Logobenz:
I've never read an amazing piece of well compounded nonsense in my life.
Where did you study?

Sorry but I agree with the man’s opinion. It may sound like nonsense to you but it makes sense to the victim in this case. The man just gave some of the several factors in his own opinion that. An cause the problem in the house. You that think the man said nonsense please tell us your own reasonable or well thought out opinion on this matter.

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

any many who take this serious, should do so at his own peril lol.

simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

She is cheating take it or leave it. Even it’s happens she’s not cheating already which I highly doubt cos of the distance and time involved then she probably wants to cheat. That’s is not the language of love or a good wife. U better be offended and show it.

U better not take it likely and tell her u will not take it likely especially with no good reason given especially since both of u haven’t had intimacy in months or a year and she’s telling such hell nah bt if it’s confirmed she’s not cheating on u and having any type of unholy emotions or conversations with sm other guy then u need to work on her gradually to get her in the mood or frame of mind for it. Take her out on dates and do interesting things. She will respond. Sm ladies are not just mechanical.

Chubhie:
Epirit de corps....

...............or esprit de fvck

simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Muscles start dying when we don't use them. Things depreciate when not maintained etc.

You have not had sex in 365 days. That is a really long time.

It is possible one of her coping mechanisms was to tune out sex.

Allay her fears and gradually ease back into it.

Even you who think you are on point might have premature ejac the first time because you are over-excited.

With time, you both will get your rhythm.

NwaAmaikpe:




Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

Correct talk

Your wife has discovered something new, bigger, stronger and the perfect size for her. All these years she was just tolerating you, but now the has discovered the real thing

Emaprince:
Garbage. Only a foolish and naive man will believe this crap

See your mouth. As if women don't like sex or able to live without it.

Tell the truth as it is... The woman have found another man, hence the sudden warning of no sexual attraction towards the man.

This OP is a foolish man sha. Do you need anybody to tell you whats been going on behind you...even the woman is giving you a clue, yet you chose to be foolish.

She knows he is foolish and easily manipulated, hence the boldness in making such unbelieveable statement.

Oga, yes it could be because shes cheating and it could also be because shes not had seexx in a long time. While I'm not married, I'm a testifier to the female body reactions after a lengthy celibacy.

sacx:


See wetin Zeeworld don cause

Your pikin is cute...I don't watch zeeworld

OP is a joker or just plain stupid. There are things you don't talk about. Enjoy the bashings from little children that don't know the meaning of marriage.

NwaAmaikpe:




Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

you too talk, you for leave the guy make him continue to deceive himself dey him wife still holy

simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Yes, l have, a very long time ago! She did not tell me outrightly like your own but my Girl friend just went frigid anytime l try to make love to her, for someone who was all over me in the past. Then l get to know the real reason through some guys in our hood, they pointed out who has been shagging her in my absence. I just mustered courage and moved-on because women will always be women.
A year later and she tried to stage a come-back, l kicked her butt so hard (literally), my foot hurts.
Its a coded message!
She has been shagging by someone else in your absence and if you know women, they cant hide it when their love shifts to someone else.
That is the main difference between men and Women.
Men shag out of adventure and no emotion, Women shag with their emotions attached.

Sorry Bro, its time you start activating Plan B otherwise, your life is just about to get miserable.
Make plans for your kids, take care of your emotions and your health, it is not the end of the world, you can live and love again.
Life begins at 40.

oglalasioux:
OP is a joker or just plain stupid. There are things you don't talk about. Enjoy the bashings from little children that don't know the meaning of marriage.

you are a wicked somebody

Excuzeme:



Yes, l have, a very long time ago! She did not tell me outrightly like your own but my Girl friend just went frigid anytime l try to make love to her, for someone who was all over me in the past. Then l get to know the real reason through some guys in our hood, they pointed out who has been shagging her in my absence. I just mustered courage and moved-on because women will always be women.
A year later and she tried to stage a come-back, l kicked her butt so hard (literally), my foot hurts.
Its a coded message!
She has been shagging by someone else in your absence and if you know women, they cant hide it when their love shifts to someone else.
That is the main difference between men and Women.
Men shag out of adventure and no emotion, Women shag with their emotions attached.

Sorry Bro, its time you start activating Plan B otherwise, your life is just about to get miserable.
Make plans for your kids, take care of your emotions and your health, it is not the end of the world, you can live and love again.
[b]Life begins at 40.[/b]

the op is above 40, he is 79 years old

maybe she dont want fairyuse anymore..she want brand new

anambraamaka:
Divorce

Is it everything that you divorce if i may ask; on what ground are you divorcing her?

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

sense-milla!

NwaAmaikpe:




Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

choi

Just maybe she may have been experiencing low sex drive for a long time before both of u even met.. Having children;
and u moving to another city may have been like a blessing in disguise for her ... Now that you were about to get back, she wanted to give you some heads up.. The sex chat might just be to fulfill all righteousness.. just an act as a concern wife who was not having some while away.. .. the chat might not come from the heart.. but I believe she wasn't cheating.. Just find out how you can get her libido up .. medical wise.. or romantic settings ie when u finally get back..

Sorry to digress on your write up OP just that I have not been coming online here for some time, logged in on Nairaland today, and everything kinda changed..looks disorganised .. front page, family section etc. Even my name comes with red inks.. Was the website attacked again with virus or was it my phone that was playing tricks?

Op you could have waited till you come back before creating this thread.What if she is just joking? Just relax,when you come back, you will know the truth and the truth shall set you free.Meanwhile, you can update us when you are finally with her so as to get the needed and useful advice.

bukatyne:


Muscles start dying when we don't use them. Things depreciate when not maintained etc.

You have not had sex in 365 days. That is a really long time.

It is possible one of her coping mechanisms was to tune out sex.

Allay her fears and gradually ease back into it.

Even you who think you are on point might have premature ejac the first time because you are over-excited.

With time, you both will get your rhythm.

great sexual experience you have there?

She has seen better dick!!!

NwaAmaikpe:


If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

The bitter truth.... that you may not be willing to swallow. Bearing this in mind.... I suggest you first take her for testing... for any STD and specifically HIV. Good luck on getting her to go.

Bro if you come back take your wife to medical laboratory make sure you check for HIV or hepatitis or even Harper's infact do all the test with her not only her you both should do it so that she will not say you not trust her after that bro monitor your wife closely that woman is cheating with a woman or man

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Please don't ever advice anybody in this life again.

NwaAmaikpe:




Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's horrny no more feels horrny, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be out of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or the rather obvious fact that she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

Thanks my man.

Every one will feel she has gotten some one that does it better

I feel that staying away for so long would have killed the urge and maybe you guys have been having arguments about certain issues that need to be solved and you are not heading there

That aslo can kill the urge

Until you get home, taken it gentle on her and she will come back to her normal self

Women attach emotions to sex and unti its slove, your desire to sex means nothing to her

Op do you suppose to post or ask us for help. The truth is that another prik has ended up snatching your wife feelings to you while you are away.There is nothing you can do rather than dialoging with her to leave the other man prik and focus on assuring her of beta fvk 24/7and that you wont leave her again

sisisioge:
Hmmm...its been a while, sometimes the body forgets. Don't rush her...just court her all over again. Those kisses, those tracing the spine with kisses, those eyes staring, the cuddling, the gifting, the tripping, the smoscching...hmmm ... These will jog her memory and she would be a fountain for you again. Happy seexxing o

Welcome back. Na wa for you o...a whole 1 year!

And possibly have transferred all her love to the kids.be grateful too she communicate her thought not unlike some you will die of wandering where the attitude came from. (Keep communicating for the real solution lies with her.)
Mehn start toasting her again

simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. Ihave no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

u r kidding right?
How do u expect to be 'suspicious of her cheating on u' when, as at present, u r staying far apart from each other?
Pls, how old r u?

[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=82675430]



Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's horrny no more feels horrny, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be out of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or the rather obvious fact that she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.[/quot


Hahaha a Fucking counselor