movingclouds:

Go to villages that still hold on to their culture. Ask for the man in charge of their deities and tell him "sir, I want to prove to the world that Juju is fake"

Huh? Speak in less parables.

XhosaNostra:


Huh? Speak in less parables.

No parables there my friend. Any research is done by digging deep into the foundation of what's needed to be known. I said go to villages, there you can be sure if Juju exists or not.

movingclouds:

No parables there my friend. Any research is done by digging deep into the foundation of what's needed to be known. I said go to villages, there you can be sure if Juju exists or not.

Yeah but what does juju have to do with anything? That's the part that's confusing me.

XhosaNostra:


Yeah but what does juju have to do with anything? That's the part that's confusing me.

Power, wealth, strength... These are things we're told Juju gives. But before you can believe this, you need to see for yourself.

movingclouds:

Power, wealth, strength... These are things we're told Juju gives. But before you can believe this, you need to see for yourself.

Erm...okay

XhosaNostra:


Erm...okay

Hit me up when you're ready for that.

it happens sometimes

could this be true?

Amanyanabo:

Wow so u understand pidgin

Nigerians are famous all over the world but varieties of characters, you just don't know because you are used to it but I hear from naija people in those oyinbo countries that everyone is on their own

movingclouds:

Power, wealth, strength... These are things we're told Juju gives. But before you can believe this, you need to see for yourself.

You trying to win her or scare her off?

pansophist:
He is scared of her rejection, she is motivated by her ego. If a lady does this with me, I will ignore her completely. Delaying response, or replying in a way that makes it seems like you're being forced to respond is an instant turn off.

You know I used to be friends with this girl in my childhood, believe me just casual friends with no ounce of romantic feelings between us, we used to be very intimate, even though we attended different universities but throughout those 5 years we used to chat and talk about everything no matter how personal the stuff was, then during my service year, I started noticing her reluctance to reply my bbm and whatsApp messages, then I stopped chatting with her, later she came back again and I also did like I used to do and again this reluctance, then I immediately deleted her number, since then (2016) till now, I've never initiated any chat or call, she does any time there is a conversation between us and the only reason why I remembered is because of what you posted

XhosaNostra:


Oh you charmer, you

Oh my love I miss u so plenty

zolapower:



Oh my love I miss u so plenty

That escalated fast. Teehee.

If u no form him go call u classless o

XhosaNostra:


Of course, it's not difficult to understand.

Cool......nothing do u

XhosaNostra:


Of course, it's not difficult to understand.

Do you guys also speak broken English in your country or something similar to the west African pidgin in southern Africa?

Amanyanabo:

Do you guys also speak broken English in your country or something similar to the west African pidgin in southern Africa?

Well, we got something similar but it borrows most of its words from Afrikaans & a combination of other languages. Everybody understands the language. It's called Tsotsitaal.

XhosaNostra:


Like when they start the usual mind fùckery, decreasing communication etc.

That's simply a rule every high value guy follows. Don't pester a girl too much, she will lose interest. That's a true fact.

No matter how much you love a guy, if he is always clinging and not giving you some space to breath, you will simply lose interest . That's why we pull away sometimes when the ovation is loudest.

When next we chat back or call back, there will this new vibe that both of you will experience. It will be like both of you just met newly. There will be this renewed feeling you will have for him. That happens because of the law of scarcity. When there is scarcity, demand will rise but when there is no scarcity, you will notice that demand will fall drastically.

It has been proven. We don't just want to over do things. We want you to miss us small. That's why we push and pull. Push and pull. Push and pull. We just can't help it.

XhosaNostra:


Well, we got something similar but it borrows most of its words from Afrikaans & a combination of other languages. Everybody understands the language. It's called Tsotsitaal.

Oh okay. I was watching Sound City some months back and I was surprised to hear a Kenyan artiste singing in pidgin. They are closer to southern African than they are to west Africa

Mcslize:


That's simply a rule every high value guy follows. Don't pester a girl too much, she will lose interest. That's a true fact.

No matter how much you love a guy, if he is always clinging and not giving you some space to breath, you will simply lose interest . That's why we pull away sometimes when the ovation is loudest.

When next we chat back or call back, there will this new vibe that both of you will experience. It will be like both of you just met newly. There will be this renewed feeling you will have for him. That happens because of the law of scarcity. When there is scarcity, demand will rise but when there is no scarcity, you will notice that demand will fall drastically.

It has been proven. We don't just want to over do things. We want you to miss us small. That's why we push and pull. Push and pull. Push and pull. We just can't help it.

High value guys my azz Who gets to decide your worth?

In as much as I'm not a clingy person nor do I like being constantly bombarded with messages, I still value communication very much in a relationship. How shall I put it? I rely more on "object constancy". So when you starve me of communication, not only does it sometimes make me forget how much I like you, but it also messes up the vibe because now I have to warm up to you all over again. Every guy that has tried that with me knows how coldly & vicious I react to it. I do not like it at all. I prefer that you get lost completely than play power games with me because you're going to lose.

Amanyanabo:

Oh okay. I was watching Sound City some months back and I was surprised to hear a Kenyan artiste singing in pidgin. They are closer to southern African than they are to west Africa

Maybe he has Nigerian friends .

XhosaNostra:


Maybe he has Nigerian friends .

Maybe he does

XhosaNostra:


High value guys my azz Who gets to decide your worth?

In as much as I'm not a clingy person nor do I like being constantly bombarded with messages, I still value communication very much in a relationship. How shall I put it? I rely more on "object constancy". So when you starve me of communication, not only does it sometimes make me forget how much I like you, but it also messes up the vibe because now I have to warm up to you all over again. Every guy that has tried that with me knows how coldly & vicious I react to it. I do not like it at all. I prefer that you get lost completely than play power games with me because you're going to lose.

Yeah, communication is good in every relationship. But have you ever met a highly clingy and obsessed guy? You will never ever pray for such.

A guy that will ring you up every 30 minutes, asking about your where about. If he calls now, in the next 30 to 1 hour he will call again. Both of you will speak for a couple of minutes and end the call.

Just when you are about to take your dinner, he calls again asking you if you have eaten, have you taken your bath? When are you taking your bath? I will soon do that . OK, and he ends the call.

Just when you stepped your feet in the bathroom and about to take your bath, he rings you up again. You rushed out of the bathroom with a tied towel dangling on your upper body. You picked the call and the next thing you heard is hello, I just called to know if you've started taking your bath. In your mind, you will be asking yourself, how did I even jam this guy self. Shebi you wan kill person daughter with calls? Then, you reluctantly answer him, yes I am about to take my bath when you called. Once the call ends, noone will ask you to switch off your phone before you do that.

That's the level of bugging I was referring to. I believe you won't pray for such obsession cuz they are all still communications you know.

Thatssobeyonce:
If u no form him go call u classless o

Really?
Are you paternally a Nigerian?

Mcslize:


Yeah, communication is good in every relationship. But have you ever met a highly clingy and obsessed guy? You will never ever pray for such.

A guy that will ring you up every 30 minutes, asking about your where about. If he calls now, in the next 30 to 1 hour he will call again. Both of you will speak for a couple of minutes and end the call.

Just when you are about to take your dinner, he calls again asking you if you have eaten, have you taken your bath? When are you taking your bath? I will soon do that . OK, and he ends the call.

Just when you stepped your feet in the bathroom and about to take your bath, he rings you up again. You rushed out of the bathroom with a tied towel dangling on your upper body. You picked the call and the next thing you hear is hello, I just called to know if you've started taking your bath. In your mind, you will be asking yourself, how did I even jam this guy self. Shebi you wan kill person daughter with calls? Then, you reluctantly answer him, yes Inam about to take my bath when you called. Once the call ends, noone will ask you to switch off your phone before you do that.

That's the level of bugging I was referring to. I believe you won't pray for such obsession cuz they are allsl still communications you know.

Of course nobody wants a pest lol. However, being distant & playing hard to get is not the way to go about it either. I refuse to "court" a man like he's my fair lady.

gomojam:
Really? Are you paternally a Nigerian?

Dads issa nigerian

Thatssobeyonce:









Dads issa nigerian

Whoa, good. From which ethnic group in Nigeria? You look more Eritrean, that's if you are the one in your dp.

And from your first comment, I inferred your mom is an Eritrean. What is her ethnicity? Can you speak any of the languages; Tigrinya, kunama, saho, Tigre, Arabic etc.?

XhosaNostra:


Like when they start the usual mind fùckery, decreasing communication etc.

Sometimes you ladies take things too far there's no mind fuckery and the decreasing communication may be work.

Modernist:
Sometimes you ladies take things too far there's no mind fuckery and the decreasing communication may be work.

...

pansophist:
He is scared of her rejection, she is motivated by her ego. If a lady does this with me, I will ignore her completely. Delaying response, or replying in a way that makes it seems like you're being forced to respond is an instant turn off.

They are both motivated by their EGO

XhosaNostra:


That escalated fast. Teehee.

Pls , na