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Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? / Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 / Guys, At What Age Will Your Tie The Knot? (2) (3) (4)
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by tjfulloption(m): 2:46pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
excober080: To all those saying what will he use in feeding his children, pls tell me one person you know who has died by hunger? God who created you will surely provide for you what to eat, even though I regretted not marrying at an early age of about 25 and now am 35 just want to start beating the drum of marriage, while my mates kids are clocking 10-15 years old. See my brother and sister, as the OP has rightly said; time wait for no body. Don't be deceived, though not all fingers are equal. Moral: if you have that opportunity to marry at early age, PLEASE DO! for time waits for no one. 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ferdybillion(m): 2:55pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
This is how some people will say it's all about money till they turn 70 yet no money, no wife or kid. I share the ops point. One day I said I would love to get married before I get to 30 and yes it happened few months before I turned 30 and now the father of two beautiful boys. Everytime I see my kids and my wife I'm always happy, the money is not always coming in but we get through. Most times we laughed at some times when we are extremely broke though we will get richer by his grace. And about all those talk about woman leaving a man cos of money, I think that's sick. You can't be married and be lazy, you have to be up and doing in all aspects as a husband,father and the man of the house. I'm still learning cos life is a school when we learn everyday. The only risk in this life is not taking risk and you can only go as far as your mind let you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by olabrinks(f): 3:03pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
I couldn’t agree more. You don’t have to wait until infinity to have it all. What if you wait until 35 and you’re still broke? With the state of Nigerian economy, there’s only so much you can do esp as a Single young man. Marriage is a partnership, it’s about building and growing together. Most successful men had wives from the beginning who pushed them to be the men they are today. It’s about finding the right woman who will elevate you. Not waiting to have it all for one woman to suck you dry. Those that are 40 and unmarried are not happy, trust me. It’s harder to find genuine love when you have it all. 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by iLegendd(m): 5:17pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
I didn't read.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Gpopsicle(m): 6:10pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Op, i support you on this. There are rich kids who still turn out to be criminals so Its not all about the money but finding the right woman who will stand by you. The problem is we are not patient enough to see. What's the assurance that you will make it in the next 5years? There is no amount of money a man would gather that he will be satisfied with. If you have the opportunity to marry early, please do. You don't need the whole world before you settle down and i thank God that some of our brothers have started embracing this change. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Sonfethopia: 6:14pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
NGRsenate: He didnt say its all about money , he said you dont need to have too much money to buy car build house ,etc. If na money people no go born.op I s right |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by gforce5: 6:59pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
My friend, keep quiet. You are telling young men to marry in this harsh economy where there are very few jobs? Do you know how expensive it is to raise children in this day and age? Do you know how much baby food, diapers and day care cost? A lot of young people cannot feed themselves and yet you want them to be responsible for others. Are you okay? Are you going to pay for their wedding expenses, rent and find decent schools for their kids? If not, I suggest that you keep quiet and stop promoting poverty in the land. This "go and marry" syndrome is the reason why there are so many failed marriages in this country coupled with a high level of poverty in the land. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 7:03pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
excober080: Thank you! |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by karlboss: 10:21pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
gforce5: I have a guy. A legit hustler but no job he D guy wife Na beautiful angel. Things are really tough for the guy right now his wife put to bed I don't want to go into detail but D sacrifice Dat this lady has made for the guy is mind blowing. The guy marriage dey inspire me. Any lady Dat loves you and is ready to start with you when you are hustling, I'll advice marry oh. Money is not an excuse (I'm also telling myself This). I dey tell my guy say I can't try what he did. Most of the comments here are from guys this shows that every man deep down wants a peaceful home las Las |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by frankkydee(m): 10:38pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
olabrinks: At the bolded, its not easy finding one but if i find one, I will get married soonest |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Mikolion87(m): 1:06am On Sep 11, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: If a guy without money or a good job approaches you for marriage, will you accept? |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by NGRsenate: 6:14pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
Sonfethopia: Oh please. There’s never anything like too much money. You may have saved up 5m thinking you’re ready. But God forbid you lose your job, or your child is struck with one disease or you are struck with one disease or school fees get increased or house rent gets increased or one thing or the other. What will you say then? Stop living only in the moment, everything you do now should have some projected positive future implications. According to one great man I follow; “Nigerians should stop the habit of making their children their future investment rather than making future investments for their children “ 1 Like |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by NGRsenate: 6:18pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
gforce5: Person wey get sense. They will not listen now. That’s how you’ll see one bike man with 3 children ��� 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by NGRsenate: 6:21pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
olabrinks: If you wait till you’re 35 and you’re still broke then don’t marry. We still have overpopulation to worry about 1 Like |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by NGRsenate: 6:24pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
tjfulloption: Ajebo! Enter street make you know wetin dey sup |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 6:29pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
Everyone got their time. Better late than never. |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Magnoliaa(f): 4:45pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Mikolion87: No. And that doesn't mean I'm 'waiting' for someone with the whole world offer me. |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Olas00(m): 5:41pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Any single lady here pls, because am still finding one |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by dave4rella(m): 6:01pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
The op is making sense, like wise others opposing him My question now is what is,what can someone that got a federal job OK 100k recently, expect in getting married to a lady that works in a private firm and earns 60k or thereabouts... I mean how they will be able to cope and maintain a decent marriage.. Thanks |
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Mikolion87(m): 6:06pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: In essence you agree then that a man needs to have a GOOD job before marriage even though he already has a job. The problem then is that, you may have to wait a bit longer cos most men don't have a good job hence are not ready for marriage. Unless you meet one of the few who have, or manage with one who's still struggling and hope for the best. But of course most women will never accept this kind of man. So don't blame the men for remaining single. They are being realistic. |
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