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Hello fellows, hope ur day went well. Why do people in relationship still date other people, what is really there motive especially guys.
I know a friend ( guy)who is into a relationship but is still straffing another girl for like straight one year now. Why can't people stick to one partner.
I thought he was only sleeping with the girl but the said guy is nursing feelings for the lady while in a relationship. Each time the lady tries to walk out, he begs her not to and he has another relationship.

I cant try dis nonsense. I dnt double date, its fxcking expensive

MrBrownJay1:
GREED
FOOLISHNESS
CHEAP NATURE
OLOSHOISM
THINK THEY WILL NEVER BE CAUGHT

You can't actually catch them except there tell you

taiocol:
You can't actually catch them except there tell you

It's very easy to catch cheats.... because the truth ALWAYS come out eventually

MrBrownJay1:
It's very easy to catch cheats.... because the truth ALWAYS come out eventually

Then you've not met with the real cheaters.

Not saying I cheat but even when I der test run the process that year you nor fit catch ME

taiocol:
Then you've not met with the real cheaters.

Not saying I cheat but even when I der test run the process that year you nor fit catch ME

Yes anybody can cheat, but thinking that you are too clever to be caught would be your downfall.

Because most people are not having a satisfying relationship.

Men do it b|c they can get away with it and b|c some women allow them to. Brostitutes.

MrBrownJay1:
Yes anybody can cheat, but thinking that you are too clever to be caught would be your downfall.

"I'm clued up cause I played the game smarter"

taiocol:
"I'm clued up cause I played the game smarter"

Clap for yourself bro.... but if you claim to be a playa that has never been caught, then you sir are either living in la la land, just started "playa/cheater" life OR simply that your babes don't care whether you cheat or not (which is worse).

Most playas get caught one day or another...thats just part of the learning process....

@ especially guys.

Both gender are guilty as charged.

Guys are only more vocal of theirs (before all and sundry) because they can easily get away with it. Not forgetting it is more socially acceptable.

I will say greed. Greed for additional emotional, sexual or financial pleasure.

doris4u:
Hello fellows, hope ur day went well. Why do people in relationship still date other people, what is really there motive especially guys.
I know a friend ( guy)who is into a relationship but is still straffing another girl for like straight one year now. Why can't people stick to one partner.
I thought he was only sleeping with the girl but the said guy is nursing feelings for the lady while in a relationship. Each time the lady tries to walk out, he begs her not to and he has another relationship.

That is what we call "Balancing of Equations,Not putting all his eggs in one basket and not eating the same soup everyday"


The Guy is Very Smart,a Genius to behold

taiocol:
Then you've not met with the real cheaters.

Not saying I cheat but even when I der test run the process that year you nor fit catch ME

the only way you can cheat and not get caught is if it's a sting operation. Once you start having a relationship with the other person, your main partner will eventually find out.

Some girls starve their boyfriends of sex (the only one thing she can offer). In this kind of situation, what would you rather have him do?

Well, as for me, I don't need much.

I need her loyalty, respect and faithfulness.

But giving me all these without sex will result to tantamount cheating.

But once she can give me these things, I will also be faithful and loyal.

But cheating sweet small sha, especially for the guys.
It makes you feel like the real man that you are.
But any woman that allows anyone other than her boyfriend or husband into her, she's shameless and useless.

I wonder what remains for the eventual wife when the boyfriend who is yet to marry complains of being sex starved .

I will say it greediness on the guys part because according to him , his relationship is always on and off.

In my opinion, Guys double date because sometimes you girls fail to really show a guy how much you love him and leave him guessing. Some guys, especially guys who have read books like 'The Game' by Niel Straus, 'Bang Rule' etc.. may see this as a red light. What do you expect to be their next line of action? Of course they won't be needy and demand more affection from their girl... No.. They do what has to be done.... Plan B.

That little shakara you are doing to your boo is opening the door for a new flower to replace you!

Bottom line.
If you love your guy, make him understand that you really do, especially if he's out there hustling and chasing his dreams for a better life for both of you.