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Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Ilekokonit(op): 8:25am On Aug 07, 2019
Its just not worth your while anymore.

Men have learnt from Divorced and Seperated men that all your efforts on a so called good girl may be a waste of time, effort and money on the long run 5 years into marriage because most of our Westernised sisters are copying home breaking skills from the West all in the name of Feminism.

The current rise in "Independent woman syndrome" and "Delayed womens liberation" in our "westernised" sisters is making any rational man shun such women afterall, it is better to reside in a small corner of the roof than live with a brawling woman in a mansion

No man wants to marry a woman who behaves like a man. You can not be the woman and the man in a relationship at the same time. You have to choose one and stick with it. We all love feminine women and westernised women are not feminine in their ways

So when examples abound of ungrateful and poison tongued women, do you expect a sane man to put all his emotions and effort into pursuing someone who 5 years down the line may suddenly become cantankerous huh??

Men no longer feel some women are worth chasing. No sensible man wants to plan a future with a gutter mouth.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by LarryBee1k: 8:57am On Aug 07, 2019
Simply put.

Men are still pursuing women. They are just getting smarter in doing it. There by discarding the not useful ones. Or the ones they perceive as threat.

Our culture won't allow a man to be without wife as he is incomplete especially if you're from the western part of Nigeria.

In conclusion, men are pursuing women but after weighing their options and seeing the advantages of a certain woman overwhelmed the disadvantages.

So most cut out of these women are maybe feminist, prostitute, gold diggers, materialistic women etc.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 9:08am On Aug 07, 2019
A se ni bobo yi sha
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by nep2ra(m): 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2019
We pursue women BUT on our own terms.

We will not fall for the scam anymore. We are free to be men. Free from the bondage of Westernized marriages and relationships.

Men Going Their Own Way

#MGTOW
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by carter009(m): 5:00pm On Aug 07, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin grin guys Don dey wise up.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by ubunja(m): 5:14pm On Aug 07, 2019
Ilekokonit:
Its just not worth your while anymore.

Men have learnt from Divorced and Seperated men that all your efforts on a so called good girl may be a waste of time, effort and money on the long run 5 years into marriage because most of our Westernised sisters are copying home breaking skills from the West all in the name of Feminism.

The current rise in "Independent woman syndrome" and "Delayed womens liberation" in our "westernised" sisters is making any rational man shun such women afterall, it is better to reside in a small corner of the roof than live with a brawling woman in a mansion

No man wants to marry a woman who behaves like a man. You can not be the woman and the man in a relationship at the same time. You have to choose one and stick with it. We all love feminine women and westernised women are not feminine in their ways

So when examples abound of ungrateful and poison tongued women, do you expect a sane man to put all his emotions and effort into pursuing someone who 5 years down the line may suddenly become cantankerous huh??

Men no longer feel some women are worth chasing. No sensible man wants to plan a future with a gutter mouth.
I really wish you went deeper into women and femininity. That issue is very interesting
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 07, 2019
Jgoldie:
A se ni bobo yi sha
A se ni kan ko, otondo ni pelu . grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by ubunja(m): 5:19pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
A se ni kan ko, otondo ni pelu . grin
translation?
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by babyfaceafrica: 5:22pm On Aug 07, 2019
ubunja:
translation?
she won't translate for you... it means that guy is naive
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:25pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
A se ni kan ko, otondo ni pelu . grin
At least I know that one cheesycheesy
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by ubunja(m): 5:25pm On Aug 07, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
she won't translate for you... it means that guy is naive
damm. Thanks bro.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:30pm On Aug 07, 2019
ubunja:
translation?
mo n so wipe ase ati otondo ni kan ko ni bobo ye, bolo ni pelu. cheesy
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 5:31pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
A se ni kan ko, otondo ni pelu . grin
Babe mi o jasi jor grin grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 07, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
she won't translate for you... it means that guy is naive
see your head like cashew nut. angry
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by ubunja(m): 5:32pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
mo n so wipe ase ati otondo ni kan ko ni bobo ye, bolo ni pelu. cheesy
shamwari ka. Usayite kunge uripendzi. Ndichakumamisa ini
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 07, 2019
Jgoldie:
Babe mi o jasi jor grin grin
Gbayi jare maaami, fi awon sugomu sile grin grin. Awon boloo grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2019
ubunja:
shamwari ka. Usayite kunge uripendzi. Ndichakumamisa ini
Jesu! Ubunja paami ooo.

Shey ede leleyi tabi keu? grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
Gbayi jare maaami, fi awon sugomu sile grin grin. Awon boloo grin
Je ko ma so iso ki so ni be....gbogbo won ni wan to sori WhatsApp mi...awon boolo
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
Jesu! Ubunja paami ooo.

Shey ede leleyi tabi keu? grin
Boya o po ofo....o je ye ori re...
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:37pm On Aug 07, 2019
Jgoldie:
Boya o po ofo....o je ye ori re...
Afi ofo nah, grin grin

Koju ma ribi... gbogbo ara logun eh.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by pansophist(m): 5:37pm On Aug 07, 2019
I dont think men are against feminism, but the double standards that comes with it, its failure to acknowledge the difference between gender, and how it has become an umbrella for misandrist. No sane man will be against the idea that women should be treated equally, but if you keep shifting the goalposts, and fail to uphold the responsibility that comes with equality, then you will inevitably reach a point of dislike at best, and hate at worse.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 5:38pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
Afi ofo nah, grin grin


Koju ma ribi... gbogbo ara logun eh.
grin > grin grin grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:39pm On Aug 07, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
At least I know that one cheesycheesy
lol, What tribe are you from?
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Martinez19(m): 5:39pm On Aug 07, 2019
They are derailing the thread because the op is on point and they have nothing reasonable to contribute.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Obodo999(m): 5:41pm On Aug 07, 2019
MariaLavina:
Jesu! Ubunja paami ooo.

Shey ede leleyi tabi keu? grin
May da lohun Jo. Se wa fe mi, omo to San? .
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 07, 2019
Jgoldie:
Je ko ma so iso ki so ni be....gbogbo won ni wan to sori WhatsApp mi...awon boolo
Awon sumonu ma lo kun section yii ke, a won to n shi n gba owo kaadii low awon obi won.

Lol, oro won afi suuru. kafi se nu ka de ke ni oro opolopo won. Wo eyi to n daato lenu lokegberi mi yii. O hun dun gan. grin
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:47pm On Aug 07, 2019
Obodo999:
May da lohun Jo. Se wa fe mi, omo to San? .
mo rerin taki ti. grin
Ede bi igba ti akalolo ban bi nu. cheesy Fe bawo? Se o sinwin? huh
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by pansophist(m):
Martinez19:
They are derailing the thread because the op is on point and they have nothing reasonable to contribute.
Of course, typical women behaviour. Red-herring is one of the weapon in their arsenal. They will either attack the messenger (instead of his message), mockery (eg calling him alpha male, crybaby), engage in word-romance within themselves, employ manipulatory tactics (eg guilt-tripping), and derailing the thread in all intent and purposes, because they know if they have to engage you logically, they will fail woefully. Their sophistry is first-class.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 07, 2019
grin grin grin

So now you all are begging for who to engage you? lol. Create female monickers and engage yourselves logically nah ....


Life no hard oo grin grin . Lemme come and be going before I cause trouble. grin grin

Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by chinchonglee(m): 5:55pm On Aug 07, 2019
Some guys re still fooling demselves 4 women ooo...
At least i knw abt 2 in my office building. Always sponsoring a girl in my office wit his small 100k salary.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Martinez19(m): 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2019
pansophist:
Of course, typical women behaviour. Red-herring is one of the weapon in their arsenal. They will either attack the messenger (instead of his message), mockery (eg calling him alpha male, crybaby), and engage in word-romance within themselves, projecting guilt, employ manipulatory tactics (eg guilt-tripping), derailing the thread in all intent and purposes, because they know if they have to engage you logically, they will fail wilfully. Their sophistry is first-class.
You sabi dem well. Another manipulation strategy is to compliment you, give you validation and massage your ego when you say something that they like. This only works if, like a simp, you give a damn about their opinions and perspectives.
Re: Why Men Are No Longer Pursuing Women.......... by Jgoldie: 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2019
[quote author=MariaLavina post=81037889]Awon sumonu ma lo kun section yii ke, a won to n shi n gba owo kaadii low awon obi won.

Lol, oro won afi suuru. kafi se nu ka de ke ni oro opolopo won. Wo eyi to n daato lenu lokegberi mi yii. O hun dun gan.

Ka sha ma se daada....je ka ma wo won ti wan se po ito lenu
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