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Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by dalass(f): 9:35am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: Thanks jare. I love people with sound minds/ arguments. Not all those ones who refuse to be useful to themselves not to talk of their families simply because they are men[i][/i] 2 Likes |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by deebrain(m): 9:36am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Blame the lady. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Jetland(m): 9:38am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88: It's men's responsibility to take care of their families including their wives. What's women's responsibilities? would you have said the same to men that can't take care of their wives? I know your Indomie knowledge would tell you that cooking it's not meant for wives alone, but also men. Now, if that is what your reply is, I want you to educate me; what are husbands and wife's responsibilities in their respective homes? |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Sunnycliff(m): 9:39am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: That is a profession and a career of someone. But we are talking of feminity and it's attributes of which culinary skill is prominent. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Sunnycliff(m): 9:40am On Aug 24, 2019 |
aviato: There are many women with outstanding world records yet they cook well for their families and husbands. Cooking is part of feminity as family defence from intruders is a core attribute of masculinity |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by meobizy(f): 9:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
In a world of seven billion individuals I’ll shun the female and find another. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Lonelypacifist6: 9:45am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Meliian:You're stupid just like your mother. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by yeyeosoronga: 9:49am On Aug 24, 2019 |
henryobinna: Women are making their own money and also buy gifts for their men. What manly stuffs do men do? Take out the thrash? Change a bulb? Women do same and more. Or mow the lawn? Even men outsource that. Many men can't even change a tyre these days, talkmore of changing another person's own. Is it putting on the generator?, when the gens have keys these days. Only few men know how to change the plug of a generator and will have to get a gen repair guy to do it. So what manly thing is there that is so unique that men do? Even your blokos has been replaced by dildos and vibrators and here you are still talking about cooking. When you talk of manly things, perhaps that can be applicable abroad where many do DIY to save costs as artisans are very expensive, paint their homes (women do too), fix plumbing issues, change parts in broken down appliances etc. But that's not applicable in nigeria. How many men can fix a plumbing problem and not call a plumber? How many have painted their homes themselves? Etc There are more important things to this life o. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by henryobinna(m): 9:56am On Aug 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:ok, carry on and live with what you believe. but don't cry when you're dumped for not being a woman... |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by halogate: 9:57am On Aug 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:..abeg talk with sense jare! |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by yeyeosoronga: 10:02am On Aug 24, 2019 |
halogate: You have started using your paraga again this early morning.. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by dkronicle(m): 10:04am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88: If i cook for a pregnant woman she will just vomit the baby |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by stormborn28(m): 10:11am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88:hahahahahaaaaas.....you should have added.... Men should learn how to grow pvssies too... Nonsense everywhere |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Esthered: 10:14am On Aug 24, 2019 |
lordweezy: Please I think you should reassess the type of women you deal with as I don't have that mentality by default. Receiving for a man for me is a privilege as the act may have been borne out of love or altruism. Not a bad idea if she can afford a cook and work on other areas of her strength to make the marriage work especially if he knew prior to marriage that the kitchen isn't her forte. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by phil0(m): 10:20am On Aug 24, 2019 |
is that even possible |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by halogate: 10:21am On Aug 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:..actually it's Smirnoff ice and its cos domestic work is done. .there's more to life u say?..oya eat only indomie for the next 6months let's see how far u can take it. ..don't wash ur clothes or clean ur room for one month. ..leave ur toilet unwashed for the next 3 months.. when u are satisfied with the results..then I'll take u serious |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Esthered: 10:25am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Jetland: The care you mean, is it financial care as women are now in the labour force to support the home front. Therefore if they're both working to improve/sustain their standard of living as a family, they'll have to define their roles as the sole duty of providing is shared and she can't be expected to do all in the house. The reason I don't want to reckon with the saying of Calabar women knowing how to cook but don't run world class restaurants but pride in cooking skills All these men saying that a woman who can't cook stands no chance, when they find themselves in saner climes, cooking skills will never be a top prerequisite to be considered for marriage. All Nigerian ladies should therefore aim to relocate to saner climes. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by milanseedorf(m): 10:25am On Aug 24, 2019 |
A wise man once said, "love fades away but hunger doesn't". Legends will understand |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by gideonvalor98(m): 10:31am On Aug 24, 2019 |
I use to have a girl like that too during my undergraduate days. I don't just get it while a lady won't be able to cook...as in what have you been doing during your teenage/early adult stage....some of them are in the habit of running from home when it's time to cook or going out to irrelevant places...most secondary school sef do teach student home economics and again YouTube is there where you will watch videos of how to prepare different delicacies. If you can't cook as a lady despite all the tools available for in this modern era, that means you are not serious and ready build a family |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by gideonvalor98(m): 10:33am On Aug 24, 2019 |
gideonvalor98: |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:36am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Offpoint:Every individual should learn how to do chores irrespective of gender. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by OlawaleBammie: 10:38am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ednut1:Are u just waking up to write this soo as a man u should b doing d cooking always?? walahi aye ti dorikodo. if i can cook does dat mean she should nt b able to cook?? |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:38am On Aug 24, 2019 |
DenreleDave:Yes so when can I come and pay your groom price 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by OlawaleBammie: 10:39am On Aug 24, 2019 |
AstroG:she said she's a feminist, a nigeria version soo wat did u expect? |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by ednut1(m): 10:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
OlawaleBammie:u teach am noni. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
henryobinna:I have nothing against this. I have never been in support of only guys buying gifts for their women. So the joke is on you. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:42am On Aug 24, 2019 |
DenreleDave:Yes, So when can I come and pay your groomprice to your mamamia |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by poseidon12: 10:43am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Both men and women should learn how to cook their own food. You don't have to be expert cooks but a responsible human being should be able to fix their food when necessary. I would consider anyone that does not know how to cook as irresponsible. |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by stormborn28(m): 10:44am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88:it is like for me saying not every man man like working to take care of the family... If you don't know, cooking is mandatory for every lady so as family responsibility is mandatory for every man |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:46am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Jetland:@bold, not anymore times have changed and are changing, I see the bold as a collective effort from both individuals. Women now work so they should bring something to the table Everybody has their blueprint I do not believe in society's defined roles enter marriage let you and your wife dtermine your own roles and responsibilities. You must not follow the bandwagon. stormborn28:What century do you live in. Read what I told the other person I quoted with you. 1 Like |
Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by poseidon12: 10:48am On Aug 24, 2019 |
missjo: Exactly. If I were in a position to hire, I will not hire anyone that does not know how to prepare their own food. I would consider such a person as very irresponsible. |
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