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CHOPMONEY666:
Advice needed from experience nairalanders here .

Am a young male self employed and educated . I visited a friends house/neighborhood and met a girl , she’s 30 years old , am 30 plus myself.

She’s a graduate but jobless and very very deep into church activities , always church church church then we became friends. From beginning she knew I have a girlfriend but we continue the friendship anyway. Then suddenly she began to make monetary demands for help . First it was 3k then 5k then 10k then 5k etc . Then I said to myself I may as well be sleeping with you if am giving you all this money .

But each time I made a move about coming to my house etc she run away from me for days or week no communication only to come back later days crying for financial help. There is always an excuse not to come , even to meet at my friends place it’s no no for her, she’s deep into church activities.
On one hand I said am a fool, on the other hand I said am going to win this game . Am asking for advice here .

Shibaraba:
First off stop using am.its irritating and contradicts the "educated" side. Secondly you're a fool. She has turned you to a prayer answering machine. She goes to church pray for money and comes to you to collect

CHOPMONEY666:
. Am a young male self employed and educated . I myself I may as well be sleeping with you if am giving you all this money .

But each time I made a move about coming to my house etc she run away from me for days or week no communication only to come back later days crying for financial help. There is

CHOPMONEY666:
Advice needed from experience nairalanders here .

Am a young male self employed and educated . I visited a friends house/neighborhood and met a girl , she’s 30 years old , am 30 plus myself.

She’s a graduate but jobless and very very deep into church activities , always church church church then we became friends. From beginning she knew I have a girlfriend but we continue the friendship anyway. Then suddenly she began to make monetary demands for help . First it was 3k then 5k then 10k then 5k etc . Then I said to myself I may as well be sleeping with you if am giving you all this money .

But each time I made a move about coming to my house etc she run away from me for days or week no communication only to come back later days crying for financial help. There is always an excuse not to come , even to meet at my friends place it’s no no for her, she’s deep into church activities.
On one hand I said am a fool, on the other hand I said am going to win this game . Am asking for advice here .

Shibaraba:
First off stop using am.its irritating and contradicts the "educated" side. Secondly you're a fool. She has turned you to a prayer answering machine. She goes to church pray for money and comes to you to collect

CHOPMONEY666:
Advice needed from experience nairalanders here .

Am a young male self employed and educated . I visited a friends house/neighborhood and met a girl , she’s 30 years old , am 30 plus myself.

She’s a graduate but jobless and very very deep into church activities , always church church church then we became friends. From beginning she knew I have a girlfriend but we continue the friendship anyway. Then suddenly she began to make monetary demands for help . First it was 3k then 5k then 10k then 5k etc . Then I said to myself I may as well be sleeping with you if am giving you all this money .

But each time I made a move about coming to my house etc she run away from me for days or week no communication only to come back later days crying for financial help. There is always an excuse not to come , even to meet at my friends place it’s no no for her, she’s deep into church activities.
On one hand I said am a fool, on the other hand I said am going to win this game . Am asking for advice here .