Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

U can spend on him but don't sleep with him period.

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

"learn from the past but dont leave in the past"- bigmic111

interpret it as best as u can

Lol, all girls claim they are the ones who spend on the guy they broke up with o.

see save yourself and EXPECT NOTHING, also GIVE NOTHING. Talk with him and make it clear... ASKING FOR CASH with style or with lies is a DEAL BREAKER... let him know you are still HEALING.

Stop trying to use the NEW GUY to HEAL your wrong approach to relationship with the WRONG GUY.

Why not focus on building yourself... spending on yourself and growing your dreams... RELATIONSHIP (IF IT IS NOT FOR MARRIAGE) is just prostitution with only one customer as long as money gets involved.

pls act wiser

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

It's vividly clear that the guy wants to have a piece of his own share. Guys don't keep secrets among themselves, he has the mindset of doing what your ex did.

So this implies you will throw yourself to him if he spends on you, right?

I think you're complicating things yourself 1)by dating a friend of your ex & 2)by seemingly making spending (or lack thereof) the decider on how much time you spend together as a couple. Did you go into this relationship hoping to settle a score with your ex? Because this is what it sounds like. You're making a mess of your current relationship because it seems you're trying to correct the mistakes of the past with the wrong person. Try to eliminate financial expectations & obligations, then perhaps you'll enjoy your relationship much better. As it stands, he doesn't owe you a single penny! I'm really trying to understand why you think he should be giving you money. For what reason? Surely, if you were spending money on his friend, then you must have enough now to support yourself without handouts. Receiving money from a guy, especially if he's a typical bloke, makes some feel like they're owed something, be it sexual favours, your undivided attention & so forth. Limit their hold on you & their demands by adopting a give + take approach that is mutually beneficial, unlike the one-sided one you had with your ex-boyfriend. I find it funny that your ex thinks telling everybody that he slept with you & took your money, is an insult on your person. How backward can one person be?Actually, it makes him sound like a loser with no integrity, to those who don't have shìt for brains of course. Hope your new love interest is cut from a different cloth.

all these your am not interested in coming over soumds like its because the guy hasn't been given you money


Money for hand Back for Ground

There is no difference between what you type up thereand a love peddler asking her client for money before séx

Story of my life

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

rosy1992:
It's vividly clear that the guy wants to have a piece of his own share. Guys don't keep secrets among themselves, he h

as the mindset of doing what your ex did.

So the ex I spent on is not the same as my latest boyfriend's friend... They are two different exes...

the OP is insignificant, I stopped reading the story when I saw "he is a friend to my ex"
this could be a revenge or cheerfulness nothing more, as such it doesn't worth my advice

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

only truth I know is... He's after your pussy, he wants to have his taste too... They are passing you around.


You know what to do.

SaucyBenks:
only truth I know is... He's after your pussy, he wants to have his taste too... They are passing you around.


You know what to do.

Pls it is not the same ex oooo.... The one I spent on is a different ex while my current boyfriend's friend is my former ex

Genset:




Pls it is not the same ex oooo.... The one I spent on is a different ex while my current boyfriend's friend is my former ex

what are we saying then?

You make yourself cheap by dating your ex friend. NEVER will he marry you knowing that his close friend has slept with you in the past. He's only trying to collect free something because you are too weak gullible. If you'll take my advice, walk! Or you'll regret sooner than later

Everybody don dey turn advicer

So your aim in a relationship is to expect money from men?

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

I won't judge you for having a thing with your ex's friend but it is not proper. For all it's worth, the guy's main purpose could be to 'mark your attendance' and brag about it as well.

You sounded like you'd have visited if he was giving you money... I am sure you of all persons know why you agreed to the whole relationship in the first place. My only counsel to you is not to allow yourself get played a second time. You should have dated another person and not necessarily your ex's friend.

If you want financial commitment, be willing to commit yourself to the course. Carrying out random acts of giving isn't the problem but you not making yourself available is

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

The best advice and give to you is that we men are wired differently an lots of you women don't care to study men. As a man I can't date a lady I know my friend have f*cked , cos it's can't be unf*cked and if only I decide to date her I'm going their on one mission to get a share of goverment cake in my state.lol, don't you know when young umarried guys sits in a bar it either about women or football. So you profile is in my hands to no matter how long it takes for me to hit that honey pot, but can't marry
Another reason is that if I marry you as a man I don't have pride in the midst of my friends or cliques that my wife has dated my friend and like I said early it's can't be unf*cked

Lastely your story is not complete is either your on a, revenge mission or you're daft

Quit that relationship Now!!!

He will sleep with you, collect your money.
And him and his friend will laugh ontop your matter while analysing your different ring tones to different styles, before passing you on to another friend that will pay for the beer they drank. Na your price be that, becaue, he'll definitely be interested in how foolish a girl can be in 2019...

Genset:
Hi guys.... So I have this new boyfriend... We have been dating since 4 months ago although I have known him for 2 years now.... I once dated his friend which was how we met... So recently, he has been talking about me coming to visit and all... But am really not interested... I know it may sound lame but for real this guy has never given me and am not one to beg... But, I feel like as his girlfriend he should offer to give money once in a while. Rather, anytime time I tell him am drinking mineral he will say stuffs like u re enjoying oooo which is damn annoying.... So the question now, is, do you think I should visit him or not... See guys, before you judge me.... Am just trying to avoid mistakes in this relationship because in my previous relationship I was in the giving end and when we broke the guy just kept on telling people how he slept with me and how he spent my money and all... So I don't want a repeat of what happened earlier... So pls advise me

The very reason why I'll only enter into a committed relationship with a girl who has never had a relationship before, just like me! I can't stand my babe using her past experiences on me. I want a girl that will see me as I am, not a person that will judge me base on her experience with her ex. And that, can only be possible with a newbie.

All is well

rosy1992:
It's vividly clear that the guy wants to have a piece of his own share. Guys don't keep secrets among themselves, he has the mindset of doing what your ex did.

So its ladies that keep secret among themselves abi?

Humans never learn. He has had his way and gone cold

Badilstical:

The best advice and give to you is that we men are wired differently an lots of you women don't care to study men. As a man I can't date a lady I know my friend have f*cked , cos it's can't be unf*cked and if only I decide to date her I'm going their on one mission to get a share of goverment cake in my state.lol, don't you know when young umarried guys sits in a bar it either about women or football. So you profile is in my hands to no matter how long it takes for me to hit that honey pot, but can't marry
Another reason is that if I marry you as a man I don't have pride in the midst of my friends or cliques that my wife has dated my friend and like I said early it's can't be unf*cked

Lastely your story is not complete is either your on a, revenge mission or you're daft

Gbam!!!