Mercy is just being a typical Nigerian woman who sees marriage as an escape from suffering and poverty!!

Ike should hustle if it must be her simple...

Show has ended na, she only used him as strategy.
No way that girl would date him outside the house...we all knew it from day one.

had to go through all the pages of this thread ,you don't get to see ladies comments on such threads.

it's a pity

I no just trust this girl mercy. What commodity is she referring to. Who is she n her family?

What a big dissapointment Mercy is. I can understand if before, she turned to prostitution because she and her family had no one to depend on, and it was the most viable option for her survival. But with all the fame, exposure and oppurtunities, the big brother platform has provided her, to believe that she can't capatilize on that to make a brand and fortune for herself, by herself, and still think that she to depend on her body and men to survive, is something to be ashmed of. Like, what's your excuse? Don't you realize that you are now a role-model to some young females. Sigh, turned out to be just another Kim Kardashian...

So who has been taking care of the family before he surfaced?

jeff1607:
had to go through all the pages of this thread ,you don't get to see ladies comments on such threads.

it's a pity

Mercy na man name?
Pls,check again

Ike want buy market

Mercy2006:
Mercy na man name?
Pls,check again

and your comment about what she said about transferring all her family problems to a man was?

Oh

henryhemon:


Birds of same feathers. Hoes making excuses. You re a commodity to be bought. Is it a man that was created to solve the problem your father can't solve.

First of all, I am neither the cause of your frustration nor that of the miserable live you are living. Ok?
Secondly, the fact that all the women in your life are "hoes' doesn't make every woman one.
Thirdly, the fact that your father doesn't have the money to support your own mother, doesn't mean you should tow that path.
Now back to the cause of your dementia, Mercy isn't forcing herself on Ike. So, he is not under any compulsion to marry her and shoulder her responsibilities. She is indirectly telling him, it can't work! Because, she has so much responsibilities. Her younger siblings are parts of her responsibilities since they don't have a mother anymore and they came from a polygamous family.
So yeah, she needs all the help she can get from whoever she will be getting married to.
Untrained children everywhere

Really

Octobertwentysix:
It doesn't matter, calling herself a commodity means she has no sense of self esteem and she depends on men to survive when will girls of these days realise that it's not all about your beauty and what they have below, why do we have brain if we can't use it. God made the woman a helper and not a liability , just because a man loves you does not mean that he would carry you and your family problems on his head, is she a box of gala, that's how they would depend on guys for everything, from cream to subscription. shame

I understand your point. But, this lady isn't forcing Ike to marry her so that he can shoulder her problems.
I feel she is even trying to let him know indirectly that it can't work. She has so much she is shouldering , which isn't her own making. Life threw that at her.
If Ike marries her, 'her' problems automatically become 'their' problems, which is what she is trying to make him see. Then, he can make up his mind.

happney65:


Na families that are poor in spirit,soul and body..I mean you should help people that are in need at one time or the other if you have the resources no big deal about that..But making my Inlaw's my responsibility is the most useless thing a Man can ever do..

My responsibility is to my immediate family which comes first before any body else.My Inlaw ain't my responsibility..I cannot be taking care of their daughter and at the same time be responsible for them too..

These are one of the reasons why Men die earlier because the Bill's he should have done away with wan kill am..

Nonesense and Buhari!

this is the mentality all men should have to be free from unnecessary burden.... take care of your wife and children.......if your wife parents are old you can help ...( on the condition that you were not milked unnecessarily during the wedding).... let your wives siblings go and hustle...yes your wives siblings should go and hustle....so that they don't kill you with financial burden..

Big commodity my ass those urging that had banged her in d past how much were u paid. slowpoke

The ladies are not commenting. Shows they are all the same

No IMO girls

chigoziri2403:
Typical example of most Nigerian women, when you marry them, their families responsibilities becomes your responsibility

JONNYSPUTE:
And she is one of those claiming independent woman.

Bros, all those claims of Independence Na grand standing.
The moment they meet a rich guy, thier principle of Independence vanishes

NOETHNICITY:
Bros, all those claims of Independence Na grand standing.
They moment they meet a rich guy, thier principal of Independence vanishes

. Naso I see am my brother.

skukimania:


I understand your point. But, this lady isn't forcing Ike to marry her so that he can shoulder her problems.
I feel she is even trying to let him know indirectly that it can't work. She has so much she is shouldering , which isn't her own making. Life threw that at her.
If Ike marries her, 'her' problems automatically become 'their' problems, which is what she is trying to make him see. Then, he can make up his mind.

you are the typical Nigerian woman we are talking about

NOETHNICITY:
you are the typical Nigerian woman we are talking about

I don't know the typical Nigerian woman you are talking about. But what I know is that, Some of you guys criticizing that lady will do worse than her in her shoes.
Are there no gigolos in Nigeria? Go to ikoyi registry and see small boys getting married to white ancestors. What do you call that one too? "typical Nigerian man"?
If you are not the one wearing the shoes, you won't know where it pinches.

chigoziri2403:
Typical example of most Nigerian women, when you marry them, their families responsibilities becomes your responsibility

I swear, it’s fuckin annoying!!!

NwaAmaikpe:




Zero shame, zero dignity.

Naija girls and the leech mentality.
They never bring anything to the table except their kpekus, which many atimes is over-drilled and smelly yet they expect their family to become the man's prime responsibility?

I thought she said she is self-made?
Fake mumu girl, you used over 2million naira to fix fake yansh when your family is in the village dying from financial troubles.

Please if you are poor, marry a poor woman.
If you are rich, marry a rich woman.
I pity you if you are rich and decide to marry a poor woman because this is very typical of umu nwanyi Imo.

Sabinus married an Obowo woman and she came into the marriage with her last sister and younger brother saying she needed company since Sabinus was always away at work.

A year later, her other brother was living with them in the guise of undergoing I.T.(I need not tell you that it was Sabinus who was sponsoring him through school.)

Sabinus's wife gave birth and her mom came over for omugwo.
The baby she came to do omugwo for was already 4years old but mama wouldn't go back to Obowo. Sabinus eventually constructed a kiosk in front of his compound for mama.

Sabinus is living with his wife, her mom, her two brothers and her sister but Sabinus's own family have never slept a night in his house.

Ike please don't be like Sabinus who is now a means of livelihood for his in-laws.

Dump the tramp after this show, she has used you enough.

And that's how sabinus changed to mumunus

skukimania:


She never said she is from a rich family. That her mother even struggled to pay for her WAEC and the mother is now late.
So, you can imagine what she must have gone through to be where she is and she has younger siblings to cater for.
She is just being realistic. You people should leave her alone biko.

condemn:


Look around you, women with entitlement mentality 90% always end up in divorce.

Divorce how?

The man treats them like shit that they are and they sit put there.

IBvoss:
What a big dissapointment Mercy is. I can understand if before, she turned to prostitution because she and her family had no one to depend on, and it was the most viable option for her survival. But with all the fame, exposure and oppurtunities, the big brother platform has provided her, to believe that she can't capatilize on that to make a brand and fortune for herself, by herself, and still think that she to depend on her body and men to survive, is something to be ashmed of. Like, what's your excuse? Don't you realize that you are now a role-model to some young females. Sigh, turned out to be just another Kim Kardashian...

Don't compare her to Kim please.

It is an insult.

Kim and the remaining Kardashians built legit multi billion dollar enterprises out of nothing.

Even my mother on her own have called me and have told me "For your own sanity Don't even bother having anything serious with a woman below your social class For your own SANITY" I never forget these words.

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Emilokoiyawon:
Inside life. "Men have been trained and conditioned by women,...into becoming their slaves." Esther Vilar.

If you know, you know.

The Manipulated Man.

Such a powerful and revealing book !!

Phatkings:
You guys ranting here are simply mad... It is a known fact in the igbo culture if you marry an Igbo girl, you marry the whole family also if you marry an Igbo man you marry the whole family... That's why their is an Igbo saying ogo bu chi onye

taa which igbo culture? I am Igbo and YOU ARE MAD! A man's In-laws is in NO WAY HIS RESPONSIBILITY immediately he pays bride price and marries! Even your brother it's not even your responsibility once his a man!

adecz:



In the East, once you marry dem
daughter, it becomes your duty to
take her family out of generational
poverty...



Nonsense & ingredients!!!

oga I know this Moniker you are a stinking bloody tribalist! Once you pay bride price you are done as far as Igbo culture is concerned it's some stupid men who have been manipulated with the term "real man" they are the fools that make this women feel entitled!

This is one thing that still baffles me about African women mostly especially for dis our 9ja,u marry u now have quadruple responsibility,d lady's family is now ur responsibility, seriously dis is really worrisome ooooo,just imagine wat dis one is talking (u can't take care of me and my family)����