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NaijaWebDesign:
My brother the answer is simple. Lend what you can forget. For example, someone wants to borrow 50k, if you can dash him 10k please dash him and tell him it's dash o. That you don't have the 50k.

Next time he/she comes for money again tell him, you are expecting money from something or someone. That you're verrrry rich for now. Simple!!!

I get lots of request for money lately. I don't know why

Although, there are some very close and faithful friends. I mean your very close friend that's working class. You can lend upto 50k or more if you're bouyant and if you trust them.

Always do your due diligence before lending.

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My method. It works like charm.

femi4:
I have no problem if they continue to pay back as at when due

The ones that act as if they don't know they are owing you are the most wicked of them all

Someone did that to me, she never believed what i did to her and she gave me my money back

BecaciaBarbie:
He is taking up some expenses that will benefit both of us, which I understand but he also knows that such an amount of money would affect me and he pretended to act like he wants to borrow the money, i mean he could have come out straight asking me to give him what I have not borrow. I tried asking, he said...oh but you know I have spent so much on this thing we are doing etc this isn't the first time.

Den leave him and learn ur lesson, he will surely ask u one day don't give

Because you will also return if you are in their shoes

Once you're single and working, they just start acting like you have no responsibilities nor use for money.

My cousins, friends, colleagues always have "dire" needs at the end of the month and they feel I'm the best person to ask. And they keep asking for ridiculous sums.

What I simply say is that my salary finishes on the road... then at a later time, send whatever I can afford to send.

donbachi:
To a lasting friendship...dont borrow,dont lend.

Friends, do benefit from each other, care for each other and with no doubt, love and clean tears of each other

pocohantas:
So, I should stop lending?

Or start charging interest?

A colleague took a loan from me to play Bet9ja. Can you imagine?

some Are Addicted To Borrowing. I Don Know Them, so When They Come I Tell Them I Dont Have

Well, just build a Bank .

cnonyechi:
Y should u loan someone money to gamble?

Lol. Do you think he told me the purpose of the loan at the point of collection?

He told me his body is doing him somehow, so he needs to treat malaria. You can imagine my shock when he said he has a confession few days later.

CaptainMitch:
Did he win?

Yes he did. I think that was during Africa Cup of Nations or whatever.

Because your too nice and you know being too nice is weakness

pocohantas:
Lol. Do you think he told me the purpose of the loan at the point of collection?

He told me his body is doing him somehow, so he needs to treat malaria. You can imagine my shock when he said he has a confession few days later.

those ones are easy. buy them the antimalarial

shebi you are in vi.

Geonigga:
I would never in my life time lend any one money rather I will outrightly dash the person the little I can because from the conspectus of my experience, no one seems to return money lend. The very recent one is a friend whom I borrow 10k sometime last month, right now I'm even tired of calling him for the money.

He he he, my fwend promised me b4 the end of this week she msg me on Tuesday that the person is sick,I be like 'the week has not yet ended' why the complaints wen Sunday has not yet reach. Na my best fwend for school oo,I hope she no go bring excuse at the end.

pocohantas:
They paid back, I have to give them some credit for that. Some after few days, some right on the agreed day. Then there was one I told to shun it, after he told me his salary and proposed repayment plan.

I don't lend what I can't forget, but if I wanted to be forgetting- it won't be a loan. It will be a dash.

My problem is, why do they keep coming back? Is there a rule that says, lend once and lend forever?

hahahaha

Mutemenot:
you get luck say them dey pay you back the first time ..dont lend what you can't forget

true talk

Collect sure game for me and send

pocohantas:
Lol. Do you think he told me the purpose of the loan at the point of collection?

He told me his body is doing him somehow, so he needs to treat malaria. You can imagine my shock when he said he has a confession few days later.



Yes he did. I think that was during Africa Cup of Nations or whatever.

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you lend people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

It is normal just the way we ask God to grant us another day. What matter most is whether the person is credit worthy.
Even Dangote never tire to borrow from banks

dazzlingd:
It is highly irresponsible to borrow money and not return it....very irresponsible

Highly irresponsible

Turn it into a business... Charge interest

RexTramadol1:
I know for sure you can't dash more than 100 to 200 naira



You know inside yourself that you are stingy

Lol. I hear ya. Niggy be trying to undermine a lady. Kwantinu

Sleevia:
do not give more than you can afford to loss. I learned this the hard way back in NYSC. Since, the only person I have ever tried give more than 100k is a friend who deserve it. Aside that, the highest you can get from me is 10k-20k

Bros, you fit lend me 10k

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you lend people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

Pls why ask this question today, why?
Some persons genuinely need help.
I'm dead broke and about to ask a senior colleague who has helped me out on two occasions previously and I paid back right on time. Now I can't ask even because I feel he has been thinking along this line too. Hunger will kill me this weekend

Kutiang:
Pls why ask this question today, why?
Some persons genuinely need help.
I'm dead broke and about to ask a senior colleague who has helped me out on two occasions previously and I paid back right on time. Now I can't ask even because I feel he has been thinking along this line too. Hunger will kill me this weekend

Send your account number to me

.

ornicus:
be a BITCH na. dey harass them. where my money. small passive aggressive. just know they will probably hate you afterwards - but then again - they borrowed from you.



Your colleague has much bigger problems than your generosity. he is a problem gambler. he is probably borrowing from everyone.

You've Got Balls Mate

donbachi:
To a lasting friendship...dont borrow,dont lend.

Aswear! I helped a friend to borrow money from my mother's village meeting with another person's influence on February. Till now, I have not heard from her again. The last time I tried to confront, all what she told me was I should see the goods, that there is no market. The meeting people are disturbing oooooo. I am the one paying for the money and not as if I have something doing for now. As far as that friendship is concern, everybody, everybody is now OYO. I will continue to regret that help.

pocohantas:
They paid back, I have to give them some credit for that. Some after few days, some right on the agreed day. Then there was one I told to shun it, after he told me his salary and proposed repayment plan.

I don't lend what I can't forget, but if I wanted to be forgetting- it won't be a loan. It will be a dash.

My problem is, why do they keep coming back? Is there a rule that says, lend once and lend forever?

Pls come and borrow me money. I promise not to come back.

mascot87:
Send your account number to me

Can I send mine tooooo. Will definitely not dissapoint.

Hmmn.

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you lend people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

Pls keep lending them, except you don't have. It's part of Godliness. Lend and give also. God with be happy with you for this.

I am in similar situation. Some people are like regular asker and borrower sef. I don't find it comfortable to turning people down when I am still try.

mascot87:
Bros, you fit lend me 10k

but i do not know u na lol

It’s nice to know I am not in an isolated island.