excober080:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Stay away from abortion.
Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. with
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon stone type? but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down.

With a good determination and focus with your wife by your side, we will succeed
by God grace....Amen

DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES ON THIS PLATFORM

I didn't read.

Whoever advises men to marry early when they are not financially stable is an agent of darkness.

Men listen to these so-called wise men advice, get married early and populate the world with children they can't take care of. Some of these children turn to criminals and start terrorizing and kidnapping innocent people.

If that stupid man who gave birth to him had a business and he's making regular sales, the children would've been working in his company and seeing regular income to deter them from crime, etc.

The criminals we have today are mostly children of men who focused on getting married early and populating the world with kids without a source of income.

A job is not even enough. Multiple businesses is.

Since I didn't read what the OP wrote, I won't criticize his writeup, but I will advise wise men NEVER to listen to these messages of "Marry early even if you don't have anything God will provide."

Africans are all about children children children. They never talk about invention, innovation, stopping crime and over population.

Having children is good, but being pressured to have it when you're not financially ready is bad.

If you listen to any agent of darkness in having children early without a source of income, you're among those encouraging crime.

Children of poor men hardly listen to their parents. These children will outgrow their parents and start polluting this world because of lack of money.

Stupid men everywhere. All they think about is sex, crime, and children. Even to make money, they can't do it legitimately.

There are too many legit ways to make money without spending a dime, but these men spend all their lives going to school, searching for job, and being depressed because they couldn't find one.

Most of you who focus on school, job, and getting married early even without money are they problems of this world. God has given you all you need to create a happy universe for yourself, but no, you follow another man's path — which is: get married early even without money, God will provide.

Yes, God is good at providing, but not for the lazy ones. A lot of you will regret if you ever get married because you were pressured by these agents of darkness.

All they are after is for the world's population to rise that crime will rise. The more children we have in this country by poor men, the more crime we have.

I'm fed up with African men's mentality.

NGRsenate:
Because it worked for one, luckily worked for two and may have worked for 3 doesn’t mean it now applies to everybody.


My parents had just us 2 and I know what they went through from my pry 3 till I got to uni and started hustling.

Op said it is not about money, abeeeg it is all about money. Ask anybody that has a family and they’ll tell you

Whoever is reading this, don’t let anyone rush you or deceive you o.

They will tell you to have children at 25 but they will not give you money to feed them.

Do what your mind tells you and if your mind tells you to build a mansion before kids, then please do just that.

excober080:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Stay away from abortion.
Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. with
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon stone type? but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down.

With a good determination and focus with your wife by your side, we will succeed
by God grace....Amen

DEDICATED TO ALL THE SINGLES ON THIS PLATFORM

gforce5:
My friend, keep quiet. You are telling young men to marry in this harsh economy where there are very few jobs? Do you know how expensive it is to raise children in this day and age? Do you know how much baby food, diapers and day care cost? A lot of young people cannot feed themselves and yet you want them to be responsible for others. Are you okay? Are you going to pay for their wedding expenses, rent and find decent schools for their kids? If not, I suggest that you keep quiet and stop promoting poverty in the land. This "go and marry" syndrome is the reason why there are so many failed marriages in this country coupled with a high level of poverty in the land.

olabrinks:
I couldn’t agree more.

You don’t have to wait until infinity to have it all. What if you wait until 35 and you’re still broke? With the state of Nigerian economy, there’s only so much you can do esp as a Single young man. Marriage is a partnership, it’s about building and growing together. Most successful men had wives from the beginning who pushed them to be the men they are today. It’s about finding the right woman who will elevate you. Not waiting to have it all for one woman to suck you dry. Those that are 40 and unmarried are not happy, trust me. It’s harder to find genuine love when you have it all.

Magnoliaa:
Wow...

An uncommon post on this forum.

Preach, Sir.

God will make them hear.

Sonfethopia:


He didnt say its all about money , he said you dont need to have too much money to buy car build house ,etc. If na money people no go born.op I s right

gforce5:
My friend, keep quiet. You are telling young men to marry in this harsh economy where there are very few jobs? Do you know how expensive it is to raise children in this day and age? Do you know how much baby food, diapers and day care cost? A lot of young people cannot feed themselves and yet you want them to be responsible for others. Are you okay? Are you going to pay for their wedding expenses, rent and find decent schools for their kids? If not, I suggest that you keep quiet and stop promoting poverty in the land. This "go and marry" syndrome is the reason why there are so many failed marriages in this country coupled with a high level of poverty in the land.

olabrinks:
I couldn’t agree more.

You don’t have to wait until infinity to have it all. What if you wait until 35 and you’re still broke? With the state of Nigerian economy, there’s only so much you can do esp as a Single young man. Marriage is a partnership, it’s about building and growing together. Most successful men had wives from the beginning who pushed them to be the men they are today. It’s about finding the right woman who will elevate you. Not waiting to have it all for one woman to suck you dry. Those that are 40 and unmarried are not happy, trust me. It’s harder to find genuine love when you have it all.

tjfulloption:


To all those saying what will he use in feeding his children, pls tell me one person you know who has died by hunger? God who created you will surely provide for you what to eat, even though I regretted not marrying at an early age of about 25 and now am 35 just want to start beating the drum of marriage, while my mates kids are clocking 10-15 years old.
See my brother and sister, as the OP has rightly said; time wait for no body. Don't be deceived, though not all fingers are equal. Moral: if you have that opportunity to marry at early age, PLEASE DO! for time waits for no one.

Mikolion87:


If a guy without money or a good job approaches you for marriage, will you accept?

Magnoliaa:



No. And that doesn't mean I'm 'waiting' for someone with the whole world offer me.