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A Husband called his wife while returning from a Journey and says

Husband: Nkem, how are you doing? I'm on my way, I will be reaching in the next few hours, I'm very famished, I haven't eaten anything reasonable for two days now, prepare something nice please

Wife: Di'm, Good evening, na wah oh, You just went straight to the point as if food is the only reason why you should call me. Well, try and get something on your way home, I won't be going home from here, pastor Bola said I should see him this week, I want to go and see him today.

Husband: Are you okay? What are you saying Woman? What has gotten into you?
Wife: (raises her voice), YES! Emeka, I'm okay, I just told you to get something to eat that I'm not coming home immediately and you are trying to insult me. I don't have strength for your fight. Moreover, Did you drop any money that you are asking for food?
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1 hour later, She prepares to go and see her pastor as she had planned, so after preparing, she picks her phone and calls her pastor

She: (almost bowing down from her end), Good evening Daddy Sir
Pastor: Good evening Sister Ngozi, how are you doing?

She: Daddy, I'm fine Sir, Daddy, I'm on my way to see you as you requested, I don't know if you are busy Daddy, hope you are around and free Sir?

Pastor: Oh, Sister Ngozi, don't stress yourself, I will be coming to see you in the next 1 hour or so, I hope your husband will be around then, My message is actually for both of you.

She: Yes Daddy, Daddy, wow, it will be a pleasure. Daddy, my husband is currently on his way, he should be close by now, Daddy, please, what will you like to eat? What should I prepare for you? What's your favorite?

Pastor: No No No, Sister Ngozi, please don't stress yourself, I just want to talk to both of you, that's all.

She: Daddy, please, I insist, please sir, Daddy just say something.......... (she keeps insisting and begging).

They Tremble, stay humble and shake before their pastors but towards their husbands, they.....

#IRESTMYCASE

gam! You get it.

You are 100% correct

Wish i could give you a kiss.
suh true. 100%. All those, "my daddy in the lord" women.

THIS IS TRULY THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY BUT NOT ALL.

FIRSTLY, the pastors have more power than the husbands ONLY IN THE CHURCH... in the home the husband has the power and authority and he shares it with his wife, because she is not LOWER THAN HIM.... SHE IS HIS PARTNER.

SECONDLY, the women are gullible because they have not been taught properly how to give honor to whom honor is due as at when due. HUSBAND THAT DOES NOT SERVE GOD DOES NOT DESERVE ANY FORM OF HONOR... HE IS SIMPLY AN IGNORANT DISGRACE because MARRIAGE CAME FROM GOD.... and not from tradition. WIFE THAT CARRIES CHURCH ON HER HEAD is a shameless idol worshiper because she is serving church or her pastor more than she should...


THIRDLY, Husbands should never complain about their wives being more afraid of the pastor because NA PASTOR PERMIT THE WOMAN TO EVEN MARRY THE MAN O.... many women would never have married their husbands without counsel from the SO CALLED PASTOR. The MAN SHOULD GET SERIOUS WITH GOD AND ALSO GET CLOSER TO THE MAN OF GOD FOR THE PROTECTION OF HIS WIFE. This is wisdom.

FOURTHLY WOMEN naturally respect men who are much more higher than them in EVERY AREA OF LIFE..... so men should hold their game strong. A woman can only obey her pastor and disobey her husband when she feels her pastor is HIGHER THAN HER HUSBAND IN MANY WAYS. So men should KEEP IMPROVING ON EVERY AREA OF THEIR LIVES..... WOMEN RESPECT PRAYERFUL MEN... Men who pray well at home can control their wives easily.

A TRUE MAN/FATHER/HUSBAND is first a PRIEST of the house, the PROPHET OF THE HOUSE, the GENERAL OVERSEER OF HIS HOUSE and THE LEADER.... anything less is a disgrace to manhood. Many pastors rule over housewives because their men are too ignorantly weak to claim their position. BLAMING PASTORS WONT SOLVE IT, SIMPLY TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

Mekenz:
A Husband called his wife while returning from a Journey and says

Husband: Nkem, how are you doing? I'm on my way, I will be reaching in the next few hours, I'm very famished, I haven't eaten anything reasonable for two days now, prepare something nice please

Wife: Di'm, Good evening, na wah oh, You just went straight to the point as if food is the only reason why you should call me. Well, try and get something on your way home, I won't be going home from here, pastor Bola said I should see him this week, I want to go and see him today.

Husband: Are you okay? What are you saying Woman? What has gotten into you?
Wife: (raises her voice), YES! Emeka, I'm okay, I just told you to get something to eat that I'm not coming home immediately and you are trying to insult me. I don't have strength for your fight. Moreover, Did you drop any money that you are asking for food?
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1 hour later, She prepares to go and see her pastor as she had planned, so after preparing, she picks her phone and calls her pastor

She: (almost bowing down from her end), Good evening Daddy Sir
Pastor: Good evening Sister Ngozi, how are you doing?

She: Daddy, I'm fine Sir, Daddy, I'm on my way to see you as you requested, I don't know if you are busy Daddy, hope you are around and free Sir?

Pastor: Oh, Sister Ngozi, don't stress yourself, I will be coming to see you in the next 1 hour or so, I hope your husband will be around then, My message is actually for both of you.

She: Yes Daddy, Daddy, wow, it will be a pleasure. Daddy, my husband is currently on his way, he should be close by now, Daddy, please, what will you like to eat? What should I prepare for you? What's your favorite?

Pastor: No No No, Sister Ngozi, please don't stress yourself, I just want to talk to both of you, that's all.

She: Daddy, please, I insist, please sir, Daddy just say something.......... (she keeps insisting and begging).

They Tremble, stay humble and shake before their pastors but towards their husbands, they.....

#IRESTMYCASE

Not all women are that loyal to pastor. Only 30% of them especially Yoruba women

Blackivy27:
Wish i could give you a kiss.

suh true. 100%. All those, "my daddy in the lord" women.

seriously some women need their brain to be examine.

how you doing?

Mekenz:
seriously some women need their brain to be examine.

how you doing?

Honestly. When they start complaining of marital friction, and you dont pity them, then you're insensitive.
im cool and you?

Me that have not finish daddying my father will now go and be calling one man that calls himself a pastor Daddy.

I dislike women that are too over religious, they place their pastor above their husband

I can't marry a woman that calls his pastor daddy or spend more than 3 hours in church on any occasion.

Hmm

blackpanthar:
THIS IS TRULY THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY BUT NOT ALL.

FIRSTLY, the pastors have more power than the husbands ONLY IN THE CHURCH... in the home the husband has the power and authority and he shares it with his wife, because she is not LOWER THAN HIM.... SHE IS HIS PARTNER.

SECONDLY, the women are gullible because they have not been taught properly how to give honor to whom honor is due as at when due. HUSBAND THAT DOES NOT SERVE GOD DOES NOT DESERVE ANY FORM OF HONOR... HE IS SIMPLY AN IGNORANT DISGRACE because MARRIAGE CAME FROM GOD.... and not from tradition. WIFE THAT CARRIES CHURCH ON HER HEAD is a shameless idol worshiper because she is serving church or her pastor more than she should...


THIRDLY, Husbands should never complain about their wives being more afraid of the pastor because NA PASTOR PERMIT THE WOMAN TO EVEN MARRY THE MAN O.... many women would never have married their husbands without counsel from the SO CALLED PASTOR. The MAN SHOULD GET SERIOUS WITH GOD AND ALSO GET CLOSER TO THE MAN OF GOD FOR THE PROTECTION OF HIS WIFE. This is wisdom.

FOURTHLY WOMEN naturally respect men who are much more higher than them in EVERY AREA OF LIFE..... so men should hold their game strong. A woman can only obey her pastor and disobey her husband when she feels her pastor is HIGHER THAN HER HUSBAND IN MANY WAYS. So men should KEEP IMPROVING ON EVERY AREA OF THEIR LIVES..... WOMEN RESPECT PRAYERFUL MEN... Men who pray well at home can control their wives easily.

A TRUE MAN/FATHER/HUSBAND is first a PRIEST of the house, the PROPHET OF THE HOUSE, the GENERAL OVERSEER OF HIS HOUSE and THE LEADER.... anything less is a disgrace to manhood. Many pastors rule over housewives because their men are too ignorantly weak to claim their position. BLAMING PASTORS WONT SOLVE IT, SIMPLY TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

there are some complications in your write up, first you said that the pastor possess more powers than the husband only in the church, then went ahead and said that, the husband is lower than the pastor, is it also in the home? so the husband is not longer the head of the house, he now shares it with the wife? I don't also understand what you mean by the husband to be prayerful in the home to deserve some respect from his wife.

Only fools Marry a lady that calls his pastor Daddy.

Blackivy27:
Honestly. When they start complaining of marital friction, and you dont pity them, then you're insensitive.
im cool and you?

I'm doing fine dear.

you are absolutely on point, I hope is their pastor, that Will marry then,by then.

DrObiHogan:
I can't marry a woman that calls his pastor daddy or spend more than 3 hours in church on any occasion.

I'm telling you, so many husbands are passing through these issue at their various families.

Lol this reminds me of the silent 'putting in place' that occurred between my pastor and I few weeks ago.
For some months he acted so nice and fatherly, asking about my plans and all. Me wey wise will just smile and answer diplomatically without giving a concrete response. He indirectly called me gentle but stubborn but I knew better, he was only trying to see maybe he could match make me with one of his favorite minister and I was watching him, sipping kunu in my mind.

Lol, after lots of unyielding efforts he began to act somehow and deliberately ignore me.I maintained my stand, go to church worship and leave.At a point I didn't even go or officiate, I don't do daddy daddy things. . Well I thank God he traced his steps, sent a friend to me and we are all good. He knows I'm not a gullible one and respect that. We are all good now.

MariaLavina:
Lol this reminds me of the silent 'placing in place' that occurred between my pastor and I few weeks ago.
For some months he acted so nice and fatherly, asking about my plans and all. Me wey wise will just smile and answer diplomatically without giving a concrete response. He indirectly called me gentle but stubborn but I knew better, he was only trying to see maybe he could match make me with one of his favorite minister and I was watching him, sipping kunu in my mind.

Lol, after lots of unyielding efforts he began to act somehow and deliberately ignore me.I maintained my stand, go to church worship and leave.At a point I didn't even go or officiate, I don't do daddy daddy things. . Well I thank God he traced his steps, sent a friend to me and we are all good. He knows I'm not a gullible one and respect that. We are all good now.

holy shiit you are in the choir

IamPlato:
holy shiit you are in the choir

If you hear my voice ehn, you will melt.

MariaLavina:
If you hear my voice ehn, you will melt.

which church

IamPlato:
which church

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MariaLavina:
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don't worry I won't kidnap you

Mekenz:
there are some complications in your write up, first you said that the pastor possess more powers than the husband only in the church, then went ahead and said that, the husband is lower than the pastor, is it also in the home? so the husband is not longer the head of the house, he now shares it with the wife? I don't also understand what you mean by the husband to prayerful in the home to deserve some respect from his wife.

As in he just mix truth and fallacy together....
Every husband deserves Respect.. whether he is closer to God or not....God is the head of the man, the husband is the head of the woman..we know.....
...a wife is under the leadership of her husband anyday anytime...
Moreover...Family comes before the church ..and beware pastors are not God..so don't treat them as one....

No Igbo woman calls her pastor DADDY
you are wrong. They call them Pastor.

No Igbo woman will bow to her pastor. That's another Lie I see in this thread.

MariaLavina:
If you hear my voice ehn, you will melt.

Pls, I will love to hear it cos i feel like melting right now

You called your wife that you haven't eaten any "reasonable food" for the "past two days" and she replied you to buy food on your way home. First, she has no respect for you. Second, no sensible woman who loves her husband dearly will ever reply in such way. Saying for the past two days alone should get her worried, let alone ignoring your request.

goodmorning40:
Not all women are that loyal to pastor. Only 30% of them especially Yoruba women

Are you serious? What of igbo women and reverend fathers? Since we want to go tribal

GreenWhiteGreen:
You called your wife that you haven't eaten any "reasonable food" for the "past two days" and she replied you to buy food on your way home. First, she has no respect for you. Second, no sensible woman who loves her husband dearly will ever reply in such way. Saying for the past two days alone should get her worried, let alone ignoring your request.

so what then are you insinuating?

lesson learn; (1) never marry a non-virgin church girl (2) never marry "my pastor say" girl (3) never marry "my church don't like that" girl

blackpanthar:
THIS IS TRULY THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY BUT NOT ALL.




THIRDLY, Husbands should never complain about their wives being more afraid of the pastor because NA PASTOR PERMIT THE WOMAN TO EVEN MARRY THE MAN O.... many women would never have married their husbands without counsel from the SO CALLED PASTOR. The MAN SHOULD GET SERIOUS WITH GOD AND ALSO GET CLOSER TO THE MAN OF GOD FOR THE PROTECTION OF HIS WIFE. This is wisdom.

Like, you read this before typing? Or the other way round?

A wise woman once said: "Men have been trained and conditioned by women,...into becoming their slaves."

Heavance:
Like, you read this before typing? Or the other way round?

the guy is truly amazing.... shior
imaging him saying that is OK for the wife to fear and respect the pastor more than the husband, because the marriage was even permitted by the pastor in the beginning.....
some people sef......

Starz825:
As in he just mix truth and fallacy together....
Every husband deserves Respect.. whether he is closer to God or not....God is the head of the man, the husband is the head of the woman..we know.....
...a wife is under the leadership of her husband anyday anytime...
Moreover...Family comes before the church ..and beware pastors are not God..so don't treat them as one....

Some people are actually crazy........thinking they are wise just because you acclaim the tittle pastor


How do you determine if someone is close to God.. ?

What criterion determines a greater being amongst human

And brain is far from that epistle "pastor permit women to marry men"

The guy typed nonsense and deserve no attention