Safitu:
Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself.
My father is Accomplished in the Uk and my mother a social worker with two properties, lived in the UK for almost 30 years. I've never needed anything, tell me why i should suffer with one dirty silly man who only has prick to offer me? Ask your informants if you need help. I'm a go getter, i get what i want. I would rather die single than marry a man with nothing to offer me. If you have a problem with that, then burn yourself to death.

Obsessed idiot.

Focus on how to hustle your dirty body to Canada and stop mentioning me every damn minute. Idiotic rat.

Safitu:
Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself.
My father is Accomplished in the Uk and my mother a social worker with two properties, lived in the UK for almost 30 years. I've never needed anything, tell me why i should suffer with one dirty silly man who only has prick to offer me? Ask your informants if you need help. I'm a go getter, i get what i want. I would rather die single than marry a man with nothing to offer me. If you have a problem with that, then burn yourself to death.

Obsessed idiot.

Focus on how to hustle your dirty body to Canada and stop mentioning me every damn minute. Idiotic rat.

CaptainMitch:
Safia dear, I am pregnant for you plis dear.

LillyVal:
Gold Digger

Safitu:
Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself.

Do you know how much avenues they’re to make money? Or you think everyone in the u.k must hustle with a 9-5 and struggle to make ends meet? Is this not the same Nairaland that I met a guy from Qatar from the business section, was always travelling back and forth to see me, and is doing extremely well for himself? It’s a shame that we didn’t even work out, but we’re still friends. Listen the average guy with money will not have it written on his forehead. Do better and stop acting like it’s impossible for a woman to date good quality guys. Jesusssss.

truthsayer009:


One constant thing about LIARS is that their words are never consistent. Me & You have been fighting since thy kingdom come because you are refused to stop lying.

Did you say you were simply the one to cut them off?
https://www.nairaland.com/5164550/dont-marry-broke-man-dump/5#78043924



It's a shame that you didn't work out? "Oh, I thought it was you that cut kept cutting all of them off"

You keep deleting your accounts on Nairaland each time you find out people are catching up with your numerous lies. If I start digging up all your lies from your deleted accounts, this thread would get to 1000 pages.

You have simply dated Men in every continent? You couldn't keep anyone, Not even 1. you must have been dating at the age of 14 years to even be able to keep up with this type of statistics.

Safitu:
So I log in on nairaland first thing in the morning for updates and eventually go about my day peacefully. What do I see at 9am? This idiot that is still pained and frustrated because I shredded him like the nobody he is. You had to snoop through my threads like the obsessed dunce you are to gather pointless information loool e paiiinnnn anmmm

Darling the beautiful man in Qatar, flew to London to see me and vice versa. I cut things off with this man, you’re damn right I did. But like human beings we are very amicable and I have no bad blood for him, we still talk till this day nigga. If certain things were different yes we could’ve worked outt. So what fucking stupid point are you trying to make? You will never be on this mans level ever. I don’t want you, I don’t entertain scrubs like yourself please. You are just a frustrated dirty student trying to scrabble what’s left of his life. At 9am this early morning?? Lol please go and do something better with your life, talking about you want to go through my deleted accounts, why are you so impotent? Imbecilic broke tout, you are actually destined to be useless.

Safitu:

1. scrubs like yourself
2. frustrated dirty student
3. why are you so Impotent
4. Imbecilic broke tout
5. destined to be useless.

Safitu:
Whether I have dated 50, 10 or 100 men, what is your concern?


Chai men sha, they can be paineed
I have no damn shame. I am who I am. Beautiful, VERY DARK young amazing woman. Keep obsessing

truthsayer009:


You have simply failed to explain the false document you uploaded, the fight between you didn't start today.

I'm sure you were surprised that someone would actually notice, that's why you were mute.

Safitu:
Can you please stop quoting me?

I have better things to do with my day. I can’t start my day arguing with those beneath me. Thank you.

Paxie55:
Did she really meet the Qatar guy? - yes.

Are you a broke student looking for crumbs and sponsorship? - Yes

Are you a pained shredded mofo that couldn't sleep last night cos of fatal punches from safit.u? - yes.

Paxie55:
Did she really meet the Qatar guy? - yes.

Are you a broke student looking for crumbs and sponsorship? - Yes

Are you a pained shredded mofo that couldn't sleep last night cos of fatal punches from safit.u? - yes.

truthsayer009:


Since you want to be stupid. This is an old discussion between Me & her. So you know.

Safitu:
I don’t understand ohhh

I wonder why I would have to lie when there’s actually people that know me offline and know that everything I’m saying is the truth. What will I gain? I would have been exposed by now, no be so?

The guy is just a pained loser. He has been obsessed with me since 2017. Ahbeg let me just go about my day and leave him here bitter, asking himself questions.

Thanks love

Paxie55:

Her words still remained the same. So, what lies are you talking about?
I thought you are even somebody in real life, didn't know you are a hungry crumb seeking student. Abeg, lemme hear word.

truthsayer009:


I see that you want to take this fight upon yourself, I have no business with you whatsoever. I sincerely cannot find any reason why I must be going back & forth with you on this. If two people have a personal beef with one another, you should know there are things involved & evidences that I provided hasn't been de-proved by the accused.

So please, just stay clear.

Paxie55:

I have no business with you either.
Go source for funds and stop disturbing us here!

sedutrice:
lexy2014

"will be chatting off record and you expect d guy to chat along? How can? For example maybe u are chatting on a topic d guy is not comfortable with. Of course, you can't always expect d guy to oblige u".

Very Likely but I won't come to Nairaland and create topics on dumb and boring Nigerian boys. I would just leave the conversation to fizzle out. There are people who are smarter than me, at my level of smartness and people I am smarter than. At the beginning I said it is a two-way street. There are people you will meet and you won't need to force anything . Why then worry if you can't flow with another?



If you don't no what to do in such a situation, how do u expect that a guy will no what do when he is conversing with a lady that isn't forthcoming.

That I asked simply means I want to hear your opinion not that I wouldn't know what to do.

Let me explain how I am. I usually don't even force the conversation and I don't worry my head about the 'whats' and 'ifs'.

Why I even answered was because op was making generalizations and I remembered that I have also encountered dumb and boring guys.

But why do some guys like bashing ladies? What do you enjoy in it? In fact you guys are also part of the problem you accuse them of.
If a girl is a prostitute, Biko who is she sleeping with.? If she is dumb, probably it was because she realised her body gets her more attention than her brain so she plays dumb.

I Don overtalk. I Don tire.

sedutrice:

Why I even answered was because op was making generalizations and I remembered that I have also encountered dumb and boring guys.

sedutrice:
In fact you guys are also part of the problem you accuse them of.

truthsayer009:


LMAO i actually concur with this. Most Nigerian women in diaspora end up either coming back home to marry a Nigerian because Be as it may. The so-named-bad Nigerian guys always have in mind that they are the providers and they work their ass off to make sure their wives don't suffer much except for taking care of home front which isn't really a paid labor.

A lot of Nigerian women usually have the culture shock of 50/50 dating even while abroad. They cannot cope i swear.

Ask Safia/Safitu who cannot seem to date any guy in the UK successfully, always coming here to make mouth that her Man must be this and that LMAO.

UK guys that are as stingy as goats. Their one Pound would not even touch your hand even on your death beds. You must work for every penny & dating is 50/50.

gforce5:
My brother, UK guys have such a bad reputation with Nigerian girls it's not even funny. They like American guys because they believe that they spend on their women forgetting that they also operate a 50/50 system there as well The only difference is that America operates a pure capitalist system with a much bigger economy than the UK. The funny thing is that UK guys are popping in that same America! Nigerian women are not used to guys not spending on them! That's why they can't date guys from other African countries. Do you know how many Ghanians, Liberians and other African guys complain to me about how materialist Nigerian women are? Even the girls that I mentioned in my previous post that relocated to Nigeria after a few years abroad were not all based in the UK. Many of them were based in the States! My relation in Canada had to bring over a guy she knew from LASU over to Canada all in the name of getting a husband! The hustle is real my guy!

Paxie55:
Did she really meet the Qatar guy? - yes.

Are you a broke student looking for crumbs and sponsorship? - Yes

Are you a pained shredded mofo that couldn't sleep last night cos of fatal punches from safit.u? - yes.

truthsayer009:


It is well my guy, I think the problem of Nigerian women is more cultural than personal. The general upbringing is a Man should cater for your needs & this is what parents drum into hears of female children including my own extended family. So no one left out really.

Some families have begin to change this orientation but the majority are still left behind.

Nigerians living in Nigeria always think the whole world thinks like them. Especially ladies.

This is a post written by someone in Quora, at least this is someone else from another perspective.

LillyVal:
In Africa, the lady with very good body structure has more confidence, you know why? Never seens a guy walk up to a strange lady and say "damn, I just can't kep my eyes of your Phd chemistry degree, it so hot".

carter009:
Keep fooling yourself....

LillyVal:
In Africa, the lady with very good body structure has more confidence, you know why? Never seens a guy walk up to a strange lady and say "damn, I just can't kep my eyes of your Phd chemistry degree, it so hot".