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Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes, So when can I come and pay your groomprice to your mamamia

Anytime u r financially buoyant... U r welcome

Draught:
Lol, I see what you did there, well done.

You might hate this fact but only when you embrace it can you know how to be successful in a relationship.

**A Man is the head and the woman is there to support him**

Relationship, marriage, love and what have you has no one perfect formula.
Enter your own marriage formulate your own practical let it work for you and stop giving counsels because what works for party A cannot work for party B.Leave success to be defined by the persons who are in the marriage not you. Everyone cannot go with your definition of success so try to embrace diversity in ideas, opinions and what have you. Being a so called head(head, whatever that crap means) does not stop you from knowing how to cook or cooking for your spouse

henryobinna:
What's this one saying?


some of you are so dumb that you argue for the sole aim of arguing alone

The feeling is mutual you are dumb likewise.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

lolz see this one, id go under the sun.. or I'd be working under a bossy boss..receive insults and all..still come back home and cook..cos my wife doesn't know how to ?

DenreleDave:
Anytime u r financially buoyant... U r welcome

Yes, so husband when can I come and pay the groomprice

Ladyhippolyta88:
@bold, how do you expect a woman to be working and do the hpusechores alone on a regular abi oga nor fit help out.
Nah fon't tell me what to do I have men arpund me who cook. I know a lady who doesn't cook she has a help and her husband helps out. The man is not jobless.
Just because you cannot do it does not mean some of your fellow men do not and it does not make them less of a man

i never used the boldened. Don't mince my words. A working class lady isn't expected to provide chiefly, the man is. why then do you expect a man to be the chief cook and still the chief provided? i'm not saying he shouldn't cook too but the responsibility shouldn't rest on his shoulders, but his wife's. And mind you, i cook my foods.

makavelli80:
nigga u should be dead by now

Some stupid questions can bring you back from the dead.

Martinez39:
Some stupid questions can bring you back from the dead.

I doff ma hat

enambobo:
i never used the boldened. Don't mince my words. A working class lady isn't expected to provide chiefly, the man is. why then do you expect a man to be the chief cook and still the chief provided? i'm not saying he shouldn't cook too but the responsibility shouldn't rest on his shoulders, but his wife's. And mind you, i cook my foods.

I don't do gender roles or streotypes so your post does not really concern me.
As far as I am concerned oga must know how to cook and help out. Working or not

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes, so husband when can I come and pay the groomprice

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Imaginary wife, Sunday will be suitable

Mizwisdom:
What are the basic things a man should know how to do?

Should know how to fùck to stupor

DenreleDave:
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Imaginary wife, Sunday will be suitable

Time and location please

Prettiedame:
Food can be gotten anywhere too

If I only get food anywhere apart from her, what is her usefulness then?

Konkonbiloo:
Cooking is one of the basic stuff a lady should know how to do... What if she finds her self in place where she's not use to the type of food eaten by the locals in that environment, so she'll starve to death or eat one thing repeatedly everytime

If u put it that way, then i can say cooking is a basic stuff everyone should know how to do.
Imagine a guy in this same situation you explained.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Time and location please

12 pm.. Lagos...

The mother or whoever brought her up is to be blamed. They neglected her training while she was still young and probably were now trying to coerce her when she was already grown.

As for those saying food can be gotten elsewhere, I quite agree but be sure that you will not be at peace in your home.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

A lot of thing are wrong. You started eating people's food from year one to year 23 and you didn't put in effort to make it yourself and you think it doesn't make you less a human?


Every human being should learn to cook at early age, male and female. If you can't cook then you've failed in your primary responsibility. Food is something you need 3x a day, and sometimes more so it's a basic necessity.

Even if you're from a rich home that has house helps, common sense demands that you prepare yourself in case something unpleasant happens because riches ain't promised you tomorrow.


But then we live in a WTF generation that's see nothing wrong in almost everything.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I am not, but the thing is that not every lady enjoys cooking so no need to force them. To some cooking comes as a natural talent to some it does not.
Bit then again cooking should not be a gender thing in the 21st century world so men need to learn how to cook too.

There's a wide gap between not enjoying cooking and not knowing how to cook.

One knows but doesn't like it, the other is clueless even though s/he may like it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't do gender roles or streotypes so your post does not really concern me.
As far as I am concerned oga must know how to cook and help out. Working or not

The topic is not on Oga. Face the topic. 23 yrs old lady and can't cook, what's your take on her?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

lol..
must u girls chip in male in everything even domestic works meant for females??

so husband sud provide for the family..
sud protect the family..
Bleep the wife satisfactorily..

And now..again they should equally share domestic chores with the wife ehn??

what support will such wife bring??

why should i even bother to wifey a girl that wont help out in cooking??

i'd rather get a sex doll for pleasure and do all the work myself than get such a girl..

enambobo:
The topic is not on Oga. Face the topic. 23 yrs old lady and can't cook, what's your take on her?

I see nothing wrong oo. She must have been learning other things that would impact on her.
Nothing she should be good in other things.
Not everyone can cook good food.

Tallesty1:
A lot of thing are wrong. You started eating people's food from year one to year 23 and you didn't put in effort to make it yourself and you think it doesn't make you less a human?


Every human being should learn to cook at early age, male and female. If you can't cook then you've failed in your primary responsibility. Food is something you need 3x a day, and sometimes more so it's a basic necessity.

Even if you're from a rich home that has house helps, common sense demands that you prepare yourself in case something unpleasant happens because riches ain't promised you tomorrow.


But then we live in a WTF generation that's see nothing wrong in almost everything.

I never said cooking was not a basic responsibilty but not everyone can cook good food on enjoy doing it

ednut1:
no be cooking go determine is marriage work or not. Teach am lol

Aaahhhh, teenager's reasoning upandan, u eye go soo clear, kp on doin good boy to online ladies oo, omaa to ye e

OlawaleBammie:
Aaahhhh, teenager's reasoning upandan, u eye go soo clear, kp on doin good boy to online ladies oo, omaa to ye e

so if gal set like juliet ibrahim dey work for shell. U no go overlook cooking wey u fit teach am ni. Na wife u marry no be cook

Ladyhippolyta88:
I never said cooking was not a basic responsibilty but not everyone can cook good food on enjoy doing it

I know but I am saying that cooking is a must and any adult who can't cook has failed somewhere very important.


I quoted you because you didn't see any wrong in it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Maybe she was doing other relevant things that would add value to her life other than cooking, ask her not me. By the way, do you know if it was her mom doing the cooking.

Good day.

poseidon12:
I hope you also know how to cook. If you don't, you better go and learn. It's no more a gender thing.

Why not...

Ladyhippolyta88:
I see nothing wrong oo. She must have been learning other things that would impact on her.
Nothing she should be good in other things.
Not everyone can cook good food.

Every other things she learnt is secondary. If she can't do primary, then she's got a problem. Isn't that shameful for neighbors to hear? Do you know why most men cherish their wives even when they have side chicks? The belly factor is the number one. So if she wants to tie her man down above all odds, it's advisable she be great at cooking. Else, watch and see Oga leave. Especially ogas with an unstable John Thomas.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I am not, but the thing is that not every lady enjoys cooking so no need to force them. To some cooking comes as a natural talent to some it does not.
Bit then again cooking should not be a gender thing in the 21st century world so men need to learn how to cook too.

Why should you bring gender into it?
If you work, you must eat.
If you must eat, shouldn't you know how to cook?
Regardless of your gender, if you are above 16 and you can't handle a spoon, pot and fire you're a disgrace.

ednut1:
so if gal set like juliet ibrahim dey work for shell. U no go overlook cooking wey u fit teach am ni. Na wife u marry no be cook

Lukadiswan!! Do u think am after a lady's weath and personality?? shell ko, ikaraun igbin ni.

if she like make she work for palm kernel or inside egg roll, all i want is happy home.

Boy?? i wil never trade my masculinity for anything, am not sayin my wife is a cook but at least she should b able to cook, my mum did and my daughter wil do as well, dat is how it is from tym immemorial, guys like u are d one trading ur respect, turning urself to the wife while d wife wil assume ur roles in d family, always lookin for a ready made woman irrespective of the danger behind..
once again i pity u.

Yes, Lol Thank God you are able to do it properly now.

dalass:
Nothing like practically doing it my dear.

My mum used to make ordinary EBA while I watched.

So one day, she asked me to make it for a relative. So I got that gari and poured hot water on top!

It was the same relative who put me through properly

OlawaleBammie:
Lukadiswan!! Do u think am after a lady's weath and personality?? shell ko, ikaraun igbin ni.

if she like make she work for palm kernel or inside egg roll, all i want is happy home.

Boy?? i wil never trade my masculinity for anything, am not sayin my wife is a cook but at least she should b able to cook, my mum did and my daughter wil do as well, dat is how it is from tym immemorial, guys like u are d one trading ur respect, turning urself to the wife while d wife wil assume ur roles in d family, always lookin for a ready made woman irrespective of the danger behind..
once again i pity u.

wetin i dey talk dey different from wetin u dey insinuate. I just gave an example. Wetin i wan use woman money do. All am saying is i cannot base marriage decision on cooking ability. Something wey u fit teach am . If i have option of nagging gf vs d one wey no sabi cook. I know who to chose