Sunnycliff:
Any lady at that age but can't cook, is a disgrace to womanhood. For crying out loud, what did she spend her first 20 years for?
Academics? Who she sabi book pass?

Bros calm down

You're right but she can still follow her mum to the kitchen and still learn. Many learned how to cook this way even ordinarily by looking at her mum doing it.

dalass:


I look at it from another p.o.v.

Some Fathers are to be blamed because they only eat their wives food and any attempt by the girl is rebuffed.

I say this because I have seen old mamas cooking for grandpas ( they're rich o) just because he only wants his wife to cook for him and would not eat any other persons food. So how will his daughters or granddaughter learn to cook if they can't be allowed to over the years until higher education and job takes them away from home?

My Mum made sure all my siblings both males and females cook. There's nothing all of us can't do at home. She just left you to do it until you get it right.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

The way your father and brothers Cook?

Meliian:


Yes. Even your mum's too.

Did you have to bring his mother into this? You'll know people that wake their mothers with kick by reading their Comments.

Yemi007alade:
Teach her how to cook

How many of woman out there have really chosen to make a broke guy rich when he got no dough ?
Let's stop making excuses when some people chooses to not learn basic stuffs in life.
Let 21 century burn in hell !
A woman that cannot cook at such age got issue.
Big issue !

Martinez39:
If I can add it, what is her usefulness? Let her make herself useful by adding it. I can get the pussy anywhere.

nigga u should be dead by now

Lonelypacifist6:
Did you have to bring his mother into this? You'll know people that wake their mothers with kick by reading their Comments.

You're really stupid. He already brought his mother into that because she's a woman.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I am not, but the thing is that not every lady enjoys cooking so no need to force them. To some cooking comes as a natural talent to some it does not.
Bit then again cooking should not be a gender thing in the 21st century world so men need to learn how to cook too.

Keep fooling yourself with all this gender equality rubbish.
EVEN GOD DIDN'T CREATE US EQUALLY.

That is bullshit.only wide wet ooze Toto you can offer.cook u no sabi.some women think say marriage na to cross leg, u hire an housemaid to cook,clean,watch,sweep do everything for house why u cross ur leg an eat all food for house collect money from husband 24hrs, u don't contribute to the house.u keep ur money why u spend the mans money an open ur dirty mouth to say his money na my money,why my money is mine.it only lazy,greedy women that will not see anything wrong in that.some women don't want to learn only makeup them sabi me that is a man self if I cook for you go lick back of the pot an plate that is why no woman can do shakara for me she no try am if u do u are waisting ur time.those that will quote me wrong should hug transformer.

Lovelyn451:
when a guy is 23 and cannot wash his cloth

Its laziness... Talk on d issue on d thread stop diverting

dalass:


I look at it from another p.o.v.

Some Fathers are to be blamed because they only eat their wives food and any attempt by the girl is rebuffed.

I say this because I have seen old mamas cooking for grandpas ( they're rich o) just because he only wants his wife to cook for him and would not eat any other persons food. So how will his daughters or granddaughter learn to cook if they can't be allowed to over the years until higher education and job takes them away from home?

My Mum made sure all my siblings both males and females cook. There's nothing all of us can't do at home. She just left you to do it until you get it right.

Word We're all male children I'm the last child and I can cook major Nigeria dished this is not limited to my tribe I'm Yoruba and international dishes too because my mom is a UK certified chef.

Cooking is a life skill. Everyone, regardless of gender, should know how to do it.

larryking540:


I still don't get it, if a lady can't cook wat else has she got to offer,sex?
Even to be virgin self till marriage na problem for una,na wa oo

Nobody owes you anything. Not their cooking, not their cleaning prowess, not sex, not money, not their virginity. NOTHING.
Same way you don't owe any goddamn person your money or whatever you think you have to offer.

GLYCOLYSISS:

But you see everything wrong when a man is broke & can't pay for a date ? Or ,when a man decide he is going to share the bill equally with her woman ?
Every time,a man should learn how to complement the woman in every stuff that got to do with the woman.
I will also wish you advocate for woman to learn to complement the men when it comes to the issue of the male folks .
Hope those females at the back is hearing me ?
Or should I increase the volume ?

Most of the women here are double standard hypocrites.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

Vice versa, ladies should learn to pay bills to complement the man's effort.

Ahmed0336:
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cook or clean ? Keep living in the stone age, lol

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

As a woman What the hell were you doing for good 23 years that your mom has been cooking?

Please some opinion should be kept within oneself.

Even the so advanced world you guys try to emulate are assisting their parents in doing common chores.

Angelfrost:


WORD!!!... Sound it so the deaf may hear.

Even at 23, any one with a smart phone can learn decent cooking skills in a week... I know a girl that learnt how to cook by spending just few days with her aunt.

Inability to cook is not due to lack of opportunity, rather lack of interest... It's one of the simplest home management skills any decent (key word of the day) lady can learn and even hone to perfection.

As a guy, if I could learn amazing culinary skills just by observing my mother and aunts, what is a lady's excuse?...

Her excuse is that she is not interested. Is it by force to cook?

It's really calls for great concern nowadays. Chances r that u might not get a decent food in the so called restaurant often. Things won't just stop from getting bad to worse in Nigeria[color=#000099][/color]

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

Dear I can cook.. Will u marry me??

dalass:


I look at it from another p.o.v.

Some Fathers are to be blamed because they only eat their wives food and any attempt by the girl is rebuffed.

I say this because I have seen old mamas cooking for grandpas ( they're rich o) just because he only wants his wife to cook for him and would not eat any other persons food. So how will his daughters or granddaughter learn to cook if they can't be allowed to over the years until higher education and job takes them away from home?

My Mum made sure all my siblings both males and females cook. There's nothing all of us can't do at home. She just left you to do it until you get it right.

When your folks don't blame men for their life issues,snow is going to fall in hell fire !
You simply can't do without blaming the male folks for your inadequacy .
If her dad happen not to want any others persons food but that of his woman,what prevent the girl child from fixing out time to cook herself ? Like cooking to learn the basics ,or going extra mile by disturbing her mum of her deficiency in her culinary skills,her mum will certainly plan out time to teach her daughter the basics.
You're never going to learn if all you look out for is where to justify your shortcomings.
A girl dresses naked in the street,men are responsible for it !
A girl can't cook,men caused it !
A woman lack respect, men still caused it !
A woman undergoes all kinds of body surgery ,men caused it !
Mehn,life is really bleeped up !

Even d oyibo u gals re imitating dey cook for their family oooo. Not let movies or social media dcv una to become useless in d kitchen ooo. Maybe by d time u reach 40yrs without husband, u go learn hw to cook on YouTube. All dese yeye feminist u see on social media dat u gals re copying humble b4 men in real life pass any other tin ooo. They cook nd do everything to kip their home bt wants u to remain single to prove a useless agenda.

yeyeosoronga:


Her excuse is that she is not interested. Is it by force to cook?

My point also... If she is not interested, then it's her right not to learn... I am all about gender equality.

DaddySimple:
I came across an argument somewhere and it was really funny to hear what some people were saying about it so I have decided to share it here also.

When a lady is 23 years of age and she can't cook, is she to be blamed or is her mother to be blamed?

I am just curious to hear what people have to say about this issue.

Any woman that can cook very well would never defend the ones that doesn't

Meliian:


You're really stupid. He already brought his mother into that because she's a woman.

Your father is stupid You can't cook you and learn how to cook olodo oshi Nobody would marry you you'll be surrounded by cats in old age B-A-S-T-A-R-D child.

You that is 40 years, why can't you cook.

Useless generation! If you like don't teach both your female and male children how to cook and help around in the house.

We forgive the old generations for raising entitled men but this generation should do better.

Gone are the days when women stay at home and cook while men go outside and hussle. These days many women are either the breadwinners or bring something to the table as well, so you guys have to keep up with chores around the house too.

Lonelypacifist6:
Most of the women here are double standard hypocrites.

Women are compulsively manipulative !
Though ,hypocrisy is not gender based, but woman have taking it to a total different level !
It's not only limited to the women in these forum,the women you meet here are no different from the women you meet on your streets on a daily basis.

DaddySimple:
I came across an argument somewhere and it was really funny to hear what some people were saying about it so I have decided to share it here also.

When a lady is 23 years of age and she can't cook, is she to be blamed or is her mother to be blamed?

I am just curious to hear what people have to say about this issue.

All these talk of stigmatizing ladies that can't cook does not make sense.

In some homes they have cooks and the lady grows up, gets married and also hire a cook and herself and husband are happy...

Even me sef dey plan to get cook not that my wife can't cook but it IS not really a big deal.

Not that I'm supporting that a lady should not know how to cook but it is a relative term.

That A lady can cook certain delicacies does not mean she will be able to cook the spouse preferred meals.

Emanodimo:


Vice versa, ladies should learn to pay bills to complement the man's effort.

But women have been paying the bills without any noise making.
Infact majority will lie and try to cover that fact by saying it's their husbands that are doing it. Some will buy cars, and it's their husbands driving it. Many are paying the house rent, yet they're not making noise all over the internet

Poor and broke men are the only ones worried about why their women can't cook.

Why are you poor? Why are you not living in a big mansion? Oh your mother is to be blamed. At your age you are still living in a rented apartment, while your mates have big houses and go to Italy just to buy ice cream.

Nonsense.

A crash course in cooking can't exceed a month for goodness sake, there's no big deal. When will we move beyond these mundane things in Nigeria? even watching YouTube videos for 2 weeks will give her skill she needs to sort herself out in any marriage kitchen. What about guys? you all should learn how to cook, God bless



What do parents train sons to contribute to marriage?

Any 23 year old male or female that cannot cook is a disgrace to himself/herself and that's fact