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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by healthserve(m): 5:01pm On Sep 29, 2019
Airtimex:
New era wife. lipsrsealed


A wife will just wake up one morning and talk rubbish and the man will be listening....


Even warning you ahead...more like don't even try to force it. Oga you have been warned, carry a new wife on your way back. Maybe that will reset the sexual urge back...


Even if she doesn't feel the same way again, must she say it. She could have pretended and force herself to loving it again...some women shaa




Carry a new wife on your way back grin
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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by thunderbabs: 5:11pm On Sep 29, 2019
uzedo1:
You guys need to sit down and talk about it. Try to bring back the vibe you used previously that made sex enjoyable.

Did you add too much weight , If yes, try working out to put your body back in shape.

I don't want to believe she might be seeing someone else. A date will be fine so both of you can communicate..

Lol.. The talking crew grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by baganas: 5:21pm On Sep 29, 2019
abc115:
She is cheating. Period
Or he is cheating and she somehow found out period

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by XavierD(f): 5:22pm On Sep 29, 2019
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Love or sexual attraction is a living thing, it dies when it is not fed.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by immaculate1234(m): 5:23pm On Sep 29, 2019
When a women a gets to 40 her pussy will begin to grow teeth

That is what I heard in one movie FARGO

It’s funny isn’t it grin cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by skentelelady(f): 5:27pm On Sep 29, 2019
Is It either she has contact STD and won't want you to contact it or she's turned to a les. If she's cheating with another man, she won't be saying he's not sexually attracted to you again. At least she will wait to see you first before concluding.

Get back home first and do STD tests then watch her reaction when you try to touch her

Please forget those saying she has lost her libido after 1yr. It's not possible

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Ugosample(m): 5:34pm On Sep 29, 2019
Brazenbabe:
It's amazing how plebs that know so little about the female anatomy are coming to blab about your wife cheating. If they had sense, they would have realized that if your wife was cheating, she would have pretended to be all over you and acting very Hot so that you won't suspect a thing.
Take this from someone whose husband works in another country, your wife has put sex away from her mind for a long time, that is the only way to remain faithful.
she has occupied her mind with other things so both of you need to start all over again to work on your sex life.
Dont be surprised that your manhood might even fail you a few times when both of you try, except you have been sleeping with some one else.
You people should discover yourselves all over again, cuddle, smooch, go to a hotel and spend the weekend.
People should really stop looking for marital advice on this section as a lot of folks here are very immature and know zilch about life.

I like this
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by candidbabe(f): 5:39pm On Sep 29, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to gobble up preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's horrny no more feels horrny, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be out of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or the rather obvious fact that she's found love elsewhere.



You are too much, I throw away salute
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Skmoda(m): 5:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to gobble up preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's horrny no more feels horrny, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be out of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or the rather obvious fact that she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.
The man na simp abeg......he is clearly not in his right sense because if he is, he won't be talking this "shalibally" talk.......your wife is either cheating on you or she has found solace in something else due to long period of no sex but, which did you stay that long from not sleeping with her.....? He sound like a soldier on foreign mission or marine or prolly a navy sergeant.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by sykeng(m): 5:43pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

That's the best answer and advise, because I have experienced it as a guy, once I miss sex for like 3 months I can forget about it for as long as it takes.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by prettyJoy22(f): 5:53pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?
nairaland is the last place to come for relationship advice. It's just a little phase your wife is going through because she's not had sex for a while. she might even be feeling insecure about certain things. Take the advice of those who said you should woo her again slowly, she's not cheating...you both will be fine.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by mrsfavour(f): 6:08pm On Sep 29, 2019
When I say such is when am not happy with my husband, but a day or 2 we fall back. Find out if anything is bothering her, do little exercises with her it boosts libidos, eat fruits with her, and take her out . Be free with her. My husband will start discussing s*x with me , stories,from there we jump on each other .
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by fof1: 6:12pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason.
Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?


CLEVERLY CARRY OUT A COMPREHENSIVE MEDICAL CHECK UP FOR BOTH OF YOU, TO FIND OUT UR STATUSES AND BLOOD COUNTS, VAGINAL AND OTHER CRITICAL TEST, PLS TO REASON NEXT DIRECTION .ETC
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by marwanafrica: 6:13pm On Sep 29, 2019
okorotalkative:

Uhmm deep..

I hail
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by WHITELIGHTER: 6:15pm On Sep 29, 2019
Your wife is already having extra marital affairs with a more agile dude. It's as simple as that.

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by WHITELIGHTER: 6:16pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Not true. Reverse is the case.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by TWOWAYMIRROR: 6:20pm On Sep 29, 2019
Thank your God, she don carry virus and doesn't want to pass it to you
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by danot1030: 6:24pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Someone is already giving your wife all the satisfaction she wants, the person is probably giving her the sexual experience she never had before and she is not willing to quit it soon not even with your presence.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Kdon2: 6:33pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Bros your wife is hiding something from you biko! grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?


Well, you can't rule out cheating. Don't accuse her of cheating, just ignore and watch her closely but on code sha
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Trisha563(f): 6:44pm On Sep 29, 2019
Dere is a possibility dat she has started masturbating.....u need to work on her
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by arrestdarrester: 6:45pm On Sep 29, 2019
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Lies from hell
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by CONFAMA: 7:10pm On Sep 29, 2019
Airtimex:
New era wife. lipsrsealed


A wife will just wake up one morning and talk rubbish and the man will be listening....


Even warning you ahead...more like don't even try to force it. Oga you have been warned, carry a new wife on your way back. Maybe that will reset the sexual urge back...


Even if she doesn't feel the same way again, must she say it. She could have pretended and force herself to loving it again...some women shaa

Exactly my opinion. The woman has no regards for the op. Probably sees him as a sissy that can be easily pushed around.

It's almost certain she has found another more macho man to do the needful. Shame on men of nowadays.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Effiwizzi: 7:12pm On Sep 29, 2019
god punish your mouth there, na them!
olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by SmellingAnus(m): 7:32pm On Sep 29, 2019
PrimadonnaO:


Absolutely true. The longer you abstain... the longer you can further abstain. cheesy
Hi friend... Even as a man I stayed without sex for almost two years and I started getting scared cos I lost my urge... How can months go bye and I don't even have the urge... I come dey cover up dey enter no sex relationship just to see if e fit change later but nothing... It took me months to start having half of the urge I use to have ... So in this case, anything is possible including cheating or lose of sexual appetite...

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Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by cerpvad(m): 7:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
Serve her divorce papers. Her brain will reset sharp sharp grin grin
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by nnaeyes6: 7:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
Sell her and buy another wife na.
Sex mate the PRIMARY ESSENCE of marriage o.

If Na food ur mum will live with u
If na supervision, trust me ur annoying siblings will be there to tell daddy u just played BETNIJA with evidence in there hand

If na person to wash cloth, the laundry man is there


But if is sex u need a wife not an olosho

Olosho is not trusted
Olosho is not a single pothole

Even the neighbors kids u de eye nag one night stand

But wife
Hmmmm


Don't give me the joke of not attracted o

Na SACK immediately
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Zainab20198(f): 7:40pm On Sep 29, 2019
She is cheating on you
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by askakim(m): 8:10pm On Sep 29, 2019
bros, u need like two side chick oo so her head go correct again...na children bring u guys together...
Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Cousin9999: 8:18pm On Sep 29, 2019
She might be cheating, but don't assume. Just do your best in the relationship, and try to find a way to spend more time with your spouse.

You should also clean yourself up a bit: new haircut, hit the gym, and be more romantic. Definitely hit the gym.

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