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Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by femison32(m): 8:09pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
go for counselling ask of Daniel akpata on 99.3 Nigeriainfo or twitter type that counselling is the best good luck |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by nicepoker101(m): 8:16pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
LadySarah:See as you avoided what the woman did. Daughters of jezebel |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by xavier047: 8:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:What are you saying? You are not even reading the OP message The Lady in question went as far as distorting results, conniving with medical personnel to hide her status, even if the OP had gone for the medical tests as you suggested, the results would have been tampered by the lady. You behave as if he should have gone into the situation with the mindset of suspecting the lady from the onset. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by RUDEBOYY(m): 8:45pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
This woman is using you as a lab rat and you are here looking for what to do 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Kachi1194(m): 9:12pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Bros the best thing is to stay away from her cause she will do anything to infect you, God decided to exempt you from all her plans cause you don't know what was happening and now you have known just don't do anything with her cause if you do there is every tendency that you will contract it. She is a serial cheat and heartless person. If you do anything now that you know you may not go free again..... Your God is alive. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by frozen70(f): 9:16pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw: Time for pretense has gone Face the reality with courage and boldness but nit with aggressive means Take every one to a trusted doctor and rerun the whole test Get to know the level she is, and ask the doctor to advise you if you need to take preventive drugs or go ahead with skin to skin She is capable of infecting those kids if any harsh decision is taken on her If possible, stop at this two kids and plan for them May anger is that she is stubborn and clueless First of all inform her parents and watch their reactions She is very canny and secretive 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by koolaid87: 9:52pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
You're so foolish Op. Im Sorry I just have to blast you cos you're still here asking for opinion Its obvious your life ain't precious to you . Niggaz that woman will kill you Blow the lid open, let the both families know about it. You shouldn't honor a fucking marriage that was based on fraud and deception Take her to court if need be, fight for the custody of your kids. It's a crime for her to have deceived you into a sexual relationship Fight it with all your might in court And pls don't have any sexual contact with her no more..I wouldn't even sleep next to a devil like that. Don't push your luck bro. You're not special 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by pinnocho: 10:24pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
The preponderance of HIV cases nowadays is very alarming, I was once in a very similar situation as yours some years back. Only difference was that I got to know during her pregnancy for our only child. Though I tried to make it work, I noticed there was no remorse or appreciation of the fact that I still loved her despite her status. I had to run for my life after 14 months of knowing. I pay my financial duty as father while she is in custody of our son (which I will still have a DNA test in future to validate). I am glad I did what i did looking back now. The ball is in your court brother! It takes a lot of courage to be a man in this current generation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by kessler53(m): 10:33pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
theButterfly:true talk 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
baby124:when the drug is used to immune system it will not be active within that period the man will have the virus |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Fearcom(m): 11:05pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw: It's like you're sleeping and you need a rude awakening! You will DEFINITELY be infected sooner or later. If I were you I would also use the same trick she used in getting IN to also trick my way OUT of that catastrophic marriage! She may be the weaker sex but she's the smarter of you both! What you've seen is just the tip of the iceberg! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by lighternote: 11:09pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
narcissistic red flag � Bro, she'll use you till the end of the world, she doesn't love you. Deception is a solid ground for dissolution of marriage. Fleeeeeeeee Hobbsandshaw: |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Elliot2(m): 11:15pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:Stop trying to sound woke; you are damn fast asleep. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by idesylvester(m): 11:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
You have to act smart so she won't spread the disease on you or the kids as a punishmnt. Since u and ur kids are lucky and probably cos of the drugs she's taking, u must not annoy her or allow her to know ur next move. Just handle it like a professional. You're allowed to divorce her since it has to do with deceit but be wise; it's a matter of life and death |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Finelinks: 11:52pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
mayordj4real:stop saying rubbish 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Nobody: 12:52am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw: "O God of Heaven and Earth, let this poster receive sense in Jesus name " A woman who has the mind to do skin to skin with you knowing shes positive can kill you. what was her intention for not playing safe to protect you; she nor wan die alone. And you're still there asking what to do....without being told you should know. Youre caring about someone who didnt care whether you died or not. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by OKOATA(m): 1:01am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw:You know she will infect you and you are still asking foolish questions, Pele o Mr nice guy.. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by belente(m): 1:19am On Sep 28, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:you are right, churches demand for blood group.genotype and Hiv test from reputable hospitals before wedding |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by savanto: 2:09am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Send me a DM I will counsel you. I think I can help in some ways. Cheers |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by bjbjbj: 4:17am On Sep 28, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by 1Sharon(f): 4:23am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Haha! You think HIV patients only take a few drugs? It's a cocktail of pills they take. About 15 tablets all together. I'm just curious to know how she hid this |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by 1Sharon(f): 4:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
clarknuvie: You make no sense. I cant even.. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by 1Sharon(f): 4:38am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw: Do a DNA test for your kids pls! |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Rubbiish(m): 5:49am On Sep 28, 2019 |
1Sharon:15 tablets at a time? |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by 1Sharon(f): 5:51am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Rubbiish: I dont know if they take it at the same time, but that's the total daily. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Rubbiish(m): 5:51am On Sep 28, 2019 |
1Sharon:Why e con plenty like that |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Caseless: 7:24am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Hobbsandshaw:find a way to let her go without exposing her to public stigma. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by dizzzzy14: 7:26am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Hope u know she can't go for another C Section again, if u love ur boys and you love her, u can talk to her and show her more love even now, disappoint her, she mite feel u will run away from her when u fine out but talk to her, that HIV can not stop the love u have for her, that u are only angry for she not opening up to u, but it's fine u forgive her and it's between the family, but from now on sex will be with condom. But if u have lost interest in the marriage n no long feel safe with her, take her to court, get ur son and leave the house for her, then later u come take ur other son. U are one hell of a lucky son of a B****. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Hobbsandshaw: 9:18am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Caseless: That is exactly what I'm planning to do.kids are involve here,if take hasty decision and make this public(to people that know us), the stigma will still rub off on me and the kids. I don't have to be wicked because she is. All these people calling me names are not even wise.I'M JUST ACTNG LIKE A FOOL TO FOOL THE THAT HAS BEEN FOOLING ME. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Cappoditutti: 9:19am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Maybe you didn't stay amongst your people, there so many Igbo girls with, if you permit me, prior to wedlock pregnancies. Many of them come back to claim single while their kids are back in the village with their moms. Or was it not what they used in starting baby factory all over the place. quote author=Success1020 post=82619492] Stop using Yorubas as example with out of wed pregnancies. Out of wed pregnancy is very common among yorubas, that it's now an acceptable norm among them. How many Igbos do you know with out of wed pregnancy? Very few. Igbo don't roll like that![/quote] |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Hobbsandshaw: 9:25am On Sep 28, 2019 |
dizzzzy14:. That's settled already. What will I still be looking for after two kids. |
Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by Graxie(f): 9:39am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Too many ignorant folks, someone even claimed HIV patient take 15 drugs daily. Lazy youth. Oga husband, go to good teaching hospital and get counselling. If you want to divorce her please you are free, don't rub it on her to start taking all your excesses because of her condition. Your kids are safe as long as she is taking her medication, her viral load is less than 20,000 and her cd4 count is more than 500. She can still give birth to more healthy children. Many hiv positive mothers are giving birth through vj delivery once those conditions are in place. She deceived you which is very bad and you are free to divorce her because of deceit. Those doctors telling you that you are lucky are not serious truly. You are not positive because she is on drugs and her immune system is high. 1 Like |
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