Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,485 members, 7,958,475 topics. Date: Wednesday, 25 September 2024 at 03:05 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? (5224 Views)
Doctor Divorces His Beauty Queen Wife After Discovering She's A Secret Call Girl / Uncle Set To Divorce Wife After Plumber Removed 23 Condoms Blocking Our Toilet.. / How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? (2) (3) (4)
How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 5:19pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Hi everyone, How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't. If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing. What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by scala101(m): 5:22pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
y |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 5:26pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
scala101:why what? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by okirewaju(f): 5:42pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Ewwwww@cockroach Pick a weekend where both of you will clear the kitchen together. Teach her that dirt causes sickness et. all. 20 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Na so most of them be nowadays, lazy ass hoess.. You try to correct them, they feel bad. If a girl cannot clean the kitchen/toilet every morning then she is completely useless to me. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 6:03pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
okirewaju:have done that several times. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah: 6:06pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness. Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all. GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment. But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better ,only if you go behind that fancy counter... WIsdom is profitable dear 28 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Slimzjoe(m): 6:13pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
You're already married so I guess you're stuck. You just gotta go keep the kitchen clean yourself man cos that's the only way out. Then hope she'll decide to learn |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Ginaz(f): 6:43pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
She can’t do it, why can’t you set the standard yourself? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by chii8(f): 7:30pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Get someone you will pay to do the cleaning but wait ooo,what kind of a wife is comfortable with her husband eating out when her pot is not leaking |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by browseyd22(m): 7:43pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saao: Den d case is settled she can't change divorce her or hire a house help 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Timbuktuo: 7:46pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Get a maid or cleaner |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 7:59pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
browseyd22:divorce? No it's against my faith and don't want my Kid to be without her mum. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 8:00pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Timbuktuo:thought of same |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah: 8:03pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
browseyd22: Tutututu.Divorce in Nl boys' mouth always. 15 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by midnighter(f): 8:49pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saao: but when you talked to her about it what did she say? like did she seem bothered at all? maybe shes exhausted after cooking and doesnt know how to tell you. are other areas of the house clean? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by armyofone(m): 9:11pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Start doing the cleaning yourself and let her learn by watching you. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:18pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
armyofone:meaning I shouldn't go to work? Have been doing the cleaning. We're 6 years in marriage and only 3 of us. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:21pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:21pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Hmmm, I don't know oooh. I'm a neat freak and cannot even fathom this. Maybe you should lead by example and hopefully she will start imitating you. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by SKhanmi: 9:36pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
She won't change. They never do. Continue cleaning if she won't even allow you to get a male help. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by blesskewe(f): 9:41pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
She won't change Maybe u can get someone to clean the kitchen then use some of the money u are supposed to give her to pay the person 11 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by genq(m): 9:44pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
LadySarah: Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs! A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right? And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing. "Our kitchen" indeed 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:10pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Well, some people are not just cut out for chores. They would rather leave everything to clean themselves. Since she's your wife and several talk didnt worked, why not just get her a maid that would clean up the house. Issue resolved Wisdom no go keel me 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by armyofone(m): 10:14pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saturday (weekend) Tell her this weekend, we will be cleaning. Make it fun Saao: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:15pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saao: Haaaa! She said no? Na wa o. It looks like she doesn't quite understand the gravity of her untidiness. Biko explain it well to her. Hian! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:16pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
armyofone: I pity the guy though. I think an outstation maid will solve the issue. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by ctleurocollege: 10:42pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saao: Lead by example bro |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by ctleurocollege: 10:44pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Saao: She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+ 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender. @op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah: 10:57pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
genq: Bleep off. We'll the see who will contact sickness from cockroach infestation. Let him keep eating outside instead of taking charge of his home.His eyes were shut when be was dating her. All of you will keep opening threads here,you aint seen anything yet. 7 Likes |
Are Marriage Vows Difficult To Uphold? / What Is Your Biggest Regret? / Could '4:30 Eyes' Be Hereditary?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 38 |