pocohantas:
Why is it that when you borrow people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

If the ATM in your area is dispensing cash at will why will you go to another ATM?

The question is like asking why do people always return after having a good sex?

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you borrow people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

OBJ once said- "If you have a friend who is always WILLING to give, you will LEARN to ask for more".

rhythyson:


If the ATM in your area is dispensing cash at will why will you go to another ATM?

abi o

I am looking for someone to borrow me money. I won't come back for more

Can you borrow me like 10k I promise to pay back as soon as I can..

Why lend money to people when you are not a bank?

Good act.
Countinue as long as the money you give to them is not more than you can forget.

When u Lend money, u lose ur friendship,u lose ur money

The simple solution to avoid heart breaks is not to borrow what you can't forget easily. If they ask you for a sum bigger than what you can forget, just tell dem dis is what you can afford to borrow dem for now and if you must lend something higher, go for a legal agreement so you can have prove of d transaction.

always dash out or borrow out what you can easily forfeit.

femi4:
I have no problem if they continue to pay back as at when due

The ones that act as if they don't know they are owing you are the most wicked of them all

I don catch u, u go sabi borrow money from ur friends die

Help a man in (financial) trouble, when he is in trouble again, he will remember you.

As for not paying back subsequently, some begin to think that you are all sufficient.

Chanchit:







You go stingy gan o. How won't you borrow or dash a friend money when he/she needs it.

no...I have a big heart.

There’s more where it came from

pocohantas:


So, I should stop lending?

Or start charging interest?

A colleague took a loan from me to play Bet9ja. Can you imagine?

You will loose all your friends soon. Stop lending people money! When they come tell them you have a project you are handling say money no de. I learnt this the had way.

na so we see am for this country oh

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Keep life simple: Don't borrow; don't lend.

You will live happily ever after.

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Mutemenot:
you get luck say them dey pay you back the first time ..dont lend what you can't forget

My principle

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you borrow people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

Because they are like MMM..........

Because they were able to refund the first one.

Me that i lend a friend some money, till now never get it back. "Please, give me, in two weeks time, i will pay back". Two weeks is getting to three months now.

Well, I have the antidote for it....I do not lend people money I can not let go. It just makes my life easier. I can't imagine chasing after people for money. If they ask for an amount I can't let go, regardless of how small or big, I just say I don't have. Issue resolved.

pocohantas:


So, I should stop lending?

Or start charging interest?

A colleague took a loan from me to play Bet9ja. Can you imagine?

If he wins (assuming he is male), you get your money back..... If ticket cut, your money enter voicemail.......

He would not even share the gains, with his benefactor aka loan provider.......

I like lending Money to girls, incase dem no fit refund my money, there's always an alternative.

pocohantas:


So, I should stop lending?

Or start charging interest?

A colleague took a loan from me to play Bet9ja. Can you imagine?

Whatever he does with the money is none of your business as long as he pays back on the agreed date.

pocohantas:
Why is it that when you borrow people money once, you automatically become their go-to person for credit.

I have noticed this among "friends" and colleagues.

Like that is not enough, their payback tends to get worse with time. Seems they pay back promptly the first time to get your trust, subsequent ones would come with defaults.

Why?

refer them to all this online lenders... better dash than borrow