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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:11pm On Aug 23, 2019
chenzen:
would you intentionally walk into a toxic relationship? huh?

Who would?

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by MannieA(f): 3:12pm On Aug 23, 2019
Grandlord:
True. What doesn't kill you fvcks you up mentally most times. I have PTSD and I've been made cold and unemotional because of the shitty situations I went through earlier in life.


Sorry about that tho
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Aug 23, 2019
MannieA:




You're absolutely right!!!
Although it might hurt but sometimes it's worth it.
u expect to understand life the hard way rather than doing the needful... the hurting part can be avoided if u made the right choice. if u dont equip urself with the right tools then expect ur decisions to be affected.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Aug 23, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Who would?
then cut out the part that says no pain no gain when it comes to relationships.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:17pm On Aug 23, 2019
chenzen:
then cut out the part that says no pain no gain when it comes to relationships.

Sigh. I'm not gonna go through this with you again, so buhbye.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Aug 23, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Sigh. I'm not gonna go through this with you again, so buhbye.
disappointing. smh
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Aug 23, 2019
a toxic relationship does not do you any good. run from it. do not pay attention to anyone who makes it seems like there s something good about it. Discover your true identity first before venturing into any relationship.



#DATESWITHSENSE

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Grandlord: 3:28pm On Aug 23, 2019
MannieA:



Sorry about that tho
Thank you. I've learnt to live with my scars though. smiley
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:41pm On Aug 23, 2019
pryme:



You guys should stop this, sometimes what doesnt kill you scares you for life, sometimes it deforms you and leave you in a state you can never recover again,
sometimes when you bend the knee you will never stand again. All we pray is never to be caught with the wrong person.


Next time when you want to quote a particular line that suits you, do well to read the next sentence properly.

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by pryme(m): 6:32pm On Aug 23, 2019
Biglittlelois:



Next time when you want to quote a particular line that suits you, do well to read the next sentence properly.

It more than just reading sentences, I get the context (and its about life), if what I said is lost in translation then i will have to break it down to A, B, C, format next time.

Am surprise it flew over your head.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by pryme(m): 6:33pm On Aug 23, 2019
Grandlord:
True. What doesn't kill you fvcks you up mentally most times. I have PTSD and I've been made cold and unemotional because of the shitty situations I went through earlier in life.

Sometimes It kills a part of you.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Aug 23, 2019
Grandlord:
True. What doesn't kill you fvcks you up mentally most times. I have PTSD and I've been made cold and unemotional because of the shitty situations I went through earlier in life.
Sorry about that, only those who have been through this can relate. You will be fine. smiley
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Grandlord: 6:47pm On Aug 23, 2019
pryme:

Sometimes It kills a part of you.
Absolutely.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Grandlord: 6:48pm On Aug 23, 2019
MariaLavina:
Sorry about that, only those who have been through this can relate. You will be fine. smiley
Yeah right?

Thank you. smiley
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by MissJoy29(f): 6:48pm On Aug 23, 2019
chenzen:
would you intentionally walk into a toxic relationship? huh?
That's not what she's saying. Sometimes you don't get to choose who comes your way and what good or evil intentions they have to offer until you get close & deep with them.

And truly, sometimes those bad people end up bringing out the best in you. You may never know what you are capable of until you are faced with some people/ situations
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 23, 2019
MissJoy29:

That's not what she's saying. Sometimes you don't get to choose who comes your way and what good or evil intentions they have to offer until you get close & deep with them.

And truly, sometimes those bad people end up bringing out the best in you. You may never know what you are capable of until you are faced with some people/ situations
perhaps

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by MissJoy29(f): 7:13pm On Aug 23, 2019
chenzen:
u expect to understand life the hard way rather than doing the needful... the hurting part can be avoided if u made the right choice. if u dont equip urself with the right tools then expect ur decisions to be affected.
Do you ALWAYS make the right choice?
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Aug 23, 2019
MissJoy29:

Do you ALWAYS make the right choice?
Yes. and I am being truthful about it.
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by MissJoy29(f): 7:59pm On Aug 23, 2019
chenzen:
Yes. and I am being truthful about it.
Wow....congratulations!
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:35pm On Aug 23, 2019
pryme:


It more than just reading sentences, I get the context (and its about life), if what I said is lost in translation then i will have to break it down to A, B, C, format next time.

Am surprise it flew over your head.


Smart by half? You took a sentence in my comment and decided to make a bazillion words out of it without reading the next sentence and you're saying it flew over my head? The irony.......keep your translation to yourself, when next you want to quote me, do well not to quote out of context.

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 23, 2019
MissJoy29:
Wow....congratulations!
thanks. that's the reward I get for hardwork

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Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by aaamos(m): 12:23am On Aug 24, 2019
chenzen:
would you intentionally walk into a toxic relationship? huh?

Be feeling yourself... Na person Wey no see fight dey call himself man
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by hify9935(f): 2:42pm On Aug 24, 2019
pryme:



You guys should stop this, sometimes what doesnt kill you scares you for life, sometimes it deforms you and leave you in a state you can never recover again,
sometimes when you bend the knee you will never stand again. All we pray is never to be caught with the wrong person.
amen
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by hify9935(f): 2:43pm On Aug 24, 2019
chenzen:
it s hard relating with persons who will honestly open up to u about what u need to know about urself... most of the time what u get are lies and u believe them cos u dont know who you are... and they say these things to u to unsettle u and break ur walls or defenses and attack your self-esteem so they can take advantage of u. lot of persons are finding it hard discovering who they are because they live with the impressions of what everyone has described them to be, which is not always on point.
Apt!
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Aug 24, 2019
So no one has achieved anything by dating their boyfriends eh? Cos the arguments here does no justice to the topic
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by fcdgrand(m): 3:55pm On Aug 24, 2019
o boi, see as girls full for here, if na ubunja dem go run, truth is bitter! women fear truth that expose there manipulation game
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by PBeni(m): 1:07am On Aug 25, 2019
chenzen:
now u look worse off and broken. this relationship leaves u dead emotionally... he is tryin' to derail your mind from thinking about what ur gains are dating him... all u do is count ur losses... he envelopes ur decision to call it quits by telling you he loves you and wants to marry you... few days ago he beats u up and then ended up cuddling you as he whispered poetic lines of love into your ears as he lures u into bed yet again to ease his sexual tensions.


that's bad... very bad... that guy is destroyin' you and wasting ur time.

SAY NO TO UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

#DATEWITHSENSE

Have you read Ubunja's Miseducations today?
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Martin0(m): 8:08am On Aug 25, 2019
I personally don't get this whole thing here,but this will help!A healthy relationship is characterized by respect, trust, honesty, good communication, and the ability for each person to keep an individual identity and personality. A bad or unhealthy relationship can be characterized by the opposite of all these things — disrespect, dishonesty, lies, lack of communication, and the pressure to change who you are for your partner. Healthy relationships can sometimes include these not-so-great characteristics, but only for infrequent short periods of time. If the relationship you’re in is experiencing any of these ‘symptoms’ on a regular basis, for significant periods of time, you’re probably in a bad relationship that needs to end. Learn to recognize these negative signs in every relationship you have right from the start. Don't get into it if you can't deal with it!!!
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Martin0(m): 8:09am On Aug 25, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
So no one has achieved anything by dating their boyfriends eh? Cos the arguments here does no justice to the topic

we have all achieved!!!

personally I see majority of Nigerians as "hypocrites"... so don't go by what they say....
Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 9:24am On Aug 25, 2019
PBeni:

Have you read Ubunja's Miseducations today?

Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 9:24am On Aug 25, 2019
y?

Re: What Have You Achieved Dating Him? by Nobody: 9:27am On Aug 25, 2019
hmm

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