has a problem that he/she has not bn able to tell u.

Every normal person is wired to love to procreate.
Some may say they don't want children when they know they have problem with their fertility. They will use that as a cover up.
Some will say same when they have gotten involve with some dirty religion or cult or even when they don't even have money to get married at the first time.

So any person telling u he/she does not want to have children, go a bit deeper, u will find out what he/she is trying to hide.

What makes somebody 'normal'?

aguiyi2:
Marriage though not an achievement serves as security during old age.

It is very dumb to say marriage is not an achievement simply because there are failed marriages or you don't have the mental capacity to achieve and sustain one. Do we also say education is not an achievement because there are educated folks who are unemployed? No. Even though there are some who don't value having a formal education so long they have their lives going. Likewise,there are people who value marriage and so make frantic efforts to get the best out of it—and they are not regretting.

True.

Absolutely correct.

But because this is coming from a confirmed hoe who must have probably missed the opportunity of getting married because all men know that you don't make a hoe a housewife, then it is only a questionable assertion.

Fish brain,keep men outta your problems

Very good advice from Uriel.My career first before anything else.

olatade:
so what's the achievement in been single?

.Abeg Ask That Goat That Postd Be4 U.

Pavore9:


It is thanks to our socialization because if it was a Caucasian lady that said this, you will never hear or read....see you in Shiloh etc

it's a lie. Caucasians might not be as religious as us but trust me their women suffer far more as a result of this mentality than our African women. White ladies rank highest in suicide, domestic violence, killing of kids and partners, antidepressant and narcotics intake in the world. A woman who is not married by 40 is extremely violent and volatile. Have you ever wondered why they continue to fall for romance scam that's so popular that it should have been extinct by now? Because they are desperate to feel loved even when they suspect it is not real

olatade:
so what's the achievement in been single?

Funmmyastic:
Very good advice from Uriel.My career first before anything else.

. U Are Right. U Career First Be4 Shiloh

If it were to be a man saying this I will be glad as she is a woman I am suspecting nshe has not seen suitor yet so she de take am cover up

quote author=bluefilm post=80920598]True.

Absolutely correct.

But because this is coming from a confirmed hoe who must have probably missed the opportunity of getting married because all men know that you don't make a hoe a housewife, then it is only a questionable assertion.


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Are u sure she is an olosho hahahaa all dese big brother gals are former oloshos

I de even suspect mercy n tacha as professional oloshos

Grandmisty:


peace of mind

. If Been Single Guarantees Peace Of Mind, Then Seeing Ur Beautiful Kids Calling U Daddy Wil Guarantee U Heaven At Last

Akuruoulo:
. U Are Right. U Career First Be4 Shiloh

Thank you.

Oselu28:
Marriage is not an achievement but staying married is an achievement.....argue with your keypads

. Is Ur Name Wizdom ?

lilbest4:
it's a lie. Caucasians might not be as religious as us but trust me their women suffer far more as a result of this mentality than our African women. White ladies rank highest in suicide, domestic violence, killing of kids and partners, antidepressant and narcotics intake in the world. A woman who is not married by 40 is extremely violent and volatile. Have you ever wondered why they continue to fall for romance scam that's so popular that it should have extinct by now? Because they are desperate to feel loved even when they suspect it is not real

What you wrote is also a lie! Provide empirical evidence that " A woman who is not married by 40 is extremely violent and volatile". not perception that is subjective, a product of your worldview.

Between Africa and the West, where is a perpetrator of domestic violence more likely to be arrested and punished?